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Nairaland post of 2021.....
Apart from Igbo vs Yoruba post
The next boring post on Nairaland in 2021 is how guys( Boyz) are angels, while the Girls are bad.
The third post is APC vs PDP
Finally, the struggle for japa teams

Elporo:
Some washed up individuals like Palema007 and BadRadio would disagree.

They advocate for marrying women like these.

The pile of trash Nigerian women have become you can only learn if you stop this love nonsense and start paying for sex.

Thats when you see you lovely girlfriend playing games like
1. Choke me daddy
2. 1 stroke up 2 stroke down
3. Where's the spit
4. Above the rim

Money is the only thing that makes Nigerian girls "sexually sincere"

see bitterness o ! Lol ,.Nigerian women are pressing this ones neck .

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

Oga, if u are dealing with ladies see it as if u are doing with over grown babies. If u like give her 1 billion naira when u get broke she will not remember all of those things. She will move to the next available guy. If she buys sweet for u , u must pay her buh if u help her get something from the market with your money n u demand for the money she will hate u for life

Wow, you can as well leave the relationship.

NB: I'm trying to make a post on Nairaland. Please how do I go about it?

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

Sorry ooooooo. In the first place why invest in a woman that you are not yet married to? That's a big mistake. Forget about her and all the investment and count it as part of your losses and move on. A broken relationship is always better than a broken marriage.

You still address her as your fiancé, bro, you are just a guy she knows, nothing more

Sit her down and boldly tell her wrongs na, if she apologise or react negatively by insulting you, tell her it's over and walk away....don't try to get your money back from her o, try and move on by firstly deleting her number!

Delete her in your mind because she doesn't at all care about you

DannyXpress:
Wow my fellow simp

Comrade We'll be having a meeting by 4pm today, make sure you don't miss it.

Let me tell you the truth. But if you want me to lie, i will lie.

She's a hooker and you're one of her customers, and when she's done with you, she will dump your sorry ass.

Make I come the meeting abeg

Kriss216:
Another one.


Y'all will agree with me this year is truly YEAR of the SIMPs.


Guys, we need to filter Men that will follow us to 2022.

Guy I totally and wholeehartly support u, we really hv to filter them

Pataricatering:
see bitterness o ! Lol ,.Nigerian women are pressing this ones neck .

hey babe... can we have a merry new-year day together in my condo?

ThatFairGuy1:
Should Everything be SIMPISH to you?

Is it bad to help one's fiancee

What's the economic benefit of helping a Nigerian fiancee financially?

Ghetto politician, I want to believe you have sense, please don't disappoint me.

You see that peace you always say huh? You will never have it with that girl, it is obvious that even if you marry her she will behave same way, thank God these red flags are now showing now, if you come mumu urself marry her in the name of say she will change then u have urself to blame...just take a quiet walk, no sympathy in love, dnt allow her use her orphan status to cajole/manipulate it's common with most of them.....a stitch in time saves nine....

finishmatter:
WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.

are you describing your mother? Eyaaa sorry for her o! Your father must have been devastated

Comrade, lower your voice! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO ADVISE YOU NOW! But girls nowadays had become something else and it seems like that evil long hair they do plaite is even affecting their head, brain and every other things. Comrade, I would suggest you take back all your properties and go your way.
I would suggest, you talk to her and let her know that she had changed, that she is no longer the person you use to know before and from this you can apply the above solution! Take your properties and delete her ass.

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

Send me a pm

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

Another Mugu don fall.
You are a fool.
Do not put your money where you cannnot afford to loose it.
Put your money in a place you are sure it is safe.
For no reason should you invest in a lady, you are emotionally attached with but you are not married to....
Can you help clean the mouth of a viper?
You did the right thing at the wrong time,
getting married to her is what you should ve done first, before getting a shop for her,
but now, the snake is almost out of the bag.
If you take back the shop, you ll destroy the relationship,,
if you leave the shop for her, she ll continue to date other men.
She has no parent again, her control guage is lost...
The only solution you can do now, is call her, sit her down for a sensible talk.
Tell her what you observe about her dating other guys, and her disrespectful act, tell her how it makes you want to dislike her,
if she is still yours, right there she ll apologise and assure you, that she will change.
But if she is no longer yours, right there she will flame up, and be rude. If that happens Then you can tighten the odds, take back the shop, and leave her alone.
But if she apologises and promise to change, then let her continue in the shop, and watch her closely.
And when you see the changes, go ahead and marry her asap.
Then her head will set better...

