So is Spending.

Toks2008:
No long story.

They'll say you're stingy.

Stop dating entitled naija babes.


But no. You guys have equated your self esteem to the whims of a broke babe. If she’s pleased with your spending, then you feel good about yourself.

The dating pool in Nigeria will always stink like a cesspit until men start resisting billing. You will always pay subscription for love and attention even in marriage until you put your foot down and damn the consequences.

You can’t let someone, who only adds the value any olosho can add, rule your emotions. Seek value and resist this shallow pandemic of indigent Nigerian hypergamist love peddlers.

In the face of urgent 2k.
Entitlement emboldened

It doesn't get simpler than this....

However, guys should speak more to themselves. Na guys wey mumu dey give these ladies that entitlement mentality.

Men will spend thousands weekly and monthly to maintain a bimbo, someone who they are neither engaged to nor married to... Same guys who will never give a quarter of that to their parents or siblings, not to speak of their close male friends in legit need.

It is useless Simpsons that laid the foundation for this entitlement nonsense!!!

What about guys depending on ladies?

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

and then you'll look for a guy to buy nairaland subscription for you

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Did u depends on man to survive?

mrdipye:
What about guys depending on ladies?

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What do ladies have in the first place that any sensible guy will want to depend on

All these women bashing thread popping up on nairaland compared to all the men getting married each Saturday is not clicking.

You will think that, the rate of thread created about women will transcend to lower marriage, alas, men are still getting married. Anyway, nice information sha. Money is truly unisex

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

work hard and stop depending on men to give you money .... When they don't give you , you call them broke

It's their money ....

Toks2008:


No be lie. The crazy twist is that most ladies value what a man gives over the sacrifice he makes...

Simply put, a typical naija girl will value a man who gives her 1M out of his billions than a guy who gives her 100k out of 150k he has home and away.

So why should any man kill himself trying to satisfy a lady when she is most likely to cut your call just to answer a guy that gives her more regardless of the sacrifice you made?

This is why I tell men to give ladies only what they can afford so that at the end it won't be too painful if the lady disappoints.

Why are you guys always badmouthing Nigerian girls? Are they that horrible?

I don't think so..

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Rich gal...... looking for a paid site. Use the money to buy a gift for ur bf

Richywiz:
the act of giving is something you men should learn.

You should give to your women if you have, you could ignore the giving if she felt its her right to collect from you.
It may necessarily not be money, you could also give gifts like bracelet, most people give money cos they don't know what to buy for their women.

Currently, my man showers me with gifts, I always give him too, though he gives more due to his financial muscle.

Sometimes I just see something which I feel will be good on him and I buy it for him, other times i buy things for myself and feel i should buy two and give hime one.
You shouldn't be a miser cos she is a lady

I guess boxers and singlets

Wahala be like bicycle..

Many of you men were "showee" to start with. Na hand you take raise pikin him de follow. Make una learn to talk to women without flash flash...phone, cars, wrist watch, dresses perfumes e.tc.


Una monitise unaself for prestige that's why them see una like that.

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Mumu, show us legit proof that you aren't broke since you were born till now.

I can bet a guy is feeding you at the moment. Ode!

Richywiz:
ya, most broke boys are misers.

I haven't seen anything wrong in giving

No one said giving is wrong, it is the entitlement mentality that is being tackled here

Very true

What of when you come across men with entitlement mentality or better still any man on earth since na all of them dey entitled and selfish.

Richywiz:
the act of giving is something you men should learn.

You should give to your women if you have, you could ignore the giving if she felt its her right to collect from you.
It may necessarily not be money, you could also give gifts like bracelet.

Currently, my man showers me with gifts, I always give him gifts too, though he gives more due to his financial muscle.

Sometimes I just see something which I feel will be good on him and I buy it for him, other times i buy things for myself and feel i should buy two and give hime one.
You shouldn't be a miser cos she is a lady.

Most times,the giving is usually one way.
I feel indebted if I have been on the receiving end for long and I haven't given in a while.

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

your man was born very wealthy

Happy birthday brother
Wishing us happy birthday

Richywiz:
ya, most broke boys are misers.

I haven't seen anything wrong in giving

Once they mention giving you ladies get excited. How much do ladies give. N500 Boxers and Singlet for a guy that buys you iPhone worth millions and pays lots of your bills.

I blame the foolish men, I don't blame you ingrates.

They will still not hear

Don't forget to also add this;

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

They are broke because they choose to say the truth abi,ingrate...

I was chatting with a girl and she said a guy sent her 3k that she was broke at that time and I was saying the guy loves u oo, maybe u should give him a chance and the next thing she said on top ordinary 3k.i was just teasing the babe.

I was stunned, I told her it's not about the amount he sent but since he has the heart of giving u the small 3k like u insinuated just try and check out the guy if his attitude suits u and give him a chance.she still insisted that the money is nothing to her but you are always broke and begging for urgent 2k from me.

If 3k is nothing to u then my 2k is a waste of time and ever since I stopped giving her a dime.i hate entitled and ungrateful people.

goshikid:
From now on i told myself never to give a bitchhh my hard earned money, she must work for it. That was how my ex gf called me a stingy guy all because i stopped being foolish all in the name of one motherfuccking love, no love bro, work hard and provide for your family, leave bittches alone, if not they are going to bring you down with their stupiid behaviours and blame you later for been foolish

My 2cent
Shikena

This is what am experiencing, fooling me with "I love, I love", "I can't do without you" yet without showing any positive character nor willingness to understand and be a listening partner. I've talked, pet, urge and advise her on so many occasions. I'm just looking at her and I've decided not to say anything anymore. One girl can't give me BP abeg !

I pity men who will ingest this. Well, this is social media where every man can claim he doesn't give a woman money.

But, I can tell you for free how I have one notorious asslicking womanizer begging me offline to just accept 50K to manage for the weekend. I have told him 100K or nothing. He said he will send it tomorrow unfailingly. I will wait.

That's one of your gender. A married one for that matter. I do not pity them. I will suck their nectar dry till they have nothing else to offer to the outside world.

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Hollowshow your days of earning free money is gradually coming to an end so stfu

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Be careful what you ask for.

Are you sure you can afford to comment here afterwards?