This is one of the reason I have vowed never to be in any relationship with any girl until I am ready and also financially stable for marriage. The stress, shift of burden, commitment (in terms of calls, money, physical presence in times of need etc) and possible heart-break is something I can't just deal with right now.

Even if I am in love with her, I won't say nothing. Even if it means another man has to take her. fine. I believe if she is for me, no man will take her. That's just it.

The only hot chick I'm chasing right now is money. And money alone.
24/7 money on my mind. Op make money, leave a low key live when ready for marriage, then discard those who are in for the money.

It is just too obvious she wants your money. But I won't completely blame you though. Because there is nothing love can't do. Love can make us look so foolish at times; that after you get over the charm you will begin to ask yourself were you jujudized?

Op my advice; Quit it and face your life. She there for money. And trust me if she finds a better spender, she is dumping your sorry ass.

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

So you can't advise yourself despite seeing the handwriting on the wall?

Woman wrappperrr

So this is what you been going thru

Na why she dey cruise you

How can you be earning 45k and still be thinking of having a girlfriend

Oboy you no get shame

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Receive sense by fire by force or you can try meeting up her demands by borrowing from all these mobile apps lenders that will frustrate your life if you fail to pay back

Sorry for the little experience, poor anyway. Ordinarily, once a woman starts blocking you, just know she's using you to her advantage and nothing more than a leech who's after her own self centerd goal. She should not even unblock you, we were once in same shoes. If you need to go out with a woman with your earning, go with one who adds value to you and blesses your hustle. Never allow a woman disrespect you with this pettiness because you won't be the Man you're suppose to be. She blocks you, you too ghost her, let her look for who she can carpet, be the Man!

You sabi say u need sense but u want make we tell you say you need am
Bros, you need sense, and when u get it, apply it

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Old man like u. I swear u're sick

Allah Akbar! Please bro 'am so sorry to hear this but I must confess you did tried but some people here will call you names like being a simp. As for my own advice, please leave her 'cause she didn't love you but your money. Run!

You are a disgrace to manhood and your family guy!!! Wtf is wrong with you? Are you under a spell or something? You've turned yourself to a puppet and atm to a useless bitch. Damn I can't belive this bs can ever happen in this century

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Try this, Let her block you and you just move on with your activities. But Sir since you are 30s and I am, you do not show yourself in the best light, how can you allow a woman to treat you this way. as a grown man there are certain things you should not allow. It is obvious you place more value on this woman than yourself.

Trustedpronet:


One pretender spotted.

Ok then, I will let it rest.

Many fking weaklings in this generation

I guess you are happy to be part of them

I don't understand what advise u are asking of may be u done eat vegetables bcus it's so obvious this is not a girl u suppose to be with just get out of that stupid relationship and the blind love u find Ur face so u are working for her or what don't be a fool at Ur age

Danisaint112:
This is one of the reason I have vowed never to be in any relationship with any girl until I am ready and also financially stable for marriage. The stress, shift of burden, commitment (in terms of calls, money, physical presence in times of need etc) and possible heart-break is something I can't just deal with right now.

Even if I am in love with her, I won't say nothing. Even if it means another man has to take her. fine. I believe if she is for me, no man will take her. That's just it.

The only hot chick I'm chasing right now is money. And money alone.
24/7 money on my mind. Op make money, leave a low key live when ready for marriage, then discard those who are in for the money.

It is just too obvious she wants your money. But I won't completely blame you though. Because there is nothing love can't do. Love can make us look so foolish at times; that after you get over the charm you will begin to ask yourself were you jujudized?

Op my advice; Quit it and face your life. She there for money. And trust me if she finds a better spender, she is dumping your sorry ass.

Even if a man is broke, A man should always date a woman that has the ability to do something. Even if I am broke, my babe will still find ways for me to look at ideas to bring money, Block because of no money, if they marry and money dissapears nko. lol this life no balance

you sef drop her your own breakup message anf mufffffff on.......................kapish?

You dont need advice. What you really need is someone to beat some sense into you because you are clearly lacking it

30 years old man oo

Your MUMU is on another level.

And you call that your lover? Agbana, you are ATM proper.

Some people are just so dumb, which advice do u need again. Abi they have jazz u ni. Sorry for the insult thou

KanuSE:
Habitual shaming of our women is VERY TOXIC, what type of society are we foisting on ourselves.

Some men are fvckn idiots I swear coz they don't know when to stop.

Àwon oníranù

You are in the wrong thread. Can't you read?

, end time lovers

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

you're a fool. That's what you are. It's not an insult.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

Guy you are just digging your grave....you are seeing the signs from the no sense gal and you are still pressuring your self begging her ...

No gal can block me in a relationship if they try it ..them own finish ..

Oga you just de date ur self that gal is using you as her ATM

30 years old bro and you ain't street, oga no be by force to keep girlfriend

Many of naija gals are finished and useless

This is confirm mumulity. How can you allow somebody use you like this? So if and when you marry her, she can decide to divorce and remarry you because of failure to meet her needs?

Thallyheart:
EWO ME SEF I NEED SALAH CLOTH

How many yards?

You don't need advise like someone up there said all you need is hot slap. In your 30s and you still don't have vision, you don't know what is good for you and what is going to hurt you in the long run. What a pity

Fiscus105:



Influence of religion? Maybe. Love ? No.

Many of guys in this scenario are doing it because they don't want to loose the word ...my girlfriend even though it's not only them digging it, to be candid, some guys find it difficult to have regular girlfriend, hence they accept all situations girls subjected them into.

You’ve got a point. That is why I wrote LOVE in quote.

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Even God will be angry with ur foolishness but u are not beyond redemption. This time do not bother to call, text or beg her. See howfar she goes with all the manipulation. Stop allowing her to use u guy. If u continue like this u won't grow oo and u know say time no dey. She knows u are scared of loosing her and she's cashing out on that. Try forget the girl. Use this breakup period arrange ur mind and body. To be more focus and ready for goodies to come. Start looking for other options abeg. Understanding girls still dey even for this Lagos. Manage ur resources well my guy and delete that girl from ur system. She will keep u in one condition for 1M years and when she see's someone with long cash willing to spend on her u will be dumped hard and humiliated.. she's not even ur girl right now. She's with u for the benefits and nothing else. If u love ur self u will leave her but if not stay there and be her rag

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

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You're lucky you have not clocked or crossed 40, I'd have first said, your foolishness has been confirmed and irredeemable, but you still get hope from not becoming a fool forever.

Dude! You need to give yourself a sincere advice. Cut all ties and connections from her and move on. With time you will get over it. Abi you wan upgrade your mumuness to another level ni

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

I refuse to believe you are in your 30’s

A man making 45k monthly needs no relationship.

You can’t depend on Nigerian girls! If you give her or not she will still join Tinder . Lekki men deh pay 30k for a night. U better keep d small Change for ur sef

qtguru:


Even if a man is broke, A man should always date a woman that has the ability to do something. Even if I am broke, my babe will still find ways for me to look at ideas to bring money, Block because of no money, if they marry and money dissapears nko. lol this life no balance

Read my comment again I don't think you got me. I said make money, leave a low key life, then discard those who are in for the money (those girls that only want to date you for your money. Like Op's babe).