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Crime / Re: Taraba Man Whose Wife Cut Off His Manhood Cries Out by pmoye(m): 7:40am On Jul 06, 2020
Married should start wearing iron pant at home now. Especially while sleeping. Wisdom will not kill me sha. grin grin grin


lalasticlala:

Could it be that she put a substance in his food that made him sleep deep?
Crime / Re: Buhari: Terror Attack Attack On UN Workers Will Be Avenged by pmoye(m): 7:18am On Jul 06, 2020
This failure should simply learn to stop talking already. All the previous chest-beating achieved nothing. When the Chadian army nearly completely routed Boko Haram, Buhari through Buratai also literally swung into action to stop Boko Haram being destroyed. We know who their paymaster is after all.


NadiaR:





Source: The Nation
Romance / Re: I Have Spent Over 7m On My Fiancee Yet She Called Me "Stingy Man" by pmoye(m): 11:41am On Jul 03, 2020
Elders' message:
They say you are not a wise somebody.

They also say you are mumu. That you are slow.
That you deserve to be treated so for going into a relationship with Hushpuppy's sister.

That your movie is just starting, and that we should sit down and watch. That this tear is small, that towards the end of the movie you will be using garawa to export your tears.




igwegeorgiano:
Being in a relationship with a destination on one's mind is a beautiful thing considering the joy of having the right partner in your world to make things happen. Am beginning to have a rethink about my present relationship with the most ungrateful of all ingrates of a lady on the planet earth.

Am presently in a relationship with a lady from the eastern part of Nigeria while I am from the south-south. We met over five months ago and within this short period I have spent well over 7million naira on this lady setting up a boutique biz for her getting her a befitting accommodation tastefully furnished and many more goodies to ensure she is comfortable including a car.

I don't want to bore us with other issues that cropped up which actually prompted me to share my experiences with this ingrate of a woman. I work so smart for my money as a certified mariner and I made my money from every available legit means am very comfortable to a very large extent but true love and affection is missing.

I went into a relationship with the sole aim of settling down with my woman whom I have done so much for. Just last night she called me and requested I assist her with with 500k to take care of some personal issues I agreed to give her the money but unfortunately I was able to raise 250k which I sent to her. Just few minutes ago she called to tell me that am a very stingy man. She told me I can't take care of her needs, yet I want to marry her. My people, am confused right now because I can't imagined myself going into marriage with this lady.

I have decided to relaxed any form of assistance to her henceforth so I can take my time to assess the situation of things in my relationship with her.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Muslim Women Can Still Participate In Beauty Pageants! by pmoye(m): 11:36am On Jul 03, 2020
Says who?
Romance / Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by pmoye(m): 12:22pm On Jul 02, 2020
This is Op's elder brother and mentor doing what they do best here:

https://www.nairaland.com/5963705/man-beats-8-months-pregnant

Once woman-beaters start, they never know how to stop. After each beating they are remorseful, contrite and ready to shed tears and proclaim their undying love. A woman should believe this crap at her own peril even when the man believes he has indeed changed. It is always a cycle, a vicious cycle that even the man cannot escape from. The cycle usually ends with the death of the woman, or whenever the woman terminates that accursed relationship. Op should be jailed for assault.

Say no to domestic violence!
Romance / Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by pmoye(m): 12:02pm On Jul 02, 2020
You people should stop silently validating physical abuse. No matter what that lady did, especially since she didn't physically attack him, there's zero justification for slapping her. Zero.

luscioustrish:
Apologize for slapping her and that's it, I see no reason for her actions.
Romance / Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by pmoye(m): 12:01pm On Jul 02, 2020
Actually, I want to believe that the Op was the one cheating... What is the probability of a female client asking a male sales rep for a meet up at the bar? In Nigeria the probability is almost zero. The Op made that call to the poor fiancee because he was trying to safe face. Interestingly the fiancee ended up to be telling the truth about meeting her cousin, while the Op went ahead to slap her. The only forgiveness the Op deserves is for that good lady to dump his sorry woman-beating ass.

