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IAmHim1:
not really darealsola.

"its something he truly hates because hes not getting any reward from it"

*Politeness*

Oga, you are darealsola, you are not fooling anybody.
Not a bad write-up BUT you miss why your theory is nuts. I assumed it was obvious but I guess I have to spell it out:
HOW will someone do for 30 days things they CAN'T do for one day??!!
Someone comes to you because they're addicted to TV. Your advice to them is to stop watching TV and other things they like to do!! STUPID!!! You think they didn't know they should stop watching??!! The question is HOW? HOW? HOW?!!
This is beyond ridiculous. It is lunacy and I'm done with it

darealsola:
😅😂😂 na you dae miss the point bobo.
If someone says he hates being sober, that means he loves being high everyday. So is getting high everyday an improvement to one’s life? Has there been any reward to it? Is one’s medical health life better than someone who doesn’t do it? Answer that first and be truthful in answering that. The answer would highly be NO.
It’s only an addiction and a habit at this point.

So,The truth is that he truly hates being high even though he loves doing the habit,it is something he truly hates cos he not be getting any reward from it So saying someone hate being sober itself is a problem on it’s own and not a good thing as you’re making it seem, And once someone sees something as a problem it should be part of what he hates and not love. So if it falls in things that he hate you can then apply the logic again. I hope you understand

*Politeness*

At this point no need continuing the discussion. You have totally confused yourself. Someone HATES how he feels when he's sober. Loves being high and staying high. And you have managed to confuse it that he hates how he feels when high!

IAmHim1:
find "thingS" you do not like doing.. not find "thing"

"thingS" is plural...meaning more than one thing.

glad youre finally seeing thingS for yourself

*Politeness*

I did write "things" See below. Which makes it even worse. Someone says they hate being sober - can't even stay sober for one day. Your advice to them is to be sober for a month, while also doing other things they hate doing!
With all due respect, this is like talking to a lunatic!

IAmHim1:
if theres no health implications of going to the gym, then yes, such a person that doesnt like going to the gym would have to start going to d gym SINCE IT FALLS UNDER THE THINGS THE PERSON HATES

the end goal of gymnastics is to exercise.

theres a difference between going to the the gym n exercising. you could go to the gym and end up not exercising. walk in and walk out. or you could stay in your house and do pressups and squats repeatedly without going to the gym

ITS SHOULD BE WHAT THE PERSON HATES

does the person HATE GOING to the gym because the person gets intimitaded by those bulky guy and girls?

OR

does the person HATE DOING EXERCISES??

its simple really. look for what you TRULY hate and look for what you TRULY like and follow the steps outlined

*Politeness*

I don't think you realize how stupid this sounds.
Someone doesn't like not smoking, infact they can't go two days without cigarettes. You now tell them not to smoke for 30 days since it's something they hate! That's your advice in a nutshell - find things you don't like doing and do them for 30 (THIRTY!) days!
Wow! Thought I've heard it all

CoronaVirusPro:
That’s not a drug again. It’s death.

Fentynol has actually done lota people good. People say they were able to quit heroine because of Fentynol

CoronaVirusPro:
I pray their godfather never makes entry into Nigeria

The death toll would be massive!

You can do all the drug listed above, but NEVER TRY OR DO FENTANYL

And if you do cocaine, be sure you getting from a trustworthy dealer, cos homies be mixing it with Fenta

There are already drugs 100 times more deadly than fantanyl

StAmbrose1:
All women do because of how they were created.
Only those who lack good chemical balance in their brain do otherwise; that is why they are queer!

*Politeness*
Not true at all! Everyone is different. I for one can live quite happily without a man. This lady lived a long, happy, and fulfilled life!

Okoroawusa:
So you think...dey play

So I know

https://youtube.com/shorts/APM-DhT3l0s?si=ScKMS7JJ8QzFaecF

IAmHim1:
here maybe this will help shed more light for you

https://www.nairaland.com/7942067/equation-happiness-stop-what-hurts

*Politeness*

Same thing. I come to you for help because I'm unable to stop what hurts me (drugs). And your big help to me is to tell me to stop using drugs!!
Genius!

Isobug:
You de mind them? Selfish lots, because of Oil you deny your Root. Tomorrow They will say they're aren't Igbo. All of them are igbos apart from the Ijaws.
Meanwhile, they have turned the issue to a tribal one. Igboid Vs ijaws. They should face it. Fubara should not relent

*Politeness*

We are NOT all Igbo. Not by a long shot

abhosts:
Nigerian politicians would never change. Accord your successor the respect they deserve and don't think they would remain your houseboy forever.

*Politeness*
That's the main reason I supported Obi though not Igbo. He's about the only gov to leave serious money in state coffers AND he didn't try to control his successor. Only problem - his successor still saw him as competition!

