₦airaland Forum

immortalcrown:
That is not rape. Even the logic of statutory rape does not make that incident a rape. This is because neither the girl nor the boys are up to the age of consent. It is a case of juvenile delinquency because both the girl and the boys are minors and they willingly did it. The video shows the girl was not forced. The girl and the boys should be disciplined according to their ages.

Rape is evil. Pedophilia is evil. I do not support any of them. But this particular case is not rape. The school management should be severely punished for leaving underage students unmonitored.

I do not give a dam about fools who will call me a rape apologist here.

No you are not a rape apologist. This is exactly how I feel about it even as I haven't seen the video. But I know a thing or two about child psychology. From facts I was able to gather, something tells me she is a willing participant. The true horror of what they've done may be lost on them now considering their age. Then this question begs for an answer, Where were the chaperones in all of these?

dfrost:
So many questions beget answers.

Where did they get à phone from?
Why were they left unsupervised when they got to Dubai?

Valid questions. When minors go out, they should be accompanied by a chaperone or chaperones. Where were they?

These things happen when efficiency or efficacy is undermined. Some people think I'm a witch at work for demanding due diligence and efficiency. I try to avoid stories like these. I won't have my two hands behind me answering to queries that are avoidable.

For all you care, the girl might have been a willing participant in this saga.

Parents! Many parents need parenting! Character flaws and evil ideologies everywhere. What happens? They pass it on to the children who are too innocent, too young to decipher.

The school, why are they keeping things hush-hush from the parents? The parents are key partners here. The school don't owe the public any explanation but in their trying to cover an inadequacy, they end up committing another one. Where were their care givers in Dubai? They went sightseeing obviously.

Jubilee worship - Empty grave

Every demon shakes
As we shout your praise
All the stones have rolled away
You have robbed the grave
So we celebrate
Your eternal victory

Shout Oh Zion
Shout in triumph
Death is now a lie
Shout Oh Zion
Shout in triumph
Jesus is alive

We dance on an empty grave
We dance on an empty grave
You have overcome
You have overcome....

Jeon:
SMH.

WELL I HAVE NOTHING TO SAY... SINCE MEN ARE POLYGRAMMY IN NATURE...

No be only polygrammy, na polyoscar

EmptyGarden:
Show this to your father.

Who raised you? Obviously he or she did a bad job. This is the immaturity we're talking about. Many men like you here who have quoted me seemed to disagree when I said many of you are immature. Why bring somebody's father into this? Se o lagba ni le ni? Won o ko e abi wo lo gba eko? I send people like you errands to open my car door or carry my bag. Don't disrespect me, much more my dad cause he's a responsible man not like the ones that you grew up under. Alaileko amunibuni!

dboY1123:
I have been on/off from my work(shop) for 2weeks now, I have this new worker who is a Muslim and I am a Christian, of course, I am not against her religion or anything, I still grant her the permission to attend mosque every Friday afternoon and I always try to be at shop by 2pm, or get someone to replace her..

Today I came to shop and the first thing I noticed was that she allowed one Alfa that I know very well, into the shop(she knows it is not allowed), my mind told me they were both reciting the Quran before I came in.

Secondly, she told me that she needs to pray (in the shop) that I should excuse her while I had to leave there and go outside..This has never been happening for 3 months she's been here..

Even myself being a Christian, I pray before coming to shop/work.

I wanted to tell her to stop praying in the shop because it is not a praying ground or mosque, should I go ahead?

I am not against her religion whatsoever, even she reads the Quran quietly in the shop and there's no issue about that.

Se wa okay? Na she get shop or na you. Oh my! Christians we are too soft. You wouldn't dare to do that with a Moslem. Sharia Court straight! They will give your action all kinda name and they will sentence you to death. Go and ask that musician they accused of Blasphemy.

I'm happy to be alive to see another Easter, and happier to be the one to lead the praise worship in church today, a special day of our Lord.

My favourite Easter line is in Matthew 28:6 He is no longer here, He has risen...

Hallelujah somebody!!!!

Justiceleague1:
Your moniker is actually 'placeofallure' but you make it look like 'placeoffailure'

Naaaaa!
Get your glasses, it's place of allure

simpleseyi:
I never knew that short people can be good comedian.

You suppose know na. Julius Agwu things

Awon weyrey to ti san lori!

tobillionaire:
Tinubu trying so hard to look young ... No room for packaged outdated men bereft of ideas In aso rock come 2023 .

On osinbajo mandate I shall stand!

You honestly don't mean it that Tinubu is bereft of ideas.

If you are looking for somebody in this our current political dispensation with the most potent think tank, Tinubu will score a point before others.

Be objective. What he lacks in physicality, he has abundance of it mentally.

America was governed severally by men who were impaired in one way or the other. We are all scrambling to the US now because of how good their leadership has been.

The Osinbajo that you extol today is Tinubu's idea.

Fashola, who as a governor was a gift to Lagos State, is Tinubu's idea.

Thank you.

OneCandleAway:
I don't know ow the god you serve but it can't be my God.