Beremx:
are you describing your mother? Eyaaa sorry for her o! Your father must have been devastated

That's too harsh naa madame!

In all your doings avoid being a SIMPle Man

from your write up, I perceived you to be that type of guy that spends and spends and keep spending till the girl you're trying to woo accepts.

that girl is an opportunist and you were an option to her, now she has so many BETTER option...why settle for less?

even if she doesn't flirt alot even to the point of going to meet another man IN YOUR PRESENCES, you shouldn't settle with a woman that can't use her money to buy you launch.

count your losses and move on...dont take back the shop, as doing that would be very childish of you.

leave her to be thinking you guys are still dating, leave all expenses of the shop to her since the business is booming as you claimed. notify her she is paying half the rent since she shares the store with your mum.

reduce your presence, reduce or sieze calling her, cut all financial support you are already giving her that you didnt mention here...and go look for someone that truly deserves you.


THAT FILTY BIIITCH DOESN'T DESERVE YOU.

Is like this month of December 2021 is dedicated to sharing man and woman wahala on Nairaland.


If you want to make front page, just share your own man and woman wahala, fiam it will land on front page, even if na how your man or woman take de knack you akpako, it will surely land on front page.

Possibly a good way to end the year!

Elporo:
Some washed up individuals like Palema007 and BadRadio would disagree.

They advocate for marrying women like these.

The pile of trash Nigerian women have become you can only learn if you stop this love nonsense and start paying for sex.

Thats when you see you lovely girlfriend playing games like
1. Choke me daddy
2. 1 stroke up 2 stroke down
3. Where's the spit
4. Above the rim

Money is the only thing that makes Nigerian girls "sexually sincere"

Please bro can you explain all that you listed. I'm lost.

Which one be "where is the spit" " above the rim".

Guy, send her packing jare! And make sure u take anything that u bought with ur money, let her take what she bought with her money, she feels that u can't take back that shop, cus she has put time in d business, abi na money weh she dey collect from the other men she put for d shop, n u thot it was growing? Guy separate from that babe as soon as possible, make those other men carry am wholesale, u il see that those ones go run too,

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

OP,your foolishness knows no bounds, you're wasting your money and resources on a runs girl and a street girl, this is the highest stage of Simpson.

You're a mumu man.

I don't advice simps , let them continue simp-ing around while the red pillers keep playing the smart game

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

You have to show her attitude. She thinks you are weak to act
Move her out of the shop first

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

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Na childish thing make me who I be today. Maturity na for who get plenty money n rest of mind. Abeg begin de do childish thing from now henceforth. It's really helpful

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

[b][/b]Na childish thing make me who I be today. Maturity na for who get plenty money n rest of mind. Abeg begin de do childish thing from now henceforth. It's really helpful

NGArmyTerrorist:
That's too harsh naa madame!

his comment is harsher. You can’t make such stupid comments and ir won’t turn around to be a boomerang. Is his mother not also a woman?

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

i wonder how a man will invest heavily on a girl he is yet to call a wife,even a self dependent wife is on her own arrogant nit to talk of someone u re yet to call your wife,i wonder when some men will learn something,always thinking with their gbola.maybe one of ur siblings have been asking u for money and u gave him thousand and one reason why ur goods re still on the high sea.money that u can still use nd marry u dey sponsor girlfriend or rather ashewo.if u see this cow now hustling on the street,u will feel he has one important project he is financing,not knowing that it is pussy ambassador

Beremx:
are you describing your mother? Eyaaa sorry for her o! Your father must have been devastated

WOMEN are INCAPABLE of Love.
They are intrinsically selfish.
Marry them at your peril.