MiraCoool:
To think, I'm going through the same thing right now, except mine wasn't bet. I fell victim to a scammer last week Wednesday. It happened at an ATM stand, I went to do some transactions. I gave this person all my details subconsciously and he changed my pin. Prior to then, I didn't believe in jazz, but now, I do. I still don't have an explanation to how I used my own hands to key in all my details, and how everything happened. When I got back to being myself, this man took off with my debit card and in less than 10mins, I started receiving debit alerts. He emptied my account off 174,000. It was my school fees, which I had wanted to pay that same day, but the network was bad. I know it's small, compared to 2.5m but, it's a crazy feeling. You feel empty and you just don't know the next thing to do. Like the poster said, you see people who have the money, and who could help out, turn their backs on you. Friends act blind to what you're going through. The burden is yours alone to bear, a cross you have to carry on your own. I contemplated suicide too, because, I'm lost and distraught. Where do I start from? But then, I wouldn't kill myself, I wouldn't. I'm still here trusting God for help. Some people have been coming through for me, and I have a little something put together now, but it's no where close. I'm also using this opportunity to solicit for help from anyone here, you wouldn't know, untill you experience something like this. And I pray we wouldn't fall victims of scammers in Jesus name. Amen.


https://independent.ng/onoh-chukwuma-who-commits-suicide-after-losing-n2-5m-bet-laid-to-rest/#:~:text=Mr.%20Onoh%20Chukwuma%20Richard%2C%20the,to%20DAILY%20INDEPENDENT%20on%20anonymity.

Previous Thread https://www.nairaland.com/7939228/onoh-chukwuma-richard-ceo-commits

*Politeness*
Before this, you were soliciting money for not being paid on time. See you previous post below.
Are you a solicitor sir?

1TrippleCee:
Forget that biz. That loss crippled me for years

*Politeness*
Was it over a period of time or all at once?

IAmHim1:
yeah...so youre sayyinng some people mother jerrkked offf their peni$ while watching pornn and played bet9ja while pregnant and it sumhow transferred to their kids....

youre really an interesting guy

people dont like reading. people cant even read one page a day if their lives depend on it...but you'd boldly recommend the 5am club and atomic habit

what am i even saying...people cant even read the alphabets completely...but heeyy my message and method can be simplyy passed by word of mouth even in their native language.

goodluck interpreting the plenttty pages of the 5am club and atomic habits in hausa, igbo and yoruba alone...then another goodluck hoping they can read itt...

think before you type...i know itll be verry harrd for you...i understand...but just try for the sake of people reading

*Politeness*

See below.
With all due respect your theory is ridiculous:
Find things you don't like doing and do them for 30 days!
I don't like not smoking. Your quit method is don't smoke for 30 days! What a genius you are sir

1TrippleCee:
I remember losing 30 Million in forex. The state of mind then is exactly what you said here. My mind, my heart, my body, my spirit, my soul. Everything was shaking. Took me years to heal from the trauma not even recover from the loss. I suffered on top of it, chronic heart palpitations. The trauma of such experiences. I don't do anything with risks again

*Politeness*

And here we are, thinking of delving into forex.
30M? How's that possible? How did it happen?

eteebanky1:
I think the government should force this useless bookies to introduce one cut, two cut on betting slips

How'll you stake almost 35 matches and just one or two match will cut it, so unfair

Sportybet one cut policy is a very stupid One

emperor4love:
cutting 1 nd 2 dey moat bet platform

*Politeness*

What is "cut"?

nony43:
Leadership failure indeed.

Una way vote Tinubu for the first Term, some of us Obidients go vote Tinubu for second Term, To pay Una Back . This leadership failure must go round.

*Politeness*

Vote o, no vote o, Tinubu 8 years is more than GUARANTEED!!

IAmHim1:
DONT YOU GET.

NO ONE MAN WAS BORN A SMOKERRR!

NO ONE MAN WAS BORN A MASTURBATOR...

NO ONE MAN WAS BORN A GAMBLER.

they acquired it with their own hands so theyll have to drop the act with their own hand

you cumin up here sayinh someone cant do it only spreads negativity all here


ohhhhh...so when theyre reading atomic habits book, they should keep smoking rii?
or they should keep masturbating when theyre readin all their self help books right?

youre negative and i dont blame you

you gotta stop what hurts you first!!
the equation to happiness is not to do more things that makes you happy BUT TO STOP THE LITTLE THINGS THAT HURT YOU FIIRST. stop what makes you unhappy first before you add more things that makes you happy. SIMPLE!


or are you telling me people havent recovered from their addictions before...go online...see ex chronic drunkards free from drinking 35yrs sober
go and see die-hard masturbators freeing themselves BY THEMSELVES through therapy

or what do you think??

YOU THINK THE DOCTOR GAVE THEM ATOMIC HABIT BOOK OR THE 5AM CLUB BOOK TO READ ORRRR THE DOCTOR READ THE BOOK AS A STORY TO THE PATIENT WHILE THE PATIENT WAS JERKING OFF??

im giving a method ive used that freed me after soo many years of trial and error and you come here to say its impossible

HELLO! wake up from that bicycle of yours

PS: im probably suppose to leave you to your ignorance but i knew your motive from the beginning. you really want to know how??

