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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by LyfeJennings(m): 9:48am On Dec 30, 2021

U don't have to chase her but lock up
Forget the relationship
Even when U go to that area
No do like say U see am
A simple hi is fine as greeting

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by captain247: 9:48am On Dec 30, 2021

Kriss216:
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The greatest tragedy to befall any man is to be a SIMP and also have a SIMP as a friend or bro.

�� my belle o. Chai this guy ur mouth no good at all. So you mean now say him and his bro na SIMP ��

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by dokxavi: 9:49am On Dec 30, 2021

Forget her, forget the shop. She paid some money on the shop too, leave it for her but if you are mischievous like me, plead with her to give you a loan (what you spent on the shop but don't tell her that) and just disappear. That loan is the money you spent on her shop. To use this strategy, you have to be stubborn, bold, angry and be able to justify it even to the police.

It's actually best to leave this sort of people, don't have anything to do with them again. Just tell them you are no longer interested.

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Chrisgod001(m): 9:49am On Dec 30, 2021

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

What advice again do you need, You are doing this much for someone you are not married to. Better call off that relationship now and ask her to leave the shop. Next time don't be stupid for a lady.

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by TheRareGem1(f): 9:49am On Dec 30, 2021

This is really a unjust treatment from your lady, and it shouldn't be allowed to happen. Lemme commend you for investing in her, you really are a good man and would be a good huby, and I want to appreciate the fact that you open one for your mum, it commendable! For your lady to have stand on her feets, thinks thinking she can do and undo by treating you anyhow is uncalled for, don't disturb yourself, let her know her behaviour lately and how it doesn't sit well with you, from there, she would talk whatever is in her mind as for the other men, you have no course for worry, the end would be bad for her and for her alone if she make a bad decision because you can't eat your cake and have it. Man up bro.

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by lequama10: 9:50am On Dec 30, 2021

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

my brother you deserve your peace, create distance before u make any move or say anything, she get another shop, then you let her be.. Note make sure you stop sleeping with her... Maybe that's where u hooked.. Stop sleeping with her I believe you will have clarity..

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Rogerss(m): 9:50am On Dec 30, 2021

Do you want an advise or want to confirm if your next line of action is okay.
2022 is coming, people should value themselves more.

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Nobody: 9:50am On Dec 30, 2021

Lightway:
Your bro is a loser. He wants your downfall... That girl will soon give you HIV and Gonorrhea and you will die before her

Comrade be calming down please, don't cause high blood pressure for OP

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by 1nigeriamyfoot: 9:50am On Dec 30, 2021

Bobloco:
In the words of Mosdii

Nigerian girls are useless........all of them

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 30, 2021

OP,your foolishness knows no bounds, this is the highest stage of Simpson.

You're a mumu man.

I don't advice simps sad

, let them continue simp-ing around while the red pillers keep playing the game

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by phill63(m): 9:51am On Dec 30, 2021

Amotolongbo:
Many men do not know when to act as a boyfriend and also when to act as a husband.
A boyfriend is a boyfriend and should not be confused for a husband.

Anything you do as a boyfriend or girlfriend is done kindheartedly and just have the mind that it is an investment that may end up being a bad one and move on.
I invested on my man cos I was in the position, thank God I do not regret that anyway

If you know that you can’t withstand having a bad investment, don’t spend on your gf or bf
There is no law binding gf and bf. It is all affection and any investment in it isn’t different from charity.

Hmmm!! Eziokwu!! shocked

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by johnsmhelia15(m): 9:52am On Dec 30, 2021

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

I mean no disrespect sir but you're a fool

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Pimine: 9:52am On Dec 30, 2021

Kriss216:
[b][/b]

The greatest tragedy to befall any man is to be a SIMP and also have a SIMP as a friend or bro.

Aswearugaaad

Yessir!

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by RomanGreen: 9:52am On Dec 30, 2021

Bellaobella:
Please don't listen to any advice asking you to behave matured
You have tried for her and she is not even showing respect or appreciation
Send her packing out of your shop

Her refusing to buy you food with her money is enough red flag

And you're a woman, I love you for speaking the truth.

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by ogwuche4u(m): 9:53am On Dec 30, 2021

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

Only invest in her when she is your wife. When you invest in any random girl cos you two are fucking is waste of investment. Only your wife deserves investment from you. Guys be wise. Most girls are oloshos in disguise.

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Solofresh2: 9:53am On Dec 30, 2021

Amotolongbo:
Many men do not know when to act as a boyfriend and also when to act as a husband.
A boyfriend is a boyfriend and should not be confused for a husband.

Anything you do as a boyfriend or girlfriend is done kindheartedly and just have the mind that it is an investment that may end up being a bad one and move on.
I invested on my man cos I was in the position, thank God I do not regret that anyway

If you know that you can’t withstand having a bad investment, don’t spend on your gf or bf
There is no law binding gf and bf. It is all affection and any investment in it isn’t different from charity.

You too much kiss

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Victorclean1: 9:53am On Dec 30, 2021

The truth is that the era of good sameritan is over. Women these days were highly manipulative especially Nigerian women.

Please don't give/ do for a woman what you can't forfeit. Never place your egg in one basket. Have as many girl friends as you can to make you more important.

In this condition ,she will fight to keep you. That's when you will manipulate her and dig her pussy die but not mine. She will spend to keep you. Am a woman, we know ourselves.