No matter what, you don't slap lady (well, if you slap you first one can return in kind especially if she is not your babe. If she is your babe, simply ignore the slap and dump her).

SweetCunt97:
@deduks you simply should have continued your business meeting professionally. That calling and telling to turn around is sooo childish. Her reaction was simply childish and silly. You simply don't owe her any apologies though.

She's definitely not a wise woman.
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Jobless Spouse? by pmoye(m): 11:54am On Jul 02, 2020
Please tell me that's not you on your profile! grin grin
Rozz:
why should any lady marry a jobless man,you already answered yourself in your post
Romance / Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by pmoye(m): 11:45am On Jul 02, 2020
You are a maddd man for laying your hand on a lady. And your fiancee would be an utmost fool (or should I write authmost now in honour of your despicable nonsense?)
Plus your story get k-leg, you follow babe go bar go cheat you come dey call am client. Oloshi. Obo. Inaki. Your fiancee picked you up on that you come slap her... That's how y'all start, the generation of wife-beater and wife-murderer.

It is only a foolish woman that will go ahead and settle down with a man who physically abused her in relationship. Take it because this is a gospel truth for you: woman-beaters never change!


Deduks:
Please help Me, I need how to settle this with my fiancee. I can't seem to forgive myself for laying my hands on her as this is my first time of ever hiting a girl in my life. We've been on logger head of who is at fault and who will be the first to appologise but I felt betrayed and embarassed by her cos I love her so much.
We've been dating for over 7months and I've made my intentions open to her about settling down with her and she accepted.
Things took another turn in our relationship since last week of June. I'm a sales person in one of the companies in lagos and I have a client (a lady) I've pursuing to market my product to but have not been able to get an appointment with her. It happens that last week I called her (my client) and she told me she didn't go to work that day but if I want to see her it will be outside her office by 5pm. I obliged, and she sent me the address of the place where I will meet with her which is at a bar in one of the hotels on the island which happens to be near to where I reside.
The thing now is that I called my fiancee to notify her of my appointment with the said lady since its in the evening which means I will be coming back home late but her number did not go through may be due to network but I sent her a text which I know must deliver.
To cut the long story short, during the meeting with the lady at the hotel, to my authmost shock or will I call it coincidence I saw my fiancee at the other end of the bar with a guy. I couldn't believe my eyes so I had to call her phone and she picked and I told her to turn around from where she's seated which she did.
I didn't even believe what happened next as she stood up and rushed me at my table and started harassing and embarrassing me that I came to a hotel with a lady that I'm cheating on her. I was so astoned as I stood up and grabbed her to calm her down. I asked her what she was doing there with a man but she wasn't even listening to me. I told her I called her but her number didn't connect and I sent her a text but obviously she didn't see the text cos her phone must have been on silent cos she has been with a guy. She kept on acting crazy there and I had to slap her very hard cos she was acting creazily and embarrassing me and my client and also not answering my question of what she was doing there. While this was hapening, my client just left me and walked away which I don't blame her. I had to bolt out immediately too cos I couldn't stand the heart break and embarrassment.
The next day I received an sms from my fiancee still accusing me and saying that the man is her cousin who came to the house that day but they decided to go out to relax.
I later found out that the guy was her cousin who I'm yet to meet but the point now, is how could she act creazily like that the other day embarrassing me and my client and accusing me too.
We've not spoken for like 4days now looking for who will be the first person to appologise.
the thing is I love this girl and wouldn't want to loose her. But I didn't do anything bad to appologise cos I sent her a text to intimate her of my where about but she didn't tell me where she was going to.
Should I be the one to appologise to cos I was really embarrased that day or should I wait for her to do so cos she's at fault her from my own judgment.
Kindly advice me cos I've been loosing my mind since.
Autos / But A Tokunbo Or Import A Car From Europe? by pmoye(m): 11:16am On Jul 01, 2020
Hello Nairaland family,

I had in the past imported some cars through Belgium to Lagos. For some of them I had the opportunity to have landed in Nigeria before the clearing at the port. I must say I am no longer looking forward to going through that much stress and such humongous level of bribery perpetrated by the custom officers. You literally cannot move from one office or through one gate to the next at the clearing office in Lagos without being made to pay bribe. The clearing agents here know what I speak of. And it is not 1k bribe either.
So, I will need a car soon in Nigeria and I have the option of buying directly in Europe and then shipping to Nigeria and having a clearing agent clear it, or simply buying a Tokunbo off the dealer's shop in Nigeria. For some reason I am beginning to think the second option might even be cheaper while it avoids all the stress associated with buying in Europe, shipping and clearing... This is because I think most dealers get their cars from US which appears to be a much bigger auto market than where I live, and so the Tokunbo might even be cheaper than what I will get from Europe.

