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advanceDNA:
I never implied anything...u are the one saying what I didn't say and fallaciously claiming it's a male mentality.....


Becos u are too stingy to buy your own sanitary pad out of 600k plus ....how will u leave and start paying rent and bills?? Remember u are the most stingy person the world.??....u will rather take ur chances with the man u know will buy it after forgiving you for ur years of stingyness.....

Even if he doesn't buy the pads and everything...he will still pay rent and other major bills, so u will still save ur money u don't want to spend in the first place

*Politeness*
You implied she can't find another man with the circled below.
Once again, he'd now be thinking of that my 700K salary and at same time seeing me as a liar and monitoring. I will never be DESPERATE for such. A woman with money and her children is never desperate for a man!

Silentgroper:
Tf are you guys resurrecting a thread that is resting in peace for

Why not

dkidd:
Our society made them so

EXACTDOMUNDO!!!
Nlfpm this is a topic worth discussing

Anny69:
Fortunately, things are changing now.

Maybe a tiny little bit. Doesn't mean men's mindset have changed though

advanceDNA:
When did I say her husband is the only husband in the world?? Chatting with u is always weird....
Husbands are generally hard to find, especially responsible ones that will pay all ur bills including sanitary pad without being a billionaire.......... If u are the one at fault ,u will do well to salvage the marriage.....thats common sense, weda u have money to bankroll urself or u are stingy woman that won't even buy her own sanitary pad

*Politeness*
Oh we've chatted b4?? Well you clearly implied and took it for granted she'd not be able to find another man - typical male mentality. I may want him but not desperate. Why would I be DESPERATE to stay a with a man who'd now be going through my emails and monitoring me and thinking I owe him?

advanceDNA:
She has better odds staying with him...he will forget her offence over time and start doing his duty as man of the house ....and she will go back to her stingy ways but maybe buy herself a sanitary pad and do a few things in the house .....instead of breaking up and doing it all alone.....

You are assuming her husband is the only man in the world. Why do men have that mindset?? We are talking her being DESPERATE for him. It's even better for her to find a fresh unknowing man to milk, than someone who already knows EVERYTHING

matured:
HEY guys.
this has been bothering my mind.
I discover that a girl will like a boy but sometimes she wont express her mind and when the guys pass she will say to her friend "omo i dey trip for that guy oh"
Now The question is:why is it so difficult for our female folks to speak their mind to the guy they trip or love?

pls i want use to do justice to this question

DestinedForGrea:
Oh lol okay! I been dey surprised o.

(Another one from 2008 )

The reason is summarized below

DestinedForGrea:
Omo wetin you dey do wey you stumble upon 2008 thread? You must have spent a lot of time going through different threads.

*Politeness*
😆Nothing like that o. It simply appeared at bottom of a current thread (see below)

baloolaspo:
pls all the member in this site, advice on how to involve in loving people because ever since a girl that i LOVE break my heart i decided not to have a relation again, THEN I NOW WROTE A SCRIPT ABOUT LOVE AND THE SCRIPT WAS NAME, because I WAS DISAPPOINTED ON HER PLS ADVICE ME NOW FOR ME NOT NOT TO FALL INTO PIT AGAIN

*Politeness*
You posted this in 2008. This is 2024 (almost).
So, what happened?

Nazgul:
I don't believe this story. Reason being that the gap in the figures she gave to you as her salary and what her actual salary is was just too much.

You can't have a wife who earns such amount and wouldn't know unless you're an illiterate.

Knowing the name of the company where she works alone would make you know that there's no way such a company can pay their staffs 35k when it's not a private school.

It's like someone working who works in Microsoft Lagos telling you that they pay them 50k. You'll slap him cos you know that staffs there earn from 1m and above monthly.

Your story isn't realistic.

*Politeness*
We know 99.9% "true" stories on NL are embellished. But sometimes they overdo it, as you rightly pointed out

advanceDNA:
Sigh!! Why won't she be desperate?? Where will her stingy áss find another man to parasitize so she can spend her own money alone....someone that cannot by sanitary pad on her own with all her money...

