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FamilyRe: Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Radio Prayer. by phemmylink(m): 12:07pm On Jul 31, 2023
Aladeintl:
There was this popular MoG from Ibadan who do early morning prayer on Ajilete FM that I adamantly forbid my wife from listening to.

I told her, 'I am not saying you shouldn't listen to him but not under my own roof.'

I didn't banned her because the man was fake. I didn't think the MoG is fake, but I find some of his modus operandi unbiblical.

Likewise, some songs like Daddy wey dey pamper is not fit my own family. While I am around, she mustn't.

I will soon delete that song from her phone sef.

Read tales of a Nursing Dad here www.joelalade.home.blog

I once collected her purse and gave her only transport fare when she was going for a crusade organized by one prophet olororo.

What is my drift? I have no qualm with Pastor Jerry Eze and his YouTube early morning prayer ministry but it is a disgrace and dishonour to you, the man of the house, if your woman can wake up to listen to other man before you.

It's a disgrace to my fatherhood if my kids are doing morning devotion via internet led by another man and wife and kids aren't to be blamed.

Therefore, we men, should truly man up and be the leader God made us.

The likes of Pastor Jerry Eze and co come into equation because many men are not spiritual leader. He is filling the gaps created by spiritually-absent fathers.

Your wife jumping from one prayer mountain to another is because you haven't ascertain your spiritual headship in the head.

And for those joining Pastor Jerry from their boyfriend's room, just dey play ooo, dey play ooo.

May God helps us to discharge our duties accordingly.

Ire oooooooo
U better grow up… if you can accept scientific and technological innovation and sue the, for your gain you better accept the 21st century wife! Your Stone Age mentality will not cost you your life
Christianity EtcRe: RCCG 71st Annual Convention: Beyond Expectations, 7-13th Aug, 2023 by phemmylink(m): 2:34pm On Jul 30, 2023
Omooba77:
RCCG 71st Annual Convention: Beyond Expectations, 7-13th Aug, 2023.
CareerRe: To go or stay in naija by phemmylink(m): 1:31pm On Jul 26, 2023
Everything is not all about money bro
PoliticsRe: Caption This Picture Of Tolu Ogunlesi And Governor El-Rufai by phemmylink(m): 9:54pm On May 13, 2023
nlfpmod:
Photo of Tolu Ogunlesi and Governor Nasir El-Rufai. Give it a caption.