I need the expert in the house to tell me what they think. Thanks.
Family / Re: How My Mom Ruined My Life by pmoye(m): 11:05am On Jul 01, 2020
Your mummy is a mad woman.

Ara ile ni npe l'amodi, were lara ode npe. Interpretation: While one's family members label one's psychological sickness as mere breakdown, the outsiders call it by its right name insanity.

If you cannot get treatment for her, then you should leave the house for your own sake. For her to utter such stupidity in the first place, I am sure she still has more bagload of madness lurking inside her head. If you can't take the heat, exit that neighbourhood... distance brings respect especially with some toxic Nigerian parents.



Agba2020:
I've only told this to one person and I've been carrying this one for 9 years now.

This might turn out to be a little long, so bear with me. When I was 17, a few days to my first WAEC, I was reading in the living room when my mom walked in and falsely accused me of sleeping with my own Dad... Oh, I'm a guy btw. I'm not gay, neither am I effeminate.

She claimed she saw my Dad touching me and that he slept with me. I was stunned. I went through different ranges of emotions. At first, I wanted to curse her, then I wanted the ground to swallow me up for real, then I wanted to cry, and then I wanted to scream, tears just filled my eyes, and the first thing that came out of my mouth was "Why are you doing this?" and then she just walked out. I just sat there losing my mind, I knew it was untrue because there's no way you would penetrate a guy without him feeling it, right? Not to mention the fact that I have no memory of this ever happening. And yet she claimed she saw this happening, if that was true, why didn't she stop it?

Long story short, that was the day my life got turned upside down by my own Mom. The not so funny thing is, she never once brought up that issue again since then, and yet she never apologized for it (not that I'd ever forgive her anyway). Dad has no clue about this issue, by the way.
Politics / Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Abia Has Become Miyetti Allah Cattle Market by pmoye(m): 10:51am On Jul 01, 2020
Highly underrated and wise comment.

kuuljay:
Why not send your boys to defend your land oh! I forgot they are in Lagos threatening tinubu

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Crime / Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by pmoye(m): 10:46am On Jul 01, 2020
Of all the things in God's creation, the woman is the only thing worthy of a man's fear.
Don't just fear her, panic when she comes after you. I fear Nigerian women... I haven't met many Naija women who are not manipulative and controlling. It appears many think sex is the only currency they have to get all good things in life. B.it.ches, y'all need to be good harmless persons. Stop being chemical sniper and noose to men.

But this DrOlufunmilayo fall my hand sha. How a man go allow such a dangerous free-loader to put up at your place for 4 months! To even allow her come over to the UK to stay with you was a colossal lack of judgment in the first place.

That she's a medical doctor doesn't mean she is not useless. This is what I have been telling some guys here that it isn't all about a woman having a good job or economic prospect. A lady might be a millionaire and a silent killer at the same time. Her job, her money must not be in the list of the criteria you need in a woman. Be self-sufficient for the two of you so you can focus on prioritizing the important qualities in women.



MoneyMindset:
Nigeria to UK

UK-based Nigerian medical doctor, Dr Funmilayo Harvey was accused of rape by another doctor Dr Bola Aseyan, has responded to the allegation.

In a post he just made on Twitter, the doctor stated that they met on Twitter in 2019 and despite never setting eyes on each other, the relationship was never stable.
Dr Funmilayo responds to rape allegation – We had sex twice
He further revealed that Bola, who is a practicing doctor in Nigeria, and not the UK, insisted on coming to the UK to visit, for reasons best known to her, as her Visa was initially not granted.

