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happney65:
They will go find another job to do. Availability of electricity is for the greater good and not for so and so.

There is no big deal in we having electricity they don't want to leave it yet make them also chop for there.

It was like this too in telecommunications. Nitel staff made a killing for giving us nothing. It was only the rich or upper middle class then that could afford a telephone. People used to come to our house to receive calls on our landline because not many people had phones at home then. With days or weeks of telephone outage then.

Until the right thing was done and here we are told.

Nitel folded up and we are better off today ain't we?

So they should do the right thing and are better

*Politeness*
Ok, you've stylishly told is your house was part of "the rich or upper middle class"
But seriously, what other job do you want a billionaire big-time generator importer to get? And you think he'd just fold his hands and allow it?

AllenSpencer:
Where is it then happening? Nigeria!

When did Colorado and Maine become a state in Nigeria?

*Politeness*
That's the whole point - it won't happen. Their SC will not allow it

happney65:
Yes,they should set their own prices.

However when they set their prices,they know they are the ones to fix transformers,power lines and availability of prepaid metres. We are not the ones to be doing anything related to electricity again except paying for it. And paying for it means we are getting 247 electricity.

If they can do that. No matter the amount they charge, we shall pay.

If they want to do like the GSM sector which is the right way,they have to do everything included

*Politeness*
Then how will these people survive:
Importers and sellers of generators, inverters, batteries,, solar panels, and all the repair and other industries attached to them??
So it's not as easy as it seems.
(I'm only being tongue-in-cheek. But some powerful interests don't want constant electricity)

*Politeness*
We all know what you'll do: you'll take care of your brother - because firstborns are generally incapable of putting themselves first. Then other needs will arise from him or other siblings and the cycle goes on. You are not going back to any school

BalogunIdowu:
Exactly!
You are not incorrect

*Politeness*
You mean I'm not incorrect less

Not in America. Nigeria, maybe. You cannot deny the people the opportunity to vote for someone

BalogunIdowu:
I do not agree less...
Working hard shouldn't be underrated at the expense of working smart!

*Politeness*
You do not agree less... meaning you agree with the statement??😆

accordadoga21:
Hehehe

Goodluck!!!

I stopped wearing wigs 5 years ago

*Politeness*
I stopped too but I must admit I'm so tempted to go back - a guy told me he thought he was in love with one girl till she took off her wig, she went from beautiful and classy to village girl in one second!

BabaHenry:
That was your own experience man
My own was never like that bro
Even though I was under anaesthesia, I saw things and for me to open my eyes and see myself in bondage says alot...
J struggled between life and death and for real, I thought I was in the afterlife..



NOTE: when I ask questions on why was I on chains, the Response was that my body was never calm during the surgery, though I was asleep,my eyes closed... I was struggling in the spirit and it actually got to my physical form...
Bro, I saw things

*Politeness*
That's why anesthesiologists get paid so much. It's an exact science. Too little and the patient won't be fully under. Too much and the patient will never wake up.
Done just right, the patient won't know any time had passed

SeeWahala:
Hahaha I hear you

So only the nigerian president appoints his own while those of other governments rise through their ranks abi?

Orisi risi somebody

*Politeness*
Nope. Nigeria copied the American system without having the elements that keep the president in check.
In US the president has the power but if he tries to use it he go explain tire. In Nigeria the president will use and overuse it with no explanation.
UK PM doesn't appoint military

SeeWahala:
Even in Niger and bukina Faso it was their respective ousted presidents that appointed the military generals that overthrew them

So what was your point again?

*Politeness*
Not true. They came up through the ranks. Different forms of government

SeeWahala:
Once it is confirmed that the judiciary is compromised then it is only natural for the military to take over government.

*Politeness*
The same military that Tinubu appointed all the heads, or another one?

flexydote:
If its not a fictional story then the man in question is dumb, sorry for my words.

I don't know when she got that said job, before or after she married you.

Now, a sharp man should know the company the wife is working with and the position she holds in that company or establishment and this will go a long way to give you insight of her earnings. You would have stopped her lies a long time ago but choose to truly believe what she tells you without consideration of simple facts.

I know it's a story Sha cause I noticed so many flaws in the writeup that's why I tagged the guy above me cause he mentioned some.

*Politeness*
Not only that, the difference between 35K and 655K is ridiculous. The composer should have made the initial salary 200K or so to be somewhat believable

FuckYeyeMods:
You think money is everything..
What if she truly love him.
The story sound made up though but it's a good story for men to ponder on.

*Politeness*
That type of person doesn't "truly love" like that. If she did she would have let him know she made lots of money, to raise her value to him.
Bottom line: she'd want to be with him but not DESPERATE.
Desperate would be if he were her sole source of income or biological clock running out!

ManOfMan:
I have no idea what you are saying

*Politeness*
Me neither, not at all😆

PussyPunisher:
Trust me there is nothing sweeter than pussy.

That hole between a lady's legs is the sweetest thing on earth.

