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tayoccu: Or better still each state.

Each state is not possible now..resources can only be mobilised for 3 places

On point Roy...

Better still if naija males are the emotional zeros you make them to be, you are free to associate with other races or gender..

At least lezzies are allowed n u can marry whitey or chinko or latino..


Ish

I votedhim too.....europa plus afcon is not bad....

Bidam: Are you now shifting post? Why not admit you erred.

I dont get ur post.. I said if wat is happening in churches nowadays is not coercion... I winder wat it is

Mujah1deen: Allah gives and takes. BTW I don't have any yet .

Anyway I thought you were against divorce, so what are you going to do? Beat her husband too ?

Im not a fan of divorce bar exceptional circumstances and spousal abuse.
in my opinion there should be a time of seperation for the parties involved to come to their senses and the families to get involved

This usually helps as the issues come to the fore and reconciliation

if abuse persists after family reconciliation... then e get as e be ...


I will not blindly send my daughter back into hell...

@Roy,, shon sir!

Interesting. ...

bukatyne: Meaning

I saw one guy that reminded me of you in my church on Friday

Femi Okunnu? You are a big boy!

Hahahah not so ma....
Its a range...
It could be there up till agungi....

Big boy ke.... na toro kobo I dey dooo ohh

bukatyne: Not that far to where?

Mujah1deen?

bukatyne: Not that far to where?

Mujah1deen?

On that axis...not that far more like femi okunnu..agumgi..why ajah...that b stop known for fighters

Chillisauce: My dear, just because you couldn't doesn't mean someone else won't.

After all, so called "African men" don't believe in homosexuality but what's going on now.

Ppl tend to suppress their feeling because of what ppl will say or think of them.
You can never tell o

Hahaha....u have a point there though I think it's a bit far fetched
in afrika we love babies. Why else do people marry

Bidam: And so far no one is being coerced including the widow of zarephat Elijah ministered to.It was based on their response to God from a willing heart. I quoted your post based on your carnal concept of why a disdvantaged person should give.Thanks

Not being coerced. .. with the curses from the pulpit when tithe is announced. ....ha ha ha

bukatyne: Softly softly

Do you live at Badore, Ajah?

Ok..

No.. not that far

nice one... as if the gal will confess

really a bind.. well the husband knows... the ball is now in his court

I hope they have no issues with fertility ...

Nashville: That is why I said earlier that the first thing the brother should have done after the honeymoon is to use style and find out if the groom had any idea about the girl's history. Before talking to anyone, first of all try find out if he knows anything. You can just say, that your wife used to be popular o, alot of my friends knew her from school and the discussion will flow from there.

If the groom knows about her past, then the case ends there, it is no longer any body's business. Now if he didn't then the brother should consult the family on how best to lay the issues before the groom.

I disagree with those that claim he should talk to the girl and ask if she has changed? What do you expect her to say - that she is still an ashi?

hahahaha.. people will marry someone just to go down on them.. not even an old man.. but a young afrikan man starting his life....

You diasporic people sef

Chillisauce: Typical Nigerian marriages.
What if the brother just wants someone that will go down on him every time whenever he needs it.
What if he married her because of her so called experience.

Even if she was a love peddler, what if he doesn't want a kid.
What if, what if...

As for me, I don't involve my self in such thing.. Every adult should learn to live with the consequences of their action.
If in the future, he says he can't take it anymore...
They go their ways.


MARRIAGE IS NOT A DO OR DIE O!

I hope th girl told the husband about her past, if not...this is the beginning of a failed relationship.

Its here. the BBC African Footballer of the Year and out own Mikel and Moses are included

A while we had Nigerians in the list

http://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/0/football/24808135

[size=18pt]BBC African Footballer of the Year shortlist revealed[/size]
The five candidates for the 2013 BBC African Footballer of the Year award have been revealed on the BBC's Newsday programme.

Ivory Coast's Yaya Toure has made the shortlist for the fifth consecutive year and is joined by Nigerians Victor Moses and John Mikel Obi, Burkina Faso's Jonathan Pitroipa and Pierre-Emerick Aubameyang of Gabon.

Continue reading the main story The winner will be decided by African football fans, who have until 18:00 GMT on 25 November to vote for their choice.

