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PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri's Facebook And IG Accounts Suspended. SEE WHY by phemmylink(op): 11:27am On Oct 14, 2021
This should be front page for me... I dedicate this to pinkybluei the love of my laive. Honey, zaddy gats uu
PoliticsReno Omokri's Facebook And IG Accounts Suspended. SEE WHY by phemmylink(op):
The controversial social media enthusiast accounts was suspended today. This might be a politically directed attack on his source of income. We hope God helps him.

HealthRe: Adanwimo Okafor Named General Counsel Of American Board Of Surgery by phemmylink(m): 8:07pm On Oct 03, 2021
Health5 Types Of People That Easily Attract Mosquitoes by phemmylink(op): 12:34am On Sep 30, 2021
Mosquitoes are a serious threat to humanity, this is due to the fact they are carriers of malaria. These insects don’t just bite anybody, you must have certain traits before mosquitoes go after you.

Have you ever seen a situation whereby two people are in a room, but only one person is complaining of mosquitoes bite? This is because he is one of the people that can easily attract mosquitoes.

5 Types Of People That Easily Attract Mosquitoes

#1. People That Like Wearing Bright Color Clothes

People who wear bright color clothes are targets of mosquitoes. Generally, mosquitoes are very visual and are easily attracted by bright colors.

As a rule, don’t wear colors like red or white when you are in a mosquito-infested environment. It is better you wear more of camouflage outfit that will not make you too visible.

#2. People With Type O Blood Group

According to researchers at the Institute of Pest Control Technology, Chiba, Japan, mosquitoes prefer people with Blood Type O to Blood type A.

As a matter of fact, Mosquitoes seldom bite people with Blood group A and show little interest with Blood B people. However, they are always looking for people with Blood group O to suck their blood.

#3. Fat People

Fat people are also among the categories of people that easily attract mosquitoes. This is due to the fact that they breathe out more carbon dioxide

It may interest you to know that mosquitoes can sense carbon dioxide 160 feet away. So, if you are fat and breathe out more carbon dioxide, you are likely to be under their radar.

#4. People That Emit A Lot Of Heat

People that generate a lot of heat are also attracted to mosquitoes. This is because mosquitoes generally sense sweat easily from a distance.

So, the more heat you emit, the more you sweat and the more likely mosquitoes will sense and go after you.

#5. People That Drink Beer A lot

Just the way human beings love drinking beer, mosquitoes love beer even more. Therefore, if you are an avid beer drinker, you are likely to make more mosquito friends.

However, you can cure malaria buy using MBN brand of AL called Artelum 80/480. Ask your local pharmacy or chemist for more info.
FamilyRe: Why Does A Parent Make A Child Hate The Other Parent? by phemmylink(op): 10:28am On Sep 19, 2021
tommy589:
It is not prevalent only nowadays,it has been happening since stone age.

We were talking about this same issue many years ago on how some wives bad mouth their husbands in his absence.Telling the children how unserious their father is,leaving her the burden of picking all the bills.

While I was telling my guys that my mother,though separated from my dad,used to lie about our upkeep allowances solely coming from her,i never believed.But my mother words impacted my older brother that it took me years of reminding him of the regular allowances and good times we enjoyed when our dad,now late, came visiting before he changed.

Unknown to us while gisting,an older woman(grandma) was listening to my personal experience been shared,she started crying and asking for forgiveness. It was that day she came to her senses that her mother petty trade was not enough to sustain the whole family without the support of her father.

On enquiry,she related how her late father was a taxi driver that leaves home early and returns late. His absence due to work enabled the mother to plant hatred in the minds of all the eight children,that none of them lifted a finger to help their late dad in his old age.