According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had.

He then mentioned that he specifically asked her if she was insinuating he sexually abused her and she replied saying NO.

In his rebuttal, Harvey wrote on how he accommodated Bola for 4 months in his apartment despite the duo not being in talking terms, and his only crime was him not allowing her into his heart.

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Family / Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by pmoye(m): 1:15pm On Jun 30, 2020
Very interesting.
awumen:
if you say some then I will agree but why do we have alot of men complaining about the same thing?the same woman who doesn't "enjoy" sex after child bearing will give you enough sex through a week because her parents or family member needs your financial help? On a normal day, you can get it for a whole week not even three times a week again(2 yrs after marriage)
2. Because she wants a new car, attend a wedding. Where she needs you to pay for aso-ebi next week then you will get it all through this week.
3. She needs one favour either her own or for her siblings then you will get it well but as soon as you deliver on this, two days after excuses will arise.
In my 15 years of marriage(am not yet 40yrs old),have learnt a whole lot and still learning. The journey has not been easy but with street smartness, patience, over looking stuffs, always ready to lead and discuss issues immediately they happen has kept us these far.not an easy journey but no regrets
Sex is been use as a tool/weapon in many marriages.
Celebrities / Re: Cassandra Owolabi Blasts Funke Akindele Shares Experience Working With Actress by pmoye(m): 3:09pm On Jun 29, 2020
Lazy somebody. Why you take the job? Dem give you job na TV and laptop movie you wan go there dey watch why the woman dey pay una for your time. Devil punish all you lazy people.

Laidelaitangirl:
Actress Funke Akindele’s ex staff, Cassandra Owolabi, calls her out over alleged physical, emotional and financial abuse.



https://www.instagram.com/tv/CB8NlkGlDm-/?igshid=5abnn5eyjt5x
Education / Re: UNIBEN Final Year Student, Freedom, Dies (Disturbing Photos)) by pmoye(m): 10:58am On Jun 29, 2020
You guys are nothing more than vultures, always gathering to preach your religion where ever there is a sad story. Just the same way vultures gather around corpses.

If you can only preach your religion in the presence of death hoping to capitalize on collective fear, aren't you just a sad tale of sorrow?


shafanik:
Hello my friend,

I just want to share with you a message about the love of Christ. John 3 vs 16 says God so much loved you that He gave His only Son, Jesus Christ to shed his blood for you.

Dear friend, Jesus died so you can access salvation with eternal life. As you receive Christ into your life today, I assure you that you will never remain the same… 1 Corinthians 5 vs 17 says If any man be in Christ he is a new creature, old things are passed away, behold all things are become new.

How to experience this newness of life:
Step 1: Confess your sins to God, and ask Him to forgive you of past sins
Step 2: Repent from your sins, and do not return back to them
Step 3: Believe in your heart that you are now saved.

As you do these, continue in your Christian walk and relationship with God by fellowshipping with a Bible believing church, also prayer and continual study of the word of God will keep you going.

Thank God you’re now saved. God bless you.

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Religion / Re: If The Sexual Urge Is Too Strong & You Are Not Married, Just Do This by pmoye(m): 7:23pm On Jun 26, 2020
So if you don't worship the Christian God are you saying you are allowed to masturbate or to rape? You guys can always be depended on to be ridiculous.



skimena:
I can't support masturbation or rape. Never. When u're Hot and you are not married. Just Read your Bible. Pray, sing praise and worship to God.

You won't even last 3 minutes before the urge will disappear.

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Family / Re: My Bitter Experience by pmoye(m): 12:19pm On Jun 26, 2020
You are OBO, and not the female Instruments and not the Davido kind. The other type.

It is impossible to advise people like you. Just enjoy the life you have created for yourself. And be a man and take responsibility for the poor decisions you routinely make in your life and stop blaming God for allowing a demon into your life. Egbe eye l'eye nwo to. Birds of the same feather flock together. Eniyan bi ikarahun ni he igbin.

You dey fvck you dey fvck, you dey press your thing reach the end of her value, you no call us and you no give yourself advice, and now fvck dey fvck you you come dey cry. Nonsense!


