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This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Toks2008(m): 6:17pm On Nov 03, 2021
I love this.

®Jay-Z

"I want a relationship with no gender roles. We both hustlers, we both cook, we both clean, we both pay, we're both romantic & we spoil each other."


What is your opinion?

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by advanceDNA: 6:44pm On Nov 03, 2021
Nigerian women?? Them no dey like this parole

If them spoil you..na boxers, singlet..some Don dey upgrade to cufflinks shaa

But altogether.........the slogan still remains:

“my money is money, but his money his for both us”

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by slawormiir: 6:45pm On Nov 03, 2021
Damnnn niggar

I doubt if you can find any in Nigeria

Hmmmm....okay...maybe you can find some in delta state especially the huzzling type

Cathy0505:

If you try to be good to us to will see
Check very well many are they in Nigeria
Forwhere.....the only ones I can manage to bet my balls on are some delta girls...
Because I don bang some delta girls and I will confess those girls are trying. Banged one isoko, three urhuobos, one ijaw, three kwale...they can huzzle with you with no too much of that disgusting entitlement mentality

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by siofra(f): 6:55pm On Nov 03, 2021
I'm the huzzling type but I won't cook, clean etc my nails are too long and pretty for that.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Godada(m): 7:05pm On Nov 03, 2021
Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Eyinju112(f): 7:05pm On Nov 03, 2021
This happens in Zimbabwe
Their culture permits equality
They both hustle..The woman cooks, wash, sweep for one week without the man’s assistance and the following week the man cooks, clean, wash even toilet without the woman’s assistance, the woman would sit down watching tv while the man does everything for that whole week
It’s a 50/50 thing
They both hustle, the girl doesn’t have the right to demand, they pay every damn bills 50/50 even split foodstuffs money into two hahahaha grin


They believe in equality
Nobody is superior....

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Toks2008(m): 7:15pm On Nov 03, 2021
Eyinju112:
This happens in Zimbabwe
I’ve got this neighbor in turkey then
They both hustle..The woman cooks, wash, sweep for one week without the man’s assistance and the following week the man cooks, clean, wash even toilet without the woman’s assistance, the woman would sit down watching tv while the man does everything for that whole week
It’s a 50/50 thing
They both hustle, the girl doesn’t have the right to demand, they pay every damn bills 50/50 even split foodstuffs money into two hahahaha grin
I was forced to ask her what kind of life is that, she said that’s their culture in Zimbabwe, and to be honest she loves it ...

They believe in equality
Nobody is superior....

This is sweet.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Destinylink(m): 7:25pm On Nov 03, 2021
This is how a relationship ought to be!

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Nobody: 7:30pm On Nov 03, 2021
This is the future, Slowly but surely in times ahead.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Victerica(m): 7:31pm On Nov 03, 2021
Very cool.

But most Nigerian women, will never like this.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Toks2008(m): 7:37pm On Nov 03, 2021
Lalasticlala what is your take?
Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 03, 2021
advanceDNA:

Nigerian women?? Them no dey like this parole

If them spoil you..na boxers, singlet..some Don dey upgrade to cufflinks shaa

But altogether.........the slogan still remains:

“my money is money, but his money his for both us”

Quote "some Nigerian women"

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Gadafii: 9:46pm On Nov 03, 2021
Nigerian girls just want to relax and be taken care, just because she's a female cheesy

A thief and more

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Toks2008(m): 9:21pm On Nov 04, 2021
Gadafii:
Nigerian girls just want to relax and be taken care, just because she's a female cheesy

A thief and more

Lol! Naija girls don suffer for una hand.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Baawaa(m): 9:58pm On Nov 04, 2021
R

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by revived: 9:58pm On Nov 04, 2021
Okay

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by BiafranBushBoy: 9:58pm On Nov 04, 2021
Lol

It is the same as saying "I want a bicycle that can fly like an airplane".

The first step to understanding life is knowing that there's something called gender roles.