My advice is that men should endeavour to let their kids know every single effort they make in caring for the family. It is not because you expect financial support from your children in old age,but to give you the attention and care that you mostly gets from close family
Very true
FamilyRe: Why Does A Parent Make A Child Hate The Other Parent? by phemmylink(op): 6:23pm On Sep 18, 2021
Longsleeve:
Your question should be why do some women turn their children against their father..
I just know it's common with the female folks, I have seen it alot around me and it's scary, they loose respect for the man and he becomes lonely
FamilyWhy Does A Parent Make A Child Hate The Other Parent? by phemmylink(op): 6:19pm On Sep 18, 2021
This usually happens through the female folks. They mostly use this way to get back at the man for wrong doings. It is quite rampant nowadays and marrying a lady who is a product of this syndrome is very dangerous because this has its way of repeating itself. How can a man struggle and work hard to get his kids through school and at the end of the day when he is supposed to be enjoying their company his wife turns his kids against to get back at something he did in the past
Christianity EtcGod Has The Power To Show You Who Is God, Here Is What It Means by phemmylink(op): 4:51pm On Sep 13, 2021
Really don't know, you tell me...
Christianity EtcIs It Possible To Hate Someone And Also Be Giving Him Things? by phemmylink(op): 8:41am On Sep 13, 2021
While I was doing my devotional today. The topic was about “hate and envy”. I realized when I started read8ng through and meditating on the words I read, a brother in my former church’s image just popped up. He was one of the reasons I left the church. However, after I gave him a gift on his birthday just to free my self of the guilt of hate, I still didn’t like him. His spirit repels mine that’s why I came up with the question. Is it possible to be doing good to someone and still hate the person?
FamilyMarried Only: How Often Do You Ask Your Partner For Sex? by phemmylink(op): 6:53pm On Sep 12, 2021
How often do you ask your wife for sex? Should there be an agreed ratio? Because I understand there are varing degrees of individual libido However, most women run away from sex even after the get married, that's one of the reasons why there is increasing rates of "side chickinson".
EducationRe: In Russia They Don't Give Students Zero Score. See Why by phemmylink(op): 11:09am On Sep 12, 2021
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EducationIn Russia They Don't Give Students Zero Score. See Why by phemmylink(op): 11:08am On Sep 12, 2021
A student studying in Russia says:

The highest score for most of the exams in Russia is 5.
If a student does not answer any question and returns back his exam paper blank, with no question answered, he gets 2 out of 5.

In my first days at the University of Moscow, I did not know about this system and I was surprised and asked Dr. Theodor Medraev: "Is this fair that a student did not answer any question and you give him 2 out of 5? Why not give him a zero ?
Isn't that the right way ?"

He answered:
"How can we give a Human Being a zero ?
How can we give him a zero to someone who was getting up at 7 am to attend all the lectures ?
How can we give him a zero since he got up in this cold weather, and used public transport and reached to do the exam in time, and tried to solve the questions ?
How can we give him a zero for the nights he used to study and spent his money on pens and notebooks and bought a computer for studying ?
How can we give him a zero when he left all other life styles and pursued his studies ?
Here my son, we do not give a zero to a student just because he did not know the answer.
We at least try to respect the fact that this is a Human Being, and he is having a brain, and he tried.
Because this result which we give, is not just for the questions in the exam paper, it is also about showing appreciation and respect to the fact that this is a Human Being and deserves to have a score."

Truly I cried and did not know how to respond. There I knew my value as a Human Being. Zeros can actually decrease motivation on students, and can quickly destroy them and make them stop caring about their studies altogether.
Once a zero score has been put in the grade book, they need no longer care about that subject and they may assume that, there’s nothing they can do about it.

_*An excellent message to all teachers and whoever is involved in promoting education; let's re-think on the best approach of evaluating our students!
FamilyRe: Is Happy Home By Luck Or Character? Share The Secret Recipe Of Your Home by phemmylink(op): 11:01am On Sep 12, 2021
Noshitboi:
You are right. About knowing when you are wrong and apologizing, some days back, a neighbour told me how my wife mistakenly locked our 7months old baby inside the house. Wifey was outside. It was the neighbour who helped her to unlock the door with a hammer. Wifey never told me all these until yesterday, 5 days after. Her own version of the story was quite different from the neighbour's. When I told her what the neighbour said, instead of her to apologise she instead attacked and started yelling at me. She never accept her wrongs and she'll never say sorry.
Egbon surulere
FamilyRe: Is Happy Home By Luck Or Character? Share The Secret Recipe Of Your Home by phemmylink(op): 7:19pm On Sep 11, 2021
MufasaLion:
It's not by luck and it's not by character only. And please, happy home in what context? You don't need to have a spouse before you have a happy home. You can have a partner and still have a happy home.
egbon calm down, what is a home?
FamilyIs Happy Home By Luck Or Character? Share The Secret Recipe Of Your Home by phemmylink(op): 7:00pm On Sep 11, 2021
Baby mama's and single mothers everywhere! Divorce is the talk of the town everyday, Yet some are enjoying their Marriage.... What is the in thing, what is the secret recipe of marriage or home.
EducationRe: I Can't Download My Npower PPA Letter by phemmylink(m): 12:13am On Sep 09, 2021
Same bro
FamilyRe: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by phemmylink(m): 8:24pm On Sep 01, 2021
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
Thank God you know… and the after effect of the work of her village people.
BusinessRe: Dangers Of Developing Land Even After Doing Proper Agreement by phemmylink(op): 2:50am On Sep 01, 2021
braine:
Land issues are not things you simply dive into like that. People usually get scared when agreements and papers get involved.. Now its you against the family.

