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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by mysticwarrior(m): 7:06am On Jun 25, 2021
Kambilly99:
Men are insatiable bastards stupid gender
including your Father.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by AbujaCitiBlog: 7:06am On Jun 25, 2021
HonNL:


Brenda Ataga, Usifo Ataga and Chidinma Ojukwu, the side chick



Michael Usifo Ataga and his wife Brenda Ataga


Michael Usifo Ataga and his side chick Chidinma Ojukwu


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Even Jay Z cheated on Beyonce!
There are three elements here, the man, the woman and our society.

1, The man: Cheating in this scenario has a lot to do( about 70%) with the man in this instance. Being unsatisfied with his wife's emotional companionship is not an excuse. If he was tired of her emotional incompatibility, he should have divorced her or on her permission get a second wife. The truth is most men are not emotionally and sexually compatible with their wives. If a man with high libido marries a woman with low to zero libido, the marriage will suffer mercilessly from side chicks. The better balance is A high libido man to a mid libido woman. These days either for economic reasons or family pressures, most men and women embark on relationships without compatibility. So, a man should ensure he only marries a woman he has some sort of compatibility with. No excuses though.


2, The Woman: Most women do not put premium efforts in the emotional and sexual well-being of their husbands. They don't feel sexy, do not feel the need to make serious efforts to be attracted to their husbands. They are two career concious. On, the case of Jay-Z and Beyonce I mentioned earlier, there was a viral picture of the two sometime back, I think they were holidaying somewhere and he was posing with her holding her waist and looking very bored! Yes Jay-Z was looking so bored in that picture that people noticed and commented about it. Imagine that. It can only mean one thing. The bedroom has become extremely boring and Jay-Z was tired and bored. Then looking at the bereaved woman's achievements careerwise, it is quite clear that she is a busy woman, maybe even engaging in side dude hustle of her own with her bosses in Abuja. Who knows? Bottom line a lot of gorgeous women in photos are extremely boring in bed. I place 20% of the blame on her.

3, Our Society: In recent times, we have developed a kind of accommodating attitude to adultery. Even Religious leaders no longer openly and consistently condemn it. This is the result. We celebrate young girls with no sources of livelihood who are sudden millionaires. We welcome them to high profile events, Religious gatherings with praise. And yet everyone knows that most of those girls are high class prostitutes sleeping with the rich and super rich married men! These prostitutes now become a role model for younger girls who now look up to them as the gold standard for success! That is why almost every single girl in Nigeria is dating a married man. That's the bitter truth!

The society gets 10% of the blame.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by IranianSea: 7:06am On Jun 25, 2021
murphyibiam15:

Don't cheat on her still, you may not live to tell the story
Forget that talk. Well, if the risk is too dangerous to take after given it a serious thought then i may marry another wife to make them two. No government against that.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Rilley(m): 7:06am On Jun 25, 2021
Kambilly99:
Men are insatiable bastards stupid gender
I guess that includes your father too? look at this fake account that just registered recently with someone's picture

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by sonofElElyon: 7:07am On Jun 25, 2021
HonNL:


Brenda Ataga, Usifo Ataga and Chidinma Ojukwu, the side chick



Michael Usifo Ataga and his wife Brenda Ataga


Michael Usifo Ataga and his side chick Chidinma Ojukwu


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Why is this opinion credited to his family
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by charixel: 7:07am On Jun 25, 2021
Authoreety:
Many things but most especially, no fear of God.

Don't generalize... If you wear the shoes of those married to career ladies or women you will understand better.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Willdone5406: 7:07am On Jun 25, 2021
THE WIFE IS A PROFESSIONAL/CAREER WOMAN, SHE WOUNT HAVE ENOUGH TIME FOR THE MAN. ASK THOSE MEN THAT MARRIED A CAREER WOMAN TO TELL YOU THEIR SEX EXPERIENCE.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Romanoff(f): 7:07am On Jun 25, 2021
helpee:
you don't need to hope . She was probably dating all those ministers before. That the husband was caught does not make the woman a saint. She was probably fucking all over Abuja too. By the way, the man may probably not see this career woman for two months....most men will cheat anyway so nobody should blame him for cheating. Blame the evil woman that killed him. Bottom line is that it is someone like the wife....another woman that killed him.