Bostin:
Dear NL family ,this is my bitter experience . She was a Deeper Life girl when I met her back then in 2014 but now a Devil in human form . She brought Pains and shame into my life and took the only daughter I suffered for away from me because I was broke and helpless., I never did anything wrong than being broke , I put in my best and treated her like a Queen with humility but she betrayed my trust.
Let me start from when I met this babe back then at National Open University when I just returned from the UK, we were both student back then. We started as a friend but later end up dating. She later knew I just came back and planning to go back soon .We do have Sex as she wishes being her addicts, though I'm not too sex freak but I always respect her demands. Soonest , She started begging me to impregnate her before I travel back but I refused , shortly she planned the pregnancy and succeeded. Initially , I felt bad and disappointed for what I have no plans for but later take my faith due to my late age.I told my parents about it and they agreed to a family introduction which we eventually did .Aftermath I told her to stay with her parents to have the baby to let me have time to work things out before we could live together as family but she refused and reigned her job and moved in with me with the pregnancy .
To God be the glory we had a baby girl though through CS because the she is asthmatic. We started living happily in a small rented apartment because I wouldn't want to use my savings to further my greener pastures journey on bigger rent and at the same time had an ongoing two bedroom bungalow project in my town. I tried applied for visas in six different attempt but to all avail, I told her about the last visa refusal and also told her I won't be process anything for now again but face life here in Naija for awhile. My NL Fam , that was the beginning of my sorrow. She changed totally and started disrespecting ,arguing and violence. She seized being my friend but gave me depression. Instead she returned all her attention to her Ex and her family. At last , She left with my daughter to her mum's house because her dad is late ..
She did not end it there as she go about telling people bad things about me and my family to justify her actions of leaving. She threatened she won't let me see my daughter again. Later I received letters from Welfare to come talk on child support ,then proceed to the Court where the judge grant her the custody of the child and instructed me to be paying monthly support . Many time she won't pick my calls to talk to my daughter unless I beg. I was thinking suicide but God saved me with his blood.
Recently , I saw a Facebook message a guy sent to her, whom happened to be her boyfriend and accused her of sleeping with his friend, the guy said " you were complaining about your ex daddy something not knowing you're the Demon, if you continue like this you won't have a home of yours " .
I showed my mum this message and we both cried heavily that why did God allowed this Demonic girl in our life . I also sent her the screenshot of the message, she did not deny but warn me to mind my business and let her enjoy her life and F*ck whomever she want .
I tried to chat the boyfriend to find out what was wrong to know if truly I was a bad person she told everyone. The guy was so angry and told me he has nothing to do with her and don't want to see her again. He said someone gave him my baby mama and he intended marrying her because he's a single Dad of two with late wife but he later find out that the guy that gave him my baby mama also has slept with her which they both lied but he find out himself. He said that reason and some other things make him to send her out of his house when he got another woman to marry . This boy is a Yahoo guy , his profile says it all and I heard about a deal of 2m naira they both did , him and my baby mama through my baby mama younger brother . I asked the guy , he said Yes , he had a deal and used her account and gave her her share . He advise me to focus on my daughter and forget about her for life .. Fam , you won't believe the boy that gave my baby mama to the yahoo boy is her ex which I know very well and stayed in the same city where we lives when together . This boy used to call her day and night back then but she always told me he's her brother calling nothing knowing that was the evil that destroyed my happiness ...
I am at the middle of a deadly ocean of life , my daughter is with her and She now said I shouldn't call her again but go to the welfare if I need to see my daughter , her younger brother threatened he would kill me if I do .. Please be my guides I'm confused and depressed .
Thank you and God bless
Romance / Re: Is My Sexual Libido High? by pmoye(m): 11:59am On Jun 26, 2020
It is possible.

bestabigaelever:

undecided

Wish I have high sexual libido like OP
Religion / Re: Why Are Muslim-related Threads Not Open To Discussion On Nairaland? by pmoye(m): 11:03am On Jun 26, 2020
How come Muslims get to comment on other religions' posts but won't allow the same?

