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harlos: Lets drink and go to heaven

Can't fault your logic bro

ElGuapo: Adopt one and hire a maid to cater for the kid.

There are always solutions around us

Quick thinker....

Shayo dude

Feraz: For those thinking of animes to watch, here - code geass, hunter X hunter, D.Grayman, the world only God knows, Claymore, Sword Art online.

Claymore... Too gruesome


Code Grass..tight!

Beer cannot give u kids...

The hypocrisy one is funny..but raises a question


Birth control prevents conception so is technically not abortion.

Why the aversion by some against it

moski5: really helpful thanks a lot

can transactions be done with a phone using the totem?

Kk..

I don't think its possible now..

Are u in or abroad

Gtb has two modes for interbank transfer

NEFT - takes 12 to 24 hours depending on time of transfer

Instant

mayorall: GTB is the best when you have token but limited to only GT account when using savings account., Access mobile is great, first bank is limited.


Infact Access bank is the best, they give superb service.

True..on Gtb...however
I hear say access fit charge dormant account

moski5: tnx

could yu b more detailed pls ie did u use d totem? wats it all about? how's d security? or was it their app yu used? any challenges? thanks

Most financial institutions in or outside naija now use 2 factor authentication

You log in with a user id n password n then use token generated codes for transactions such as transfers n adding beneficiaries.

Its secure too with a randomized keyboard

Its internet based though I'm.aware there is a phone app..I'm not really comfortable with that as the phone can get missing or compromised

Internet is OK for me


No challenges

Gt connect is available 247 for any issues

FINA4804: You that have read it what advice have you given?
@Godspearl, now I understand , just try and convince hubby the both of you can breeze in, but if he does not agree please go enjoy the day with your husband.but you can join her in planing even on phone.

Face palm...

Let's name n shame these companies


Seriously...its wrong n illegal to discriminate on the basis of gender


Companies have been bankrupted for this 'simple' act.

cococandy: What I gave you were just few examples.
So if the answers to your questions are yes that means inequality does not exist?
You're the joker here.

And yes I've been denied employment before because I'm a woman. Not gonna name company name.
Even if constitutionally women are catching up with men in many spheres of the society,can you in good conscience say that women are regarded as equal to men in Nigeria? Society wise?
I want you to answer that honestly.
Honestly and stop beating about the bush.

Rallies are noisy and tend to attract the wrong crowd. So the ministries of women affairs and our female legislators are expected to help take the cause of women further.

Meanwhile I know you won't give me an honest answer about the way women are regarded here mostly as inferior to men.
But it's a bias I understand.

Adios

Gtb

FINA4804: Just go and assist, after the party everybody go your way, she likes you that is why she is telling you.it is always good to render a helping hand.

Did u read the part where she said it was also her own husband's birth date

Nice one..kulyie

This is how it should be...nice one

How is work n family

Thats expected with discussions on feminism.. it tends to get abusive quickly.. i always wonder why

Try and skim over the insults..its very interesting

Fulaman198: I read the first two pages and it was a bit vague. I just saw a 'sex/gender' war arise and stopped reading.

Fulaman198: What have women been duped by? That's my question. "Being duped by it" makes no sense.

Did u read from the beginning

MrsChima: Are you sure? You were a bit reactive to my comment directed to another chatter.

Well....we can lie online.

naaa.... just wondering why some females just are quick to use vulgar words when debating..
No reaction

I guess we are in the same boat if u are insisting on what you are insisting on

Kulyie.. i no get wahala...
we appreciate you women... make una appreciate us too

no.. are you?

Playing the corrosive language game further keeps barriers women r trying to bring down

armyofone: Simple question? what simple question did you ask? was the post for you?
It was bellong's and read what she said to my post. You should learn how to communicate with others...Stop seeing everyone one with f as an enemy. As an american, i have enough enemies already and not need one around me.
But you are looking for trouble where there was none.
Henceforth, take your eyes off my post. Bellong and Coogar said something but yours was so snidish and uncalled for. Why calling other posters?