What kind of calculation could have ran into 42years if the amount you spent is about 1m on the structure? 24k per year estimate or what?
Yes! Value of renting two shops at this time. Please is located in a rural area
CareerWhat You Should Know About Med Rep Job by phemmylink(op): 1:56am On Sep 01, 2021
Being a medical rep is not just a tasking job than you looking for where to supply your products, how to supply it, when to supply it, when to collect your money, how to make sure the products get out of the shelve, how to make sure your products don't expire, connecting with hospital and pharmacy staffs, balancing of account, playing your game with the office people, making sure your car is in a good condition, how to shuttle your products if there's no car, connecting with other med reps, being accountable in the way you manage the company money the list is endless.

You are like a CEO, business man, logistician, health educator, relationship officer, and you are giving a product bouquet and a jurisdiction. It also involves how well you can multitask and work under intense pressure and not to talk of the daily, weekly and monthly targets of different kinds… Don’t be moved or gimmicked the flashy cars, if there is any sha, we are hustlers.
BusinessDangers Of Developing Land Even After Doing Proper Agreement by phemmylink(op): 1:43am On Sep 01, 2021
One have to be careful before taking this step. Late last year due to the COVID brouhaha, it made me realize the need to have multiple streams of income.

So I took a long stroll through my area meditating on what one can do to to make ends meet. I came up with the idea of a patent shop and while I was ruminating on a location I saw a family friend and I shared the idea with her and to cut the long story short her mum gave me a call that she is giving me a little space in front of their compound if I need it to build shop for me to fulfill my dream.


The next step was to contact my legal practitioner and I was advised that we must have a proper agreement. I told her I will take her on the offer if we have proper agreement. She was adamant that this was not needed at first until she later agreed.


Fast forward, when I finished the project, 90 percent complete I drew up the agreement. It was stipulated that the amount spent will be factored into rent and the years ran into 42 years which was duels signed by owners of the land. A month later, the eldest sister started ranting about the fact that the years was too long and before I know what was happening, they called me up that they were no more interested in the agreement anymore. Nairalanders, the building costed over a million. At this point what do I do next… because from the look of things they wanted to play a fast one on me unknowingly, thank God I did agreement with them.
FamilyRe: How the bad economic situation in Nigeria Is saving alot of marriages by phemmylink(op): 6:24pm On Aug 20, 2021
[quote author=Romanoff post=104986425]If the reason your wife obeys you is cause you're the only bread winner, then your money is a control tool.

In Nigerian homes were both parties contribute financially, I've seen beautiful marriages, some I aspire to sef.

aspire to perspire
FamilyHow the bad economic situation in Nigeria Is saving alot of marriages by phemmylink(op):
One of those things I have learnt in marriage is the fact that women are not truly submissive. They are just plainly obeying their husbands due to the situation of this country. We all know that true power will release the actual character of anybody.

The situation have this country have proven to be advantageous for most men because due to the fact that they are mostly the ones bringing in the cash, women seldom don't have any choice than to obey them, I am sure if the situation of this country is better and more women are being empowered alot of them will revolt against their husbands.

Most are only obedient due to the situation on ground. Can we say the economy of this country is really helping families and marriages?
BusinessGruesome accident That Happened on New Ife Road Ibadan This Morning. by phemmylink(op): 5:20pm On Aug 09, 2021
Very graphic images please. Viewers discretion adviced.

The manace of trucks with failed brakes and reckless micra driver have cause us five (5) lives. It's so unfortunate this also cause unbearable traiffic for motorists today.

Find attached pictures and videos.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QN-mafNc4Gc

https://youtube.com/shorts/OEVCbV05TF8?feature=share

https://youtube.com/shorts/0XgRKgq-Db4?feature=share

FamilyHere Is Why You Should Celebrate Your Folks While They Are Alive by phemmylink(op): 9:39pm On Aug 04, 2021
The reason is quite simple. They won’t live twice. I realized that when a loved one dies, we go ahead and open forever in our hearts page and drop accolades and notes that person would have preferred to hear while he or she is alive.

Humans are configured like that, if they don’t celebrate you, celebrate yourself and those you love while they are still alive. Life is too short.
CrimeRe: Lagos RRS Arrest 6 Drug Dealers, Thieves At Marina, Lagos by phemmylink(m): 10:48am On Aug 03, 2021
Grown ass men
RomanceWho Do You Think You Are Matured Enough To Get Married? by phemmylink(op): 1:58pm On Jul 30, 2021
I am currently married, it’s one of those beautiful things God has done for me. Mine is a miracle.

I have a kid brother that gets attracted to any full blown single lady with brown skin and big boobs.

