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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Realhommie(m): 9:55am On Apr 07, 2021
iamyemiakins:
When I realised she saved my number with Honourable, I no know the constituency wey I represent
Hahahahaha...
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by AwesomeStormy00(m): 10:03am On Apr 07, 2021
Yes oooo bros accept and move on. Thank you for sharing your experience, I i bet few guys or others have experience similar or worst.

Anything that cant kill us do make us stronger. Am glad your shared it and i can tell you are laughing above it now grin grin. God help us fron daughters of jezebel.

SaintAlbert53:

Thanks bro, People's got lot of experiences.. I have experienced mine and its left for me to let it eat me up or just accept it and move on..
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by ridwanlawal: 10:03am On Apr 07, 2021
kkinternet:
Lol..when she said can we be friends?? After 5 years in a relationship....Damn grin
Or five years of dating yourself

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:04am On Apr 07, 2021
RexTramadol1:
Omolewa it may not be well with her again





After my tfare, she just ghosted me online
At least you learn small from daughters of Jezebel now



I kept wondering where I was wrong.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by jaxxy(m): 10:05am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

Lol yea exactly. Bro, let me tell you something, when this all happened i was in my finals in school, she was already a graduate two years ahead of me. She just couldn't wait for me to finish, serve and then get a better job to start a better family. She wanted the best for herself, you know all those plans when preparing to go to camp thingy.
She played her role the best way to her, she isn't regretting letting me go bro. No one wants to associate with a destitute, but soon i am very much sure she'd regret it in no time.
I can never in my life hurt her or pay her back in return lolz.

Gals can be insecure and nobody wants to loose. From ur explanation now I can understand her mindset and it’s a difficult position for any gal to be honest. So many unknowns with u and she meets sm1 who she thinks she has better chances of seeing a future at the time, both are gambles bt one looks easier and she picked it. It may work or backfire bt that’s part of life experiences. She may learn and know the flashy stuff was fake and come back to the real. It all depends.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:07am On Apr 07, 2021
uniqueboi1:
E dn tey NYSC dae chop people GFs o cheesy cheesy grin cheesy
Bad boy
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:09am On Apr 07, 2021
Oyerinde16:
Everyone in the area knew me with this babe, we were the toast of town, many guys that approached d babe before me, but were turned down de beef me, until i began to notice guys were talking behind, not letting me know whats up, one day i visit club meet my babe de drink beer with anoda guy... she sha introduced me as friends, omo i wan sink, i sha browse steady for like 2 months Dec 25th 2015 was the parting browsing, she married the other guy 6 months later....
Atleats you have browse grin
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by lalasticlala(m): 10:10am On Apr 07, 2021
sapphiere:
I reject it for you lalasticlala. No power will make you breakup. Go in prayer sir.
Any power planning to scatter your home will not succeed IJN.
Divorce is not your portion IJN Amen.

Thanks dear. It's not about my home just a topic for discussion.

The Future is Female grin
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:10am On Apr 07, 2021
AlphamaleTech1:
I caught her receiving Doggy from another I never thought it was over...but when she started screaming the guys name instead of mine, I knew I had to give up.

cry cry cry cry cry cry
Hahah daughter of jazabel

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SweetCunt97(f): 10:19am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

it's a great lesson learnt, she was the best girl in the world, she never loved anyone else but me, she was damn faithful to me before she left for service, but i could see the anxiety in her when she was preparing to leave for camp.
She actually got there and the kind of friends she rolled with there immediately were slayers who didn't come to play but to cash out..
Do you know i can't love anymore..? I see ladies as my fellow guys now honestly, no matter the beauty or the mesmerizing charming attributes in them, I end up breaking the heart of all the ladies that comes my way now. The fall so much in love with me after a week of meeting me, then i become scared and zoom I don start to dey ignore all of the girl's calls or messages. I don't have any soft spot for women anymore and I honestly hate this, it's destroying my life.
She loved you and was faithful cos that love was still in its safe zone. Ordinary camp she done throwaway u. Baba she never loved u. You men mistake availability for love. When one overcome temptations and still stay true, then u can call it love.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SweetCunt97(f): 10:21am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

it's a great lesson learnt, she was the best girl in the world, she never loved anyone else but me, she was damn faithful to me before she left for service, but i could see the anxiety in her when she was preparing to leave for camp.
She actually got there and the kind of friends she rolled with there immediately were slayers who didn't come to play but to cash out..
Do you know i can't love anymore..? I see ladies as my fellow guys now honestly, no matter the beauty or the mesmerizing charming attributes in them, I end up breaking the heart of all the ladies that comes my way now. The fall so much in love with me after a week of meeting me, then i become scared and zoom I don start to dey ignore all of the girl's calls or messages. I don't have any soft spot for women anymore and I honestly hate this, it's destroying my life.
The essence of a relationship is marriage so bloody wait until you ready for marriage before going into one.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by CutieMya(f): 10:23am On Apr 07, 2021
He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later he both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life.
lalasticlala:
What's the coldest way you found out your relationship was over?