https://twitter.com/toluogunlesi/status/1657433159703691264
no b me o
CrimeArmed Robbers Are Hiding Behind Facebook Market Place by phemmylink(op): 11:41pm On May 11, 2023
My dearest reader before you go and meet a prospective seller or delivery man or woman please make sure you go in trios or better still make sure u meet in a very public place for the exchange. What I am sharing here happened today, woke up like every other day when my wife told me she was going out to pick up oil perfume she ordered for online. Unknowingly to her they were armed robbers. Just a stone throw away from her residence they laid ambush on her as she strolled to pick up her “order” with the intentions of paying via transfers so she had to go with her phones. The lady she has been conversing who was the said pick up person controlled her out of the house by telling her she was already at the junction where they agreed to pick up. Unknowingly, two goons where already stationed on a bike to carry out the robbery. They laid siege on her on a lonely bend of the street, she just noticed a bike coming towards her, innocently she decided to give away for them to pass but in a jiffy one of them highlighted from the bike armed with a machete pushed her and in the process her two phones went sideways. In the process of the robbery and in shock, she asked them why and what they wanted with her d she got swiped twice in the arm and fingers with the machete and they went away with her samsung phone. Unknowingly to them it was the other phone she has been conversing with them with for the pick up. She has their numbers on the phone. Immediately It got to my notice I quickly took her to the police station to report the case. I have their numbers and at this point I don’t know what next to do. I will appreciate it if you guys can point me in the right direction if not to get justice but to get her phone back.
RomanceRe: I've Courted My Fiancee For 5yrs And I Never Touched Her Hand- Nigerian Man by phemmylink(m): 10:07pm On May 10, 2023
This guy dey whine ojare
EducationAt What Point Did You Discover That You Are Graduating With Second Class Lower by phemmylink(op): 12:58pm On Apr 13, 2023
Share your experience here
SportsWhy Austin "Jay Jay" was named twice.. True story by phemmylink(op): 8:55pm On Mar 31, 2023
He said he was so good, they named him twice. Please who named him twice?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My First Zoom Interview by phemmylink(m): 6:53pm On Mar 01, 2023
Be confidence, dress well to the waist level, whatever will b will b
CareerRe: Is Medical Sales Rep A Good Career Or Job? by phemmylink(m): 4:47pm On Feb 23, 2023
ojun50:
It is a good job, depending on the company and there products, but my advice for you is make sure you don't run in to debt or own them.
Very good advice here.. if you know you can’t manage money and u don’t know how to account for money it’s better you stay away from the job
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What Was Your Rejection Story Like; How Did You Handle It? Please Share by phemmylink(m): 2:39pm On Feb 21, 2023
I applied for VISA, I was rejected due to banks negligence to respond to email from the embassy. The matter is still in court, I will keep the house abreast about proceedings.
WebmastersPlease How Do I Delete My Posts On Nairaland by phemmylink(op): 9:03pm On Feb 06, 2023
May be I change my mind, how do I delete my post if I want to do in future?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Boss Did This Yesterday by phemmylink(m): 6:56pm On Jan 16, 2023
Osheyyy Lord of the rings
Preciousgirl:
He knows very well I am married
I wear two rings
RomanceDo Women Feel Early Morning Konji Too Like We Guys Do Feel Early Morning Boner? by phemmylink(op): 4:16pm On Dec 20, 2022
Please, I wanna ask ... Do women feel early morning Konji too like we guys do feel early morning boner? No vawulence please na question I ask.
TravelRe: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by phemmylink(m): 4:14pm On Dec 08, 2022
dee1504:
If you're applying through Trac jobs, then there must be something you're not doing right. Send me an email so i can give you my supporting information format to use.

Also how many years of experience do you have? That could be a big factor too.
Same problem here o
TravelRe: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by phemmylink(m): 4:12pm On Dec 08, 2022
Have you been able to get the job nowhuh

Coz I have got same problem

Goddestined:
Hello charles,

In total, how many months did it take you to g get your hcpc license please?
CrimeRe: How a bank in NIG Made Me Loose My Resident Permit Application by phemmylink(op): 7:32pm On Oct 26, 2022
Dont
tessy5:
Please contact me o8o64228472 I have something to discuss with you
CrimeRe: How a bank in NIG Made Me Loose My Resident Permit Application by phemmylink(op): 7:31pm On Oct 26, 2022
It was mail they are suppose to respond to. They are supposed to authenticate my statement

sunnymighty:
@Op this is deep, I feel your pain however in most cases banks are not obligated to disclose account balance of their customers especially if they are not sure of caller's identity. IMO I feel you should have informed them ahead of the call, but then what do I know?
CrimeHow a bank in NIG Made Me Loose My Resident Permit Application by phemmylink(op):
Here is lesson I learnt in a very wicked way from the gross negligence and carelessness in the part of a bank Nigeria. If these post can be moved to the front page it will go a long way in helping others not to fall in this evil pit of life.

We applied for RP in July 5, 2022. Funded account as required, paid hard earned cash for school fees and application and started hoping we will get a positive response. However, August 29th, 2022 the Swedish Embassy sent a mail to the internal audit unit of the Bank Nigeria to verify and authenticate funds in the account and they refuse to respond. They rejected us on the 20th of September and thier reason was the fact that the Nigerian bank refused to respond. On getting to the branch closest to us in they accused us of falsification and ask us to go to the actual bank the statement was generated from, we have to head there which was Kilometers away. On getting to the bank branch that was were we laid complaints and that was the day they replied the embassy.