Is there no chance at all that she wasn't cheating on her husband?
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Casham: 7:07am On Jun 25, 2021
Kambilly99:
Men are insatiable bastards stupid gender
I know! But it is a human thing. I am tired of reading all these gender war on Social media. We are one race. If men cheat, who do they cheat with? I also ask the same of men: if all Nigerian girls are useless, where did all the men come from? The world is rotten as a whole.
Back to the post. Not trying to rationalize cheating, but there's more to sex than just physical beauty. I have NEVER cheated on a partner my whole life, but I understand the desire to fuk another person. Life is not always black and white. In fact, it is never black or white; e no just balance kawai. I believe in self-discipline. But not everyone can be that virtous. Duniyar rumfar kara ce!
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by mysticwarrior(m): 7:07am On Jun 25, 2021
olibeans:


I don't buy the story of the side chick stabbing the deceased twice at different times on the neck because of rough sex only to go withdraw less than a million naira.

The Nigeria Police is not telling Nigerians the true story of what really happened.


tell us what you believed happened?
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by helpee(m): 7:07am On Jun 25, 2021
gift4nature:
talks like this piss me the hell off. Is it now women that doesn't have the urge. Let's give ourselves brain abeg.
And who says women no dey Bleep about. Who told you the wife was not fucking all those ministers she was working with in Abuja or even a younger guy. That the husband was caught does not make the woman a saint. Abeg leave this innocent man. Blame the evil girl that killed him. He may even be planning to have a second wife since the wife is not available and it is not a sin in our culture. Stop blaming him for doing something most people...both men and women are doing

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by afesco: 7:08am On Jun 25, 2021
Sanchez01:
In all of this, I feel for the woman the most. Getting to see her name and probably pictures on the news and almost on every online blogging platform in Nigeria just because you got married to a loose cannon who isn't only a chain smoker but also a dopehead.

Not trying to justify why he did what he did but I believe it wasn't because the wife was unavailable as suggested by someone above. He probably wanted someone "on his level" — someone who smokes and do drugs like he does. It is weird but I consider a 21-year old as still very young and having to die by the hands of one is just not a story the wife and his own family would want to replay a few months from now.
The best comment I have seen in a long time.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Bahamas95(m): 7:08am On Jun 25, 2021
It's not about having a beautiful wife, the thing is inbuilt. We are insatiable when it comes to women, we love to explore....The problem is that most men can't just control their konji.

I heard Jay Z once cheated on Beyonce, is she not pretty? ....Even me I have a very pretty girlfriend but whenever I see some girls in school this stup!d konji will arise and I always resist the urge cos I don't wanna break her heart.....She did what she vowed not to do for me cos of love and I can't let her down.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by crafteck(m): 7:09am On Jun 25, 2021
Do you know if her boss de fcmb her, do you think faithfulness comes cos of beauty, do you know if she sabi in bed, do you know if her attitude de ok, her countenance towards her husband nko... Most importantly. DOES SHE GIVE HEAD.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by cloud(m): 7:10am On Jun 25, 2021
chronique:
Just look at the impressive cv of the wife. The kind of cv I would be proud of in a partner. To now think he left this one and went to be moving around with a 300 level student that has not even finished school? If you even want to cheat, cheat in your circle; not with someone below your circle.
truth is apart from admiring the beauty in any woman, men want to be the dominant specie, they want to be loved and respected. It's not about how successful his spouse is, or what she has achieved, because in the long run, he really doesn't care after all he wasn't poor. I agree that men may cheat, but a woman's attitude, not her beauty is what facilitates that drive.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Superboss: 7:11am On Jun 25, 2021
I can't imagine a man having such a pretty wife and still cheated.
This life get as e bi.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by murphyibiam15(m): 7:12am On Jun 25, 2021
IranianSea:

Forget that talk. Well, if the risk is too dangerous to take after given it a serious thought then i may marry another wife to make them two. No government against that.
You go still tire for the second one, lol. You should try to understand human nature that humans always seek to have what they don't have. Even men who married 4 still get tired of them all and still cheat if he has no principles.
It seems you're a Muslim though

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Rilley(m): 7:12am On Jun 25, 2021
NgHotGirls:
*One of the most prudent things you should do for yourself in Nigeria today is keeping out of trouble. One of the worst things that can happen to a person is to be sent to jail in Nigeria.*