If you disagree let us know

*Politeness*
Some my friends say good dick is sweeter
As a virgin I wouldn't know😎

*Politeness*
Ermm, there was no Israel till after WW2

advanceDNA:
I didn't imply anything.....u are the one jumping into conclusions.....
Breaking up will definitely lead to doing it all alone for a while....even if she will find a man later to start parasitizing...


U are speaking from an assuming point ...I am speaking from the context of this very woman....who is a very dangerously stingy woman ....a stingy woman with all the mone in the world, that cant even buy her own sanitary pad will always need a man to parasitize......

*Politeness*
Lol you are ridiculously stubborn😆. If you say someone will be doing it all alone - it immediately implies she'd not be able to get another helper.
Also, remember, a break-up does not absolve the husband of his responsibilities towards his children.
As for always need a man, this particular man now knows everything, plus has a grudge!

advanceDNA:
I never implied anything...u are the one saying what I didn't say and fallaciously claiming it's a male mentality.....


Becos u are too stingy to buy your own sanitary pad out of 600k plus ....how will u leave and start paying rent and bills?? Remember u are the most stingy person the world.??....u will rather take ur chances with the man u know will buy it after forgiving you for ur years of stingyness.....

Even if he doesn't buy the pads and everything...he will still pay rent and other major bills, so u will still save ur money u don't want to spend in the first place

*Politeness*
You implied she can't find another man with the circled below.
Once again, he'd now be thinking of that my 700K salary and at same time seeing me as a liar and monitoring. I will never be DESPERATE for such. A woman with money and her children is never desperate for a man!

Silentgroper:
Tf are you guys resurrecting a thread that is resting in peace for

Why not

dkidd:
Our society made them so

EXACTDOMUNDO!!!
Nlfpm this is a topic worth discussing

Anny69:
Fortunately, things are changing now.

Maybe a tiny little bit. Doesn't mean men's mindset have changed though

advanceDNA:
When did I say her husband is the only husband in the world?? Chatting with u is always weird....
Husbands are generally hard to find, especially responsible ones that will pay all ur bills including sanitary pad without being a billionaire.......... If u are the one at fault ,u will do well to salvage the marriage.....thats common sense, weda u have money to bankroll urself or u are stingy woman that won't even buy her own sanitary pad

*Politeness*
Oh we've chatted b4?? Well you clearly implied and took it for granted she'd not be able to find another man - typical male mentality. I may want him but not desperate. Why would I be DESPERATE to stay a with a man who'd now be going through my emails and monitoring me and thinking I owe him?

advanceDNA:
She has better odds staying with him...he will forget her offence over time and start doing his duty as man of the house ....and she will go back to her stingy ways but maybe buy herself a sanitary pad and do a few things in the house .....instead of breaking up and doing it all alone.....

You are assuming her husband is the only man in the world. Why do men have that mindset?? We are talking her being DESPERATE for him. It's even better for her to find a fresh unknowing man to milk, than someone who already knows EVERYTHING

matured:
HEY guys.
this has been bothering my mind.
I discover that a girl will like a boy but sometimes she wont express her mind and when the guys pass she will say to her friend "omo i dey trip for that guy oh"
Now The question is:why is it so difficult for our female folks to speak their mind to the guy they trip or love?

pls i want use to do justice to this question

DestinedForGrea:
Oh lol okay! I been dey surprised o.

(Another one from 2008 )

The reason is summarized below

DestinedForGrea:
Omo wetin you dey do wey you stumble upon 2008 thread? You must have spent a lot of time going through different threads.

*Politeness*
😆Nothing like that o. It simply appeared at bottom of a current thread (see below)

baloolaspo:
pls all the member in this site, advice on how to involve in loving people because ever since a girl that i LOVE break my heart i decided not to have a relation again, THEN I NOW WROTE A SCRIPT ABOUT LOVE AND THE SCRIPT WAS NAME, because I WAS DISAPPOINTED ON HER PLS ADVICE ME NOW FOR ME NOT NOT TO FALL INTO PIT AGAIN

*Politeness*
You posted this in 2008. This is 2024 (almost).
So, what happened?

Nazgul:
I don't believe this story. Reason being that the gap in the figures she gave to you as her salary and what her actual salary is was just too much.

You can't have a wife who earns such amount and wouldn't know unless you're an illiterate.

Knowing the name of the company where she works alone would make you know that there's no way such a company can pay their staffs 35k when it's not a private school.

It's like someone working who works in Microsoft Lagos telling you that they pay them 50k. You'll slap him cos you know that staffs there earn from 1m and above monthly.

Your story isn't realistic.

*Politeness*
We know 99.9% "true" stories on NL are embellished. But sometimes they overdo it, as you rightly pointed out

advanceDNA:
Sigh!! Why won't she be desperate?? Where will her stingy áss find another man to parasitize so she can spend her own money alone....someone that cannot by sanitary pad on her own with all her money...

*Politeness*
That's the whole point, she can no longer do any of that. If anything, she'll now be paying back the husband. We are talking about her being DESPERATE, not just merely wanting it. Infact her husband is "damaged goods" - he knows too much