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blazingblender:
You de kind social media
They fit do anything to trend

Abi no b lie you Tok bro

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How did you know dat she is His EX?

ChizzyBuna:
Who uploaded this video first

if it was America,
F.B.I would have caught this guys since...

Our police, na to collect #50 naira dem sabi.

And you think Nigeria can't do it what?

Failure

As if they are going to do anything to Dix people,
Wat they need is jox dea settlement and d deal is done,
No b Naija again?

Avoid unimportant people I'm ur life, know d type of people you call your friends.
For me, I don't hv any best friend, only classmates and Nothing much.
A friend can ruin ur life if you not carefull.
It is beta to stay alone dan being in a bad company
Rest in peace young man

Nothing to Tok bcox I don't take alcohol

They won kill presdo?

Burn Dem straight

Try Oraimo product

[quote author=RPG2020 post=114403766]Her husband nor dey fikifiki for abroad

When man got many girls he is the man but when woman do the same she is a hoe
Make I no Tok again

Na Dix Kain tin I dey like

Kidnapping priest's hv become another way of making quick money

Chaaaii
What if the husband hears Dix?

tosaino95:
Which table forget that one jàre.

Be calming down na today na Sunday oo
Shey U no go church nii

Among all the book's in the Bible, there must be the particular one you love so much.
For me I love the book of Proverbs, because it is full of knowledge and wisdom.
Tell us your favorite book and your reason's

Happy Sunday everyone!!!

AlphaAlex:
Always Have multiple options when it comes to women Look for a way to make this happen get some game do something to ensure you always have options.


There is a reason you don’t have one pair of shoes or one pair of boxers or any other clothing accessory Heck there’s a reason you don’t have only one pot or piece of cutlery in your House .
We are naturally predisposed as humans to want more than One of whatever we have it’s because it is necessary to always have more than one Even the poorest man on earth would love to have more than one pair of shoes assuming he has only one, So using this logic why should you have only one woman in your life at any point in time ?

If you have only one pair of anything all your life no matter how much you loved it at the beginning you will eventually wear it out and get tired of it and even be disgusted by it at one point so for you to be able to make it last longer for you ,you have to get another.
Just as you have different Shoes for different occasions you should also have different women for different occasions each one playing the role you have given to them as they should, you can have a Favourite (Girlfriend/Wife)Shoe but you cannot use that one shoe for every Task or Journey And rightly so as it is not designed for every task or journey you would decide to embark on as well it may not be available for said Journey. If you can understand this as it applies to both sexes you will live an easier Life

Options Are a Necessity For A man And he Must Exercise them women do this too when they need to but they will never Tell it’s their little secret.

On point (abundant mentality)

tosaino95:
You don talk the the truth and if someone doesn't agree with them.
E go turn to simp or troll

Comrade abeg stop shaking Dix table
As here de cool shey U no like am?

Martinez39s:
We have moved on, but I won't let you blatantly lie in that manner and get away with such nonsense. One love.

LIE?
Where did I lie ? pls correct me

Mtcheew
I tot He was in the park loading passengers?

No role model, but I love some personalities example Pete Edochie- for His wisdom and maturity, Christiano Ronaldo- for His hardworking and never quitting spirit, Wizkid- His gentleness and always minding His business Guacho Ronaldinho always smiling

Uka Agwula

The person above me is into business

As Dix Kain tin don happen to you, will you say jungle justice is bad?
I guess u know d answer now

Martinez39s:
You are a silly liar. Do you really think no one here remembers past events? I remember the event you are talking of, but you are twisting things and lying. You weren't a newbie at the time you asked about an issue with your girlfriend, and we were very familiar with you since you hung around for a long time. Your question was a very silly one and the answer should have been obvious given that you were not a new presence at the time.

Despite your silly question, redpillers simply asked you if you have read the thread from start to finish, and some concluded you were trolling given the question you asked and the fact that it had trashed severally and you were expected to know what's up. You picked serious offence and accused them of being harsh and insultive. The only guy who was lenient with you to explain things was accused by you of calling you a simp when he simply said that he had done worse than you during his simpish days. Mind you no one called you a simp. Rather than listen to him and others, you kept raising your shoulders claiming that you were redpiller who is sharp and make moves in the relationship.

You kept saying nonsense, acting unreasonably and refusing to take advice. It was then redpillers really concluded you were not a serious person. No one took you seriously at first when you tabled your girlfriend issue. This wasn't just because of your silly question, but because, before your girl friend issue, you were the very same person who had played silly games, taken us round circles and spoken unreasonably during the discussion about marriage and old age, remember?

