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Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Spherical77(m): 9:51am On Jan 10, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie:Amen! |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by donolatunji(m): 9:52am On Jan 10, 2022 |
KingAzubuike: I keenly agree to your opinion. There's a notion that I tell my folks on issues like this, and it's simply "when you (as a child) become a parent(,as a father) you'll understand better" periodt. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Qatar2022: 9:52am On Jan 10, 2022 |
finishmatter:Stop replying this kids here please for your peace of mind |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Equity15(m): 9:53am On Jan 10, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie:just leave him. He thinks it's easy. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Spherical77(m): 9:56am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Qatar2022:Even fathers know that children loves their mother much more than them. They understand the bond from womb mother shares with the children and after birth. They understand the pain and risk she took in having the children. They understand the sleepless night, the tears when the children aren't in good condition and they have come to terms with that We love both parents no doubt. Nonetheless, the mothers love will always outweigh that of the fathers to some extent |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Fe190: 9:57am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77: Just for clarity, did the father not also stick with the mother through thick and thin? |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Bmaster(m): 10:02am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Omakraid:just read again what you wrote,this time slowly... I bet you,you won't find it meaningful |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by OlawaleBammie: 10:03am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77:i understand u but do u know women are manipulative?? Most of dem but not all. Am currently with my gf as we speak, my atm is with her, she's withdrawing money from my account to run the house as usual and a no mind as i am not the tym. Yesterday one of her customer gave her money but she kept it in her handbag , this morning we she was goin out she told me she would love to eat vegetable soup, out of the 2600 that was in the ous, (the change remaining from yesterday) she took 1100 and left 1500 for me, i ask why she said 1k should be enough as its only vegetable and fish she want to buy. But as a caring man, i told her to take another 1k from the 1500 she left behind and bring the change without minding that she has her own money which she can contribute. Let now assume we hav a kid or two, out of the 2100 i gave her she buys things if 500 for the kids, dat is when u will see her telling the kids that its her money she's spending on dem and how she suffers to make those monies. instead of apportioning my credit to me, noo dey would want to claim all |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Qatar2022: 10:04am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77:I still maintain my stand that you're not married because if you do, you won't be saying this |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Slynation(m): 10:04am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77:Baba speak for yourself oO... |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by omosuper(m): 10:05am On Jan 10, 2022 |
chatinent:I will always give more to my dad because he manages my mother properly. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Matthew2925(m): 10:08am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Cause my mum is my everything and my world. She has made me who I am today. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Spherical77(m): 10:08am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Qatar2022:My father isn't married yet for him to know that children tend to love their mothers more than the fathers right? |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by CondemnBattery(f): 10:10am On Jan 10, 2022 |
I wish I could give you more likes. You have spoken like a real man that was both a child and is a husband. I have copy your response to my other thread Ofadaman: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by ivolt: 10:10am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Femi8586: It is poverty that make is fuelling these kind of topics. When a father or mother is comfortable on their own, your presence and not your gifts will be more appreciated. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by mukthar2000(m): 10:14am On Jan 10, 2022 |
I was always conversant with her face thought out all the years she breastfed me that she was very careing tmothet that I most always pay her back too as well. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by enambobo(m): 10:14am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Heterodox:Na lie. Check in Bible times. Fathers were the ones blessing sons not mothers. God in heaven recognize the blessings of fathers because he is the direct head of the family. Abraham blessed his son Isaac, Isaac blessed Jacob, Jacob blessed Joseph and the list goes on. where you see say mother bless son for Bible? |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Spherical77(m): 10:17am On Jan 10, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie:Yeah you are right. Some mothers are manipulative no doubt. I think it's naturally in women's nature to manipulate except those who chose not to utilise it. But come to think of it, is it still possible for mothers to manipulate their grown children? Like children who is way above 18 and possibly in the university or done with school? I felt it's almost impossible to achieve that because those children are grown, wiser and smarter to fall for their mother manipulative tactics. Also you know as Africans. They assume even if your mother abandoned you for another man and you became a successful young man. It's expected of you to look after your mother. They'd start preaching how she carried you for 9 months, gave birth to you, such her breast and many more. That alone will wash off her sins you get |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Fe190: 10:19am On Jan 10, 2022 |