*Jail in Nigeria is halfway house to hell. Maryam Sanda will probably never be executed, most Governor's do not sign the death warrant anymore. Orji Kalu Uzor will probably never serve full-time.*


*But still Nigerian prisons are like Nazi concentration camps. The food is calamitous, healthcare is none existent.*

*I have seen a prisoner holding his eye ball in his hand, it was still attached to his eye socket by a tendril. Someone used a spoon to scoop out his eye ball in a fight. The nurse was off duty. Nobody cared, he died.*

*I had a client once who was remanded in prison. He was HIV positive and did not tell me. Maybe that would have been further grounds for bail. He could not take his drugs and he relapsed. Before I could try to get him out it was too late, he died.*

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*"I know my right!"*

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*If your lawyer is shouting,*

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*I do not mean that you should turn to everyone's foot mat, but if you are going to take up an issue, ensure you are blameless, or almost blameless.*

*Avoid wahala. If people are beating up a thief do not join, or even stand and watch, even if it is your property that was stolen.*

*If someone hits your car don't start fighting because of that.*

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*Avoid people who talk too much.*

*Be wary with your speech. Do not talk about people behind their backs.*

*Always assume that someone is recording your speech and videoing your actions.*

*Even if someone comes with negative gossip about another person, do not say anything. If you talk, it is what you said that will somehow find its way to the person's ear.*

*Stop saying things like,*

*" Do you know who I am?"*

*"I no dey fear anybody!"*

*"My yes is my yes and my no is my no!"*

*Finally, remember to keep your anger and ego in check, the world does not revolve around you, it revolves around the sun �.*
Please be guided in 2021
God will surprise us with His goodness. Thank you
*Copied*
If only they will listen

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Ubdavis(m): 7:12am On Jun 25, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
It's not in a man's nature to hold on to a single woman... No matter how much he loves the wife, the urge to hunt younger women will always be there.

Some men fight the urge... The good news is, non has ever won grin

You are a great liar. That is a very irrational assertion.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Ubdavis(m): 7:13am On Jun 25, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
It's not in a man's nature to hold on to a single woman... No matter how much he loves the wife, the urge to hunt younger women will always be there.

Some men fight the urge... The good news is, non has ever won grin

You are a great liar. That is a very irrational assertion
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by anunaba1: 7:13am On Jun 25, 2021
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by helpee(m): 7:13am On Jun 25, 2021
Superboss:
I can't imagine a man having such a pretty wife and still cheated.
This life get as e bi.
You will know when you marry one. A pretty wife in Abuja while you spend all your life alone in Lagos. We don't face reality. Na maid you go Bleep self.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by AnanseK(m): 7:14am On Jun 25, 2021
Ojukwu? That name rings a bell shocked

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by udemzyudex(m): 7:14am On Jun 25, 2021
esthel:
Well from this I see a busy career woman who probably isn't home all the time. Still doesn't justify cheating, a man that will cheat will cheat even if the wife is available 24/7
Some men just feel cheating is a norm, it's not as if some don't get the attention or whatever they need from their wife, they just want to have that experience.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by prigoz(m): 7:15am On Jun 25, 2021
Every man is polygamous in nature, it takes grace of God, stronger will andself control to quench the urge.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by DONFASZY(m): 7:15am On Jun 25, 2021
Stupid talk
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by anselm791(m): 7:15am On Jun 25, 2021
meobizy:
Answer this question first; why a bike rider in my village with an able-bodied wife, children and two pregnant side chicks would decide to rape a deaf mute in the bush one random morning.
You fancy going around making poo up?
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Kessythegeek(m): 7:16am On Jun 25, 2021
God help all soon-to-be married and newly married men o!


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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Ekeeyhandsome(m): 7:16am On Jun 25, 2021
People cheat for their own reasons, might be selfish. Just know that 90% of married nd dating couples cheat .
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Edusouls(m): 7:16am On Jun 25, 2021
He was an irresponsible and a wild man without any atom of decency, karma caught up with him, he deserved what he got, hell is the final destination..
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Liposure: 7:17am On Jun 25, 2021
Kambilly99:
Men are insatiable bastards stupid gender
like your father

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