DominusPrime:
In Islam there is compulsion. Free will is not allowed. So it is understandable that you must agree to that prior to commenting. But what are you even looking for there sef?
Romance / Re: Is My Sexual Libido High? by pmoye(m): 10:53am On Jun 26, 2020
Guy be very careful.
The sexual incompatibility is a very serious issue. While you might trivialize it now, but in marriage it will simply worsen because then she will have no need to give in to your demands except to conceive. You can almost already expect that when she is pregnant that's already nine months of no sex for you. And when she starts raising the children, you will start having to deal with much bigger problems from her being perpetually overworked, to the children coming right between you.

Don't going into marriage with her now knowing her sexual capacity only for you to return here later lamenting how your wife is unknowingly pushing you out to bleep other babes. She will not change. Don't expect her to change. If you are going ahead with marriage then settle it in your mind that sex is not a very important of your marriage. And if you force her consistently, she will be legally backed to call you out for rape one day. If sex is very important to you then the two of you cannot marry. Otherwise both of you will not engage your marriage. There are actually other babes out there who combine her good qualities and will literally Bleep your brain out of your score. And there are other men for her that won't force her to have sex... By the way, stop raping that lady. When you force sex on someone it is called rape.

Your egungun should be very careful.


Zeal0000007:
A woman that stays with her man, the man fends and take care of her including her needs, I have no business (relationship) outside except her. one should feel sex shouldn't be what should be deprived of such a man no matter the number of times but here, my gal feels we have too much of sex.

whenever I turn and look at her I get turn on especially when she's asleep or undressing, we fight most times because of sex. I want to engage her next month after 5years together and it will be her birthday intending to settle down 2022 that's next two years, that's what I have on my mind.

Pals do we say on the sex aspect that I have high sexual libido ? considering that she's the only one in my life and she's always available and if I get turned on I must force my way to have it with her, I mean body no be firewood like they say. Knowing that some guys despite serious commitment with their gal they still keep side chicks that will carry their some of their sexual needs as they believe. I'm I over labouring her with my sexual needs since she's d only one in my life.

secondly since intending to propose to her next month on her birthday and settling down next two years is it too long for someone to stay proposed to cos I didn't want her staying longer anymore, Atleast make she wear ring. why I wait for things to get better for proper marriage next two years.

Pals please who got experience on this should share with me. she's just 22. I'm 29, mature minds only

Religion / Re: Why Are Muslim-related Threads Not Open To Discussion On Nairaland? by pmoye(m): 10:47am On Jun 26, 2020
I was only being honest o. I am sure if some of the founders of these religions had lived in the 21st century they might well be in institutionalized care. You need to visit psychiatric hospitals to see many who claim to be or see and hear God. Had these inmates lived in the past some of them might have been lucky to found some religions.

Possiblegee:
omo you brutal o gringringrin
Religion / Re: Why Are Muslim-related Threads Not Open To Discussion On Nairaland? by pmoye(m): 10:44am On Jun 26, 2020
All religions are based on selfishness in the end, and they are often a means of creating a cult and enforcing exclusivity.

But what I don't understand is why a public and open forum like Nairaland would pander to the desire of some touchy Muslims to avoid publicly debating Islamic posts here. This is exactly how terrorism starts.

Any post meant to be read by the public should also allow the reader to comment. If Muslims don't want that then Nairaland can create an exclusive e-Mosque for them where only those who have been pre-registered as Muslims can view and comment on their posts. And those pre-registered as Muslims should be filtered off from accessing other religions including Christianity, Atheism, Agnosticism and so on.





EmekaBlue:
Dont mind them....i noticed that also

They r selfish people...thats why they cover their women but chase christian ladies about in real life

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Family / Re: Nigerian Ladies Stop Marrying Men That Are Not Already Rich by pmoye(m): 10:38am On Jun 26, 2020
I guess iyawo Chris Oyakhilome didn't have such spiritual discernment. Also many Christians whose marriages are either crashing or simply being endured just to make people believe they have a happy marriage... Discernment this, discernment that. Let's tell ourselves the truth religion doesn't make you have a better marriage.