The god behind a corrupt, diabolical selfish thief that tinubu is must be a demon or Satan himself

Can you honestly bring out one of these other people that is no thief, not corrupt, not diabolical, demonic or satanic, can you?

Is it Atiku? Wike, Obi, Yaya, Amaechi or even Osinbajo and the rest of the clowns? If these people are not saintly, pray what is the crime of Tinubu?

Tinubu se f'alejo, o se f'onile. O gb'onje f'egbe, o gba wo e bo, Emi leni o tun se?

HomoSapiien:
Tinubu ship already sail. No one, not even Buhari can stop the sailing. Only God can and Gods behind him.

They said he’s too old, but other candidates that are youthful aren’t even consulting vigorously the way he’s doing. I guess they’re all expected the presidency post to be handed over to them while they sleeping on bed, in the name of consensus.

Imagine a candidate that comes out through consensus, wouldn’t the people that offer them such power expect something in return? Thereby caging and taking us back to when the cabal was dictating to Jonathan. And when they couldn’t control him again, they turn Nigeria upside down for him.

The same fate lies any candidate northerners should foist on us through consensus. If they’re not in power, they always still want a total control, which is why they’ll try to foist candidates on us.

Southerners needs to wake up!

Leave them, don't prompt them to wake up. The ship will sail and sail pass them.

#TeamTinubu

Family nuances.

Every marriage with its peculiarities. All kinds of abuses physical, emotional, verbal and the rest of them boils down to our inability to properly communicate in the house. Communication isn't just opening and closing your mouth.

There'll always be misgivings committed by either of the partners. Now if your spouse does something bad, address that issue, ONLY that issue, proffer solution if you can. It ends there. Don't bring the history of how his uncle was like that, or reminding her about how all her sisters are divorced ....how he did the same thing last century and blablabla... Women are more guilty here. That is what annoys the man and if he lacks self control, your guess is as good as mine.

Many men in my opinion are immature. You need to nurture them the way you would your 5-year old. If women understand this, there'll be peace.

That's not an excuse to misbehave notwithstanding. If you are not up to it as a man, don't marry. A man should be able to make informed choices that is best for his family. These failings or shortcomings are the things that infuriate a woman. And if she has an unbridled tongue, reeling begins. Plus men have this ego problem. It's not a taboo to see a wife more sensible than the husband. Men, know this and know wisdom. As a man, you could borrow sense if yours is inadequate. It doesn't make you less of a man. You're to complement each other. Marriage is not a competing ground.

God save our marriages.

Mrbasamd:
Ok

Is this not fraudulent?

The gen is on right now and I watch in the comfort of my sofa. Watching Man U vs Norwich right now. CR7 just scored with a free kick.
Arsenal, my team is also playing right now but fear no dey gree me watch Arsenal live matches again. I'm aging, HBP is brutal!

Many viewing centers in Naija are not female friendly.

Angelfrost:
Every federal hospital and top private hospital has a good dental clinic...

Visit one immediately and get this sorted out!

I got 2 of mine removed same day at a federal hospital in Lag. Believe me, there's nothing fantastic or outstanding about them. After removal, it was only a matter of a few years before I started feeling pain again. Then, I just went herbal.

There's a concoction, I don't know what they mixed together, I sha know it's alcohol based and there's cloves in it and it's very peppery, you know that ata ijosi. It works wonders. I just gaggle the cheek with it and I'm fine. They said it could be swallowed but I am not a fan of alcohol.

I currently earn 6 figures per month teaching in an elementary school. I have plans underway to start a restaurant business and quit my current job.

Die omobirin o to!

Dorwadora:
There was this guy I once dated for a short while. I feel so ashame to say this but it was during my year one. Very nice guy that made my young heart flutter. He was a finalist and he told me he wanted to marry me, he said Dora would you wait for me ... I said yes ... Mumu me

My mom was earning 890 naira per day then as per working at a factory. I would call her up every now and then requesting for money and foodstuffs little did she know that her daughter was a chef. Nigga doesn't eat meat and swallow....I would cook stew with (panla olosan) one fish like this. Anyone help me with the English name. Will cook rice with fried plantain with cold water. I'll now serve each dish into different plates.... Take it up to his room... Then Nigga would call his friend,they will lock the door and feast... This went on for more than 3 months before my mom called me to know the daughter of whom I am . The whole cooking levels reduced. I started washing clothes, plates, buying airtime for him with my small money ....

Ladies matter plenty I no fit yarn finish

Nigga sha served me breakfast along the way... His future wife was staying in the room next to him.... Me I was doing abelejayan , good girl me. I was so downcasted that I missed my 3 gst exams .... Premium tears 24/7 .

Since then me sef don turn redpiller


Ladies I took the red pill once and for all


Ladies share your simping experience

Jeon
Siofra
Candidlady

And every other ladies...

At no point of my life was I ever like this. I don't spend on men. Yes, I don't. I don't ask for money too, though they give but I never ask them. They see a gap and just fill it. I once dated a guy and I specifically intentionally said I had to give him something, a tangible gift because he was selfless to a fault.

