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Keep exfoliating the dead top skin layer thrice a week.. apply Shea butter and original honey day and night .

MiddleDimension:
no one is condemning her for being angry. people are condemning her for confronting the lady, and that's more sensible.
look how you have passed judgement on the lady already as if you are sure she did it. haven't you seen where people are falsely accused? haven't you seen where out of jealousy people gossip others and go behind their backs to tell terrible lies against them? and for the lady to just come out and behave the way she is behaving only shows she is from the bush.
she has no business with the other lady. she only has problems with her husband.
even if it is true the lady is actually going out with her husband, has it ever crossed your mind the husband lied to her he doesn't have a wife? imagine you are going out with some one who did not tell you he or she is married, and someone from no where comes and begins to insult you, would you think it is a fair thing against you?

Re-read my first paragraph, besides did it cross your mind also that it's much possible the side chic knows the man is married. But, decides to keep up with the trend . Common not all single ladies are daft not to identify a married man . They prefer married men cuz of the high returns they benefit and careless of the consequences. Besides married men are easy to be manipulated than single men.

Now ,the wife on the other hand might have got a different temperant to deal with issues. She having to detect her husband cheats and not fighting him directly. To me, she still loves and respects her husband . More reason why, she does not need pour her grieve on the husband which might degenerate her home. Taking her stern warning to the side chic is till inline to keep her off .

Lastly most men reason and act like toddlers. They are never contented and don't really know what they want. Even if they have the best wife in the world they are still confused. At times it takes alot of effort from a good wife to protect and defend are territory.

Really, I don't understand why most of you are bad mouthing the wife action. Can you imagine what the wife has been going through at home because of the randy husband irresponsibility.

It is totally wrong for a married man or woman to keep extramarital affairs. Certainly does not soothe family problems only temporary selfish self desires.

If you are not contented with your marriage please divorce, go your separate ways. Rather than emotional pain or trauma to your partner.

The side chic deserves worse, whats wrong with single men that she could flirt with? A married man or woman are sacred and there home should be respected. No matter what the individual says to justify his or her cheating habit never roll with such folks.

Kudos to the wife for not going extreme with the side chic. The pain she is feeling, it will take a lot of self control and God grace for her not going physical.

PS: If you are a married man or woman having extramarital affairs you are not only destroying your home but yourself included. Please get help immediately!

All the modern facilities that dubai own and utilizes, we can also have them in Nigeria too.
But, we need to educate our people mind with better orientation about life. Some people still behave like animals by there way of reasoning and actions.

We also need laws with stiff penalties to punish those who break them.

We need reliable disciplined law enforcers that will never compromise.

Well, at the end of it all we can't get anything right until the sick heads are cured before the whole body can function adequately.

God bless you sir for your numerous positive impact across Africa with souls saved.

Rip God general.

Toma2:
That's the best advice..
Return the 50k back to your account..
Then report yourself to the bank

Nothing concern police or lawyer except you get enough money to waste

No, that's a totally wrong advice. If he takes such action, he is attesting indirectly to be an accomplice trying to safe himself.

He will be arrested and detained instantly and at the police station he would be forced to reveal his friend as an accomplice without access to his own people.

War against any kind of fraud is extremely high now. Every force agency are looking for scapegoats. Please Let him be wise

Op, I hope you have learnt your lesson? Henceforth do not trust longtime friends you have not heard or seen for a long while.

PLEASE DO NOT GOTO THE BANK ALONE. you will certainly be arrested irrespective of what you say alone.

Steps:
1. Get evidence about your innocence that you not an accomplice with your friend. Recorded voice notes will be most helpful.

2. Inform your parent they should get a lawyer on your behalf.

3. You should all go make a statement at the fraud department of any force headquarters police station.

4. Afterwards let a police rep, lawyer and your parent follow you to the bank to see the branch manager.

With all explanation made by you to the manager I assure you won't sleep at the police station. : )

Please note : Do not let your friend to be aware of your actions. He will surely be arrested and detained afterwards.

Lastly, I repeat do not ever go to the bank alone irrespective of your evidence or else you will regret it.

Most of the Whites are Hypocrites, they can engage in so many s*ht just for the fun of it. Imagine feeding on a fellow human because they are tired of eating lower animals. They are so confused later on you hear them preaching about all kinds of rights, respect to the dead and defense to humanity. The originator of this idea must be an obsessed psycho with many followers.... Spits.....

Some men don't deserve to be called father with this type of child abuse.
How could you brutalize your own flesh and blood.
I hope In his next world before he bears offspring he catches a bullet.

simple sturvs!

It's either she wants to give you something or takeaway something from you

Be smart!

