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Romance › Re: the beauty of nairaland women (reloaded) by pickabeau1: 6:05pm On Nov 13, 2013
Nwanneamakah: grin grin grin embarassed embarassed
smile... not everyone has ivory teeth grin grin grin
Family › Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by pickabeau1: 5:54pm On Nov 13, 2013
oh oh. busted! grin grin

+1

alutacontinua: I disagree with ur last paragraph. If d op were to be a woman, you wld nt include dt part of doing internal check because nothing shld make a man hit a woman.

You wld rather tend towards telling d woman dt dis is just d beginning and she has to get herself out of arm's way before it's too late.

IMO, as a feminist (who blivs in equality), dt's d same tin u shld be telling dis man.


His wife is violent nd might av abusive tendencies, period!
Romance › Re: the beauty of nairaland women (reloaded) by pickabeau1: 5:48pm On Nov 13, 2013
lalalefriday: Nwanneamakah....show us a picture of your nyash.

Let's see if it tallies with those hips that I can see... wink
randoooo
Romance › Re: the beauty of nairaland women (reloaded) by pickabeau1: 5:47pm On Nov 13, 2013
Nwanneamakah: smiley abit old tho
ebony princess.. see contrast grin
Sports › Re: FIFA 2014 World Cup Draw In Brazil by pickabeau1: 5:25pm On Nov 13, 2013
Up Ibracadabra
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by pickabeau1: 5:17pm On Nov 13, 2013
we dey hia ...

put the news naaaa


yori yori yokis cheesy
Family › Re: Is She To Change The Surname Of Her Kids? by pickabeau1: 5:15pm On Nov 13, 2013
do what works for you

In the event the family wants to migrate or the child needs a letter of sponsorship, having a legal document makes for a stronger case

Find out about a legal adoption to protect the rights of the kids

Then maybe you can change the name


Or best contact a lawyer
Travel › Re: Winning The US Lottery & Losing Faith In American Dream by pickabeau1: 2:07pm On Nov 13, 2013
Maybe she is living in such a county to get access to better schooling for kids[quote author=@tomX]Well she does pay rent of $1k per month and when you factor in their medical expenses for this aging couple plagued with diseases and then throw in other bills and dont forget tax. She probably dont have enough to go on.

My take has always been that if you live in a place where you spend over 10% percent of your income on rent then that place is too expensive for you.[/quote]
Family › Re: Should A Woman Sacrifice Her Dreams For Her Marriage? by pickabeau1: 1:11pm On Nov 13, 2013
bukatyne: Who mentioned divorce on this thread or to this woman in particular?
i was asking for the good advice you spoke about

The D word seems to be a panacea around these parts hehehe
Family › Re: Should A Woman Sacrifice Her Dreams For Her Marriage? by pickabeau1: 12:55pm On Nov 13, 2013
hmm.. and pray tell what was the good advise.. divorce?

you dont know the placard?.. grin

Good you know the woman is over 50 and has made her choices. Does not mean her choices are still not relevant

Women should not suffer or endure marriages,,, it is after all a partnership where strenths are made better and weaknesses worked upon
How can 2 walk together except they be agreed

Sincerity has never been lacking rather its the seeming one-size-fits-all advice from certain posters that is worrying

All cases are different

ish
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by pickabeau1: 12:35pm On Nov 13, 2013
Poker face - Lady Gaga
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe-gentry & Laide Bakare Looking Stunning by pickabeau1: 12:31pm On Nov 13, 2013
mercy's dress looks like tar spilt at the side
Family › Re: Help!!! My Wife Is Ruining Our Marriage by pickabeau1: 12:27pm On Nov 13, 2013
Eegulize: The Selfish Spouse/Relative

" The great danger for family life, in the midst of any society whose idols are pleasure, comfort, and independence, lies in the fact that people close their hearts and become selfish," John Paul II.

Selfishness has been described as one of the major enemies of married love and of love within the family. This description is psychologically correct because selfishness, while falsely appearing to have many benefits, actually turns the person in upon himself/herself, thereby interfering with healthy self-giving which is essence of marital love. Subseqently, this personality weakness creates significant pain and suffering in marriages and families. It is a major cause of marital anger, permissive parenting, addictive behaviors, infidelity, separation and divorce. Unless it is uncovered and addressed, selfishness will lead spouses to treat loved ones as objects and not as gifted persons.

http://www.maritalhealing.com/conflicts/selfishspouse.php

@OP
Be strong and courageous but don't contemplate divorce. The Lord will see you through.
Family › Re: Should A Woman Sacrifice Her Dreams For Her Marriage? by pickabeau1: 12:24pm On Nov 13, 2013
@bukatyne...

ok ... u guys should also calm down when u hear women make sacrifices for their families especially when it is by mutual consent
If it is forced, by all means carry your placard wink
Family › Re: Cult Members' Weddings by pickabeau1: 7:41am On Nov 13, 2013
which cult
Family › Re: Need Advice On This Please!!!! by pickabeau1: 7:38am On Nov 13, 2013
This

bellong: It is more than enough reason for those who value children of their own.