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To see the kind of guy Polynèk is, first look at the discussion about marriage and old age which started HERE at page 1122 and ended around HERE (you can still read further to get few reactions).

After this came his silly question and subsequent silly responses about his girlfriend issue. This started HERE and ended in page 1157 (you can still read further to get few reactions).
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Some people are not just serious human beings. SMH.

As expected
Forget about the matter it is now a tin of past, na Tok dey bring Tok, let's move on
One love

CAPSLOCKED:
JUST ONCE, I LET DOWN MY GUARD, THAT ONCE CHANGED MY LIFE. I'LL GO FIRST. REALLY LENGTHY AND CAPSLOCKED!!!

I HAD THE PRIVILEGE OF ATTENDING AN ALL-BOYS HIGH SCHOOL. ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO MY LIFE. THE CONDITIONING WAS ON A DIFFERENT LEVEL. YOU HAVE THE MAJORITY OF US DOING THE SAME KIND OF THINGS AND BEHAVING IN A SIMILAR WAY. SOMEHOW, THE REDPILL TRAITS WAS IN ALL OF US. SEE, WE DISLIKED THE INTERNET AS TEENS, HOW MEN SIMPED FOR GIRLS ON SITES LIKE FACEBOOK AND ESKIMI. WE DIDN'T KNOW IT WAS "SIMPING" ACTUALLY, BUT WE CALLED IT IDIOCY TO BE CHASING WOMEN ON THE INTERNET AND BEGGING FOR ATTENTION FROM "WORTHLESS" WOMEN WE COULD LIVE WITHOUT. WE THOUGHT WE WERE DEMIGODS!! WE WOULDN'T EVEN ASK WOMEN OUT BECAUSE WE WERE STEADILY COMPETING WITH OURSELVES ON WHO LOOKS BETTER OR HAD BETTER GRADES. MY READERS WILL REMEMBER ME STATING SEVERALLY IN THE PAST THAT I DON'T HAVE ANY SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS. I DEACTIVATED THE LAST ONE IN 2010 BECAUSE I COULDN'T STAND THE PETTINESS. WE WERE SMALL BOYS THEN, AND WE EVENTUALLY LEARNED TO "HATE" GIRLS AND THE MEN THAT THREW THEMSELVES ON THE FLOOR BEGGING THEM FOR THINGS. WE BELIEVED IN RECIPROCATION OF GESTURES, AND ALSO IN EQUITY AND JUSTICE. PROBABLY WHY I IDENTIFIED AS A FENINIST IN 2011 WHEN I JOINED NL AND WAS PRO-FEMINISM BECAUSE I LIKE THE IDEA THAT PEOPLE SHOULD BE EQUAL, ESPECIALLY FOR THINGS LIKE EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY AND ACCOUNTABILITY.

HEADING TO TERTIARY SCHOOL MANY OF MY MEN MUST HAVE FELL OFF DUE TO NEW ENVIRONMENTS AND SOCIALISATION, BUT MY EGO WOULDN'T LET ME "SIMP". NOT FOR ONCE. I STILL HAVEN'T MESSAGED ANY "F" ON THE INTERNET TO DATE. I NEVER ASKED ANYBODY OUT. IF I REMEMBER CORRECTLY IN 5 YEARS OF COLLEGE I DIDN'T KEEP CONTACT OF UP TO 10 GIRLS, AND MAJORITY OF THESE WERE COURSE MATES AND GIRLFRIENDS. ZERO FEMALE FRIENDS. IF WE WEREN'T CONNECTED BY BUSINESS OR PLEASURE I WASN'T GOING TO SPEND ANYTIME TALKING TO YOU WHEN I COULD SPEND THAT TIME LEARNING BENEFICIAL SKILLS ON YOUTUBE. THIS BEHAVIOUR HELPED ME BECAUSE INSTEAD OF "SOCIALISING" OR CHIT-CHATTING I WAS BUILDING MYSELF ON THE INTERNET, AWAY FROM THE DISTRACTIONS. SAFE TO SAY THAT I'M ON THE LEVEL I AM TODAY BECAUSE OF THE LIFESTYLE I MAINTAINED DURING MY LATE TEENS.