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by CutieMya(f): 10:24am On Apr 07, 2021
CutieMya:
He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later we both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by extol1(m): 10:26am On Apr 07, 2021
Petriaa:
Do you know me before I'm sure you mistake me for someone else.
well just tell us your own version. hope you are good
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by extol1(m): 10:30am On Apr 07, 2021
CutieMya:
He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later he both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life.
eeya very painful. I can relate
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by AHCB: 10:32am On Apr 07, 2021
lalasticlala:


Thanks dear. It's not about my home just a topic for discussion.

The Future is Female grin
Even lala doesn't believe The Future is Female. How nice.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Hassanmaye(m): 10:35am On Apr 07, 2021
Nonexistent:
Brother mi, I dey smoke my weed and just dey reason your comment. I don't do married women so in this case, I will do everything to fucck his daughter or sister silly and make sure he finds out.
why don't you do married women?
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by josite: 10:37am On Apr 07, 2021
1stHooligan:
She went for NYSC and never looked back. I don't much blame her but I hope she never finds what she's looking for.

She left with a part of me I am trying to get back


she is now happily married.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SweetCunt97(f): 10:40am On Apr 07, 2021
Otunbalai:
..

I like the sound of that....
Abi naw. No time
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Petriaa(f): 10:41am On Apr 07, 2021
extol1:

well just tell us your own version. hope you are good
Well what if I don't have any to share
and I've been the one breaking a few hearts but gently sha.

yeah I'm good
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 10:42am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

Lol yea exactly. Bro, let me tell you something, when this all happened i was in my finals in school, she was already a graduate two years ahead of me. She just couldn't wait for me to finish, serve and then get a better job to start a better family. She wanted the best for herself, you know all those plans when preparing to go to camp thingy.
She played her role the best way to her, she isn't regretting letting me go bro. No one wants to associate with a destitute, but soon i am very much sure she'd regret it in no time.
I can never in my life hurt her or pay her back in return lolz.

Alaye,e don do na

All these lovey dovey stories don Taya us na...u can't hurt her, but she hurt you. You still love her but she doesn't love you. She broke your heart and now you break innocent girls' hearts. You are chasing a shadow that has long passed. And you are still acting like she is the best meal after sliced bread.

Wake that fuq up hommie. That girl doesn't love you. If she does, her age, status or anxiety to get married won't just make her leave you 2 weeks into NYSC camp. Can't you get it? She already made up her mind to leave you. I always wonder why men say'she says I'm the only and one and she will die if I leave her' bullcrap. What else will she say to convince you na? Ogun or Thunder will faya you or I hate you? They tell you what you wanna hear to calm you down. A woman's words are severely vetted before belief and even at that,it's their actions that you need to focus on,not their words.

Stop hurting innocent girls' whose only sin was loving you because your ex hurt you na. Where is the sense in that? I'd rather hurt that little cheat but hey she is so peeeerrrrrfeccctoooo that you can't even take revenge abi?

Better realise that with women, you are either Mr Alpha or Uncle Redpill or you are just the MEAL.


Damn!!! I'm tired of talking. I just can't save everyone.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Xenry: 10:43am On Apr 07, 2021
spiceadole:
I was 22.
3rd year in medical school.
I had my first boyfriend.
He was about 32,a resident doctor in the university teaching hospital.

I thought I had found love... Finally.

He started pressurising me for sex barely a week we started dating.
I wasn't ready.. I was a virgin and wanted to maintain myself that way till after wedding.

3 months later, I thought he was for real.. and I gave in.

I grew to love and adore him.
Spent my little spare time in his house, cooking and cleaning.

I spent Christmas and New year with him..He drove me to the airport that morning and I travelled home to my parents.

Next thing,he stopped picking my calls,or calling me.
He barely responded to my messages.

He gave excuses as being too busy at work.
I returned from home and he wouldn't see me ..
Continued same way for about 2 weeks.

Then,I visited him unannounced .

He told me he was no longer interested.

He never loved me...He was sorry for everything.

That his friends made him place a bet about sleeping with me since I was too reserved and proving to be too decent,not involved with anybody within university and hospital environs.

He went on to say he was supposed to show them videos of our knackings and my nude pix...but he found out I was indeed decent and didn't do it.

He had somebody he wanted to marry from his tribe(Yoruba).


That broke me!

That I didn't commit suicide was a miracle.

It took me 4 years before I had another relationship , after graduation...and I made sure
Sex was never involved.

Instead,I watched porn and masturbated in my closet to relieve sexual tension.


I dated 2 more guys .. Got married to the last one(a colleague too) and we relocated to the UK.

Wherever you are,I hold nothing against you,ADEKUNLE

I am thankful your act shaped me.
You people are not called DEMONS for no reasons.
I learnt how to close my legs and place value on my body.





Some people are naturally wicked to the extent of playing games with someone's body, Nawao! Well, thank God say u learnt ur lessons — even though u learnt it the hard way.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 10:46am On Apr 07, 2021
spiceadole:
I was 22.
3rd year in medical school.
I had my first boyfriend.
He was about 32,a resident doctor in the university teaching hospital.

