₦airaland Forum

Anacksunamun: Absolute fuckery and bullshitt!!

abolade62: Yea I know and i'm not completely ruling out that possibility.

abolade62: yh but dedinitely not on a public forum.

abolade62: Its a bit complicated.

cococandy: Mine are assumptions.
Yours are fact. I hear

Btw what's all the smliey for?

abolade62: I am in this mess too, not yet married but then my conscience just wouldnt let me move on. I always ask myself this question, "should I place my daughter's happiness above mine by settling down with the mother just cos she can grow up in a proper family set-up, she should not have to pay for my mistake or i should just do what i got to do to be happy?"

temi4fash: Sowi wats is TTC

damiso: I don't even know why there is a battle in the first place sef but dat na me sha all these gender wars get as e be ojare.i love me my men my naija men at that sef my husband,my son,my father,my brother,my cousins,my Inlaws,friends etc etc All these naija men or naija women are this generalisations esp on NL is just tiresome.I wonder what category people will put their mothers,wives,sisters,cousins ,brothers,fathers,uncles etc if everything had to be judged along gender lines.

UjSizzle: As in eh! I've been laughing my butt off. These women are Spartans

missdebs: na wa o, no b d same naija men we dey call mumu hia?

Yemlizzy: Lollz

UjSizzle: You should check the #TweetlikeTonyRapu tag too

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UjSizzle: Na people wey chop belleful

Oahray: let's say this is true. Shouldn't the same apply to a woman hitting a man? Even self-defence isn't reason enough.

You both lack respect for each other. Forget the "first time" crap. It happened once, it would happen again till one of you kills the other.

You both are as bad as each other. Breakup and save yourselves the stress of future fights.

Guidette: I do not hate Nigerian guys. Tbh, I would love to marry someone as close to my culture as possible. It is just the Nigerian mentality that gets to me. From both men and women. If I meet a man who has the same values as me and I love dearly, his race or nationality won't matter to me because it is irrelevant.
At least we agree on something. Today is a good day for me on NL.

Guidette: Actually marriage is the least of my problems ATM. I[b] just want to finish med school, make money before settling down[/b]. And that might take 6 years from now. I don't think I am unmarriageable, it is what u NL men say when I argue on different posts. I wouldn't mind not getting married. But the way it is pushed on females heads like it is all I should live for is so irritating.