IT WAS IN MY 3RD YEAR THAT I STARTED DATING, AND IT WAS THE WOMEN WHO CHOSE ME. IT WAS EASIER LIKE THIS BECAUSE THE WAY I CARRIED MYSELF, ONLY QUALITY GIRLS APPROACHED ME. THINGS LIKE LEECHES AND SCRAP WOMEN, I ONLY READ ABOUT ON THE INTERNET OR HEARD FROM FRIENDS' EXPERIENCES. MY GIRLS ALWAYS TREATED ME LIKE I WAS SOME PRIZE AND ACTUALLY INVESTED A LOT, BECAUSE I WAS FINE AND KNEW HOW TO DRESS AND TALK, OR JUST MAYBE BECAUSE I WAS CHOSEN. I NEVER SIMPED FOR ONCE. CAME FROM A GOOD FAMILY AND WAS SELF-SUFFICIENT TO AN EXTENT, SO THERE WAS NO WAY IN THE WORLD THAT I WOULD PUT MY PRIDE ASIDE TO DO AS MUCH BEG GIRLS FOR ATTENTION OR AFFECTION, OR SPEND A DIME ON THEM UNLESS WE WERE HAVING A THING. THERE WERE EMOTIONS AND HEARTBREAKS IN ALL THOSE YEARS THOUGH. NO MATTER HOW I PACKAGED MYSELF I STILL FELT WHAT THEY DESCRIBED AS "LOVE", BUT LETTING MYSELF DOWN EMOTIONALLY WAS NEVER IN THE BOOKS.

YEARS AFTER GRADUATING, NEARING 30, I THOUGHT I WAS GETTING MORE MATURED AND PERHAPS IT WAS TIME TO LISTEN TO FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND START PLANNING TOWARDS "SETTLING DOWN". I DECIDED THAT TELEVISION ROMANCE WAS WORTH EMULATING. BY THIS TIME I STARTED TO READ ABOUT TRP ON THE FORUM, BUT I DIDN'T PAY ATTENTION TO DETAILS CUZ I FELT THESE WEREN'T CONCERNING ME. ASIDES THAT IT SOUNDS TOO HARSH ON WOMEN, MAJORITY OF WHAT'S SAID WERE THINGS I ALREADY KNEW (SO I THOUGHT). SO I MET A YOUNGER COLLEAGUE AND AS USUAL WITH MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS, I WAS CHOSEN. OR IT SEEMED LIKE IT. THE "SHIT TESTS" STARTED ALMOST IMMEDIATELY BUT THE DESPERATION FOR LOVE AND "OUR" INTENTION TO SETTLE DOWN MADE ME THROW FRAME AWAY INTO THE DEEPEST OCEANS. MY G. HOW LOW I WENT, I'M SURE MY ANCESTORS WANTED ME TO DIE FASTER AND COME MEET THEM IN THE AFTERLIFE SO THEY CAN GANG-UP AND BEAT ME TO DEATH A SECOND TIME.

I STOPPED BODY BUILDING CUZ SHE DIDN'T LIKE IT AND MY SPARE TIME WAS CHANNELS TO HER. I STOPPED DRESSING AS FIRE AS I USED TO. STRICTLY "FAMILY MAN" THING NOW. CUT OUT ANY FEMALE PRESENCE IN MY LIFE AND STOPPED HANGING OUT WITH THE BOYS. I THREW AWAY A US VISA CHANCE BECAUSE I DIDN'T WANT TO BE FAR FROM HER. MIND THAT ALL THOSE TIMES I FOLLOWED THE THREADS OF MARTINEZ39S (AND UBUNJA) BECAUSE WE'VE BEEN CONNECTED ON NL FOR ALMOST A DECADE SO I MUST SEE EVERY POST, BUT I DON'T CONTRIBUTE. I THOUGHT I HAD THIS ONE UNDER CONTROL BECAUSE I WANTED TO DO "WHAT'S RIGHT". I DID NOT ONLY SUCCUMB TO HER PRESSURE FOR MARRIAGE, I STARTED WORKING 2X MORE AS WELL IN ORDER TO HASTEN UP. HASTEN UP TO WHAT EXACTLY? IF YOU ASK ME NOW I SWEAR I DON'T EVEN KNOW.

