Rozcol:
She's a backstabber if not why was she hiding it.By the way where have you been, you abandoned your witch thread you can still continue there with this your new account

She Has Interest In D Guy. Perhaps She Felt U Would Get Offended Or Discourage Her. Forgive Her. As 4 D Witch Thread, It's Under Probability.

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me,that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him,there are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place. I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me,such friends are not to be trusted she can stab you at the back when you least expect. Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Sorry, as a guy I know how long it took me to overcome the betrayal from my camp school mate whom I was using his phone to call the lady doctor whenever we wanted to see not knowing he went behind me to spoil me and started dating her! He later apologised, they are married with two kids but I ghosted the guy cos he is a snitch and most likely can kill to have a chance at anything. For the lady, she later contacted me but I ditched her.

So I know how painful it is for you...just stay very far from both of them cos the guy will still come for u and there is the temptation of wanting to hurt your ex friend but dont do it. Just ditch both of them cos even the guy does not worth it as it clearly shows he doesn't know what he want. You n your friend has different body shapes, maybe colour and background, so he is confused

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Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me,that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him,there are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place. I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me,such friends are not to be trusted she can stab you at the back when you least expect. Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Your profile speaks volume about you. All i saw on your profile is “avoid me”.
I guess, your friend should truly avoid you until you know what you want.
Abeg! don’t hate on her, after-all another Man’s meat is another man’s poison.

Let her enjoy what you don’t want in peace.

Rozcol:
[s]Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me,that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him,there are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place. I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me,such friends are not to be trusted she can stab you at the back when you least expect. Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?[/s]

If you believe this made up lies, then my friend you are just gullible

PlayMaker14:
The friend is fati20.01 While the Op is Zzor....

Rozcol, just drink Dano Milk and stay strong.

That girl just dey lie give stupid gullible people here, I don't even believe anything she says here

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me,that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him,there are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place. I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me,such friends are not to be trusted she can stab you at the back when you least expect. Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

you said no but ur friend said yes, now what is ur problem

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me,that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him,there are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place. I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me,such friends are not to be trusted she can stab you at the back when you least expect. Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

you are a typical example of my enemy must be my friend enemy, you didn't see what your friend your saw in him which is genuine love. Go an die

Rozcol:
But they weren't friends so it is understandable

what's the difference? So if you are my enemy my best friend must be your enemy too?

Rozcol:
I term her decision as Snakelike,you don't go behind a friend's back to date a guy who once wanted something with her

Oga nothing like snakelike here, she bluntly rejected him, and her friend happily accepted him, so why is she acting up, it's a simple logic.

You refused to date the guy and u don't want your friend to date him too. You are wicked and u don't want your friends happiness.

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me,that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him,there are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place. I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me,such friends are not to be trusted she can stab you at the back when you least expect. Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me,that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him,there are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place. I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me,such friends are not to be trusted she can stab you at the back when you least expect. Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

I can feel your pain. But believe me when I say you acted immature. How?
Take this scenario, you and a friend went shopping, you picked a dress which your friend secretly admire too. Since you couldn't make up your mind, your friend discouraged you from buying. immediately you dropped the dress, she quickly payed and picked it for herself!
Did she betrayed your trust? Yes! All is fair in love and war!
Should She be blamed? No! She is not responsible for your indecision and immaturity!
Moral of the story is - learn to make up your mind by yourself - you are responsible for whatever action you take irregardless of who help you make it.

Rozcol:
She's the evil person here,why did she secretly do that behind me,this is someone she never said anything good about,that's betrayal of the highest order,there's more to what she's capable of doing

Your friend used that as a division to draw your mind and attention away from him by painting him black so you won't like him, maybe that's what made you to reject him. Who knows, she must have liked him and gave him green light, but he ignored her, but she didn't give up, rather she restragegies because she knows what she wants.

Makaveli217:


Oga nothing like snakelike here, she bluntly rejected him, and her friend happily accepted him, so why is she acting up, it's a simple logic.

You are absolutely right. That lady is really confused. This is particularly why I don't date Nigerian girls.

Very stupid oo

maiiilooo:
I wasn't going to talk,but since u asked for our thought...i will say u're stupid.