I thought I had found love... Finally.

He started pressurising me for sex barely a week we started dating.
I wasn't ready.. I was a virgin and wanted to maintain myself that way till after wedding.

3 months later, I thought he was for real.. and I gave in.

I grew to love and adore him.
Spent my little spare time in his house, cooking and cleaning.

I spent Christmas and New year with him..He drove me to the airport that morning and I travelled home to my parents.

Next thing,he stopped picking my calls,or calling me.
He barely responded to my messages.

He gave excuses as being too busy at work.
I returned from home and he wouldn't see me ..
Continued same way for about 2 weeks.

Then,I visited him unannounced .

He told me he was no longer interested.

He never loved me...He was sorry for everything.

That his friends made him place a bet about sleeping with me since I was too reserved and proving to be too decent,not involved with anybody within university and hospital environs.

He went on to say he was supposed to show them videos of our knackings and my nude pix...but he found out I was indeed decent and didn't do it.

He had somebody he wanted to marry from his tribe(Yoruba).


That broke me!

That I didn't commit suicide was a miracle.

It took me 4 years before I had another relationship , after graduation...and I made sure
Sex was never involved.

Instead,I watched porn and masturbated in my closet to relieve sexual tension.


I dated 2 more guys .. Got married to the last one(a colleague too) and we relocated to the UK.

Wherever you are,I hold nothing against you,ADEKUNLE

I am thankful your act shaped me.
You people are not called DEMONS for no reasons.
I learnt how to close my legs and place value on my body.






Will you please stop calling my name upandan? undecided

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by josite: 10:50am On Apr 07, 2021
Leetika:
Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .

Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .

This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip to Enugu last December , said it was her job people taking her there and it’s by flight. And I should send her money to buy stuffs. I did but I wasn’t comfortable With it. I did not know they went to knack my girl in Enugu.. and I went to pick her back from the airport after dem don knack her.. the so called virgin wasn’t a virgin after all . I broke up . I put it to her that she cheated but this girl swore with her life that she didn’t for some reasons I could not show her my evidence.

I got nothing against u .. but u got a habit of chasing corpers posted in your office. How your wife doesn’t know u re cheating on her baffles me. I don let the girl go . Chop her. Na small thing make me change my mind do wetin my guys wan do u and that girl together. The. U know the debt is paid

i am mr arinze. are the corpers in issue adults?,i didnt even know u so i could not have intended to hurt you in any way.since my wife has not got to know about my escapades,why dont u give the info to her.if the adult corpers are not complaining ,who are u to complain.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Petriaa(f): 10:54am On Apr 07, 2021
CutieMya:
He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later he both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life.
So sad it will get better just go out there and live your life to the fullest.
One thing is no matter how intense the love seems always try to invest in yourself outside the relationship.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Gentlebuka(m): 10:55am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

Honestly, it isn't a Joke. This whole shit turned me into a Playboy automatically and a masturbator which i have been affected negatively. I know because i don't Love anymore.
If you wanna quit masturbation, I can help you out
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:05am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

pretty right sir. Thank God it happened earlier.
She was in the church, a devoted protocol and also a prayer warrior. She never had the chance to explore actually, she was the best girl in the world, she became wild when she left for camp. She actually got what she must have been praying for, to be free and live her life to the fullest. My brother one of the lessons i actually learnt from it is that MONEY rules.
If you ain't bouyant financially to settle the enormous wants of your woman, another man will penetrate into her with the so called money.

Your last paragraph is so wrong. So you use money to settle a woman's enormous needs? shocked

That's a wrong mindset. Because it shows she is all for the money. What kinda prayer warrior is that?

You can never use money to buy a woman's love,just her attention. A woman who can't work for her own money but depends on a man is a leech. She doesn't deserve me 100%. That's why I never use money to start off relationships. I never do it.

Shows she was pretending to be good all the while na. Look bro, people don't change that drastically,they just manifest their innermost desires,that's all.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:09am On Apr 07, 2021
CutieMya:
He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later he both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life.

So how is your relationship life now? You hooked up yet? wink
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by sheriffindy(m): 11:09am On Apr 07, 2021
placeofallure:
No experiences to share. Never been heartbroken, I always do the leaving.
if you say so...but i dont think so.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Amwitty(f): 11:11am On Apr 07, 2021
iamyemiakins:
When I realised she saved my number with Honourable, I no know the constituency wey I represent
Hhaahahahahaha this is the funniest thing I have seen since on Sunday oh my God. HONOURABLE grin grin grin grin grin
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:12am On Apr 07, 2021
josite:


i am mr arinze. are the corpers in issue adults?,i didnt even know u so i could not have intended to hurt you in any way.since my wife has not got to know about my escapades,why dont u give the info to her.if the adult corpers are not complaining ,who are u to complain.

Arinze my guy. How far? grin

Oya link me up with one job in Abuja oh. grin

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