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I just checked your profile.. if u are theone there.. u are a pretty woman

Im finding it difficult to reconcile the image i have of u of an angry woman with that visage

Why would u think u are unmarriageable

Guidette: Now imagine if a woman wrote what you are saying now on this thread. All of u nairaland 'alpha' males would have had her head. Women are a direct reflection of our society. You call us dumb and weak but isn't that what you want us to be? You don't want to be challenged by women, yet you say that all our problems are our fault because we are not strong willed. Is that not hypocrisy of the highest order? I am a strong woman and on many occasions i have been told that i wont get married because of my disposition by men. Now how will you blame this on me? I do not consider myself inferior, yet I am not marriageable. There isn't any pleasing you guys, is there?

Sad...

You may need to start preparing for life without him

Glitterdust: Who??!!

His middle name is EGO.

He would do none of the above. When I was moving my things, MIL called him and he said she should allow me to go!

Who does that??

rapmike: That's what pisses me off the most about the series now.... a Half human controlling a God like that


And she can't see that for herself

Na so... but kishi amerika knows

rapmike: Point of Correction, He was owned by Black Zetsu, who right now looks smarter than Kaguya herself

As in?

He is even telling her what to do. she looks zombiefied

Glitterdust: Going back to him is out of the question.

What if he makes changes

- Apologises to you and your parents and undertakes never to do such?

- Starts Marriage counselling

- Gets a place for you and the kids

Glitterdust: No

Yes

Nothing

They are supportive.

If i were to read between the lines, i will hazard a guess that your hubby is physically abusive
Now it has been extended to your inlaws who now have the liberty to pounce on you.. you are onshaky ground

Your hubby may even have encouraged them to do it

To your post: What do I do

Luckily you have supportive parents
You will need to seperate to really know how seious your husband is
On the new pregnancy..inform him and hear what he has to say but on no accord should you go back until he has shown remorse and made certain changes

if he does not after a while (depending on you),prepare for divorce

this is a potentially destructive relationship

Both of you should take a chill pill

Move on

Do you have a source of income

Are you legally married to your husband

What has your husband said since you left the house

What is the advice from your parents

@baby124

As usual..stoop low to insults..

I could say you are being slimy and ridiculous also and your posts comprise ridiculousness...

Leave your opinion and move on

The two of them don't deserve each other
Let them move on..

Simple

State your opinion and stop attacking people

chubbyzegna: And I'm still asking you how I get to be the one easily provoked here?

I ignored what he was saying, wanted to get my watch and leave, instead of giving me the watch he decides to command me to leave a seat, before anything could happen I got a slap, or maybe the slap wasn't enough to provoke me with all the bad things he was saying? I'm lost.

My dear why are you justifying yourself

You have told him your cardinal sin that you can't forgive

He failed and committed the crime

Move on...is there more to this story

Is he a good lover..is he threatening you..is he paying your school fees...

baby124: Holding my head in confusion. Pickabeau, pickabeau, pickabeau

There is no way you can twist this. Dont even try. Is a MAN now so dumb that he thinks he can provoke another and hit the person without a reaction? He told her to stand up from the chair because he wanted to provoke her. He knows her, and he knows how she would have reacted. His plan was the physically assault her to see her reaction. And she gave it to him well. He is here rolling and begging. Now, i definitely dont see any fault.

Will you go outside and provoke a fellow man you do not like? Slap him and come back like a kitten to claim he is easily provoked? You will not even attempt to drag chair with another man, you will not want to factory reset your brain to a new born. So why do the same with someone you claim to love. Stop trying to justify violence, and this guy's behavior. It is a very terrible, childish and uncouth behavior.

No need to be confused
You are being emotional on this matter

This is a destructive relationship full of arguments and fights and fights
No one is 100 percent blameles let her move on
Simple

chubbyzegna: I'm making it about you because you said I'll still provoke him and make him hit me, you automatically assumed I'm the problem.

R E A D...


According to you

He said something unsavory about you..you were already fuming

You asked for your item..he ignored you

You sat down somewhere

He told you to move.. you did not

He slapped you you responded

Right?

My take
I said YOU are easily provoked
You can't control his actions but yours only
If you take him back and he gets you angry again..what next will you do


Answer..chubbyzegna

chubbyzegna: You should be confused because you didn't have all the facts but went ahead to make it look like I'm the reason why he hit me.

Answer my q above..
If you go back to him..and he slaps u again..what next

chubbyzegna: Pickabeau, did he tell you how I've always told him hitting me is the one thing I won't take from a man and that after he hit me he said "what have you been able to do now, I want to tell you you can't do nada even if I panel beat you, all you have is your stupid pride and your mouth, I'm still waiting to see what you'll do"

Then simply move on

I'm confused... is there more to this matter

chubbyzegna: How did you know I was fuming? You had an argument with your girlfriend, she stayed away for some hours only to walk in on you talking bad about her to a friend, she sits down, you don't even care she's there, you continue talking with so much hatred/anger in your voice btw, she asked for her wristwatch because she wants to leave, you command her to leave a seat you weren't sitting on nor told her you previously wanted to use, she asks why you are trying to be that way and you dash her slap, only to turn around and say she caused it?

