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Zboyd..good u know people r seeing thriugh your smoke screen

Its only a matter of time.....

Motives speak louder than words....

Anyone can portray family utopia online

tintingz: I don't think it is cultural nor religion, it is purely ignorance.

Tradition changes from generation to generation, people bring new tradition and people abandon some traditional practices.

e.g car driving, watching tv is not part of our tradition but now it is part of us.


I'm kinda busy this days, thanks for the concern.

OK..so what do we think we can do...this acts are still ancient

Islam is clear that d girl must be mature and can make her choice

Do you think that was followed in this case


Good to have u around

Please ignore the bigot..

tintingz: Force marriage - I'm not in support, my religion doesn't allow that.

about child marriage I'm only in support if a girl is "matured" and marry the man of her choice.

That much is clear..as Islam is clear on this

In this case do you think it is cultural or religious?


Meanwhile where have u been all the while

Never believe everything you read online

tintingz: Your posts are making sense.

nice.

What Is your opinion on child marriage

With a bïtch

That one Na ebodõggy....

Damn....he threw her out the window!

Subom1: Thanks interesting and informative

Good...

lofty900: google is ur friend. a guy can get excited for no reason at all how much more a n.aked person

damiso: I agree with mediation.I feel she might not be able to refund some of what she sold so the fair thing might be her not getting out of the proceeds of what's left(which is what people think she might not agree to).

try some win win techniques

An opttion is to discount some of her loot from proceeds of the unsold properties.. that way she does not feel she lost out

Else.. u go hard... you guys set a minimum target.... she will get her come uppance dont worry

lofty900: u r not a guy so I don't expect to understand. A man's senses are hundred times more pro active than female's

i give up

if u were referring to a maiden (16+) then i will say u have a point
But you are talking of sexual feelings for a child....

try mediation then go legal

Subom1: @ pickabeau1 thanks for the clarity

You can read more here
http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/politics/2014/08/police_in_ferguson_military_weapons_threaten_protesters.html

Its a fall out of high military spending... Who next after the army.... Guns must sell

SAMBARRY: the point is that op is giving lofty another chance to clear himself since he made a general statement or generalizing all men that THEY GET TURNED ON OR HARAWUSED STARING AT NAKKID KIDS.its in the thread up there na.

PassingShot: I served in Benue state and had the opportunity to go to a village called Agagbe where a colleague was serving. Indeed our going there was to see things for ourselves after many lamentations about the living conditions in that village. Some of us actually shed tears when we saw how people died of common ailments due to lack of health care services. Taking the sick to hospital is even out of the equation for them because of lack of transportation.

what do we expect to happen to village girls of 13, 14 or 15 years who didn't get any education from age six? To be in secondary school? The problem is fundamental and we need to tackle it rightly and not reacting with emotions.

Tragic...Same happen in some southern communities...typically expressed as prostitution...there are issues

goshap: yea,i for one cannot date someone as perfect as i am.

Lol..
I also agree that narcissism to an extent is inherent in every human..basic survival

goshap: true n not true ,it literally depends on the degree and spectrum of the narcissist in question.
lets face we r all abit narcissist but it doesn't stop us from going n commitn fully in a r/ship.

n yes a chronic narcissist has no accommodation or attention for someone else in his life.if they do happen to find the need to accomodate some its more under the need for self evaluation n reflected self appraisal. here the other partner functions as a mirror self to prove or compare how awesome,merciful or perfect they are . but this cause does not necessarily lead to an abusive relationship.
duo one partner tends to put pressure on the other,in this case the narcissist is guilty.

true...cool points...

EbolaParasite: Rephrase your post. I don't see how it applies to my comment?

Let me simplify it for you
You r comparing african immigrants who are mostly tertiary graduates with some sort of support system to those who may not have

You should compare those in the projects to those in ajegunle

PassingShot: I'm with you on the deservice and many more implications of this their practice but before we crucify these people we need to know why they do what they do.

