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I started thinking about marriage at 13!! I was just silly thinking about kids that look like barbie dolls.
But 21 you still have a lot to do.You can set some goals u need to achieve before u are 25. You need to be psychologically,emotionally and financially prepared for such an institution.So its not something you just jump into because age is catching up with you or you think its an escape from single world.
If you try to concentrate on building your career,get a job you will have less time to think about marriage at 21.After your done studying, have some source of income then your mind is somewhat matured enough to be able to make a good decision.
At 21 theres still a lot of peer pressure coming your way.A person ready to marry has her/his mind set and not influenced by friends.
Give yourself time till you are 24 or 25 at least cz you still need to face some situations thrown your way.It makes you strong,prepared and ready for marriage.

Some people rush into marriage and start behaving like teens because they missed that age gap. Enjoy your youth first my dear.life is about stages and to be happy you need to do what is right at each stage of life.Do not skip.

coogar:
frustrations caused by:

heartaches > possible
hunger> lol
searing heat>> are people login from the open fields under direct sun??
mosquitoes>> now how does that contribute to online frustrations.
forced celibacy>> lol
strife>> mmh
untold hardship>> u sure about that?
acute poverty of spirit>> u could be right.

Still  @ agony section.I love that with MBJ as moderator!

@ AGONY SECTION

Careful peeps will break their PC's

hi annita
I think their upbringing is to blame. The people and they environment they grew up in makes them behave that way and they feel justified to do it.
Add poor mentors to that too.

A lot going on here.Pretty confusing.

Kokoye those 'trophy wives' are there to boost a man's ego but nothing more. Even the guy knows he dint marry a wife but trophy.
Funny enough some women don't mind playing that role well as long as the man is loaded.

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are u sure the guy in suit is not you.
I love those 'utado what' t-shirts.beautiful

^^ lmao!

You are wasting too much time talking. ACT!
you are hanging on to something that doesnt feel right so what are you waiting for? a heartbreak?
Compare what you will lose now(emotions) after cutting him off and what you stand to lose the moment he enters your life,messes it up then dumps you all over again! Choose one heartbreak and deal with it.

y'all funny

Da Doctor:
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where is my interpreter sexkillz

Da Doctor:
WHY NOT CONCENTRATE ON YOUR MODERATOR JOB NA? DONT TELL ME YOU ARE EXERCISING YA POWERS HERE ON UNSUSPECTING VICTIM LIKE NAYAH AND PENDO

AND IF U DARE BAN ME, U WILL GET A SWEAR,,,,EKPE!!!!

. This doctor is something else.JB is just doing his thing with Nayah,the way all of you do. I dont think there are any victims here.

This is NOT going on well.
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The other thread left me laughing. Plenty of clowns in here I must say.But we also have a few psychos and sex addicts as well.
Its wrong to make an intimate move on the first date as most guys mentioned.
So here I go again. You have dined,laughed and you both leave assuming it's been good.
Let's here from you, how do you recognise if the first date went well??

Nayah:
Thank you dear you're sweet and i'd be glad to invite you with sis Pendo to taste my food

Wrong move. A date is between two love birds. Trust me.Never ever invite a friend along. Its not good ettiquitte

;d ;d

MBJ.

MsDarkSkin:
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hahahahahaaa!! 

eeeeeeeew.yuck bye my sweet coffee.

@topic.yep I asked him what he fancies the most and his answer was fingers and toes!! They matter a lot!
I thought it had to do with the sensitive nerves on the soles of the feet but I concluded it had to do with hygiene and health cz of the profession.

And when is Bashir of Sudan boarding the plane to hague! Cant wait to see him arrested.

Josh uzoh:
how many bottles of bear will get u drunk so i  bleep u real hard with my LONG SUGAR STICK!!

when did people start drinking grizzly bears!

^ you dont need to.I can also prove we are psychos.Difference is in the degree of psychic behaviour.

I swear some people are completely crazy!!!
Some questions will not earn you a second date!!! jeez
how do u ask somebody if they have ever killed before or how they would like to die! psycho

Hi Natasha.He simply means,don't be a predictable guy. Its extremely boring.

did u hear that lefu?

First dates are pretty intimidating, you may be afraid of rejection and coming across like a loser on a first date.
Some become tongue tied,lose confidence and start exhibiting bad manners.
Have you ever been asked/asked an embarrasing question? how dd u react?

https://th5.photobucket.com/albums/y196/poison_glitter/moods/tru%20calling%20moods/th_embarrased.jpg

gallivant you are indeed a photographer. I saw some really cool houses at ridgeways. Was at night, I dont even know when they came up.
One house is the size of some shopping mall and its an estate lol! plus they are 2/3 storeyed. I need to pass by there during the day and take a good look.
The ridgeways fellows also have their own nakumatt.pretty cool. These nkt fellows are really making millions.
How about Runda lol! But I know you wont be allowed to take photos there. Am really liking this,even with my cool camera am not able to take such.

jeez! dd u say you are on maternity leave? This is Nov and the dude sure has BIG PLANS for u in Jan.Having  BIG stomach by mid of next year is part his big plan.
Doesnt he have a job?  you are two vulnerable people building castles in the air, why not just take time away from each other and think?
You are both confused.

This coogar.

Quote' we are not talking about marriage. the op simply asked - can you woo a woman without spending?
she never mentioned marriage.'

yep I dint say marriage but you know most people date with marriage in mind.I said most esp those of mature age.
Are you implying that you would spend anything just to get to canaan but the thrill ends the moment you conquer it? You wont marry this kind of girl? why would you leave her to the vultures?

Quote 'loads of them keep their dignity after marriage. the playing days are over as far as they are concerned.
they simply move closer to their God.

can you repeat that again please?

Quote 'some of us don't have time on our hands. time is money!
And expensive too. A wise man saves both. Time and Money.

Quote' how are men meant to provide the solution. there's hunger in the land. some of these women are underfed.

Coogar kindly tell me how much hunger is in nigeria and why? I have never seen nigeria in the news begging for relief food. What is not happenin?
Besides nigerian women are properly endowed.They don't look emaciated so how do you explain that? I always think of nigeria as a land of plenty
with plenty of yams.

Quote ' the previous generation didn't fight for us. if they did, nigeria wouldn't be so shitty,why should i fight for the next generation. let them fend for themselves.

Now that is so mean.

if i sire a daughter, i would send her to the abbey!

yep till shes 16 and ripe for relatioships.

lefu you seriously need to hang around mature men so you can start talking sense . People are building empires and your here talking crap.
You are taking too long at puberty and this is the pic I always have of you.

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I have honoured your thread.You can now smile and sleep well.

Another cry

Dont know if this can be counted as a physical thing but i hate their obsession with that BB of a thing with a passion.
I read about how Naija girls are so crazy about BB but usually dismiss it till it happened to a close friend of mine. The guy couldn't afford to buy a BB for his chick only for the girl to dump him for a BB-buying maga. The guy failed his 2nd semester exam cos he couldn't get over the manner he was dumped