₦airaland Forum

Chaleeee: Very matured. Thanks.

Move on..

damiso: Chills ran down my spine too..Such a sad story
And the psycho only got 20 years in Prison after whacking someone to death with an ironing board in front of their 3 year old child If indeed it was a true life story I shake my head for the British Justice System.He deserves at the very least life with no possibility of parole.

Too many lenient sentences especially for drinking drivers..
Some go behind for 10 years and its half year equivalent to a year

Ezemust: am in a rural area in kebbi state

Well..it may be best you contact the Ministry of Health and if possible quarantine them

Also do not contact infected people

Are u sure its not Ebola

From pinch..it will graduate to pull to pop..

Triple P

where ar u

ok..

njokusboy: Bros, you said, there is an Alpha in most male groups and dat includes peers... I said it is a BIG lie.... I belong to several male groups and there is no Alpha among us... I can say I am an Alpha because I head my home, I head my organisation... I am the king of my own zone... An alpha is only the leader of his unit and.... But among my peers, we are equals... I don't control them... They don't control me...
Back to steve jobs, steve jobs was one among several share holders in apple.... He is not an Alpha, he is only one of several leaders...
Dat they could fire him and bring him back as they choose points to dat...

A40: Hamilton was reckless on another day he could easily have crashed his car

2 bumps with Kimi and one with Jenson

Too reckless

GERALD710: Vera Sidika suffers from a sort of Inferiority complex.
She comes from a community where women are blessed with great assets.
But are generally dark(but rarely black) in color.
However,a large number of Kenyans are light skinned
Starting with the Kikuyu,mostly those of Nyeri and Kiambu .The Kikuyu are the largest tribe in Kenya.
Also add the Taita.Long considered to be Kenya's most beautiful,are generally light skinned.
So are the Swahili
And some of the Cushite tribes aka Somali,Gabbra Borana Burj etc(But not Rendille).
Since the media is full of Kikuyus(coz of their numbers) and other light skinned tribes(A Swahili presenter for example is almost always a Swahili.). showing off their light skin .It instills a sense of inferiority complex in the darker mostly nilotic communities like the Luo,Turkana and some of the Luhyia(like Vera).
What Vera forgets is that she became famous coz of her screen filling booty.Not the colour of her skin.Heck.If I want to see light skin,I just have to look at myself or out of my window .Mombasa is teeming with Arabs,Swahilis and Asians.But to see a booty that size,I would have to travel to Western,over 1000 km away.
Vera.We love your booty.Not your bleached skin.

Preach!

njokusboy: Steve jobs worked with millionaires and was among the front runners... Does dat make him an Alpha among them?? How then was he ousted.... The position of an Alpha is unquestionable, most times the younger one would have to find their own pack cos theycan never be Alphas in their fathers pack... Its mostly used in the family unit where a man leads..
A son would have to establish his family to lead..
Hence you can't be an Alpha in a male group, there can't be two Alpha, your position is determined by those in the group, they can remove you and appoint someone else... Does that make you an alpha? Hell no.... The leader of an organisation is not the Alpha except he owns the organisation exclusively....

Steve Jobs was not among the front runners.. He was THE frontrunner
He was ousted because of control issues with the Chairman yet he was the same person who made Apple tick when he came back
They deferred to him


Implicit in your thinking is that leadership is always a function of position. This is a flawed premise
at times the leader of a group is not necessarily the highest placed

Lets leave it at that...

IMMUNO1: You are here talking about male hypocrisy while 3 women out there are busy with babalowo over one man. Tell me something else.

PICS or ADONBILVIT!

cococandy: A short man definitely can.
If anything I notice they are usually more aggressive(maybe to make up for what they lack in height)

That was in response to appolonius' post stating that looks aren't so important in what defines alpha traits.
For human females,look are inclusive in the whole package even though it doesn't take a top spot seeing as we are in a monetized world now.

You were the one who raised the issue of alpha male
Has no bearing to the topic which deals with men who dont want to commit
Money makes the world go round

njokusboy: An Alpha is wholly accepted as the leader... Nd leadership change in male groups.... Dat I am the chairman in my commitee of friends doesn't make me an Alpha among them.... Its only a matter of time before someone else take over.. Men are egoistic beings.... No man allows another lord over him.... You cannot be an ALPHA among ur peers... Except you relate with people that are fundamentally beneath you... Maybe only ur subordinates....

And yes the concept exists.. very well
That you are in a group where there is no such does not mean it does not exist.. has nothing to do with relating with people below you..

Steve Jobs worked with millionaires and billionaires and yet was one,,

Broaden your horizons..
LEts leave it at that...

shes right.. alpha females exist

jessybarbie: I do not feel any of my actions are right, I have my own faults too that's why I do not want to continue with him!

so move on!

Alpha males can be found in a grouping of all males

That there is none u can relate todoes not mean it does not exist

However the issue here is the context which cococandy brought up...

njokusboy: Lolzzz, no man is bigger than his peers in all ways possible.... I belong to a group of egoistic, thoroughbred go getters.... I am not bigger than they... I can't impose my will on them neither can they do same to me...
Your attempt to belittle me is too shallow... You may wish to try harder.... I am only an Alpha to those under my control....
First of all, admit an alpha male leads his unit... And dat unit includes his wife... When they say a lion is an Alpha, does it concern the entire jungle or just his pride.....

cococandy: So do you agree with njoku that alpha male is one who can dominate women as agaisnt who's the bigger male in the group?