SUBSEQUENTLY I TOOK SECOND PLACE BETWEEN US AND EVENTUALLY DECLINED TO BEING THE STRING HOLDING US DESPITE THAT SHE WANTED OUT MANY TIMES. I'D BEG TO CONTINUE. THIS MEANT MORE INVESTMENTS FROM ME AND ALMOST NOTHING FROM HER. I HAD A JOB OFFER THAT I SNEAKED HER NAME IN TO MAKE HER HAPPY. I STILL MADE MORE THAN HER BUT THE NATURE OF THIS NEW JOB MEANT SHE STARTED TO ROLL WITH HIGHER CALIBRE OF PEOPLE. IT WAS A BIG ORGANISATION, AND I LOST IT ALL AFTER THEN. I CONTINUED TO FUND HER LIFESTYLE. I MEAN, WHY WOULDN'T I FUND MY FIANCEE? THE PRESSURE GOT OFF LIMIT AND IT STARTED TO BE CALLS WITH MANY MEN AND OUTINGS WITH HER "BIG GIRLS". CHEATING NECESSARILY WASN'T CALLED IN AT THIS POINT BUT IT WAS CLEAR SHE WAS IN A HIGHER LEAGUE. ON ONE OF THOSE DAYS I LOOKED MYSELF IN THE MIRROR AND COMPARED WITH THE MAN I WAS YEARS BACK IN COLLEGE. THE DIFFERENCES WERE CLEAR ENOUGH. BUT WE WERE GONNA GET MARRIED, RIGHT? WE'VE LASTED TWO YEARS AND I WAS LOOSING MY MIND. SO I WENT BACK TO MY OG MARTINEZ39S AND ACTUALLY PAID ATTENTION TO ALL THAT HE'S BEEN SAYING OVER THE YEARS. IT DIDN'T TAKE LONG FOR COMMON SENSE TO GET BACK TO ME BECAUSE I REALISED EXACTLY THE POINT I FELL OFF AND ALL THAT I'VE BEEN DOING COMPLETELY WRONGLY OVER THE YEARS. I MOVED BACK TO MY GIRL AND INFORMED HER OF MY REALISATION, AND THAT TO BE HONEST SHE WAS PRIVILEGED TO HAVE A QUALITY PERSON LIKE ME IN HER LIFE. I TOLD HER THAT I'VE SPENT 90% OF THE TIME "BEGGING" TO KEEP US GOING BUT LOOKING AT US FROM A NEUTRAL VIEW SHE WASN'T EVEN QUALIFIED TO WORK FOR ME AS A MAID. JUST READING THROUGH THREADS, LIKE MAGIC, MY EYES OPENED OVERNIGHT AND I DIDN'T STOP CRYING BECAUSE, "WHAT THE HELL WAS I DOING"?. I WAS MAD THAT I BECAME A SHADOW OF MYSELF. NO GOOD THINGS, NO INVESTMENTS, NO SAVINGS BECAUSE I WAS TAKING CARE OF FIANCEE WITH ALL I EARNED. I TOLD HER THAT I KNEW ABOUT HYPERGAMY AND WHAT WAS COMING AND DESPITE THAT SHE WAS ASKING TO CONTINUE AND SWEARING IT'LL ALWAYS BE ME, I KNEW AWALT AND THERE WAS NO WAY THIS WHOLE THING WASN'T A HUGE MESS ALREADY CUZ THERE WAS NO FRAME TO MY IMAGE.

I ENDED UP DOWNGRADING MYSELF TO UPGRADE HER (BECAUSE OF LOVE). SHE EVENTUALLY STARTED FALLING FOR UPGRADED MEN. IT DIDN'T TAKE A WEEK AFTER THAT EPISODE FOR ME TO FIND OUT SHE STARTED SEEING A COLLEAGUE OF HERS. A GUY THAT I KNEW PERSONALLY. HE EARNED LESS THAN I DID BUT WAS SUPER-POLISHED AND LOOKED LIKE HE WAS EVERYTHING A WOMAN WOULD EVER WANT. HE WAS BUILDING HIMSELF. I WAS BUILDING MY WOMAN. SHE WAS FALLING FOR THE MAN THAT WAS BUILDING HIMSELF.