If you don't want kids, find someone who shares your view.
Family › Re: Should A Woman Sacrifice Her Dreams For Her Marriage? by pickabeau1: 7:37am On Nov 13, 2013
Gold45: @pickabeau,:Nobody is saying sacrifices are wrong. But the impression we all got is that she was forced to do them in order to save her marriage, she didn't do it willingly. If she decided to compromise, that would av been a different thing. She was forced. she only stayed cus in the marriage cus of the pleas of her children.

I'd say that woman deserves a medal. Not everybody can give up their happiness for life.
As you have rightly noted, you made reference to an impression - mindset

All i saw from the post is a woman who made huge career and possibly financial sacrifices though venturing into a business which may o may not have been lucrative to be available to raise her family
The husband threw a large celebration for her and allowed some trips and suddenly the ladies of NL express contempt cheesy

You dont know more than that and neither do I but I was irked by the contempt being expressed.. dazall

The most important people in the woman's life appreciate her sacrifice - why are you people angry over her decisions


@i still gbadun your actions to deal with that abusive lout cheesy cheesy
Family › Re: Should A Woman Sacrifice Her Dreams For Her Marriage? by pickabeau1: 6:42am On Nov 13, 2013
ireneidiva: sacrifice for two trips abroad? Are you kidding mehuh Well it's the life she chose.
Keep the statement in context
Sacrifice for raising her family......
Nairaland General › Re: The Illuminati Soul Selling Pact - Whitney Houston A Case Study by pickabeau1: 11:54pm On Nov 12, 2013
Reads n gently creeps out....

8000 views,,, no comment
Travel › Re: Winning The US Lottery & Losing Faith In American Dream by pickabeau1: 11:07pm On Nov 12, 2013
Gbabe.. pls ignore the dude..

Your tenacity amidst the odds is inspiring.....
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by pickabeau1: 8:00pm On Nov 12, 2013
Illuminatus: None of those songs make my list. Different strokes for different folks. Listened to Return To Innocence and Turn Around?
oh.. yes... nice songs...


turn around
smell your skin

return to innocence - olympic theme song...lost my copy... thats why ...
Family › Re: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by pickabeau1: 5:56pm On Nov 12, 2013
hahhahaha.. from aproko altar tinz to sperm quality to p0rn stars...

NL!! grin grin grin grin
Romance › Re: the beauty of nairaland women (reloaded) by pickabeau1: 5:36pm On Nov 12, 2013
khalessi carry goo jaawe

dont mind d haters
Family › Re: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by pickabeau1: 5:17pm On Nov 12, 2013
hahahahah.. lol @ years ago ....


coogar: hahahaha - that research is dodgy!!
actually, freshly produced spërm cells are fitter & up to the task than the ones that have been produced years ago & remained in the body. the ones that were left in the body would have grown webbed feet by the time they are needed. they quickly die in the race to the ovaries. grin
Travel › Re: Canadian Federal Skilled Worker Program-timelines Here by pickabeau1: 5:16pm On Nov 12, 2013
NOC 2147 has been filled up since late May or early June.

kongah: Hello All, i have this question to ask; my application under NOC 2147 was delivered by UPS to CIC office since 3rd of October, but till now, i have not received any acknowledgement letter from CIC. The question is, what is the first information to receive from CIC when one's document is submitted and how long does it take to get the information. I hope is not the PER that is the first mail to expect. Please help .
Family › Re: Help!!! My Wife Is Ruining Our Marriage by pickabeau1: 5:14pm On Nov 12, 2013
hmm.. the plot gets thicker ...


i like baby playing devil advocate though ...
Romance › Re: the beauty of nairaland women (reloaded) by pickabeau1: 5:06pm On Nov 12, 2013
BoboYekini: #I'm calling on da booty gals, make dem come outside,
make dem come outside oh cool
you love that overloaaaddd

dem make u catchie cooollddd

grin grin grin
Family › Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by pickabeau1: 5:04pm On Nov 12, 2013
just watching ....

Guys please dont forget to nominate an orphanage for the annual TEHN charity flight

Check my siggie for the thread
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by pickabeau1: 5:02pm On Nov 12, 2013
Illuminatus: This is such a beautiful song. There just isn't another like it. Enjoy. Which other Enigma songs do you like?
TNT For the Brain
Mea culpa
Silence must be heard

Cross of Changes
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by pickabeau1: 3:43pm On Nov 12, 2013
sadeness - Enigma
Family › Re: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by pickabeau1: 3:43pm On Nov 12, 2013
Chillisauce: Deols, relax...let them keep pumping out their specimen at a flow rate of 0.023bbls/day. When e go happen... Dem go remember wetin we talk.

Too much of everything is bad.
Keeps putting the thing in any available hole and use the statement to keep calm. I'm a man.

One day, the thing will catch something from a certain hole and it will take a miracle to break through.
He who has ears, use it. cheesy
beefer tongue tongue
Family › Re: He Told The Truth About His Brother’s Bride And Everybody Hates Him by pickabeau1: 2:30pm On Nov 12, 2013
Donxavier: A lot of myths here too. Watery sperm doesn't always mean it is less quality and it's not caused by frequent expulsion
dont be surprised in five years.. some new research will say prostate cancer is linked to higher frequencies of sexual activity

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