*Politeness*
That's the whole point, she can no longer do any of that. If anything, she'll now be paying back the husband. We are talking about her being DESPERATE, not just merely wanting it. Infact her husband is "damaged goods" - he knows too much

Itiskdg121:
Do you really know women? I'm sure you don't.

*Politeness*
Very funny. I am glad I chose not to add "f" to my moniker

*Politeness*
Wrestling format
I like it

(Charles Okocha actually won - nobody ever heard of him before this)

advanceDNA:
Someone that cannot buy sanitary pad from 600k plus is beast mode stingy and greedy.... and will definitely be desperate to be with a man continue funding her life... because the poverty and wickedness of her mind is high to the heavens

*Politeness*
Exactly why she and her people won't be desperate that she stay with you - she can't keep her money any longer. You know too much

shadrach77:
There is power failure everywhere including the US and the UK. The only difference between the western world and Nigeria is that the blackouts are very rare and light is often restored within 12 hours. That man is obviously new in the land hence his ignorance

*Politeness*
This is not true. There is NEVER power outage unless due to some clear rare catastrophic event

*Politeness*
Your story sounds authentic but for two things (we know most stories on NL are either embellished or totally made up!):

1) You forgot to say she took offense and formed great outrage that you read her emails
2) A woman that makes so much (and likely to be making even more in the future) would not be so desperate to stay with you, neither will her people

*Politeness*
Do you know the meaning of "spiritual wife" or "spirit wife"?

*Politeness*
The gov had been very ill for long. Either he dies or he doesn't. Either way the "prophecy" would be correct!

EKONGKING:
This does not stop imo developers from developing India ,Lagos etc

*Politeness*
I know, the way Tinubu developed Chicago

kloverneon:
I don't know if you guys know how to render public opinion at all. Someone came to a conclusion and listed out why he arrived at that conclusion, all you do is insult and slam FALSE without any proof. That you don't have any issue with Kuda does not make it valid.

People are loosing money and all you do is shut them up, when your time comes, don't think you'll be given the chance to be heard.

So if you want to counter the OP's view, please raise a quality argument against and not these things I see here.

Have you had problem of logging out Kuda bank app unknowingly or due to phone problem or you got a new phone and wants to log in, and it went smoothly?

Have tried verifying if the number OP listed was correct for Kuda bank customer care?

Have you tried calling the number and was responded to by the customer care, let alone getting any response at all?

What about emails, have they responded your email before and how fast was the response?

How about showing us a screenshot of the list of Microfinance banks (MFBs) insured by NDIC, at least he asked us to check it by yourselves?
It is not correct to use an uninsured bank you know...

I have also observed many people confirming Kuda bank's poor customer care services.
I also observed FEW responses about solving the password/login issues via Web and not app. That notwithstanding, this could have been as a result of trial and error of the issue above not really a response of Kuda bank with respect to their poor app management.

I have been using something without problem is not a proof that if it ever has issues that the cost will be heavy on your side.

Meanwhile, this post was made around 6 months ago, so if you're just joining the discussion and your response is slamming FALSE on it without verifying his points, YOU'RE NOT DOING WELL!!!!


IF KUDA IS RESPONDING TO YOU, TAKE UP THIS GUYS MATTER AND SEE THAT HE IS EITHER PROVED WRONG OR JUSTICE GOTTEN FOR HIM.
He is an undergraduate for crying out loud and he lost his money with no means of letting Kuda know nor hope of getting it back.

@OP - if this matter was later solved please also share it here and let the public know about it.

Remember, what goes around always comes around.

*Politeness*
Very well said!
But notice OP (Eliazejike) disappeared shortly after he was told to check his spam folder. I suspect the problem was resolved and he was too embarrassed to admit he was wrong

Goodlyhrt:
I have seriously and bitterly complained about my poverty state here and how I have lost all appetite to live this life.