Op, how I wish you could imagine yourself as the gal Bf . Really, you messed up reporting to the gal about her Bf convo with you. (mocking game)
It's funny both of you fail to realize your been played by same gal.

Probably looking for the best comfort zone.
Or she could be an indecisive little being with no sense of focus.

It is never your responsibility to make her happy in the first place. Let go of her completely an avoid further damage to her relationship.

If you insist on playing along with her, you will regret your actions later. Karma is a B*t*ch

Lol After sitting a standard restaurant normally offers you the menu to preview your selection and its cost .

Note : If they don't ... Hmmnnn you are on your own

Very nice and insightful comparison. Thanks

God is so great.

A true definition of when it is not yet your turn to die.

Get healed soon....

God bless your kindness op


Infant you could start a mini zoological garden for this reptile. I am sure it will acknowledge you for sparing it's life if you or a family member ever step on it in the dark

Cobra bite loading.................

Gosh! Op, MAN UP!!! why are you fixing up yourself into a tight spot? This lady of yours does not love or respect you. She left her Ex to be with you and now going back to that same Ex for financial aids and favours. .

Please tell me honestly, if you were her Ex would you consider yourself a father Christmas without attaching conditions to her requests?

This are the kind of issues that causes wahala in marriage, by the time you become awaken. Please never encourage or accept what you will not pass off later in marriage.

Solution : Don't give yourself headache find a better lady with contentment and respect for you. Let her go meet her Ex fully stop been a puppet.

Lastly, I believe in reciprocity in relationship, I just hope you are not also canvassing your Exe's too with your lady been aware. If so, the table must balance with no complains.

Yea he is doing good, but com'on the man is into exotic car retails and currency exchange. Why the over hyping.

So sad Globally so many injustice to the innocents who are presently languishing in various prison for crimes they never committed...In our life time may we never become victims of circumstance. Amen

Only fools will say there's no existence of an almighty God a higher power. I will only say you just need a personal revelation to confirm, WAIT FOR Your Turn

[quote author=banji1 post=82087432]Thats why its always advisable to have the number of your "Baba" on speed dial...its always handy in cases like this. See now, the guy has been "recalibrated" to factory mode.

exactly my thoughts after the guy initial gra gra with noise making. Mumu person

abbey621:
What exactly makes us giant of Africa? Is it the stable electricity or the abundance of jobs? Perhaps it is the standard of living and our very safe roads?

Asides our failed stupid government finding it so hard putting necessary beneficial human infrastructures in place. I bet you, as citizens we far more better than most African countries. Please tell me why do you think SA hates our guts the most? ENVY!!

As a great nation, we don't deserve this kind of humiliation from South Africa. We need to act now before we lose our position as The Giant of Africa. Our hard working brothers and sisters are been murdered glaringly to the world and we sit back doing nothing
. We are lions not cowards let's act fast in our various capacity unity brings strength.

As a great nation, we don't deserve this kind of humiliation from South Africa. We need to act now before we lose our position as The Giant of Africa. Our hard working brothers and sisters are been murdered glaringly to the world and we sit back doing nothing
. We are lions not cowards let's act fast in our various capacity unity brings strength.

All this stories about Nigerians intentionally jumping out of storey building are not really true. Imagine been giving the option by the police to be shot dead or jump out of the window. Which of the option do you think the illegals will choose? . If you intend travelling abroad please go legally avoid shortcuts.

Dear Op, please kindly copy this letter to Economic Financial Crime Commission (EFCC) . This is fraud and criminal impersonation of a federal institution.
Please do this quickly to save other innocent Nigerians from becoming victims. Thanks.

The result of viewing too much movies or could it be another form of African juju testing? .

Stealing from the church invokes heavenly wrath. He may have been self praising himself as a smart priest not realizing one day he will surely pay quadruple No secret is ever hidden forever it only takes time for it to be exposed

I just hope this guy has got enough funds for his future lung cancer operation in india? Ooh I forgot he has got marlians fans as support.... Dragon

I will say it again, Only in Nigeria an individual goes to Jail or Detention and comes out more celebrated.

An Irresponsible, Marijuana smoking, demented father figure. Not only soap dance add sponge dance to it.. Rubbish artist

Op this is very easy to solve, go to Efcc head office in your state make a report and submit available evidence .
1. Make a report at the police station.
2. Get a court order
3. Go to Efcc state office.

I bet you her life will never remain the same.


Gone are those days that fraudsters scam people within Nigeria successfully. Now we have bank BVN that nails online criminals easily.

Nothing New under the sun, signs of an ending world is close.

In Genesis 19:30-38 Lot's daughters got their father drunk, and over two consecutive nights had sex with him without his knowledge.