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[quote author=bernonpoint]Hello,
She's classy, trendy, intelligent and hot. She just finished her masters and aiming for PHD. Recently purchased a porsche, owns her house and guess what, she's just 25. Ok, y'all know what's left.
She has been in and out of relationships which has ended up in heart break. This will likely go on over the years till she become desperate for marriage.
Lest I forget, She has a nice character and humble but FOOLISH AND INSECURE BOYS just dont feel comfortable around her because of her success in life.

My pastor was like... "No matter how successful a single lady is, she should never buy a car cos men won't go after her"
So my question is: In contemporary Nigeria, is it a taboo for a girl to be successful before the guy?

Amelian: @ pendo, he was 27 last yr... Now he is 28 going to 29yrs..at least we are prone to learning and understanding each other.... Am not a maestro , myself....thanks for the best wishes.

snthesis: cooking is hardwork

mekaboy: Pls don't teach your daughter to tell male strangers she just met that she is broke.
TRUE

Of course she wanted me to tell her I will take care of her financial needs romantically, she was just shocked at my swift response to the pay as u go situation.

When I told her I know she wld accept money from me, she said yes but that is helping someone in need.
I took it personal because she repeated it 3 times. First she put and angry mood on dp, when I asked what's wrong she said she was broke. Later she put a sick mood. And I asked if she was sick, she said she told me she was broke. Then I laughed and told her to relax , she cld visit a friend and laugh and still be happy. She asked me how can she visit a friend when she said she is broke. It was like I have to change her situation before we discuss anything else. Because all our discussion ends around her being broke. That's why I told her since she can't do anything because she is broke, she shld come for the weekend at my place atleast I will pay for her cab and she will have fun.

MIND GAMES CHEAP WOMEN PLAY.That's annoying.Thought this was [b]your gal [/b]not some stranger you just met

Leysco: Well, am not looking for very beautiful, sexy and flashy ladies. But at least she should be someone am attracted to. Most times they make the first moves

Shugamania: Am i broke? - Yes.
Do i need to tell a virtual stranger? - No.

khukhi: Hi everyone

I would like to know your opinion on women who smoke cigarettes.

Do you think its unattractive, acceptable or not . Do you have a problem with dating a woman who smokes and why?

And lastly is it fair for society to discriminate against women who smoke?