very strong thing

It's your boyfriend's fault. He is the typical Mr Nice guy. Mr Nice guys usually end up being used like a rag, just like you are using him here. Oh no dear, I am on your side. Use that slowpo.ke of a boyfriend you have. Drag him on the floor. Then toss him aside.

As a man, never get yourself into a situation where you are labelled as Nice.

And you see, that second badass is going to paint your panties red and then move on. You met an intelligent, handsome and perhaps rich guy and you immediately concluded he had been waiting around for you to come along. Ask yourself, are you that beautiful, handsome, and rich to have deserved a man like that?... Just make sure you make the most of the banging that is going to happen between you soon.... He is my kind of guy; he waited for you to have all your feelings in the way, then he cut communications... He is right now waiting for you to make the next move to get in touch with him... then you have become his maga, his rag and soon his time will come to drag you on all dirty floors.

Intelligent guys.... Fear them. Faithfulness and loyalty is your best guidance when you meet them... Loyalty to your old stable love I mean.

Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

The same ASUU that Nigerians joined the Buhari government to castigate just months ago, or another one?

LibertyRep:
My Goodness!

64 Billion Naira for fence?

ASUU over to you.

Buhari and the Zombies following him will soon start celebrating this as an evidence of their principals' anti-corruption stance, labeling Shoprite as corrupt in the process.

Iamgrey5:


https://www.news24.com/fin24/Companies/shoprite-exits-nigeria-after-15-years-20200803

I just knew entitled people like you still exist on this forum. Very silly human beings.
Does having a degree substitute the need to work? You guys should learn to think now...

There is no shame for the government in any of this, if you are angry go and bang your head on a stone.

We need to normalize honest labor in this country. We cannot continue to blame the government for all that is happening in Nigeria. Even when government eventually manages to fix the economy I am 100% sure than some lazy Nigerian youths, like this dude here, will refuse to work and wait for a white collar job instead.

That same babe wey dey sell kunu, she most likely will have earned cool money when some id.io.ts are busy ejaculating over the kind of job she does with a 2.1. There are many first class degree holders in Nigeria doing the jobs some of you turn your noses at, and they are making millions back-to-back... You should continue wailing at the government. Lazy Nigerian youth.

Joshmodest:

While we commend the woman for choosing hard work over crime and indecency ...
Its a shame to our government that a graduate of a university prided as one of the best in the country would resort to selling kunu or tigernot for a living !?

Off the mic bro, Issookay.

CrazyOptimist:
I wonder what his supporters think of this?

His bragging point has been the economy. This morning reports had it that the economy shrunk by more than 35% in the 2nd quarter. And just a few hours after the report is leaked, the clueless president wants to postpone elections.

Nigerian Police Force literally enlists animals into their service.
Its rank is filled with the unlettered, the rapists, the armed robbers, the kidnappers, and the murderers.

This particular officer must face the true justice, if not in court then elsewhere. This brazen oppression of this woman MUST not go unpunished.

I think there is a problem with First Bank in Nigeria. They are always in the news for armed robbery attacks. They need to investigate themselves for the possible presence of internal collaborators.

Your mum is indeed extraordinary, and judging from the foregoing I must also add unique.

Zzor:
13,mum is extraordinary,there was nothing she didn't tell me

Let's all wait together. I think this waiting-for-the-sex-talk gang is going to be a very large group o.

WonderWoman5775:
Just like you, I'm Still waiting

Lie?
My parents na threaten dem threaten me sotey... if you touch a girl, we are going to stop funding your education...

illicit:
Till date, my mum lies to me abt sex

The only thing Nigerian parents know how to do is to raise alarm that 'world don spoil'... always hiding from discussing sex and assuming that children will learn it somehow and in a purified holy way.

You crack me up big time bro. Na exam? Na CBT exam o, how I go take pass the expo across dey shake my mind...

I was already thinking na only me my parents no sit down tell about sex. I see that I am in good company.

loneprof:


Same here bro... In case your parents call you to tell you one day, please pass me the expo too.

At what age did you receive the sex talk from your parents/guardians?

As for me, I'm above 30 and I am still waiting for the day my parents will sit me down and give me the sex talk... It cannot be too late abi.

If the photo you're referring to is the same I have in mind, then it appears the woman in question was arrested by the police.

You're very right... Nigerian mothers especially have the habit of getting naked with male children...this they do routinely and pretend that it is all okay. While at the same time spewing rubbish if it involves a man. I for one personally believe that most Nigerian women are unrepentant rapists and sexual molesters... the only thing is that they are not being called our as men get called out. Men should start speaking up as well. Two can be mad together.

lexander:

The exact same way the Nigeria Constitution refused to acknowledge the facts males are also victims of rape. I read a story where a guy posted a picture of him kissing a girl (4-6 years can't really remember) and he was arrested after it went viral women ladies actually do the same but are not arrested, I saw a pic recently of a 3-5 old boy with a lady she's fully name in the photo and squatting but no one seems to mind if that photo was of a man all hell would have broken loose so yeah lots of hypocrites in the country

I still don't know where we Nigerians got our impossible level of hypocrisy from. And, how come no one is talking about the guy that she had sex with? Just this innocent lady is what everyone wants to die over...