I don't know why you are making it about me ..i never said you caused anything..

I said you also have an anger problem


So you think you are blameless?

Move on as you will still fight..

@baby124


Calm down and don't get your knickers in twist

I read it and her retaliating is not the best approach
She was already fuming even before she sat down

The relationship will still go violent

Let them move on

hooper24: @pickabeau1 I truly love her and I made a terrible mistake but please don't crucify me for this wrong doing. I will make it up to her, I promise everybody reading this that if I ever wrong her again, she shouldn't look back again ever. It might be easy to tell her to leave but look how sorry I am and have mercy.

It's not about the love..man
It's about your emotions..you guys both have anger issues.

chubbyzegna: You can say 'move on' but don't say I caused it all, that's the only reason I replied you anyways.

No one is 100 percent blameless

From what you have written

You have an anger problem and get easily provoked
Also you are not averse to some violence yourself


Take the lessons from this and move on

This will happen again..and you guys will fight and fight

chubbyzegna: You tell him that, how did I provoke him by sitting on an empty chair he never said he wanted to use before I sat on it?

Move on...
Is it that difficult

Chubbyzegna

This is what I wrote earlier

Move on

pickabeau1: madam

You had series of altercations with your man
You provoked him
He hit you
You responded

You are of the opinion that women hitting a man is not violence but playfight


Last Bullet: Two of you are not suited for each other as you will still provoke/hit him and expect him not to return
Forloves; sake.. tell him it cannot work

5minsmadness: Well, the guy stayed with me in the guest room all night and there was no sneaking out if the room, we were all awake. I think its just his American upbringing sha.


Update. Things have come to a head. The brother has decided to sleep in a hotel though my friend is kinda asking him to forget and stay. Me am leaving tomorrow anyways. Good luck to them.

It's not that evil happened
It's the appearance of evil

Acidosis: As in they shared hug at night, woke in the morning and shared another affectionate hug?

ahaahahahaahaha

Alutacontinua -ta do u have kilishi.. im coming to meet u on the mat

DRESS!

beeevan: Everything is wrong with that display mehn...

I agree...

5minsmadness: Bro, it was only for a few seconds. I think she did it out of reflex.

Not good enough.. a married woman is expected to show comportment,, not hee haw up n down

What of the second secret hug

beeevan: Very,very, inappropriate!I would be surprised if they have not been uniting their privates .

haaa.. your mind is too derry... according to kulyie

damiso: You are right they are too lenient.And then sometimes they go overboard.A drink driver who hurt someone might get a 2 year suspended sentence and just to prove a point someone makes a "hate" statement on twitter and gets 5 years Not saying hate statements on twitter are justifiable but common how does actual GBH due to a DUI get a lesser sentence than an online rant?

Exactly!!.. funny

During the London riots.. the people who wrote on twitter 'playful but inciting tweets' were punushed more than those who actually looted

kulyie: hiaaannnn your mind is too derry like Kilode



so if another man wife hug you and put her legs around your waist it means something is going on, abi?


I don't see anything wrong in what she did it's only someone with a filthy mind that will start reading unnecessary meaning to that . Aye ti baje sha

Do you know what it is to lift a woman and she loops her legs round you..

Call it what ever you want,, its not appropriate.. very soon... lips will soon start touching

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/07/05/article-2011321-0CDD5F5900000578-434_468x710.jpg

Well.. even without death penalty.. the sentences are too lenient

You will imagine what the victims family go through

damiso: I am really not a huge fan of the Death Penalty BUT UK judges can be so annoying, I know Justice is not necessarily vengeance but 20 years (and like you said He might be out in 10) does not seem like justice to me.According to the notes he was originally given 15 years sef and 5 years was added on appeal based on the severity of the attack.


Interesting Alutacontinua I need a sofabed (I don't do mats)

Endorsed.. This is a better option than adultery

MadCow1: So na the accident!

Okay!

Tell her to run for her life. Simple.

GRIMMJOE: kaguya has done nothing special so far.
I have seen better ICE justu from HAKU
i have seen better LAVA justu from son goku host and fifth mizukage
i have seen better teleportation justu from OBITO
i have seen better BONE justu from KIMIMARO
and i am disappionted

Of all lame jutsus by this God of the Juubi... the bone one by kagyah the worst

At least i was entertained by kimimaro .. dance of the crimson etc
Solid taijutsu from kimimaro

inappropriate.. two times

hooper24: Where will I move on to? I know she is the one for me. She is a diamond but the devil wants to take her away from me.

if you are real, i think u should move on.. jessy is a a violent lady and this issue will come up again
At best you will not retailate but means you will be abused
At worst you beat her to stupor

Last Bullet: Find another woman who will be calm and notverbally and physically abusive

Also this could be jesy alt account