THE MOMENT I REALISED THAT, I LET HER KNOW WHAT I FOUND OUT. SHE CAME DOING THE CROCODILE TEARS BUT I WAS LAUGHING ALL THROUGH THE EPISODE BECAUSE I WAS FOLLOWING THESE NAIRALAND THREADS BUMPER TO BUMPER AND EVERYTHING THEY PREDICTED WAS WHAT I WAS EXPERIENCING. IT WAS FUNNY ALL THE DRAMA SHE PUT UP, ALL THE LIES AND PLEADINGS, BEFORE EVENTUALLY OWNING UP. I DIDN'T EVEN PROVIDE MYSELF TO LISTEN ALL HER NONSENSE BECAUSE I WANTED HER TO BE GONE ASAP WITH THE TWO YEARS I HAVE WASTED. INSTEAD OF GETTING ANGRY AND CRYING/FIGHTING ABOUT IT OR DESTROYING THE HOUSE I RENTED AND FURNISHED FOR HER, I WENT BACK TO THE DRAWING BOARD IMMEDIATELY CUZ I NEEDED TO PICK MYSELF UP FROM WHERE I FELL. I WAS STARK POOR BECAUSE OF THIS PERSON. HER BIGGEST EXCUSE WAS THAT I DIDN'T LOOK LIKE I COULD CARTER FOR HER IN THE FUTURE AND I WAS WASTING TIME WITH THE MARRIAGE SHE DESPERATELY WANTED. BUT THEN I WAS DROWNING BECAUSE I SPENT 70% OF ALL I HAD TAKING CARE OF HER??!. SHE SPENT THE NEXT 6 MONTHS TEXTING ME BUT I HARDLY READ THEM OR BOTHERED TO REPLY. IT WAS RELIEVING FOR ME AT LEAST. COUNTED MY LOSSES IMMEDIATELY AND WENT BACK TO MY NATURAL POSITION. IN THE NEXT 6 MONTHS I WENT FROM BEING ON ZEROS TO MOVING MY NET WORTH ALMOST 100X BECAUSE I STOPPED THROWING MY MONEY AWAY, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, I PAID MORE ATTENTION TO BUSINESSES AND BUILT BACK ALL THE CONNECTIONS I BROKE OR FAILED TO BUILD BECAUSE I WAS BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP.

IT'S BEEN 3 YEARS SINCE THAT TIME. THE ONES THAT HAVE COME AND GONE MET ME REFINED, LEFT AND I WAS EVEN BETTER BECAUSE EVERY STEP OF THE WAY I INVEST IN MYSELF AND PRIORITISE MYSELF AND ALL MY ENDEAVOURS. JUST ONCE I DECIDED TO DROP GUARD, IT ALMOST COST ME MY SANITY. THE LESSONS FROM THAT SINGULAR EXPERIENCE WAS ENOUGH TO JUSTIFY HOW I WAS LIVING PRIOR, AND WILL BE ENOUGH TO LAST THE REST OF MY LIFETIME. IT'S RIDICULOUS HOW MOST MEN GO THROUGH THINGS LIKE THAT NUMEROUS TIMES AND STILL CONTINUE TO LIVE LIKE FØØLS.

I TRIED BEING A "REAL MAN" ONCE. YOU TOO CAN SEE FROM MY ORDEAL, THE AMOUNT OF LOSSES IT BROUGHT ME. SO TAKE THAT I'M SPEAKING FROM MY EXPERIENCE AND THE EXPERIENCES OF MANY OTHER MEN WHENEVER I URGE MEN, ESPECIALLY THE YOUNGER ONES TO PRIORITISE THEMSELVES AND NEVER PLAY THE "REAL MAN" ROLE. IT ONLY PAYS WOMEN AND SUPPLIES YOU AN ENDLESS STREAM OF LOSSES.

Nice Bro, this is very educating i must say. More of this is encouraged

Even 3rd position, they won't see
Nigeria football is gone

CAPSLOCKED:
ARE YOU SURE? I'VE FACED THE HIGHEST CRITICISM BY MILES IN THAT REGARD BOTH HERE AND ON OTHER THREADS BY STRANGERS WHO MENTION ME THERE REGARDING THE THINGS I SAY HERE.
WHAT YOU'RE SAYING IS TRUE. BUT THE RULES WILL CHANGE HENCEFORTH. ONE SNIDE REMARK TO A PERSON'S PERSONAL ESCAPADE AND WE'LL TREAT THAT PERSON LIKE WE TREAT TROLLS.

MY INBOX IS ALSO OPEN FOR ANYONE TO ANONYMOUSLY SHARE AN ISSUE THAT I'LL PRESENT HERE. THINGS HAVE TO CHANGE AROUND HERE, FOR MORE THAN HALF THE MEN READING THIS ARE SUFFERING AND DYING IN SILENCE WITHOUT KNOWING HOW TO ASK FOR HELP.

Thank you for acknowledging that what i said is true.
Am a working student, I blv we all know how student environment looks like, I stay in midst of women everyday of my life, both in d working place and in d lecture Hall, I hv encountered many tinx via woman, but if I start Sharing it here, a lot of people will call me names, so I hv to keep my experience to my self, bcox d only time I tried to do dat here I regreted it, bcox they treated me like a troll including you, Martinez and Mr Luminous, I can't remember others tho.
We hv to change our mindset and see ourselves as students so dat we can encourage others dat made mistake, instead of seeing ourselves as masters of the game.
Good morning Bro and hv a nice day.
One love
I come peace.