I guess nothing has changed since the time of Jesus Christ when a woman caught in the act of adultery was brought to Christ for sentencing. Did she commit adultery with herself? What of the man? Someone the silly Jews omitted the man in their hypocrisy... Just the same way some silly Nigerians want to hug the transformer on the account of this lady while leaving the guy.

Ladyhippolyta88:

My dear where is the lie?

Nigerians are big time hypocrites now the girl don go better school leave babcock.

Shut up there. Everyone dey Bleep. Leave the girl alone, and leave the younger generation alone.

Sex is what everyone in Nigeria is actively engaged in, from your pastors and bishops and imams, to the lowest in the society... Yet you all come out here to talk about morality... Ogun lakaye osinmole fire your mouth there. Enough of this hypocrisy.

Sex is beautiful. That lady is old enough to decide to have sex. The people that expelled that lady also dey mess students. And you wey dey come here dey form moral dey knack and dey watch Indecency.. No heaven for hypocrisy.

thesicilian:
This is an example of how the morality of the society is being systematically broken down by the evil forces that rule the world.

What is the lesson here for the younger generation? That being upright doesn't matter anymore?

You hardly find Naija women on posts like this... their conscience no go allow them participate. The generous givers. The distributors of toetoe.

Dim, kindly point out the Southwesterners that are most-bitter anti-obaseki voices.

Ori e ti gbale. Opolo e ti daru patapata. Ko si ireti fun iwo modaru yi walahi talai!

wonder233:
In all of this Oshiomhole Vs Obaseki issue, I got to notice a baffling pattern: the people from the southwest are the most bitter anti-obaseki voices. It is baffling because they have no votes in Edo state, even though they try to deflect attention from this fact by accusing the Ibos of supporting him. When I got out to find out why they are so vehemently against Obaseki, I was surprised at what I found out: for a small minority, it is about 2023, but for the vast majority, they are upset Obaseki and indeed the Edo's fight against godfatherism is exposing the cowardice in all of them in the southwest especially Lagos indigenes where one man is God.

This Jewish people sha.... A single story summarizing scamming skill, raping skill, kidnapping skill and barbarity.

Tuale the Jewish niggers!

I have a small question: what happens when ladies touch (grope) men?

How come it is not harassment when ladies come around touch men the way they want, the hair, the head, the ears, the chest, the thighs, the buttock, the stomach...?

What exactly is going on? Why is it harassment when men touch women (especially when the woman hasn't complained) but women touching men doesn't constitute harassment?

I think you should quit the job since you are really not happy there.

Take the leap of faith and quit... and look for another job.

While you are busy looking for another job, maybe, just maybe you might also find sense. Shugomu!

engrrichie92:
it's stressful, exhausting...not what I really love/want to be doing

My boss dosent like me...I can perceive my colleague see me as incompetent hence I don't have their respect

But then it pay this bills...that's the only motivation for me

I feel it shouldn't be that way...it should be more than money

I want to resign...

Just thinking out loud

In Segalinks voice, it will end in premium tears...for you bro.

I think it is either pride, or arrogance, or folly, or arrogantly proud folly that would force a broke man to be behaving like Dangote. Dude, you are broke and you haven't found anyone to tell you.

Before you met that babe she had somehow been surviving. And now you somehow believe that without you she would not survive.

She is an MBBS student, and will one day become a medical doctor inshallah... She is not going to marry you the laundry man. She is soon going to start thinking she is too good and sophisticated for you. You can bank on that.

The Bible says God provides seed for the sower and bread for food, and your confusion lies in your using the seed provided you at this phase of your life as bread for another person's mouth. Two broke people cannot help each other, they will instead eat each other to death... If you are wise you are going to close your eyes and walk away. Poor man no dey allow him head swell... Your head don too dey swell, and soon that your name dem go change am from Victory to Brooklyn landlord.

LordNicvuitton:
Hi Romancelanders, don't know if it's right to share this topic here, but I'll do for now.

I'm Victory, from the East and currently a resident of Edo state.
She passed her 2nd MB.BS. and is currently awaiting lifting of the lockdown on schools, so she can start her clinicals.

She depends on me for daily meals and other basic essentials, in fact I had to place her on salary in my laundry shop during this lockdown, so she plays the role of secretary in my shop too.

She has been crying all through and I really don't know what to do.

NB: Advice from married couples and those in serious relationships, will be highly appreciated.
.

Wicked!!!!!!!!!! Pity someone's daughter now....

LewsTherin:
In the old days in school, hanging out with some girl around lunch time.