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Nobody: 9:53am On Dec 30, 2021

The worst thing to ever happen to a man is to be a SIMP and having simps as friends angry

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Pataricatering(f): 9:54am On Dec 30, 2021

Lightway:
Your bro is a loser. He wants your downfall... That girl will soon give you HIV and Gonorrhea and you will die before her

lol - when you ppl dey distribute penis up and down una no dey remember gonorrhea and syphilis .

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by udomas(m): 9:54am On Dec 30, 2021

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

See finish at it's peak!

Most guys dey f big time

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Jeezuzpick(m): 9:56am On Dec 30, 2021

finishmatter:
WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril .

I'm happy for you.

Because your Dad didn't heed such advice in his time.

Rather, he married your Mom and they had you and your siblings.

There are other men like him, so the world still has hope.

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by baconline(m): 9:56am On Dec 30, 2021

Just walk away and forget about her for your own good

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by descartes400: 9:56am On Dec 30, 2021

Amotolongbo:
Many men do not know when to act as a boyfriend and also when to act as a husband.
A boyfriend is a boyfriend and should not be confused for a husband.

Anything you do as a boyfriend or girlfriend is done kindheartedly and just have the mind that it is an investment that may end up being a bad one and move on.
I invested on my man cos I was in the position, thank God I do not regret that anyway

If you know that you can’t withstand having a bad investment, don’t spend on your gf or bf
There is no law binding gf and bf. It is all affection and any investment in it isn’t different from charity.

When you invested in your man, was your man using the investment to chase other women? Did his attitude towards you changed? Did he become utterly disrespectful and void of rational sense as displayed by the OP's fiancee?

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by directonpc(m): 9:56am On Dec 30, 2021

dichvu:
thanks

Bros please evict her from the shop.

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 30, 2021

Victorclean1:
The truth is that the era of good sameritan is over. Women these days were highly manipulative especially Nigerian women.

Please don't give/ do for a woman what you can't forfeit. Never place your egg in one basket. Have as many girl friends as you can to make you more important.

In this condition ,she will fight to keep you. That's when you will manipulate her and dig her pussy die but not mine. She will spend to keep you. Am a woman, we know ourselves.

Proudly Red pillers. cool

this is why red pillers are the real men out there!!

Having 5 girlfriends is an insult to a Red piller, we have as many as possible and then we keep playing our games smart cheesy

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by toffyz(m): 9:57am On Dec 30, 2021

Amotolongbo:
Many men do not know when to act as a boyfriend and also when to act as a husband.
A boyfriend is a boyfriend and should not be confused for a husband.

Anything you do as a boyfriend or girlfriend is done kindheartedly and just have the mind that it is an investment that may end up being a bad one and move on.
I invested on my man cos I was in the position, thank God I do not regret that anyway

If you know that you can’t withstand having a bad investment, don’t spend on your gf or bf
There is no law binding gf and bf. It is all affection and any investment in it isn’t different from charity.

Wow!
What a brilliant comment!

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Blake755: 9:57am On Dec 30, 2021

Amotolongbo:
Many men do not know when to act as a boyfriend and also when to act as a husband.
A boyfriend is a boyfriend and should not be confused for a husband.

Anything you do as a boyfriend or girlfriend is done kindheartedly and just have the mind that it is an investment that may end up being a bad one and move on.
I invested on my man cos I was in the position, thank God I do not regret that anyway

If you know that you can’t withstand having a bad investment, don’t spend on your gf or bf
There is no law binding gf and bf. It is all affection and any investment in it isn’t different from charity.

Sister men rarely betray women who stand on them during tough time bt women reverse is the case. Meanwhile Well done op u don win ballon dor SIMple man award

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 30, 2021

guy you're a pussy. that your bro is a pussy also. like you should be shot for posting this thrash. you have failed as a man. for you not to have the courage to caution the girl means you're a cunt and it will not be well with you. ode

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 30, 2021

b1111:
Ehn now!

How you go open shop for gf come dey complain for here, e wrong now! I force you open shop for am.

Werey and wetin you dey find for her phone, and you want make babe dey buy food for you cos you rent shop for her, shey you nor see say you mumu ni.

Your babe done see you finish, see finish them say wetin, complete am,

I no dey give advice abeg, find a way.

Stop dating girls younger than you, dey will not hear. That girl just dey start life, so she must explore. I only date girl of my age or older. Them done see life tire, so na them go give u sure peace of mind. They dont get much attentions from men. So when u date dem, Dem go hold u tight

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Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by ghettochild(m): 9:57am On Dec 30, 2021

You are dating an ingrate plus she doesnt respect you...
Give her days to pack her wares..
Then lock the shop.
My brother..you're too young to die from heart attack ooo

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Raregem33: 9:58am On Dec 30, 2021

What happened to using this shop for your own business.Develop yourself and not your girlfriend.An orphan has nothing to do with character and attitude. You are not perfect but she is not good for you.Go and apologize to your mom and take the shop back and start doing something there.why did you not eat from where you were coming from.i don’t know how long you and your brother have been dating but he also needs to stop giving you such advice.Dont settle this with her ..Send her out and use the shop now.your decision will determine how your 2022 will e.

Re: My Fiancee Disrespects Me A Lot by Amotolongbo(f): 9:58am On Dec 30, 2021

descartes400:
When you invested in your man, was your man using the investment to chase other women? Did his attitude towards you changed? Did he become utterly disrespectful and void of rational sense as displayed by the OP's fiancee?

How is it so hard for you to understand the part “....I did not regret it .......” before asking me needless questions!

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