YOU ALWAYS STARTED WITH ***POLITENESS***

that was when i knew you were not coming here to be polite. whoever you use that tactic for, you'd only raise the defence mechanism of that person TO BE EXPECTING IMPOLITENESS from you. that was what you did for me and that was how i knew you were a troll from the beginning. decided to just play along for the unsuspecting people reading. lolllzzzzz

you were shooting youself in the leg with your own gun...wonder how long youve been doing that. but hey, now youve learnt two inportant things from this great thread. now run along so you dont hinder peoples learning. no one hindered yours.

*Politeness*

Actually people are often born addicted to substances their mother used while pregnant.
All due respect, your theory makes no sense. Makes no sense at all. Example, someone hates going to the gym. Can't stand going to the gym two days in a row. He comes to you for advice on it. Your great advice to him is: go to the gym for 30 days! I'm sure you see how STUPID that sounds.

*Politeness*

So if I tell you I see you as a brother, brother no fit help sister again ni

Urheadmaster:
Dead HAMAS terrorists will welcome Mr Hasan Bitmez in their mist in wherever they are

They won't go to the same place. The Hamas guy will be too busy having sex, surrounded by 72 virgins, because he died in active terrorism

Wow!

eepeepook:
It's a win-win situation. She should keep quiet.

*Politeness*
Of course. Bet she loves having the doctor as father. But MONEY!!!

Fira09:
My comment wasn't relating to the Thread, I thought you were a man regarding your posts on NL.

Come on be serious. How many men on NL do you know would put "polite" in their moniker? Mention one!

*Politeness*
A certain tribe amaka
I no call any name o. Too polite for that

Pharaoh4rin:
If only You know the truth.......

unbiased2021:
How old are you ? No offense

Fira09:
You are female? Wow.

*Politeness*

See below. Never had children, unmarried most of her iife. Lived happily to 96!

Dshocker:
No matter how successful a woman becomes, as she grows older without a child, should won't definitely regret her actions.

I smile when ever i hear women say marriage is not a necessity.

Pocohantas will not like this 🤣

*Politeness*

Men too
Depends on individuals

*Politeness*

With all these recent threads, seems women actually need men more than they need us.
Depends on individuals tho - I honestly can very well do without a man

*Politeness*

You forgot the easiest way - give them money!

IAmHim1:
nope. the summary is

take two sheets of paper


1) write down all the things you hate doing on 1 sheet of paper

2) write down all the things you love doing on the second sheet of paper

3) stop doing ALL THE THINGS YOU LOVE DOING and start doing ALL THE THINGS YOU HATE DOING for 30 days

after doing the things you hate doing for 30 days, you then CONTINUE YOUR LIFE doing the things you LOVE DOING...by then, some of the things you love doing wouldnt appeal to you anymore like drinking, masturbation gambling smoking etc

lemme list some of the things i hate doing: i hate eating wheat bread...it taste like shii in my mouth(imagine eating wheat bread and beans, i hate walking in tight places...love to spread myself...lolzzz, i hate leaving the toilet unlocked while i'm urinating (NOTE: WHILE IM URINATING ONLY!), I hate using the small buckets in my house to bath...i loved complaining( i had to stop the things i loved), i hated listening to authority ( love to do things my own way....found myself obeying authority like a robot...it was hard to obey sometimes coming from my female superiors...u get where im going with this. lolzzz)...this among a whole lot of others . thats why i said you gotta be truthful to yourself about the things you KNOW YOU LOVE doing and the things YOU KNOW YOU HATE DOING for this to workk

when i did mine, i had to add an extra 15 days doing the things i hated doing after the initial 30 days just to 'solidify it' cus i couldng believe what i was feeling : I WAS FINALLY FREE AND I COULDNT BELIEVE IT LOLZZZZ after all these years...I HAD TO ADD EXTRA 15 DAYS JUST TO MAKE SURE lolzzzz

now look at me. free as a an eagle. it pains me when i read the relapse stories of people in here...they have a thread going down to 1000+ pages and im like...they even give themselves badges and ranks to encourage themselves and they neglect my advice...the one that finally works. its sad unno

*Politeness*
Na wa for you o😆 What kind of theory is this?!🤣
You are telling someone who can't go a day without cigarettes to stop smoking for 30 days! If he could do that why does he need you!😅
He can't do it - that's the whole point!
Funny guy

IAmHim1:
its not psychological manipulation, PoliteActivist. it goes a whooole lot deeper than that for the sake of different religious bodies/affliations that may be looking to be free from their addiction

addiction doesnt discriminate. addiction doesnt know tribe, color or religion.

the steps i outlined works. it worked for me after severralll years of trying to end mine. just thought to share here so others can be free like i am right now.
i know how it feels like to be a prisoner in ones life...ive been there...now theres no prison in my life now.

the two doctors that died didnt follow these steps so itll be wrong to compare and label

*Politeness*
Unless I'm mistaken, all you said was, write down things you love to do, then write down things you hate to do. Do things you hate to do for one month, then do things you love to do for one month.
Is that not all you said?

*Politeness*
Kamala Harris, below, agrees with you


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rUb0B-EhFg?si=9uFu10GxfhDPwVuo

chatinent:
Why cannot people mind their sorry-state business for crying out loud? Must they fault everything and taunt anyone to make them happy?

*Politeness*

It's NOT ok to criticize her, I agree. But IMO it is ok to ask her "what's the point?"