Hmmm, time waits for no man … while he was wooing u,

torqque7:


U say she never said anything good about the guy,but u didn't say she said bad things about him either did she?Well if u were condemning him in ur gist with her do u expect her to go contrary to ur stand as ur friend and say he is an angel? Anyway live ur life and let them live theirs,I dnt see y u should be making a fuss about this except u have some feelings for the guy.

Spot-on!

In a case like this the first reaction would be to feel a type of way but you turned him down and your friend said yes to him. It puts your friendship in a whole new perspective and all but then you cant question her choice.

I’m thinking she knew about when the guy was wooing you and she was a huge part of the idea to turn him down directly or indirectly. Now, you’d learn that some things must be kept private and your choices must reflect your genuine intention.

Gather yourself together before they hit you with wedding I.V and you go into shock. This kind of relationship where the couple have a common enemy (in this case, you) goes all the way my dear. Brace yourself.

You need to grow sense. Are you a child? She would soon marry him and you will only cry

I think your friend is correct, you're petty and selfish and actually a dog in the manger. Why would it bother you who your friend dates or who your wooer dates?

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Dis kin matter sabi peper women eh...

You want to get back at your ex eh


Just date her best friend simply...

You go see how she go de vibrate like Nokia 3310


Gbreeee gbreeeeeee gbreeeee

Lolzzzzz


When the guy was asking you out, and you rejected maybe cos he's not your class

You could have even help your friend by telling the guy that you can work your friend for her

Abi

So he should turn into a monk because he wooed you and you turned him down or he should keep wooing you for the next 600 years? Even if you both dated and you separated amicably, there's no betrayal if he decides to date your friend. If you were so bothered about whoever he dates, you should have given into his advances

Rozcol:
And you didn't notice the betrayal in all of these,its against the rules and this is just a little of what she's capable of doing

No betrayal..you are being petty.

In the analogue times we chase women till they accept..

But now, Even the moment we are not seeing green light we move...Green light comes before approach.

The guy realized wat he was looking for in sokoto, deh for shokotor...

Your friend as well became attracted seeing the good guy in him...I wish them success and pray they move to next phase and become very successful beyond your Imaginations...

Some lessons are better served chilled, chilled like mortuary standard..

Some girls think the whole world revolve around their azuka or on top their nke iruka....Well...As usual women age like milk, men age like wine.

saintsylve:


Sorry, as a guy I know how long it took me to overcome the betrayal from my camp school mate whom I was using his phone to call the lady doctor whenever we wanted to see not knowing he went behind me to spoil me and started dating her! He later apologised, they are married with two kids but I ghosted the guy cos he is a snitch and most likely can kill to have a chance at anything. For the lady, she later contacted me but I ditched her.

So I know how painful it is for you...just stay very far from both of them cos the guy will still come for u and there is the temptation of wanting to hurt your ex friend but dont do it. Just ditch both of them cos even the guy does not worth it as it clearly shows he doesn't know what he want. You n your friend has different body shapes, maybe colour and background, so he is confused

nonsense fabrication just to be relevant

I didn’t see anything wrong with what your friend did ,instead you should be happy for them. Don’t let jealousy ruin you.

You were just a channel for your friend to find love

Rozcol:
Friendship rules I.e going behind my back to accept what I rejected with her full support. Backstabbing.

Lol...

My opinion?
You are not only a witch, but you are a witchcraft.
Both to the guy and your friend.

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

I’m afraid your friend is CORRECT….
If you were NOT interested in the dude, what’s the issue?

I could understand “boundaries” if you actually dated the guy…
Or perhaps you had shared some secrets with her about the dude.

Otherwise, your stance is frankly RIDICULOUS and PETTY…
But nobody should be friends with anyone she’s uncomfortable with, so MOVE ON!
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Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

You have a witchcraft mindset. Abeg shift

dominique:
So he should turn into a monk because he wooed you and you turned him down or he should keep wooing you for the next 600 years? Even if you both dated and you separated amicably, there's no betrayal if he decides to date your friend. If you were so bothered about whoever he dates, you should have given into his advances

Na so.

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

you're more than being selfish and petty, you need help!

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

I think you are somehow what she thinks you are. Shift joor.

Rozcol:
And you didn't notice the betrayal in all of these,its against the rules and this is just a little of what she's capable of doing

THE RULES SET BY WHO? A GUY SAY TAKE YOU SAID YOU DON'T WANT BECAUSE IT IS BONE. THE NEXT PERSON TO SAID PLEASE BRING IT I WANT. NOW YOU SAID YOU WANT BECAUSE THE BONE HAVE SMALL MEAT.
WHO IS BETRAYING WHO IN THIS CASE?
WOMEN........ THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.

You are not even ashamed to bring such story online for people to judge. You're lucky I don't insult people. Please just grow up

Get over it, don't weep here because a guy made a wise decision concerning you.

Women with their kind of friends be like China plate.....IYKYK.

You want to kill a man, but your friend saved that man from dying. And you are angry that she came to the man's rescue.
Aunty you are a witch. Infact a wicked one that flies during the daytime and nighttime

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Wow! MY Bad.
Since she didn't say anything positive about him then I advice you stay away from her. But, you're not supposed to confront her, I think that's childish. Again, you should have a mind of your own in decision making as not all advice must be taken into consideration.

When a friend tells you a guy is bad, the onions

[/code] is on you to do a background check to see if truly the person is bad. I have come to understand that sometimes extraordinary folks are painted black and that is the more reason I hardly go with the flow.....................................

the onus[code]

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Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him


Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

YES you think this world revolves around your head.

the whole world should not drink water because you are doing shakara for water.

you think you are special but you are angry because you just found out that YOU ARE JUST ANOTHER GIRL.

please send me that your friend's number let me send her recharge card so she
can be calling her new guy and sending him sweet text messages. cow.

You can’t eat your Cake & have it . You not accepting the so called Guys Advances in the first place only shows that you yourself ain’t real . You know you like the Guy but you decided to form Hard to get. Men don’t chase women for long anymore. We chase Money, women in turn chase us . Swallow your Pride . Your Loss this time. Peace ✌️

What I think is........ You're a selfish, myopic and heartless friend. You rejected someone who was asking you out. The guys you rejected then opted for your friend who ended up accepting. I Don't believe you should be pained about it. I mean, you never liked the guy, hence you rejected him. Why should you then see your friend as a betrayer jux bcus she accepted someone you casted away. People like you should be avoided walahi

Ways to get back at ladies that turn ur proposal down, this emotional beigns are easy to push around,abi

Makaveli217:


Leave all these Nigeria girls with their confused brains and always playing hard to get mentally, even if they are dieing for a guy and start giving him green light and he codes it and approach them, they will immediately start playing hard to get games while secretly dieing and craving for him. Very low mentally beings.

This your talk na comfirmentor.

Nothing pisses a G up like such attitude u described.