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xynerise: He was a narcissist or a jerk?

MizMyColi:

^^^ It's mentioned in the Original Post.

MizMyColi: I didn't mention physical abuse explicitly, However, a person who experiences one or both, just might have been or is with someone with Narcissistic or any other Anti-Social Tendency(ies).

Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance and a deep need for admiration. Those with narcissistic personality disorder believe that they're superior to others and have little regard for other people's feelings. But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem, vulnerable to the slightest criticism.

Narcissistic personality disorder is one of several types of personality disorders. Personality disorders are conditions in which people have traits that cause them to feel and behave in socially distressing ways, limiting their ability to function in relationships and in other areas of their life, such as work or school.

Narcissistic personality disorder treatment is centered around psychotherapy

ritababe: i talk to him he said he will move it, but for now he dont have enough wire to do it, i was so angry i dont even know what push me in the night when everybody was asleep i went to pour salt inside the tank of the gen, i look inside and saw that the salt didnot enter inside because of the filter, i forgot to remove the filter before annexing the salt, i tried to remove the filter and current my mistake but it was too late, he came out to off the gen i ran inside my room, he off the gen and open the fuel tank, my heart sink

simiolu1: Just 1 child & d guy continued sendin money for their upkeep tru his MIL

RoyalRoy: Hehehe....Well...weekend or not, We should drink to the liberation of another male homo sapien if he finds true freedom.

simiolu1: I also heard d story of a married man whose wife reported him missing. The man simply vanished without a trace.
Neigbors say d man would come home from work & d wife would be inside watching DSTV (full housewife tins) & refuse to open d door 4 the man. This happened constantly & he had to report d wife to her family.
Alas, his MIL advised him to marry another wife because he will die prematurely if tins continued like that.
Na so d guy relocated sharperly.
My point: because of our temperaments, we (men) react to abuse differently. I can beat my chest that if it was my elder bro in dis man's situation, he'd have beaten d woman black & blue b4 sending her to her parents house.

Kay17: @TV01 I'm not trying to be sneaky, rather trying to admit you to my side. Human rights are recognized for the sanctity of life and personhood, so such rights are inalienable especially for reasons like sacrifice. So if a foetus has a real right to life, it would be adverse to the mother's life also. So one must admit that women just have a natural right which they can easily enforce over the foetus.

Besides the foetus is as much potential as egg and sperm. Nonetheless please see my arguments as being without malice or deceit.

childofGod09: If you watched the videos properly you would see that in one of them it was black females who attacked a pregnant white young woman and it is them who stole her Iphone. Watch it properly. Another video shows black female just randomly attacking white woman while her child is next to her crying and black woman says that she would punch a little child. Another one shows them beating white lady until she gets a fit lying on the floor.
These all are horrific attacks by black females on white women. Someone on here asked for me to send a link to videos where black females are attacking white women. That is why I post it. This is by no means meaning that all black women act like this. It is those type of psychopathic black females who attack white/ mixed women and children. Decent black women are also horrified by these actions of hate.

childofGod09: Some links.
htp://youtu.be/XCPd4uuVKm0

htp://youtu.be/X47W-TUS7Ms

tayoccu: adding an off/on switch.

how come manga never commot?

aisha2: Both men and women are guilty of this, I read through another thread by my friend and men were laughing at a man calling him jobless because he said after work he goes and helps his wife at her shop.
I have also seen others were even Chaircover was accused of presenting a fake "perfect" life by men.

So its not one gender

aisha2: True my Madam @ the top, [b]if someone opens a thread to celebrate good husbands they will also be there to abuse and accuse her [/b]of baosting and lying, while a thread about bad husbands will be swallowed hook line and sinker hence my constant appeal to sane men to speak up more.

Godmystrength: @pickabeau1 and aisha3, but
i can't seem to understand how people cope with different personalities
when i am not charly boy. The REAL character different from the ONLINE
character. I just don't get it. Who has time for such nonsense.

Godmystrength: I think i agree with it. But is it also okay to assume that all those coming online to boast of outside marriage runs are guilty or those who suppose wife beaters thread are equally wife beaters?
Or how possible is it for someone who does neither of the above to come online and boast that they do such??

childofGod09: It is not her behavior as she has got lot of black women as friends. They adore her. It is one particular type of black women who just spit hatred at white woman especially when they spot that she has black husband and mixed children. This is the honest truth. Just check the videos on YouTube there are those type of black women attacking beating white women from pure hatred. There is even a video where those type of haters encouraging small black girls to attack little mixed girl. I understand that it is hard for decent black women to imagine this, but this is the sad truth and it is happening a lot.

Godmystrength: Maybe the OP is just afraid that his wife might decide to be getting IT outside.

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ritababe: So many advice i really appreciate, thanks all