*Politeness*
Believe me just seeing you around made your mom get better. She got better by the time you left. Either arrange to see her frequently or relocate to the village. She won't live forever

Even if you can't give her material stuff, give her your presence

Dapson73:
Was that power part expunged from the Constitution when Obasanjo and Asiwaju fought each other, while they were President and Governor respectively?

Don't justify any nonsense here, Fubura has toed the right part of peace as no sacrifice is too big for peace.

Just ask yourself as truthful question, Since when You've being hating Asiwaju, Does it remove anything from Asiwaju progress?

*Politeness*
Me hate Jagaban😆 Funny guy. See screenshot below - all the guys saying am a paid "Agbadorian"
When did they fight? And who won? Only a Nigerian president's CONSCIENCE will prevent him from destroying anybody he wants to destroy. Tinubu schooled in US and practiced godfather and agbero politics in Lagos. He understands the near dictatorial powers of the Nigerian presidency and how to use it, more than any president before him. Especially when he also controls the National Assembly and SC!!
(BTW I read that he explicitly threatened Fugbara)

kennyz247:
Fubura is a woman in man form.. ewu Hausa with no balls

ecolime:
Chaii... Na Tinubu dey settle quarrel for PDP Atiku should be ashamed of himself.

The Wike-Fubara fight was a big opportunity for him to regain the trust of PDP loyalists but he just doesn't give a fck.

One would also expect senior members like Bwala, Bode George and Dele Momodu to step in, rather the fatso aka Davido's boy was counting scores.

Very useless party

*Politeness*
You folks don't understand the ridiculous power of Nigerian presidency. They copied America without having any of the elements that keep the president in check. They basically concentrated all the power in the country in one man's hands! Fubara understands this. He understands he can't fight Tinubu. Atiku wouldn't have been able to do anything. They won't even listen to him

*Politeness*

Balablue64:
I d it.
Anyway, I have learnt a more cunny way to deal with people like this.

*Politeness*
So what is the "cunny way" you learnt?

Obnoxious2001:
Forex trading would have been an easier way, but since it's a business of uncertainty, you might end up losing money instead of making it.

If you have a skill/business, you should look for ways to get more deals.

Forex? Everybody was sure dollar would go down Christmas because lots of people coming back with dollars. Instead it went UP! Explain that

Animegirl:
Not easy at all. They will tell securities to take me out of the premises.

*Politeness*

For simply asking for a loan?
Then second option: sugar daddy without sex

Point is, always go where the money is. Don't waste a second with poor people no matter how tempting

*Politeness*
You go where money is - a bank for example, they have lots of money

sreamsense:
Did Jesus command them before they celebrated him even if it is one time? They celebrated him because they know the importance and Jesus never condemned it when he grew up. So, also for people that know the importance of Jesus, let them celebrate him as they want on yearly basis is never a crime. Jesus don't need to tell you certain things to His glory.

Jesus is loving and kind, he can't condemn celebrating him if you study his loving kindness to people when he came to dwell among us. The only fake prophet that can get annoy or even kill his followers for celebrating his birth or not celebrating his birth is that prophet that slept with teenage girl and always on killing spree when he was in the world. Jesus is loving, holy, kind and worthy to celebrate without him telling us

*Politeness*
If we ask " What would Jesus do?", I wonder if He would be among those celebrating Christmas or those not celebrating it? Did He celebrate any person's birthday? Ok, King Herod's birthday was celebrated but it led to beheading of JtB. As to commercialization in Christmas, He did chase traders and money changers out of the temple (below), they probably didn't think He was loving and kind at that particular time

Af0nja:
Before you were born, you were nothing more than a potential energy hanging amongst a zillion other potentials within the balls of your dad and the eggs of your mom.

*Politeness*
But when you die that sperm and egg and whatever they grew into are completely destroyed, including any storage of memory. Thus, anything that can remain is something that was there before you were conceived. Some belief systems maintain you've reincarnated countless times

Af0nja:
Because we have lived, we now have a memory even if we are returning to nothingness

What exactly is the "we" that have the memory?
And how do you know you came from "nothingness"?

Good one OP. Is it the same Wuhan of Covid?