₦airaland Forum

MrsPhyno:
Excellent

Cc: pidggin

Johnnyessence:
forget about it here ok. 9 days to go nigerians are saying no to blood shed, nigerians are praying for peaceful conduct of election in nigeria u are here saying rubbish u better change ur mindset. people are waking up ok. as far as i am concern pdp is dead in this country they av no faethers to fly again they should go and form another party ok.

totit:
Whose wealth, what wealth do SE have,can you enlighten us?

Yeeboos are funny people wahalai

adanny01:
The op went out, i think its better than what he would have done at home. If his wife were to be given the 2 options, she would have chosen what he did.

I am not trying to justify his case. You are not a man and dont feel testosterone acting on you, i dont expect you to understand.

If my wife should hear the kinds of emotons i had for the girl, she would be mad. But another woman who understands woul quickly realise that there is no need to be mad but be thankful that in my case, it didnt happen.

When one is married, it doesnt stop one from having sexual emotions towards other women. Marriage means to be able to handle all sexual emotions towards others.

adanny01:
You dont have more Jesus than i have.

What we are talking about are pure emotions, even pastors have. It is private and most times we are helpless. It takes the grace of God for some men to keep track. When we manage to keep track and people like you know what emotions we tried to suppress, you should commend us for trying hard.

If OP was able to able to hold back after handling with the girls boobs with no resistance, he needs comendation. How many men out ther would stop at that point.

adanny01:
Just another man with almost same experience. I have tried in my case not to touch her.

Mind you, this is second time i am experiencing this ordeal. The 1st was while i was still living with my parents and was unmarried. The two girls are related to each other and the 1st girl is a village church clergy's daugther who helped my mum one time she was stranded in Bauchi state.

In the 1st case, i withheld myself because of respect to her father even though the girl was sleeping with several guys. On time she cried begging at 2am through my window to open door for her knowing that if my mother learns she didnt sleep at home, it will be trouble for her and possibly return her to her parents.

I almost blackmailed her for sex against my silence and opening the door for her. I couldnt do it but couldnt sleep that night.

I have a friend who together with his younger brother inpregnated their house help. Its not easy to keep such emotions in check. I wish someone will congratulate me for holding back each time i am tempted.

SarahGee:
I wish I knew a better way to rephrase this question. You have seen many married people slowly cut ties with their single friends. Is it just natural that they instantly cease to have things in common or is it a society expectation? It is common among ladies. Some friends even cut ties with their friends once they have a boyfriend! Common b o y f r i e n d !!!

Some own’t even invite their single friends to their weddings or when they do, the single ones are made to wear a different type of asoebi as though they are wild animals that the wedding guests should be cautious of


I guess single people are really wild animals.


I wouldn’t be asking if I haven’t been a victim. A friend of mine got engaged 7 months ago and I was busy turning up and down for her. Her wedding is this coming Saturday and I noticed last night that she’s no longer on my BBM. I feel I don’t deserve it cos I respect people’s space a lot. No matter how close we were before you got hitched, I would respect your privacy once you start a family. I have never ever gone to the house of a married friend on my own volition and I am also quick to turn down invites once I sense that you are inviting me because you feel obligated to. Phone calls or chats once in a blue moon will do for me but there are still friends that will avoid any form of communication with you but run for advice from you as a single person that knows nothing when things get a bit rocky in their marriages. Some even go as far as looking for married friends pen pals on blogs and social networks like they didn’t make their bed.

Since this is now the in-thing, my new motto is ,”Cut the engaged ones off before they cut you!”

adanny01:
The bolded part is exactly why i have wrestled to keep my joystick in my boxers all this time.

I have grown fond of her like my oldest child and genuinely care about her well being. My wife has always accused me betrayal when sometimes i tend to understand with the girl when my wife wants me to scold her. I always thought that if i have anything to do wth her, its going to be hard for me or her to keep living together or continue in the same ways. I know her parents cant afford the training she gets in my house, i dont wanna take her chance away so i have to hold my conji.

Funny enough, that final match of FIFA U17 when DSTV didnt show, i went to a viewing centre close to my house late that nigjt. My wife went paranoid when she didnt see me on the bed, went to sitting room but i wasnt there. She told me she went to the girls room with her heart pounding thinking i must have been slipping from the our room to the maids room. She said she was relieved when she didnt find me there.

foreman:
She came into our house at 14. She calls me daddy. Now almost eighteen.

Now shes grown those things, fresh, firm and well shaped. I keep telling myself shes a kid. But my mind will not leave that place.

Madam travelled recently. This "kid" keeps jiggling those succulent things, intentionally or otherwise, I cant tell. Then I couldnt hold myself, I grabbed her when she served my food. I held and suckled like my life depended on them. Funny thing she didn't resist. I managed to let go when my conscience wouldn't let me. I had to visit a brothel to calm nerves that evening. Still throughout the night, my mind couldn't get rid of the twins.

Now, the problem is how do send this girl out of our house without raising suspicion. I am sure if she stays around, what I am trying to avoid will eventually happen.

cramjones:
A lot of intelligence financial houses in the UK and US predict that the Naira will stabilize at about N350 to a dollar in about 5 months, assuming the following remains, which it is likely to:

1. Oil price remains at $37 - $45/barrell

2. Foreign investors still remain out of stock market (for those that don't know there has been over 70% pull out of foreign investors from the Nigerian stock market)

3. If PMB borrows $10 billion to at least pay the FGN wage bill and embark on capital projects.

4. If the unrest in the North-East, South-East and parts of the middle belt like Kwara remains.

My advice is that whatever Naira you have, go and buy dollars, and only change when you want to use it. GEJ's administration massive looting and mismangement has put our country at the brink, and it is time to wear you thinking caps, lest you become poorer with a useless naira.

-CramJones