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DSC7:
She won't be aware until we see one on one...

No pictures, and she doesn't know my name and family name when we were together....

Many things changed

E be things ...so after dating for 4 years plus she doesn't know your real name...wow.

DSC7 does she know this one?

Kobojunkie:
They say, " As you lay your bed so you lie in it".

My every day existence is lived in such a way as to avoid these sort of things happening to me. These sort of choices are so far away from me as a result.

It's a small world as u earlier said....

You never can tell who ur present spouse is related to "until one day"

DSC7:
Me and her no get any issue bro....

I just dey ask dis question make i no go do wetin go make her sad.....

Na her welfare i care about nothing more....

I weak.....

Which one be wetin go make her sad?
I say make you free that gal haba..if you say you no go free am me personally go take the matter up myself I bet you..

DSC7:
She won't be aware until we see one on one...

No pictures, and she doesn't know my name and family name when we were together....

Many things changed

Please let them be, if she finally find out, let her decide not you please. Ignore as if you don't even know her

DSC7:
It's a small world as u earlier said....

You never can tell who ur present spouse is related to "until one day"

Wondering about such things is how you land yourself quickly locked up in a mental hospitals/institution.

A person's past is his/her past.

So long as it is not in the present, let it go. That is why we are urged to learn how to forgive and forget from an early age, even though most remain too wrapped up in thinking everyone else's world revolves around them to get a clue.

Ftheophilous:
E be things ...so after dating for 4 years plus she doesn't know your real name...wow.

DSC7 does she know this one?

Haven't you seen something like dat before?...

No be everybody dey give their real names out...

kazyhm:
Just send picture of you and her to him



That will open the discussion



Do that please, don't postpone the evil day as those F Monikas are suggesting

I don't have any of her pictures and she doesn't have mine too...

Even my bro doesn't have any of my pictures because i rarely take pics...

Kobojunkie:
Wondering about such things is how you land yourself quickly in mental hospitals. A person's past is his/her past.

So long as it is not in the present, let it go. That is why we are urged to learn how to forgive and forget from an early age, even though most remain too wrapped up in thinking everyone else's world revolves around them to get a clue.

Wahala

DSC7:
Haven't you seen something like dat before?...

No be everybody dey give their real names out...

I haven't. No for that long.

Back to the case, if you guys dated codedly such that no mutual friend or friends of you and your brother knows about the affair, then the both of you can codedly drop it. Otherwise, you can discuss with her about it - since you said she's a reasonable person - and then come up with a mutual agreement whether to tell him or not. Na flex una flex, una no kill person na.

Ftheophilous:
I haven't. No for that long.

Back to the case, if you guys dated codedly such that no mutual friend or friends of you and your brother knows about the affair, then the both of you can codedly drop it. Otherwise, you can discuss with her about it - since you said she's a reasonable person - and then come up with a mutual agreement whether to tell him or not. Na flex una flex, una no kill person na.

You got my point. ...

Na to see her discuss before then be the koko....

Except i collect her digit from my bro but e get as e be....

Rydermaverick:
Which one be wetin go make her sad?
I say make you free that gal haba..if you say you no go free am me personally go take the matter up myself I bet you..

Nawaooo.....

Shey no be say you sabi her like dis?

NOC1:
Your family is destined for her, don’t put asunderooo

DSC7:
Nawaooo.....

Shey no be say you sabi her like dis?

You wan know abi?
If your skin no full no put body..on how I hear say anything spoil for there mark my words you go hear from me..

DSC7:
You got my point. ...

Na to see her discuss before then be the koko....

Except i collect her digit from my bro but e get as e be....

I get your point. but if you see as the matter be, na to find chance visit your bro, collect him phone and get her number from there. Then contact her and from there una go discuss go. All these na for your bro sake, cos if he find out himself, with the way you describe him person, that marriage fit no see month end o...

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Your friend with benefits? Or Your ex?

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

Gaskia. Blood is blood. Tell him .. just tell him

Don't betray him!

Bola146:
Please let them be, if she finally find out, let her decide not you please. Ignore as if you don't even know her

Wait ... I be think sey you dey joke. U well so?

So, the young man should let him brother marry a girl he slept with for about 6 years.

He needs to tell his brother; his brother should decide to continue with the marriage or not.

I might be ruthless and hard-hearted but never to my brother. I've got just one!

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Wahala

Wicked people plenty for Nairaland. Me sef, wey think sey I bad . Can see how despicable this is. It is a betrayal, to have such vital information and yet conceal it.

You have slept with your brother's wife, Mr. OP

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

You'rea very bad women, devil'sadvocate

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

If you truly call this guy your brother please tell him , i beg you with name GOD

taiwotimitt:
Either you tell him or not, what will be, will be.

Do what you think is right and respect yourself

I have one question for you, if your brother hide this kind information from you but you later found out, how will you feel. Let us tell ourselves the truth

Qatar2022:
You'rea very bad women, devil'sadvocate

Exactly how your mother gave birth to you hypocrite!

NevetsIbot:


But just be quiet about it. It’s been a long time since y’all had anything to do with eachother. She didn’t to anything bad by choosing to have sxx with you.. I mean, you both agreed to have mutual sxx.and that period is over.

Unless she has an history of hoeing that you know of. Leave them be.

Your turn don pass... no spoil another person garri with your sand

Will you be happy if you found out your brother hide this kind of information from you. Tell yourself the truth

Elporo:
Wait ... I be think sey you dey joke. U well so?

So, the young man should let him brother marry a girl he slept with for about 6 years.

He needs to tell his brother; his brother should decide to continue with the marriage or not.

I might be ruthless and hard-hearted but never to my brother. I've got just one!

I guess you are the one with insanity, what if he didn't show him?

DSC7:
I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...

Tell him through phone. If you don't tell him now you will live to regret it because anything that happened to him in that marriage is on you

Elporo:


Gaskia. Blood is blood. Tell him .. just tell him

Don't betray him!

That is why you should know most of your spouse siblings while dating.

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Oga, no pour sain, sain for ur brother Garri oooo. Just lock up. Abi the girl don dey enter ur eye? Just lock up. Allow them to marry happily.

Qatar2022:
I have one question for you, if your brother hide this kind information from you but you later found out, how will you feel. Let us tell ourselves the truth

Normal thing, it will pain me but life goes on...

DSC7:
Normally we are done...

I just dey imagine the shock from both party if i show for the wedding...

You have to find a way to convince your brother to introduce her to you.

This will enable her know their is a connection between her fiance and you so she can make her decision

This is super story
A life of strife and sorrow

Bola146:
I guess ^{you are the one with insanity}, what if he didn't show him?

^{Una bad character must show at least provocation however;}

I will still tell him. before or after marriage.

My brother will know. It is his decision to remain with the girl, not mine.

Bola146:
Exactly how your mother gave birth to you hypocrite!

I talk am