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[quote author=Full_lips link=topic=720942.msg8803102#msg8803102 date=1311797113]@pleep. If I can say a girl is sexy or cute and not be looked at funny, then a guy should be able to too, I long for a day when people can freely express themselves without fear or judgement from society.[/quote]Yea those poor KKK members. society won't let them express themselves

pash4naija:
I get the complaining part which I believe is wrong for those in diaspora to do( but almost inevitable) but pls explain why 90% of the problem is from 'useless expats'.

Point to note: A lot of people in diaspora would love to help but truth is, the policies and environments do not make it easy. I know someone who before he left Naija, had a vision/proposal on how he could help in a particular sector. all he needed was to push it to the right person in govt who would help. But unfortunately, even the receptionist in the govt parastatal didn't let his proposal move past the front door. after trying other means to no avail, the guy gave up and came to do his phd outside the country where he is being recognized for his effort. does he want to go back, no. unless he has seen a change in values and policies whereby govt is ready to receive diasporans.

Anyhow, its a matter of choice and i believe diasporans should help but truth is, they are not the messiah. its better for them to come back when the govt is really ready than for them to come back and meet frustrations.

the "government" is one of the biggest scapegoats for Nigerian problems. Honestly we do not need the government to do everything for us. I have a relative who after about 6 yrs abroad returned home and got elected into important gov post. Now he can help fix it based on things he saw here in the u.s. Nigerian expats have the means to get into these government positions if we really try. But we are letting semi-illiterate elites run Nigeria into the ground.

The expat community is the closet thing Nigeria has to a middle class. And the lack of a middle class is one of the key things that holds a country back from development. Rich people are oblivious and don't care, poor people are scared, so it's always been left to the middle class ppl to push for better policies and changes in their country. We can see examples of this in eygpt and other middle eastern countries.

5th grade of course!! Not as easy as that fellow tho. 1st grade if I had one I didn't notice it  [quote author=Full_lips link=topic=720942.msg8802965#msg8802965 date=1311795720]Mr. BrownJay really good points,   But on your last point I wonder why is such a big deal for guys to find other men attractive, cute, or sexy. I find girls all those things everyday,  Does that mean I have bi-intimate tendencies? Maybe,  but if I can have bisex.ual tendencies? What's wrong in men having the same?[/quote]Yea the way women often talk about other women is extreame. A normal straight man is not capable of talking about other dudes like that and not be man-lover.
There's a difference between awknowledging another man is attractive to women(of course you won't admitt it) and calling them sexy or cute. The first is just awknoledges something, the second is being attracted to it.
Maybe women r so bisexual because of all the secxtual objectification of women they see in the media

A) men repress their se.xual desires since the day they were born. we would get a er.ection from a very young age simply by looking at a female stranger, we would think of ways to se.xually fulfill that person in so many ways BUT YET we would have to repulse that "normal" human emotion because it wasnt socially/religiously acceptable

Hmm I must have skipped that stage do little kids get boners?

^ I agree.

DaRapture:
Bull crap, I have more than 15% and did not qualify.

Did you apply. . .?

Araboy & zubuyer you are most definatly the same Guy. 

People who have no plans to go back to Nigeria and help 'develop' the country have no right to criticize the government or the people working hard back home, Because they are part if the problem.
10% of nigerias problem is the government 90% is useless expats in Europe & America (nigerias real middle class) who should be making plans to help fix their contry but would rather come online and conplain.

^ u may not know how generous the u.s is to American Indians.

Any Individual with 15% or more ancestry goes to colledge free.

Integration (as if that fixed anything)

Haha does ur twin like black girls also?

^ i'm very confused about hausas. I always thought they were suuper dark skinned & pretty but all the ones u see in their movies etc are light skinned ( but still pretty haha)
[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=719748.msg8796617#msg8796617 date=1311723026]which is quite unfortunate for me. I don't want to be stuck with a black boy.
Maybe Araboy has a twin then I might be lucky. lol[/quote]Atuai deng is with a white man. U mite get one

Araboy:
^^^
Pleep you are funnnny  where is my linguala girl

lol Taken by a white boy   likes, oyibos  apparently, u guys would have been a perfect match.  

[size=32pt]Igbo women are far more attractive than yoruba despite some hairyness issues.
Let's stop arguing over the obvious!!! [/size]

eldee:
At the end of the day, no one dates black girls except black boys.

& araboy

These Yoruba ppl sef. They have serious problems.

^ goats do have crotches.

ebeledi:
I wonder if they would act hostile to an african with black skin??
would they embrace us more or what
i might have to try going there one day and find out lolz

Lol these people are beyond black

haha funny thread, I had a vauge sense if deja-vu.

Anyway my favorite a.a proverb is : check yo' self before you wreck yourself.

On a more serious note Lois farrakhan: one man cannot rise above the condition of his people.

^ Haha you just have to get the last word.

Goldieluks:
Nigerian guys find it difficult to woo a young white girl,there's this inferiority and low self esteem within them.hence they go the easier way,which is 'the older,the quicker,but obviously not the better'. Some of these guys dot it for green card too.

Idiotic post. Since when hav Nigerian men suffered from 'low self esteem'? If anything we are too arrogant.

^ hmm so it is true then. I used to want to be a phychologist Lol

anyway, tht would explain why there are so few 'bisexual' Nigerian chicks but like every American girl is bi.

Me personally I don't like going in public solo with a white girl it's just too awkward!
I feel like some kinda self hater lol.
It's fine when ur with a group of ppl, but solo is not fun at all.

I find it hard to belive you noticed this in Nigerian men only.

it's well known that black men get in cross-cultural relationships much more than black women. Irrespective of nationality.
Anyway, in addition to that, it's well known that most ethnic groups only allow miscegation for the male child and not the
female. Greeks, italians, Arabs, Indians etc often do this in the u.s

I think it comes from the belief that the child is always the ethnicity of the father.

I strongly dislike bisexual women ( I'm not homophobic) it's just I find it repulsive that some girls are attracted to everything. Then masqurade as straight.

It seems like many many straight women get turned on by other women. While men are repulsed by the thought of that.
I think it has something to do with repressed desires in men ( yea I know ) that aren't repressed in women because it's socially acceptable.

Should I comment or should I not comment . . .

anyway some Africans look down on black Americans for the same reason some black Americans look down on Africans. No one wants to be at the bottom of the food chain

The reason ur on this site is to make Africans accept that black Americans are superior to them. Newsflash: thts never going to happen in a million yrs. Immagine trying to convince a.a's that Africans are better than them lol!

Anyway I'm not going to comment on this issue Anymore. (hopefully)

lol watch this same question being asked on an Arab forum
answers:

no way!

Not in a million years!

La la laa

efindi!

Khafir? Never!!!!

God forbid! My parents would kill me!

Well let's see how these deficit negotiations go. . . If he gives in again ugh

Anyway it's not all his fault, the democratic party is not as united and vocal as the repubs are.

Dumb topic.

Why r u ppl so g.ay?