Telstar:
You are absolutely right. That lady is really confused. This is particularly why I don't date Nigerian girls.

They are very very confused.
She acted on what her friend said without personal taking her time to do some research herself.

Please,Stop being a bitter person. You felt He was a loser but your friend thought otherwise.You both had different views which is logical.
Love most times overrules everything.
As long as the guy turned out to be a better person than you thought, accept your own misjudgements, wish them well and move on. Every body deserves to be given that benefit of doubt,you can never know.

Rozcol:
The issue is why was she hiding and doing things behind my back without letting me know, why didn't she tell me before that she likes him but would rather say not so good things about him.I'm not in any way jealous but kind of feel betrayed and I hate that snakelike attitude

You are a kid and are obviously jealous.

So she was saying not so good things about him and that’s why you didn’t accept him, I’m guessing. It shows you don’t have a mind of your own. You are a weakling and need others to think for you. She played the game well. You lost. Move on. She doesn’t owe you any explanation.

Makaveli217:


They are very very confused.
She acted on what her friend said without personal taking her time to do some research herself.

Yeah, foreign girls are straightforward. If you are talking to a foreign chick and she likes you, she would go ahead with you immediately, but if she doesn't like you, she would tell you straight away.

I could recall when I was in a nightclub with my niggas, one of them said to me Man G, look at this pretty chick. She's starring at you. I went to meet the girl, I was like wazz up baby? Bla bla bla, the rest is history now.

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You lack sense

maiiilooo:
I wasn't going to talk,but since u asked for our thought...i will say u're stupid.

Not just stupid but VERY STUPID

paulolee:
rubbish talk....if u need Cash n first bank no gre pay, u no go switch to gtb or oda bank?? its only betrayal wen u agreed n ur friend still went ahead to join the relationship as side bea...

Make una gettat

Yes you are petty and selfish, she thinks it and we all do too. Let go of the beef and just count it your lose. If you were never interested I wonder why it will bother you this much to stop being friends with her.

You turned him down, and you think the world will wait for you. You think is all about you. Better get down from your high horse else...thank goodness, your friend is simply smarter than you.

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

I don't believe this person, this person is a pathological liar

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

He asked you out and you turned him down.

He took interest in your friend and she accepted!

Now they are having a great time and you are jealous?

This is only the beginning. They will soon get married and start filling the world with children.

Be there yapping about him not loving her. Do you think there’s something special about you?

So what if your physical attributes attracted him first? Who told you he would have stayed with you? Who told you he didn’t just want to hit and run?

Now he chooses to stay with your friend and you are wishing then bad? Grow up please!!!

Telstar:
Yeah, foreign girls are straightforward. If you are talking to a foreign chick and she likes you, she would go ahead with you immediately, but if she doesn't like you, she would tell you straight away.

I could recall when I was in a nightclub with my niggas, one of them said to me Man G, look at this pretty chick. She's starring at you. I went to meet the girl, I was like wazz up baby? Bla bla bla, the rest is history now.

I guess you are married to her now

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Although your friend is selfish and greedy, but why do you have to keep wasting his time away, all in the name of proving not too cheap.

Stevebamdex:
Ladies And Their Myopic Reasoning Sometimes..The Guy Approached You But You Turned Him Down.
He Wooed Your Friend And She Accepted Him.
Your Analog Mind Should Tell You That Guys No Dey Chase Women For Long Again..If You Keep Us Waiting For Too Long,we Moveeeee!! .
Sorry For Your Pain, But I Like Your Bestie Sha..She No Even Waste Time..

You can say that again...

Pierocash:
So this girl hasnt realised that men are no longer persuasive in chasing women. Once they woo you and you say no they move on.

So because you don't like some kind of fruit means your friend shouldn't eat the fruit right? You are confused

I did same,I proposed to her about marriage,she was sounding incoherent, I moved on and proposed to another more prettier babe she knows quite well,because of that she stopped greeting me when she discovered we are deeply in love and sees us often. Who cares?

Good one. But no invite her for the wedding o. E get why.

OP dey console herself say 'he doesn't truly love her'