RUN FOR YOUR LIFE

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Use her for money...

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Just let her be and focus on your life bro.

Back in 2012 I dated this entitled Igbo girl just because she was new in town and had nothing doing yet decided to take full care of her, during December period she informed me of her journey to Enugu, I was able to raised 24k for this girl only for her to asked how much cloths i bought for myself that am giving her such amount?

Na so this girl drop the money for bed waka.... that was the end of our relationship.


She came back begging, one of her visit she met my new girl friend that warn her not to come again.

Should we tell him?

What the hell is wrong with some of you guys? At 30, you still don't understand when a girl is using you? When will you be reasonable?

Common, face front and forget that yeye begi begi girl.

See en, don't call, don't msg her, just ignore her. If eventually, she unblocked you, block her forever.

Follow Reno Omokri on Facebook, you go get sense small.

They call her the terror of the sea
"scylla"insatiable she lurks for blood,hoping to fill her belly.
dear op it is glaringly glaring like the biblical mene mene tekel upharsin that the lady u are dating is a leech,she is out to suck you dry and dump you afterwards
she is just in to drain you and nothing more..if you love ur life dump the monster u are dating...enuf said

Lol

ultiabaz36


I stop reading when u said u earning 45k and still yet u trying to financially please a woman of high taste or maintenance like they call it...
Bro borrow sense nah. Must u f uck? Why not gather enough money and start up something to help sustain u for long time and go for less greedy and more understanding woman. They are millions of them that need a man like u, it is u that is not seeing them. Why give yourself heart attack because of a woman.
I didn't read the rest of the story after I saw u earning 45k and I already understand your dilemma. Bro fix things yourself. Goodluck

Women and money are inseparable.... Know this and have peace...


Anyways, I need who will design for me a professional logo, letter head, business card. All at affordable price pls

You are a professioNAL simp mr man... See how a woman dey use u like condom... Wise up man..

zoeA:
E sure say na advise you need or na slap?

This is both funny and truthful.

Damn op am angry,wish ah can beat some sense into you you are in a very toxic relationship.way more toxic than combining sarin gas and mustard gas and novichok together...she is using you and when she is done with you,u will get dumped...wake up.ji masun

Dangote will not do this

Honestly I don't know what to tell u but my candid advice is " GO AND FIND SENSE"

zoeA:
E sure say na advise you need or na slap?

Na slap

Hit me up i can help u hack her watsapp

Ola17:


Believe it or not, 93.672% of such posts are real including this one. It is a known fact that most people lose their senses when they are in ‘love’ or under the influence of religion.

We can only pray for them.

not only that,but most people don't know that women run on emotions and are adept at emotional manipulation and therefore to counter women and there shenanigans, you must learn GAME. To get a girlfriend, manage a girlfriend and make it work and last takes training, nature blessed women with emotional intelligence concerning relationship and they can abuse the gift. That's why as men , we must learn GAME, to counter it otherwise, you will keep wailing

All I can say is you be mumu op

You need deliverance

Op you should be bothered on how you can make more money and not this rubbish you are saying.
How to improve your life should be paramount than this hungry girl matter.
I was in your situation 8yrs ago and earning about 40k then. I didn't buy to her stupid demands and she left me then and down within me. I wasn't bothered with that. I even had to resign from my job for a double digit salary job then. She noticed I've relocated when she called me
Just after 6months,the stupid girl came back begging me for almost 4 months. She stopped when she saw my pre wedding pics.
Now I'm doing fine,I have my lovely family with children while she's still single and in her 30s.
Such is life.
Focus on your hustle pls and discard such distractors from your life.

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

AgentGoat:



How many yards?

5 YARDS DON DO

Guy just codedly drop her contact . Make we chop her any how . Na wicked babe be this . And then no dey mercy for this kind girls

You dnt need any advice here bro. All u need is a bitter truth which is "She Doesn't love you" she's using u to satisfy her needs

To be candid OP, you lack focus

That is the first.

Second, you don't know when to give yourself self respect, even 20 year old will cut off such an entitled lady...

How old is she that you are putting yourself under undue pressure.

If its sex that's your end goal in the relationship, simply pay for it when you can, and if you can't, engage on something productive for yourself.


Disengage that child, she blocks and writes up breakup messages on whatsapp, I won't be shocked if you the only one seeing that status sef.

Alaye FOCUS!!

Are you asking us what to do?

Everybody should purge themselves of any parasite and be happy!

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

You are dating yourself man.

Is she your first woman ever? If not, you should have known the answer to your question, that you are literally her cash cow. No cash, no love.

How do survive on 45,000 nairas in Lagos? Or do you live with your parents where you don't pay for house rent and feeding allowance?

Danisaint112:


Read my comment again I don't think you got me. I said make money, leave a low key life, then discard those who are in for the money (those girls that only want to date you for your money. Like Op's babe).

Yeah i agree, I am just saying extra stuff for the OP with your advice too

I don't know y ladies behave like dis.... and u will be comfortable begging for money.. hmmm me even airtime I can't ask for...talk more of sallah clothes

Omobola121:
What the hell is wrong with some of you guys? At 30, you still don't understand when a girl is using you? When will you be reasonable?

Common, face front and forget that yeye begi begi girl.

See en, don't call, don't msg her, just ignore her. If eventually, she unblocked you, block her forever.

Follow Reno Omokri on Facebook, you go get sense small.

Are you a lady?

Are you sure you are not under a spell?
Sorry to say that but it looks obvious!

Bro. You don't need any prophet to tell you that that girl is using you.
If you don't wake up and release yourself from that spell, I'm sorry u might get drained I'm all ramifications.
And "Sorry" might become your name.