falcon01:
I'm sorry to say this but ive tried so hard not to but i literally feel sick if I attempt not to say this but sir you are a big fool! On behalf of men and other reasonable people we are disappointed in you. I mean what kind of a low self esteem idiot are you? Don't you have friends?

CALCULUS16:
For the sex-starved inexperienced man, a pu*sy can be used by its owner to manipulate a man, thereby loosing his sanity and cognition. Before u insert ur key inside the padlock, try and find the history of the padlock cos these days most single ladies u see outside there, are hiding one or two things. Even those in church or with hijab. Dont let ur eggs inbetween ur leg overtake the front lobe of ur brain. Its better u marry late and be peaceful than marrying early and start experiencing chaos. Dont be intimidated by seeing ur friends getting married. Take ur time and study the person u want to marry. Op being shy should nt make u lose ur brain, u need to work on ur self-image. As for this wahala wey u enter, the gods are angry, though sex has put u into this, u never seek Gods will in marriage. This kind marriage wey u enter so might nt last cos its foundation is built on lust, deceit and mumuism

chris51:
Bros you have no problem. That court marriage is null and void, because she received you.

Go to the Registry make official report and file papers. Null and void will be granted. You should sue her for the deception

isax:

This is super story....

Maybe na wetin u sabi chop dem take choke you...

Since it is not the Lord that have joined you together man can put asunder coz man has deceitful made this...

I advice you go ask God for forgiveness and if you know the ill treatment she is giving you can take your life... RUN OOO

chris51:
Bros you have no problem. That court marriage is null and void, because she deceived you.

Go to the Registry make official report and file papers. Null and void will be granted. You should sue her for the deception.

Why is she not married to the man she has three children for?

If you love yourself, annul the union and take off. You can be sending her upkeep for your child when she delivers. What's the guarantee the pregnancy is yours?

gabicon:


Get the lady on tape saying that she didn't inform you that she had 3 children before you got married to her, that can be used as evidence. Then go to the court and annul marriage because it was contracted on falsehood.


"By virtue of Section 3 (1) (d) of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1970
Fraud or Duress
Fraud is where there is dishonest misrepresentation by a party to the marriage by which the consent of the other was obtained, while duress is when a party to the marriage is compelled to contract such marriage by creating a state of fear or apprehension, which prevented the party from freely consenting to the marriage. Where consent is proved to have been obtained by fraud or duress, the marriage is annulled not because of the presence of fraud or duress but because of the absence of consent."

riverbird:
How can you be 30 and be this foolish?

When we say some men are nothing but pussies this is exactly what we meant, op if you no wise for Lagos ehh....just forget it.

amiable990:
Continue to enjoy your meal till you find another alternative.
If possible starting transfer your property inform of sales to faceless person while you allow your second wife to fight on your behalf

Ellasure:
One advice.

If you go further with that evil woman, you are on your own.

Please desist. Stop. Don't go further anymore. Free yourself from evil bondages.


To many young people, this story could be true as it happens very regularly. Many men are into marriages very similar to this story and are bounded by powers beyond their redemption. There are powers and they are just around your corner, not very far.

Nigerian women we hail ooooh.


So many innocent men have been led astray by easy and cheap sex companion. Don't go for easy sex partners they will surely be very expensive later in your life. Shine your eyes.

Good matters and sex are fairly costly and better be ready to pay than to fall for some STRANGE WOMAN.

Strange women are women you don't know any members of their families, men are warned by the proverb writer in the Bible not to go after strange woman. Women turned to strange woman when they go rogue. Women do go rogue, indeed.

danny34:
Oga divorce her sharply and dont worry, she wont get any half of what you have.

1. Did she contribute in acquiring any of the thing you have?

2. You have a very valid ground for divorce. Deceit.

So go back to the court, now its still early and ask then to declare it null and void.


Or

Pack out of where you are and move on without her.

Move on with your life, you are too young for this wahala

Piptocoin:


the marriage can be dissolved on the ground of misrepresentation or deception. she won't get a penny from you. the marriage is already void ab initio.

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Dreadshy:
Oga you haf married old cargo with three extra mouths to feed. Please carry your load and vamoose for our front.

Lostchild:
Chineduchinedu

Even in America, the court will a null the marriage.

You can anull everything because your court marriage is base on her lies.

My elder brother made this your mistake. His life never remain the same again.

chatinent:

Ok o.

We will come back to this later.


Okay?


Okay?


You gotta be kidding me.


On the wedding day, you were sleeping with her?

Okay?


If you cancelled the church wedding which was in 2nd October, it meant you did the court marriage two days ago with her.


I thought as much.

Remember the first day after court wedding was October 1st? And second was the wedding you said you cancelled?


The same day you cancelled the wedding? You are begging her to stay?

Not adding up anymore. Well, let's continue.


Ok?

I pray you are not up to forty yet. I just pray because there is a permanent adage waiting for you.


Okay?


30 + 10 = 40. Okay, e no go tey you reach the adage.


Eight months?
She controls you?
She shouts at you?
If you refuse, tell us the truth, she beats you blue and black.

It's okay, my brother.



Hello,
I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. But before then, let me recap what you told her when you met intially:

This is what you told her, and that is what she did for you.

Now back to what I was saying, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. I won't lie, ibu onye iberibe. In anything you are doing in this life, try as much as possible make me and you no jam for road abeg.

torqque7:
FOOL...fvc.k outa here joor AlfaSIMP,ur ode is legendary..

torvickof1312:


I concur with you brov, what kinda stupidity is this!!! You date a total stranger for just 8 month and boom marriage, this ain't de problem. She control you?? What a shame on you. She made you do court just because she never trust you and as mumu as you be you consent to what she insist. She hide the utmost part of her having 3kids, Bros we are in Nigeria where law never exist. Even if the court supperglued you don't tell me you don't know what to do. He is a CAPITAL FOOL and a disgrace to men. May your MANHOOD live long seems your brain is in your dick.

ChineduChinedu:
if I knew it will be like this to me, I would have started to date

wallrichy:
I want to marry, marry me please, I am bouyant enough to marry, let's marry cos I love you....all those words are bullshits that comes from the mouth of most stupid and naive men.

Most men are not mentally ready to marry despite the fact that you are wealthy and comfortable. Most needs to go back to school of personal training to learn about women..

The fact is that No matter how high a man climbed in the success of live, he can be brought down faster than lightening by getting marry to a wrong woman.

Op, am so sorry that you ain't man enough to be called a Man. You married a total stranger and I really sympathise with you.

You are lucky anyway, it's just a kid coming in the way and not yet trapped in the dungeon of a rotten woman.

I can tolerate a stubborn woman but not a deceptive woman that is so good in telling lies even more than Liar Muhammed. She professionally and determinedly covered her past from you. She is a good actress cos it's so unbelievable that you never even saw a sign.....a small sign that she's given birth to 3 kids. No funny phone calls, no unusual visitation to her family or friends, no Single signs on her body that shows she's suckled 3 kids ? For 8 Months!


Advise, Op, please run like a mad man from that woman without thinking twice cos she never thought twice before embarking on destroying your pitiable live. Get a lawyer and file for divorce straight away, you have enough facts to get justice from the judge and your property wouldn't be shared. She's a gold digger while you are a big Mumu....sorry to abuse you OP, but you are very stupid ...... Ii wish you well .....and wish I could talk sense to you physically.....