Remember as kids when you played Papa and Mama, who was doing the cooking and all?

Were you taught who should be in the kitchen or who should be building houses?

In every environment, no matter what, as long as there's a man or woman, a woman would always look up to the man to pilot affairs of the home, while you will look up to your wife to take care of the home.

Yes, she might be a hustler and make money, but if you aren't doing it well, she will disregard you.

Yes, you might be cooking, but if your wife leaves you to handle the affairs of the kitchen, you will loathe her secretly.

In summary, there is a gender role in every family - no matter how Behind or how Americana you wanna sound.

Thanks!

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by yuzjet(m): 9:58pm On Nov 04, 2021
Nigerian women dey shake head for this post.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by paulolee(m): 9:58pm On Nov 04, 2021
not like dt in my country....d wife dt are working do contribute but make dm no just start to de earn pass d husband bcox wahala don start b dt.
worst case Kum be say d husband start to de struggle financially...dt means him fit turn house boy till e get himself back on his feet..

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by weblord1900: 9:58pm On Nov 04, 2021
Amaka shey you hear am. I don join Team-Jay Z.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by PrinceOfLagos: 9:58pm On Nov 04, 2021
Good to know
Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by paulolee(m): 9:58pm On Nov 04, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

I doubt if you can find any in Nigeria

Hmmmm....okay...maybe you can find some in delta state especially the huzzling type
word.....very rare n hard to see....d working class dt are earning dey claim feminism even without understanding d movement

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Nobody: 9:59pm On Nov 04, 2021
Lol

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Kingcalls: 9:59pm On Nov 04, 2021
Every relationship aint the same....it worked for A don't mean it will work for B....besides what makes u think that's how their relationship is structured...u fellow dem live for house??

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Pidginwhisper: 9:59pm On Nov 04, 2021
grin

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by jojo1415: 9:59pm On Nov 04, 2021
Feminist rite now

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Aforxzy(f): 9:59pm On Nov 04, 2021
Hmm.. 50/ 50 chores and money sharing sounds good but how realistic is this.

I doubt if this can work here but I'll love to try it.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by incogni2o: 10:00pm On Nov 04, 2021
Eyinju112:
This happens in Zimbabwe
I’ve got this neighbor in turkey then
They both hustle..The woman cooks, wash, sweep for one week without the man’s assistance and the following week the man cooks, clean, wash even toilet without the woman’s assistance, the woman would sit down watching tv while the man does everything for that whole week
It’s a 50/50 thing
They both hustle, the girl doesn’t have the right to demand, they pay every damn bills 50/50 even split foodstuffs money into two hahahaha grin
I was forced to ask her what kind of life is that, she said that’s their culture in Zimbabwe, and to be honest she loves it ...

They believe in equality
Nobody is superior....

This is nonscense

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by paulolee(m): 10:00pm On Nov 04, 2021
Eyinju112:
This happens in Zimbabwe
I’ve got this neighbor in turkey then
They both hustle..The woman cooks, wash, sweep for one week without the man’s assistance and the following week the man cooks, clean, wash even toilet without the woman’s assistance, the woman would sit down watching tv while the man does everything for that whole week
It’s a 50/50 thing
They both hustle, the girl doesn’t have the right to demand, they pay every damn bills 50/50 even split foodstuffs money into two hahahaha grin
I was forced to ask her what kind of life is that, she said that’s their culture in Zimbabwe, and to be honest she loves it ...

They believe in equality
Nobody is superior....
I need her contact...Mk I collect link or connect with Zimbabwe banny...na wetin i de find be dis...
so I go fit de flex marriage n spendings asif we be roommates..

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by generalwo(m): 10:00pm On Nov 04, 2021
Go back and look at the lady when she was with him when he had nothing...... He did not just show her this kind of love in a day..... She has been there for and with him through thick and thin.....

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Re: This Is The Type Of Relationship I Desire. by Starships4u(m): 10:00pm On Nov 04, 2021
Nigerian ladies would believe all these buh not for bills.

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