The goods and ills of marriage are experienced by all humans regardless of religion. In fact, one would think marriages contracted the Christian way might be more at a disadvantage simply because it's more like buying a pig in a poke. You don't know what you get until it is too late to return. No sex before marriage doctrine is used to hide a lot of sexual liabilities including infertility and sexual incompatibility. Then the strictly Christiany courtship aura is mostly all deceptive, using let's pray about it to avert sensible introspection and investigation...

Leave spiritual discernment out of it until you get to your Church; marriage was made for humans and not for Christians. It is a social construct and won't thrive by religious opinion.


Mariangeles:


Let go of that mindset Buka cheesy
Like I've always told you, we don't always have it all figured out. Even you...
People change.
We can only get it right by spiritual discernment , not by human intelligence. No mere mortal is above deception.
Religion / Re: Why Are Muslim-related Threads Not Open To Discussion On Nairaland? by pmoye(m): 10:28am On Jun 26, 2020
I think he might have been someone's uncle or something.
Possiblegee:
Who is allah
Religion / Why Are Muslim-related Threads Not Open To Discussion On Nairaland? by pmoye(m): 10:17am On Jun 26, 2020
[center]Are You A Muslim?
"I believe that there no god/God but Allah."
"I believe that Muhammad is God's Holy Prophet."
"I believe that Islam is the Only True Religion."
"lā ʾilāha ʾillā-llāh, muhammadun rasūlu-llāh."

(The above declaration will be posted on your profile if you click "yes"wink

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The above is what you are confronted with before you post a comment on any Muslim topic on Nairaland.

Perhaps some people can shed light on this. Every other post on Nairaland is open to discussion, but how come that Muslim related topics are not open to discussion? Isn't Nairaland about open discussion of topics? How come Muslims can comment on other people's religion and even attack Christians, atheists, and those in between, but everyone here seems to be encouraging keeping Muslim topics away from public opinion? Is it because some of these Muslim topics are simply illogical and Nairaland's Muslim cabal is afraid such positions would be shred to pieces in the court of public opinion?

Gender related matters are discussed opening, so are Christian topics and also political ones. Except Islam-related topics. Isn't this the same aversion to public scrutiny and comment that helped fuel Islamic extremism in the first place? Whereby opportunities are taken away from individuals to have their defective ideologies challenged by more liberal and human views.

If you know the real reason why Islamic topics have been condoned off from comments from non-Muslims while the same has not been done for Christianity, I will like to know. Thanks.

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Family / Re: Paternity Fraud In Nigeria: Make testing compulsory at birth by pmoye(m): 2:33pm On Jun 25, 2020
compare one week bonding with 10 years, or 25 years bonding.

sisisioge:
....makes sense but I heard its quite expensive and TAT is a bit lengthy. New dad may have bonded before result comes out after one week grin
Career / Re: My Dilemma As Contract Staff In A Bank by pmoye(m): 10:57am On Jun 25, 2020
Oh no. I'm not going to eat the person raw. 30k and marriage. Perhaps the person still collects pocket money from his mommy sha. Or his wife is the one bringing the real buck home. Or his children are here with us on SM sowing their bank accounts everywhere. No one can force sense into any man's head. Suffering has a way of reminding such men that folly is eventually more costly than good sense.

PS: pmoye has a dick, a functioning one. He is not a she. grin


truthsayer009:


Wo! Don't let pmoye see this post oh, She go EAT you raw. 30k earnings and marriage in the same sentence?
Family / Re: Paternity Fraud In Nigeria: Make testing compulsory at birth by pmoye(m): 7:14pm On Jun 24, 2020
Welcome, our silly little bas.tard.

Health / Re: Man’s Suicide Attempt At Ogun River In Abeokuta Aborted (Photos) by pmoye(m): 6:05pm On Jun 24, 2020
36 years old with five (5) children!.... If we tell them now they will say, "Pasko, na God dey toju omo." Now see your life... Just lukateu.

Islie:


https://dailypost.ng/2020/06/24/mans-suicide-attempt-at-ogun-river-in-abeokuta-aborted/

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