In very many of the cases, the closest learning center is more than 50km from their villages; plus the absence of proper means of transportation because there are no motorable roads. They're practically helpless in that type of situation as they're completely disconnected from the rest of us.

Recall that when the Chibok girls were kidnapped it took producing of the recording of BH parading the girls and converging their parents in a location outside their village before they could see that vedio. It's that bad my friend and you don't blame those villagers for their fate. It is our collective failure as a nation.

It is really a collective failure

It's a drawback of ancient feudalistic practices and the leadership are not helping

Ok

Chillisauce: Not only sensitive, I'm really disgusted.

I wonder...

You are comparing apples to oranges


Immigrants are not representative of the whole black population

You should compare your sample with the guys in naija who live in the slums of ajegunle


Subom1..the police were given military weapons from excess defense spending so police departments upgraded their arsenal

It's a legacy from drug fights of the 80s and post911 where police were deemed to be be first responders in a terrorist attack

EbolaParasite: maybe you should also include the ones that have 10 kids with 10 baby mommas. the ones that do absolutely nothing and receive government pay checks every month, food stamps etc. Lets not be one-sided okay. lets look at everything.

All what you posted up there are all EXCUSES. The same America that you claim will not give them low mortgage rates or jobs is the same one that AFRICAN IMMIGRANTS will come into and within 3-5 years possess all the things you claim the AA's can't get. Are Africans not BLACK as well. That's a question you need to ask yourself.

goshap: MA DEAR SHE JUST DESCRIBED ALL ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS. THIS R ALL PATTERNS PRESENT N PROGRESSIVE IN ANY ABUSIVE RELATION, THE HALLMARK OF SUCH RELATIONSHIPS IS THE PHYSICAL ABUSE.

-hardly does any abusive r/ship skip one of those pattern bt it happens.

I think so too..

A true narcissist will not even bother himself with a dedicated relationship

Chillisauce: This is just plain sickening?
I mean, just because some psycho said men are moved by little girls, you decide to open a thread to discuss it. What are you discussing, don't you have, father, uncles, brothers etc.

And some of us are her asking if it's true all men experience? Like seriously

Some threads are not supposed to exist and should be closed immediately.
What is this?

I guess you are being sensitive

justanoderacct: Stop being sensitive. If this was a bashing thread I wouldn't have added question marks to the topic. I'd have made it a definite emphatic statement. Lofty's confidence is what made me rethink his statements and come here to ask.

ok..so you say..

So you needed to open a thread to ask if men are pedophiles?

If you are not married... dont you have other male family members

If you do... have they exhibited pedophillic tendencies

carefreewannabe: I think you are wrong with your accustion. I don't think the op wanted to create a hating thread but rather hoped to contradict Lofty. And I believe she has been successful so far.

ok...you think so?.... its only a matter of time....

^^beats me

carefreewannabe: To ask men if they agree with Lofty.

Ok... i will pass.. seems to be another hating thread in the works

If the poster is female... are her family members paedophiles (closeted or otherwise)

So if that sample is not indicative enough.,.. i dont know what will

carefreewannabe: I don't have all details and I don't think it is relevant at the present moment.

If he gets a lawyer now then to fight against the mother's decision to take the child to a remote place.

ok.. no problem

carefreewannabe: I do not dispute that it is important TO HER.

If the mother is aging and needs someone to play bingo with her, then she should relocate to the daughter. However, her mother is not aging.

Look, it is easy for him to get a lawyer but I am not sure whether it is good to fight the mother of your child with the help of a lawyer.

How was the divorce finalised.. did he have a lawyer

What is the point of this thread

justanoderacct: I know!

And the sicko was strongly supporting his stand that ALL MEN DO IT but won't admit it in public so I was wondering maybe they discuss these disgusting things with each other, share how they get aroused by little girls bodies.

reelup1: I mentioned my weakness too (ANGER) being supportive financially which i refund,i am the one lived with her,those are her weaknesses and she admits it when i bring the issues up.the essence of this thread is for advice .thanks

You have not answered the q

u say she is not a virtuous woman and she is stubborn

Are u legally married