I'm not against giving a man stuff but it has to be reciprocated. I don't believe in just taking and taking and not give something back too. And when I say give back, I don't mean your body. That one is mutual benefits for both parties concerned.

Ingriid:
It is very possible but don't go with the aim of finding a life partner.
As a lady look ur very best (keep it sassy but classy) ,Enjoy that party jollof rice, dance like no tomorrow and graciously take ur leave after d party. .
If a gentleman shows up, cool , if not.... We muve....

Cool!

That's me. When I was still in the business of doing Owambes, (I slowed down because of marriage) I dress to kill. In fact I attend because I want to show off my gorgeous self, let people turn around when they see me, especially girls. It's sweeter if girls like you are drooling over you. I've never attended because of any man. Infact for the mere fact that we met at a party, I'll never take you seriously. I dance and eat if I can, if not I go my house. Sikena!

ashewoboy:
Very high chances. why do you think these ladies dress like w.h.o.r.e.s to weddings? na husband them dey find.


men are looking for ladies to shag, ladies are looking for men to marry them. inside life.

Those wedding reception outfits ehn!

Before, I used to look at magazines or videos looking for styles that I can sew. But these days, I'd never be caught wearing any of those things they call fashion. For me less is more. Keep it simple and modest. God no go shame us

EASYGURU:
You see your life now... Zero social etiquette, you lack good communication skills. I hope he's not desperate enough to even consider you or your irrational questions. If you want to know all these, you chat him up and get to know eachother. His number is there so anyone interested can hit him up and you discuss about yourself.

Oh my! You call these questions irrational questions? From someone you want to get entangled with? No wonder people like you end up with ghosts or aliens as partners and you disturb the social media space with your incessant rantings.

I will thoroughly school you about etiquette and communication skills, okay?

Then, next time it's each other.

And the legend goes home.

Colombia Mo feran re....

RIP great artiste. Your legacy will surely outlive you.

VladimirPutiin:
Pls what’s this guy name pls ??

Abi na u one of my guy been dey mumu for that year
The story sounds similar. But that my guy is now a bad guy. Na girls dey make guys bad.

Lekan

kenzysmith:
mine when I was 19 I had my ist girlfriend I used to send this girl 500 mtn from my pocket money every 2 days. after I send her the card I will use my own card to call her she never call me. there was a day she agree to have lunch with me we went to sillzers she came with her younger brother they ate fried rice and big chicken while I was drinking coke talkng with her I would have bought food for my self but I was considering their fare back home in my heart I was in tears but I was just there smiling like gaduje. after the meal his younger brother demand for meat pie and ice cream she also said I should also buy for her too that I should put it inside take away pack. they sat at their seat why I went to buy it for them and I also gave them 1500 for their fair back home. i am the one who called her if she have arrive home even hug I no see talk less of pussy chai I mumu that year sha

I remember a guy, I don't even know what to call what we were doing then. In his mind, he was dating me sha. Some guys can be something else. He takes me out to eateries every week. He buys clothes and stuff, then every Friday, he gives me money for hairdo. I never opened my mouth to ask for anything, never. He does it out of his own freewill. People like him taught me not to settle for less cause I was pretty young. Meanwhile, the farthest we had gone then was holding hands, nothing more. Even that, he'd beg before I allow him to hold me. That was the era of mumu love. We do go to the studio to take pictures once in a while The boy can write love letters! I always read his letters to my siblings and we'd laugh heartily about his blunders. How time flies!

Modified
I remember one of his lines, as I was playing hard to get na....love does not require elaborate preparation....

Imagine, they even put "Bro" in front of his name.

Emma1Oj:
what if the process of getting the job done well takes more time than expected? Are you going to wrap it up to save time or take more time to ensure its properly done?? fully aware that their is no time to get the job done.

This usually happens because skill and competency differs. The reason why some excel in carrying out tasks, no matter how herculean, and we say they're outstanding.

Look at sprinters at the Olympics. They do the same race, e.g. 100m and finish at different times. Some even go ahead to break records. Your strength (speed, accuracy, competence) makes you stand out. That explains how or why you will be able to do a thorough job and still make deadline while some will struggle at it.

There's always somebody somewhere who is excellent, magnificent, superb and OUTSTANDING.

My answer...

Why settle for one when you can have two? In this era of speed and accuracy, you can have a task conscientiously done and timely too.

Thank you.

This poster is insane I suppose.

None of the above.

Don't lower God's standard. Even if you are a child of perdition, reject evil. You can have a husband who's neither a cheater nor an abuser.

I choose goodness.

Can't remember the last time honestly. I don't even remember they still exist. I rely on other sources for Nigerian news.
Oju to ti ri ire o tun gbodo ri ibi, Eewo!

I look at MUMURIC and her vomit, I just nod in pity. What manner of thinking is this? Twisting and turning things for self aggrandisement, Ah! Nibo la tun wa jasi bayi!

Everyday, I ask God for knowledge, wisdom and more sense. Let me never be a MUmu!