As I write this post they have cried foul and said it was a matter of "secrecy" that was the reason why they didn't respond as at when due. They mentioned some other reasons of which I am yet to understand how they toiled with the future of my family due to thier negligence and gross incompetence. I don't have any money to fight them or take them to court but I will do my best to make sure no one gets into this type of hole. I made a mistake putting my POF in my bank account. I even made a big mistake banking with them in the first place and I will advise you not to do so.
RomanceRe: Good Men Marry Bad Girls, Bad Girls Marry Good Men by phemmylink(m): 2:06pm On Jul 04, 2022
packing out bawo? marriage is meant to be managed

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy
SportsThis Colour Combo Should Be Banned On Supersport P by phemmylink(op): 7:34pm On Jun 02, 2022
What's the meaning of this colour blocking on Supersport. This blocking is too much ojare.

SportsThis Type Of Colour Combo Should Be Banned On Supersport P by phemmylink(op): 7:27pm On Jun 02, 2022
What's the meaning of this colour blocking on Supersport. This blocking is too much ojare.

CrimeRe: "I Thought He Was An Antelope" - Hunter Who Shot Imam Dead (Photo) by phemmylink(m): 11:50am On Apr 27, 2022
Hmm… this shocking. He might have seen antelope
CrimeRe: Man's Head Turned To Pig Head After He Stole A Pig In Malawi (Pics, Video) by phemmylink(m): 10:34am On Apr 11, 2022
ExAngel007:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hfhx-3Dw4aM
Thus JUJU should be used for our politicians
BusinessRe: Name Search Is Free, So Why Are Nigerian Banks Charging 5000 Naira For It? by phemmylink(m): 9:40pm On Mar 16, 2022
Baba na same here o. In 2022, I am trying to float business, and dem debit me sharperly.
PoliticsRe: RCCG’s Dangerous Foray Into Politics For Osinbajo By Farooq Kperogi by phemmylink(m): 11:28am On Mar 11, 2022
Very bias post. Fact that RcCg is mobilizing her members to get them a platform for any of her members to venture into politics is scaring Muslims or any other religious folks. You better start preparing for the new Nigeria because we can’t fold our arms and watch some group of cabals run it down
TravelBuhari Seeks Europe's Help To Restrict Youth Migration by phemmylink(op): 11:33pm On Feb 19, 2022
Today the president stated this in an article he penned to mark the participation of Nigeria at the ongoing 6th EU -Africa summit in Brussels, Belgium.

EducationRe: Letter Written To My Wife By One Of Her Students by phemmylink(op): 6:14pm On Nov 21, 2021
Doubleoh7:
Touching letter I must say but your wife should see through the unwritten words. I believe this is a public school and I can sense the previous teachers have always been acting the 'normal' noncharlant Nigerian civil servant role. She should please invest more in their lives and I can bet you, these kids will never ever forget her efforts. Primary 5 and they are still struggling with letter and spellings shows how much task lies ahead of her. Please she should not deter, God will continue to strengthen her. Thanks to all the real teachers out there, not the ones that took the job for lack of job opportunities out there.
same thing I told her
EducationLetter Written To My Wife By One Of Her Students by phemmylink(op): 4:57pm On Nov 21, 2021
My beautiful wife who is one of the beneficiaries of Batch C NPOWER teach. She told.me they gathered together and told her they have a letter for her.

What's your say?

FamilyRe: Fantasising In My Marriage. by phemmylink(m): 5:49pm On Nov 02, 2021
The major thing here is that he needs to last longer than 10secs to start with... get that solved first before we get to the kissing and romancing level
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by phemmylink(m): 11:50am On Oct 25, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
Better call it off
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri's Facebook And IG Accounts Suspended. SEE WHY by phemmylink(op): 11:43am On Oct 14, 2021
LegendHero:
So we won’t be seeing more of Reno nuggets for the mean time?

We will miss you Reno.
Me too sad

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