You can either vote via this page or by sending an SMS from your phone to +44 7786 20 20 08:

•Text 1 for Pierre-Emerick Aubameyang
•Text 2 for Victor Moses
•Text 3 for John Mikel Obi
•Text 4 for Jonathan Pitroipa
•Or Text 5 for Yaya Toure
The five candidates for the 2013 BBC African Footballer of the Year award have been revealed on the BBC's Newsday programme.

Ivory Coast's Yaya Toure has made the shortlist for the fifth consecutive year and is joined by Nigerians Victor Moses and John Mikel Obi, Burkina Faso's Jonathan Pitroipa and Pierre-Emerick Aubameyang of Gabon.

Continue reading the main story The winner will be decided by African football fans, who have until 18:00 GMT on 25 November to vote for their choice.

You can either vote via this page or by sending an SMS from your phone to +44 7786 20 20 08:

•Text 1 for Pierre-Emerick Aubameyang
•Text 2 for Victor Moses
•Text 3 for John Mikel Obi
•Text 4 for Jonathan Pitroipa
•Or Text 5 for Yaya Toure

Bidam: hehehehehe..So Jesus is wicked by standing at the offering basket and commending the poor widow who gave her ALL abi? Atheists have taken over this thread already..SMH!

Jesus commended the poor widow who gave her all willingly as led rather than coerced....
I dont know why you are calling others athesists for expounding a basic truth..

He owns the cattle on the hills
If He were hungered, he will not tell you
He wants a contrite heart... not one of compulsion

Yes now... i know how much i have invested in their lives both materially and time wise more so daughters who deserve more daddy time..
Daughters are fragile and need that so they dont miss it with poisonous relationships


na hin one ahzewipe go wan beat cos huin get 2 heads

Baga!

bukatyne: As they are not plenty! Lol!

One guy behind me on Friday's Vigil reminded me of you

He was just carrying his child jelenke

Nashville: Right, but the issue is that cause that kind of a scene on the wedding day?

Granted he let his emotions get involved cos of the concern he has for his broda and things went out of hand
The key Q is if the brother is privy to all the info and will it will affected his decision...

if no.. then all is well

If yes.. then there is gobe...

ifyalways: I already stated what I would do,I believe. For starters, I don't keep such "childish,silllly,idle gossips" as friends so it WON'T happen.
I won't be surprised if those friends NEVER actually slept with the said babe. She might just be the outgoing, fun/party loving kind of girl and nothing more
You lose your right to talk if as a sibling,you are too busy to see your sibling's soon-to-be wife or husband BEFORE marriage unless you are living in another country.

I repeat, after its signed and sealed, no 3rd party has the right to pokenose or dig out dirts from the past of any couple UNLESS its criminal .

hmm... they may never have slept with the babe ;alternatively that may be a tip of the iceberg.
He did it out of love... timing and approacj may be bad but his heart may be right...

Everyone has a past and deserves a second chance but some pasts are more than other pasts

Remember ths story here on this forum where a guy just absconded to canada because his wife has a tubal blockage due to multiple abortions
One just prays never to enter one chance....

If it was your brother in the scenario and you were not able to meet the women prior to the wedding say due to work, location etc

And you know her to be a lady of questionable xter back in the day with multiple patrons and abortions, will you have this same conclusion

ifyalways: Bad belle kill joy. Your brother don marry public toilet according to una,oya quench if you must. Was it not men like you that were doing and getting her pregnant? You guys expected her to marry a ghost abi ? Everybody has a past - good or bad,so why use hers against her ? What if she's changed? Any evidence presented by a third party after wedding cannot be used against either of the couple and should be dumped in the trash folder.

Only a wicked person will encourage such a disadvantaged person to put into a treasury administered by religious thieves and rogues like the rulers of the Jerusalem temple.

true

Smh...........

It has happened.

Lay low n move on

Your bro has cast his lot

I wont lie but I cant remember the name of the film.... van vicker was there too...
I dont watch too much nollywood sha..lol

Roy..not a fan of mercy.... shes not a good actress..imo

the most important ish is the response...


napoli, southampton n cardiff..

we cant allow ourselves to be bogged down

sammie007: all I nid 2 pick 3 point

we live to fight anoda day.. i did not want a bad losss that will affect form n confidence....

haba....

all in all... they did not play better just one slip from a corner

close/.. grod!

choi... sagna cross

yepa... rooney

we are playing better now but we must be careful

im getting tired of elena... her xter is getting insipid

some hospitals allow