This dude has practically been in like 3-4 relationships between January to June this year. He is 26, university grad but no stable job yet, still staying under his mom’s roof and yet can’t put two and two together yet and going about dating.

Really can identify any reason why and when he needs to settle down and with whom, he keeps confusing himself and the female folks. The question keep popping up, when in particular can we say a man is ready coz the women folks are always ready to do the needful
BusinessCyber Cafes, Do We Still Have Them? by phemmylink(op): 10:35pm On Jul 28, 2021
I remember my days growing up cyber cafes was the in thing, we go over there, buy some time, use it on Yahoo messenger, porn and Yahoo mail doing God knows what, chatting online, meeting people and sometimes we go over armed with cheats and codes, we block the whole panel from locking up. When your time is up, we keep rushing to close the windows. Days of all night browsing and how the cafe attendance gets all the cute girls in the area... Gone are those days ...
FamilyRe: Why I Married My Wife? by phemmylink(op): 10:22pm On Jul 28, 2021
mariahAngel:
Wow!

Sometimes, we never really know how much we love someone until we’re faced with the fear of losing that person.
If I were you op, I’d totally be devoted to her.

I told someone recently that the love of a woman is a powerful and protective shield ( for her husband especially), but when you betray that love, you’d only be destroying yourself.
That is why it never ends well for unfaithful men.
When you cheat and hurt a woman who loves and is devoted to you, you’d only be hurting yourself.
How can one betray such love
FamilyWhy I Married My Wife? by phemmylink(op):
Mine is such an unfortunate scenerio, I remember a particular night when I was courting my wife, the picture is still very much clear in my memory. I went to visit and it was getting late for me to leave, she suggested I sleep over at her dad's, I refused coz I had work to do when I get home.
While we were on our way to the bus stop to pick a cab, at the tail end of the junction we noticed some group of people shouting thief, and some dudes running after another, as a sharp Yoruba boy in Jtown were Hausa was the common language, I told her and her brother that we should let em chase whoever it is they are chasing and let's just go about our business ones they run past us.

Before I could say John Thomas, her brother took off after them, and those Hausa dudes left the main thief and took off after him, my dear the whole thing tired to a Roya rumble, my wife to be also took off after the idiot boy calling his name to stop running, my brother, I had to follow suit as a good brother in law to be, the boy was running as if some demons where pursuing him, he kept on running and we kept running after him till they lost hope because they couldn't catch up with Hussein Bolt. When they noticed they couldn't get him, they decended on me, I was the only foreigner in their angwa, it wasn't a joke, they started speaking profusely in Hausa language, I didn't understand what they were says and before I knew what's up, clubs and sticks descended on me, they said I muddled in between them that I was actually the thief and my brother in-law was my accomplice.

I received the beating of my life that day. But all through this beatings, this girl didn't leave my side, she was taking the blows for me all through before they discovered her brother in-law hiding in the poultry and due to the rukus cause by the chase her mom came to our aid and because it was night they later discovered they were residents in the area, but before that time, they have beating me wella, I can't forget this day, these amongst many reasons is why I married my wife. We later discovered that the thief was one of those boys in the area, he ran into the area to hide and his friends used me as cover up for his acts.

She took some blows for me, shielded me and made sure those dudes know I was not a thief even though I didn't hear anything they were saying... It's a day to remember for me, and any time she does something nasty to me now, i make myself remember this day before I act or do something irrational.
CareerDairy Of A Web Designer by phemmylink(op): 1:21am On Jul 27, 2021
It was never a hard feeling for me to be an unaccomplished web designer, shishi I didn’t gain, it was a sense of fulfillment back then, I had this top of the world feeling that I can create something, fact that I was creative drove me and got me high atimes but this was not filling my pocket up with cash like uncle Seun spews.

So on that fateful day, I boarded a bus from Osho do to surulere, dropped at one lousy bus top to attend one of those interviews I will never forget.

It was my turn to go in, and when I got in I saw two goofy looking guys, they asked the usual bla bla bla questions, to cut the long story short they asked me what are the applications and codes I used to design the websites I showed them I did and I told them it was my intellectual property and I can’t share that with them only if I am guaranteed the job, and one of the dude who was the boss asked me to gerrout.

Was it wrong for me to say that, the question keeps bordering me all through my journey back home.
PoliticsLet’s Be Careful In The Eastern Part Of Nigeria by phemmylink(op): 10:41am On Jul 26, 2021
I friend just called me, he said markets are close and banks are not open presently. He said there is serious unrest. Please be safe my people.
Science/TechnologyRe: Wild Albino Chimpanzee Spotted In Uganda, Killed (Photo) by phemmylink(m): 4:04pm On Jul 23, 2021
Antichrist albino

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