Me: girl, are you hungry?
Girl: (trying to be coy) not really
Me: ok. Wait for me, I'm going to the canteen to eat. I'll meet you here when I'm done.
Girl: (surprised pikachu face)

2nd day
Me: gurl, are you hungry?
Girl: (remembering the previous day) yes oh. I am quite hungry
Me: ok, go to the canteen, I'll meet you here when you get back.


There are many ways to skin a cat.

Rhaspody:


thats why I always reply them with ''eyaa''

My brother, I completely agree, NO would work when the ladies in question come out plainly. Guys are the ones that go straight to the point in making request... The ladies that do that are still newbies in the School of Entitlement. But some of them have gone so much sophisticated that they couch their request in emotion-laden vessels... Have you heard things like?

"Dear, I'm not fine!"
"Sweetheart, I'm really not happy!"
"Babe, I'm fed up with my life!"
"Honey, I think I am a failure!"

All these endearing words-prefixed statements might mislead a man to even think the lady is already dating you in her mind, and seeing you as the boyfriend. Don't fall for it. They are to invoke pity in you... Once their hooks are firmly inserted in your heart, they twist them and before you say Jack Orijin, you have become ATM.

You are very luck my brother, you seem to have ladies that come straight with their request for cash. Most of the ones I meet are those that weaponize emotions to turn you to their maga...

Rhaspody:
I simply say NO.

"Eyaa. NO"

I no be your papa

I have learnt the hard way not to give girls money so that they will like you.

Yes... In fact, I could write a whole novel or play on NO, and money will be made on it while you're busy crying here like anyone gives a f.uc.k which part of the dinosauric past you crawled out from.

By the way, happy birthday. I noticed you just 'joined' Nairaland on 26th of this month.

Walk:
Just a two letter words, N O, is what took you 5k words to transcribe? What happens if you want to make a three word statement?

Ahahaha. Abeg share that origin reach here. That's much better than taking some piss-like coffee in the morning.

ZINIBANKS:

Someone passed by us just now he's an elderly man
And he's looking at us like we have no future cause we are all drinking origin early in the morning but who cares ?
I wish you're with us so we go gather stone and reason together you made a whole lot of sense man

You are very correct. Emotional blackmail is their turf, and a lot of times it stems from entitlement mentality. Some of them even call it beauty privilege. They expect that men should somehow be responsible for their comfort... Yes, the men in their lives should be. Their fathers, brothers, and husbands... and no more.
It still beats me the audacity some Nigerian babes have, asking a guy they are just meeting for cash. Generally no matter how pretty or good you are as a lady the moment you open your mouth to ask me for money, that's the end. I just believe it is ladies with the worst kind of moral constitution that ask guys they are just meeting for money... To worse it if you tell them No they will somehow spin it to seem as if you are the one that is stingy, while ignoring the fact that they lack manners and home training for asking guys they just met for money.

We men have our own kind of entitlement though, but it is easier to manage than the one from ladies. If you tell a male friend or man that you don't have money, nothing spoil, life go continue sha between the two of you. Men are that simple.

saintvc:
ladies are very good at emotional blackmail,guilt trip you into gloanig her your last saving and expect you not to ask for it back.

Whenever I meet a girl, I tell her U am not working, or a private school teacher. This way they do not expect much from me. the good diggers leave me early on. The others keep calling me one month to month end to ask for something. I quickly tell them My parents borrowed money to pay me through school and I am repaying the depth.

always appear broke when you are around girls. modest apartment, modest cloth etc.

They have nothing to contribute to my life apart from their V spot .

I give to guys easily
girls..noooo

We all know it is the gradually trending post about Oduduwa Republic that is causing DSS sleepless night. Nigeria is fast heading the way of disintegration with the way this government has colluded with bandits and terrorists to destabilize Nigeria. You can beat a child, but you cannot keep it from crying.

Go and hug a live transformer if you want.
It is not your business amebo...cho cho cho, in the name of religion. Silly. Get used to seeing fine babe dress well.

Devil no dey create beauty, na the work of God. God sabi wetin Im dey do after Im create beautiful Eve and made her and im boyfriend (Adam) roam the garden naked. Your nonsense fixation on ladies' dressing is a product of sin according to the Bible you appear too incapable to understand. Baba God designed man, woman as sexy as they are to walk around naked. Na see make people like you start viewing clothing as the standard of righteousness. Las las, the religions you want to kill people over fit be nonsense tale by the moonlight at the end of the day. So, face front or go and preach to your church members.

Before we were rudely interrupted, she looks great and healthier in her new form.... Nigerian babes too fine sha.

See as girl set! See the hip..maddddd. See camel, proper camel! Someone should just imagine standing behind her and hugging all that succulent resources from behind, while our aproko preacher hugs his own transformer...

Righteousness89:
Apart from the Reduction in her Body size, what I see is a Lady who once had a sense of decency in the way she Dressed and has now thrown that Decency to the wind in the Name of Fashion!

I wonder too o.

iloveojonime:
nice one op....i learnt something new

what are the two people above me following........gist wey don finish