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Mylove55:
the[img][/img][s][/s] best president that steal without covering his track like IBB, he is just a big fool. and u are here defending d biggest fool on earth, i wil just hate humanity anytime i see this big for nothing ineffectual buffoon,[s][/s]

Acidosis:
Since it is hard to recognize the maltreated and the well-treated, the way out is to preach against and abolish the idea of housing these teenage children.

What you call 'well-treatment' may be wickedness to some. See, at 8, 9, 10, I sold banana and plantain under my parent's roof, it was fun to me. If these woman (OP's sister) had placed a basket of banana on that girl's head, people will call her names for being 'wicked'.

There is a particular thread on Nl where people cursed a woman for allowing a 'foster' son oversee a small kiosk. In fact, the OP of that incidence took the boy's photo to pass a useless point.

It is better to let these kids remain with their parents, and allow everyone bear im papa name.

The truth remains that everybody cannot eat fried rice for dinner. Some people will take pap, others garri. That you drink garri does not mean you're suffering, it is a mindset thing. No amount of Ankara, makeup, and fried rice can erase the fact that a teenage girl is hired to do chores under the guise of HELP.

Garri and freedom with your parents is better than Chicken in an enslaved stomach.

Acidosis:
The fact that OP opened a thread to honour her sister shows the little girl is a "well-treated" teenage househelp.

Whether he/she is well treated or not, it is wrong to hire/accept to 'train' a teenage girl under your roof for the SOLE purpose of what you know you will benefit from her. When the aim is about YOU (what you will get), it can no longer be referred to as HELP, but employment/or slavery.

Slavery in that context means you hire a teenage girl to do the work of an adult, because you know you cannot afford the pay and demands of an adult; and you also know that a teenage girl has no VOICE or OPINION.

Acidosis:
Actually, I don't trust people who hire young/teenage girls in the name of "help" or "training".


A househelp should be treated like any other employee (driver, gateman, PA, manager, marketer, etc.). It is a job, and the mode of payment is MONEY (like I mentioned earlier, ankara is not a legal tender). A young girl who cannot bargain her Salary/Wage should never be hired for any form of JOB. It is called SLAVERY.

Oluwabusobomi:
God bless Jimi Agbaje as he accepts to lead our dear party to greatness

On behalf of all Nairaland Wailers, I wish to express our 100% support for the young and vibrant JK

PDP ti take over!

christinnah:
slapped her husband in public and on her knees at home...

Bitterleafsoup:
Sufferheads just keep suffering and

oyinkinola:
...including your home parlor!

abes:
Hate kills faster than AIDS

This is from US Institute of Peace Twitter account
https://twitter.com/USIP/status/761312131648069632

ProudHustler:
Guys, I have really bn trying to improve the situation but I'm tired as it doesn't seem the woman is ready to change. Now we need help please. I mean justice.

christinnah:
sitting on this chair alone....
no ones to talk to
famz going out and have fun...
log me in the house to do homework.
grew up with no sister nor brother
do everything by myself
break up with the boyfriend

AND NOW I AM SO LONELY****

carmag:
definitely, your church must have been located
in another planet

urbanmsg:
The only thing I think he can offer my life now is a sibling to my son. I come from a polygamous home,I know the battles we fought and I don't wish that even for an enemy. I don't want to have children from different men.

Woged2005:
What makes modern religious girls (born-gains) unattractive for marriage?

Please I am not judging or rushing to conclusion. But I visited a church and had attended many churches and it shocks me to see the number of educated, beautiful, working class ladies in their late 30’s trooping to answer alter-calls, sometime crying openly in church to find a husband. Sometime I wonder what part of them don’t men (even brothers in the same church) see? These ladies appear to have it all -shape, education, career, beauty etc. Why are they not getting married despite their credentials? Does it mean these ladies only trooped to church when things have already gone wrong in their lives? Are they being rewarded for past lives? Do men (even Christian men) not find them marriageable? What are they doing wrong?

Please pour your mind and experiences out here. Let’s help people understand. Let’s offer practical solutions.

FvckeDyoBiTch:
Piddggin please Pray for me