And is every man alpha male?
Yes or NO

As i noted earlier, the context was the problem which has led to this roundabout discussion

The term alpha male came from wolves or social animals where all the animals defer to one male

It could be linked to females as he has most of the ladies wanting to be around him but its actually more of leadership both among men and women.

Applications are to be found in the work place where u see that guy who is destined to be the manager etc

Not so sure in the domestic setting..

This will have worked many years ago.. but not so much now as human groupings are not as large

Also are u saying a short man cant be an alpha male

cococandy: Maybe it was too complex.
In simple terms. Not all men are alpha men.
It doesn't mean that if you're not alpha you can't be the leader in your home. You can if you have what it takes to head YOUR home. Simple.

Alpha male is a term used in comparison between males and not between males and females.

We women are in a world of our own when it comes to such comparisons. Pls don't be angry it's not too late for you to be an alpha male if you wish too.
You can work on it

Good you accept your usage of the term was not relevant to the context

alpha male


noun
1.
a male animal having the highest rank in a dominance hierarchy: Studies show that in spite of their high rank, access to females, etc., baboon alpha males experience a great deal of stress.

2.
the most dominant, powerful, or assertive man in a particular group: the alpha male of investment bankers.

MadCow1: Very thin line fam!

They infact tend to get crossed more often than none.

Yes.. i agree it can

A woman who attains leadership will more often than not will have shown some 'bossy' traits which men too will have shown
However its not all cases

Tosyn007: Absolutely, Madara is still the greatest so far! The confidence, jutsus, swags, the way he talks, etc

Kaguya on the other has yet to light things up

dude!!!!!!!!!!!!

But when i said this.. you lambasted me...

Dude

You are mixing female bosses and bossy females

MadCow1: Naaa.. Whats funny is that you speak so confidently about something you are clueless about.

I dont deal with Whimppy women. Its a turn off.

If you understood what I said about 'controlling her mind', you would realise that your questions are unnecessary.

It takes a Man of a different level of intellect to date|marry a bossy lady. Example are Husbands of women like: Okonjo-Iweala, Diezani, Akunyili Dora (of blessed memory), e.t.c. Those are Boss ladies who deal with peoples and governments bigger than their husbands yet their Husbands still have control over them. You think its by force?! NO! Its by using the 'Jedi Mind tricks'.

Bossy Women are Grown Man stuff, Biitch Niggas can stick to Instagram biitches. .

jessybarbie: That is why I have explained to him that we can't be together, that we don't match but he is insisting that it was a mistake that would never happen again. He is refusing to let go, how do I make it easy for him?

jessybarbie: Women do not hit hard as men...

madam

You had series of altercations with your man
You provoked him
He hit you
You responded

You are of the opinion that women hitting a man is not violence but playfight


Last Bullet: Two of you are not suited for each other as you will still provoke/hit him and expect him not to return
Forloves; sake.. tell him it cannot work

Kei144: If I get my hands at 4 million pounds (1 billion naira), I will actually add "Praise the Lord " to every statement that I make.

I feel u bro...

"Praise The Lord"?!

Lewis Hamilton on dangerous ground...


Massa out

interesting... though i think there is a correlation between having kids indiscriminately n a life of deprivation

BlackKenichi: I wish I knew!
You have to understand African American women on average have the highest rate of abortion in the USA. This is because of Margaret Sanger and her Planned Parenthood Initiative. Margaret Sanger is seen as a feminist icon yet she was a well known racist that wanted to lower the Black population in the USA. Here's the messed up part.
The biggest supporters of Margaret Sanger's "Planned Parenthood Initiative" are black feminists!
The high rate of abortions in the African American community has actually majorly slowed the population growth. If this keeps up in about another 10 years the African American community will actually start to decline.

Why would black feminists want to support this obvious genocidal tactic by their white massa?

hmmm.... you may have a point there

American fertility has reached a record low, driven by falling birthrates among teens and women in their early 20s, the federal government says in a new report being released Thursday.
The number of teen births in 2013 — 274,641 — was the lowest number ever reported for the United States, researchers said in their report on preliminary birth data for 2013.

Overall, America’s total fertility rate fell to just 1.86 births per woman, the lowest since 1986 and a 1 percent decrease from 2012. That figure puts the U.S. on the same course with many Western European nations and Japan, where the birth rate has fallen below what demographers call the “replacement rate,” usually around 2.1 births per woman, needed to keep a country’s population from falling. The U.S. last had a total fertility rate of 2.1 births in 2007.


Read more: http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2014/may/28/us-birthrate-plummets-to-record-low/#ixzz37xictc4h
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not wat i thought but the blacks n latinos have a higher birth rate

@arsetalks, it is well with you

xp17...

moski5: I'm in the country I need another option than Gtb they've been pissing off for awhile now

OK..no p

Trying to escape debt is not limited to Nigerians only...

Why do we have credit registries or bounty hunters or houses being foreclosed

ElGuapo: She gets jettisoned, its as simple as that.

Most women lack decorum, they just dont think.

Oh beer. . .

Wickid..!

ElGuapo: So much for being a sexy World Best player

That chick is enjoying some priviledges, she doesn't care about her self-worth at the moment.

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Money talks...all sorts of bullshït walks

When he tires of her....

ElGuapo: It's 21st century bro, we don't have to act, talk and think like everyother person.

Rules and conventions are made to be broken

Lol..

Options abound also..

Look at C Rinaldo

Insemination..Irina sharyk cannot collect a dime from him...