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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

Oga let them be joor

Hmm. Quite complicated I'll say it depends on ur brother level of maturity and how he'll be able handle it. But i feel you should let him know as there are some things you don't have keep quiet about . Imagine if he get to find out after been married to her, he'll feel betrayed by you. So u gats man up and tell him. What will be will be.

Let them marry
After the marriage it will be an interesting story for both of you .

Dont bridge the gap you have with her again.
Just be her brother in law without benefits
Thank you

Either you tell him or not, what will be, will be.

Do what you think is right and respect yourself

Your family is destined for her, don’t put asunderooo

Let your brother know about it but decision should be left entirely to him alone

So..

No be person brother go Marry her before ?

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

If you want to tell him, tell him before they got wedded so that he can decide on going with the wedding or call it quit.

If you didn’t tell him till they get wedded, please keep mute eternally on the matter

She has finally benefited your brother.

Na who cry fcck up.

But just be quiet about it. It’s been a long time since y’all had anything to do with eachother. She didn’t to anything bad by choosing to have sxx with you.. I mean, you both agreed to have mutual sxx.and that period is over.

Unless she has an history of hoeing that you know of. Leave them be.

Your turn don pass... no spoil another person garri with your sand

Guy...she is getting married...
Stay away from her...
Your journey with her don end...
Who go marry her before? ..no be human being? And is your bro not one ?...abeg...leave them...

And if you like go dey Bleep her for back after her wedding with your bro ...na you Sabi ..cos women no dey get sense esp if you Sabi do...she will always be tempted to come for you or the other way around...na the only wahala wey I see their for this huna family matter be this...apart from this ...let her wed your bro while you dead all your past with her...

E choke......!!!

AsomArchitectNG:
Hmm. Quite complicated I'll say it depends on ur brother level of maturity and how he'll be able handle it. But i feel you should let him know as there are some things you don't have keep quiet about . Imagine if he get to find out after been married to her, he'll feel betrayed by you. So u gats man up and tell him. What will be will be.

I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...

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By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....
And we don't have each others contacts again
So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....
Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....
I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Well, it's a small world afterall!

Starz825:
Guy...she is getting married...
Stay away from her...
Your journey with her don end...
Who go marry her before? ..no be human being? And is your bro not one ?...abeg...leave them...

And if you like go dey Bleep her for back after her wedding with your bro ...na you Sabi ..cos women no dey get sense esp if you Sabi do...she will always be tempted to come for you or the other way around...na the only wahala wey I see their for this huna family matter be this...apart from this ...let her wed your bro while you dead all your past with her...

Normally we are done...

I just dey imagine the shock from both party if i show for the wedding...

NevetsIbot:


But just be quiet about it. It’s been a long time since y’all had anything to do with eachother. She didn’t to anything bad by choosing to have sxx with you.. I mean, you both agreed to have mutual sxx.and that period is over.

Unless she has an history of hoeing that you know of. Leave them be.

Your turn don pass... no spoil another person garri with your sand

She is not the promiscuous type....

Do you suggest i find means of connecting with her so as to let her know who she is about getting married to?

Bro i just dey confused...

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I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...

You can't hide it from him. He deserves to know now so he'll take whatever decision that suits him. Moreover you haven't done any wrong here, its just coincidence that ur brother is dating her

Kobojunkie:
Well, it's a small world afterall!

Would you be comfortable in this scenario?

AsomArchitectNG:
You can't hide it from him. He deserves to know now so he'll take whatever decision that suits him. Moreover you haven't done any wrong here, its just coincidence that ur brother is dating her

Wahala ..

And dem go do introduction by January..

Amotolongbo:
If you want to tell him, tell him before they got wedded so that she can decide on going with the wedding or call it quit.

If you didn’t tell him till they get wedded, please keep mute eternally on the matter

Lets say i let em be,,,but as a lady would you feel comfortable in this kinda situation?...

Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

Myzubby:
just shock them

Me sef never recover from my own shock....

So how i go take shock dem?

DSC7:
Lets say i let em be,,,but as a lady would you feel comfortable in this kinda situation?...

Why not.

I don’t live in the past.
Old things have passed away.

The man also has his past

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

She won't be aware until we see one on one...

No pictures, and she doesn't know my name and family name when we were together....

Many things changed

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I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Guy if you still wan follow that gal then you ain't worthy to be called a man..act like nothing happened and let by gone be bygone..you no be pikin wey go dey ask this Kain question..
I use you take beg you let her be pls don't make that gal sad cos she never knew it was gonna happen..I beg you man don't blackmail her pls..let her enjoy her marriage abeg..

Amotolongbo:
Why not.

I don’t live in the past.
Old things have passed away.

The man also has his past

Well if she doesn't open up no one will know... Except me and her.....

If only she can cope without feeling guilty...

Just send picture of you and her to him



That will open the discussion



Do that please, don't postpone the evil day as those F Monikas are suggesting

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Would you be comfortable in this scenario?

They say, " As you lay your bed so you lie in it".

My every day existence is lived in such a way as to avoid these sort of things happening to me. These sort of choices are so far away from me as a result.

Rydermaverick:
Guy if you still wan follow that gal then you ain't worthy to be called a man..act like nothing happened and let by gone be bygone..you no be pikin wey go dey ask this Kain question..
I use you take beg you let her be pls don't make that gal sad cos she never knew it was gonna happen..I beg you man don't blackmail her pls..let her enjoy her marriage abeg..

Me and her no get any issue bro....

I just dey ask dis question make i no go do wetin go make her sad.....

Na her welfare i care about nothing more....

I weak.....