So now you can respond with a measure of civility
I was not looking for any trouble

its not your post anymore woman...once you post,its public

However for a simple response that the cheat was white to annoy you so... speaks volumes

Or did u see anything more than that ?

looking for shadows where none exists...

i see how classy and calm you are

You insult and insult.. all because you could not answer a simple question highlighting how hypocritical you are

All what you have said.. na back to sender

After you for what... simple question.. was it a white man or not... na him all this story

Her grandma at 38 years ago was given grief
is this common nowadays..

Things are getting better.. wills are being written and enforced
Education and Exposure is helping

cococandy: Read more.
https://worldpulse.com/node/69754

This ish is getting tiresome anyway

in my opinion .. what u did is correct
Let hubby face his family rather than u

Godspearl: He was annoyed that I dint reply d lady immeditely,he said I shld av told her I can't come but I told hubby we won't be dere wen they start sayin all sort of tinz again o,He came back now and I told him jokingly dt we would eat out on His bday then I tink gradually I will tell him to let us show @ d party even if its for few minute.chai marriage needs real wisdom I swear

Godspearl: Family and inlaw trouble can b so annoying,My hubby's family had a meeting and my hubby's immediate broda talked abt me dt I don't usually participate wheneva they have party dt I jst come like a guest.I wasn't bodad cuz I knew its d wife dt told him all dt jst bcuz wen my brodainlaw was graduating from seminary I dint help her personally wit cookin I sent my maid to help... fast forward yesterday my brodainlaws wife called dt she wants to do a surprise bday party fr her husband.(d husbands bday is july 30 bt she wants to do d party 3rd august) which falls on my hubby's bday. What shld I do as I don't want dere wahala again.

Have u discussed with your hubby on this new surprise party

I never recommended a cut and dried approach

I said pursue peace with all men
She is pregnant so is the sil
If anything happens to that girl.. Who will be d first suspect??

hispinkolo: @pickabeau
May God help oo

I have noticed though that you males have a cut and dry response to all these..
Put her in her place,tell her her boundaries etc
Do you guys realise that the person in question already has an attitude problem and will definitely see this as a dressing down which will probably lead to more rebelling and further problems..
Unfortunately snazzy doesn't have the support of her husband which makes it more difficult..In a normal situation,the husband should be the one laying down the rules about how things should be done in his home.
I wish i'm a man o jare.
Too much drama being a woman,why can't the world just be simpler.

You are nice,wahala..You keep to yourself wahala...Treat like your own family you are disrespectful..
It never ends..


zeb04
One thing my parents told me is that families have certain ways of doing things and basically,i can't charge in like a crusader and start expecting change.Where i'm from,everyone has a voice and when we disagree we all meet each other halfway..but in my new 'family' the sisters make the decision along with the mother,inform us and expect us to fall in line,no questions asked.
My parents have said i should grit my teeth and get with the programme as long as it's not harmful to me..Only rebel if your hubby is 100% behind you..
There really is no point in being fingered as the reason why your hubby is having problems with his family..I fought the good fight and lost
E dey pain me no be small

Still more story...

Nashville: May be harsh but absolutely right. You sister needs her head examined.

What would the prophetess say? These prophets and prophetesses can only be relevant if they come up with these kind of visions. If your sister gets married, her husband will probably take her to his own church and your sister will never see the prophetess again. But if your sister chases this guy away, she has to bring the next one to the prophetess and she will continue the process. The prophetess needs you sister to continue paying offering to her, so she will do anything to ensure your sister does not leave her church; including saying all the men are wrong!

If your sister gets married to this guy, she leaves the prophetess' church and that means less money for the prophetess.

i love d film

hispinkolo: @pickabeau
Easier said than done OOO..It's sooo difficult.
Snazzy honestly I'd tell you to face front as well and do what you need to do,nothing extra.you are pregnant as well so it's not like you should be stressing yourself.

I know it is..but it is better she lives in peace cos if anything happens to that girl.. na she dem go call ooo

She is also taken in.. so she does not need stress... high bp and pregnancy dont mix well ooo

Amen to that

Live Strong n Prosper

since the thread is coolin off.. can we talk of something else