ivolt: We tend to use poverty to try to end discussions, are you saying that the rich parents don't also appreciate gifts from their children? Or in case you're financially buoyant, won't you buy your parents something on their birthday or just send them something once in a while when you think of them? I don't think comfy parents would complain if you don't buy them gifts, but if you're buying gifts for your friends, it's only fair you extend it to your parents |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by TVTKOKO(m): 10:23am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Gentlemen, no matter how small try give caring attention to your kids.! Show them love and they won't forget this. Most fathers just provide the money and leave the rest responsibility to the mother. The children sees this and they remember. In my case, i grew up seeing maltreatment from my dad to my mum because he had a second wife and this made us get little or no attention from him. Mum had to struggle to cater for her own children, going to school was hell! This is part of the reason why I've not attended a degree program because i had to hussle. My dad is back to my mum now because he had some issues with the second wife. So tell me, if i become wealthy, who's gon enjoy the bulk of my wealth between the two?? I'd surely already built a duplex for my mum before even considering a bungalow for my dad!!! |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by CondemnBattery(f): 10:23am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Yes boss. Enough of the sidelining by wives. Some will even tell the kids how useless their dad is, how she's the one taking care of the family, even when it's the man that provides everything. OlawaleBammie: |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Karleb(m): 10:24am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Alldew: Don't mind them. It is now that they are old that they are trying to blackmail. Granted, we have horrible mothers. Very very horrible ones and I know a lot of people who would easily, I mean, very easily choose their father over their mother any day, anytime. As for me, it's my mother, and it's for the following reasons: My dad earns more. My dad does the basic stuff while my mom is ready to go the extra mile. To buttress this, my dad makes sure I'm not hungry, my mum makes sure I'm satisfied. My dad makes sure I exist, my mum makes sure I live. It's not even about the money for me, it's about the attitude. I love my dad and respect him a lot, in fact, I respect him more than I respect my mum but mama always come first because she puts me first. They both know this and there is nothing they can do bout it. Fathers learn to be responsible and its not always about money. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Heterodox(m): 10:27am On Jan 10, 2022 |
enambobo:lol.. we're talking reality you're mentioning bible. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by enambobo(m): 10:28am On Jan 10, 2022 |
darenzoworld:Which one is spiritual places? They are just playing with your gullible heart. They know with the mention of your mother, they've got your weakest link and chances are high you will believe their story. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by oodua1stson: 10:29am On Jan 10, 2022 |
superintendents:you have been sold a lie. Father's suffer more to raise a family. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by lordally(m): 10:30am On Jan 10, 2022 |
princewarri1985: What happened at the end? How was the matter later handled cos the girl no try at all... |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by omosuper(m): 10:31am On Jan 10, 2022 |
My father had 3wives. The surprise,we all loved him more than our mothers even after he died. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Heterodox(m): 10:31am On Jan 10, 2022 |
CondemnBattery:Let your mother curse you and have your father bless you. Then come around and see if your father's blessings will save you from your mother's curse. Then have your Father curse you and have your mother bless you and see if your Mother's blessing will save you from your Father's curse. You Africans need to start living by realities and leave religion behind. Again, both are as equal and potent depending on the leverage they have on you. That is how good or bad they treated you. It has nothing to do with your book. It's a simple law of nature and universe: If you return evil for good, evil has the liberty to follow you. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by OlawaleBammie: 10:32am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Spherical77: Guy no make me vex ooh, did i send her to give birth to me?? Wen she knows she cant breastfeed me and back me why did he moan wen she was recvn the gbola?? Abeg a no send her message ooh, even my papa that i love so much sef, if i hear her telling me that he did dis he did that i wil tell him to his eyes that no be me tell him to born pikin ooh, wen u know u can shoulder a responsibility why did you put ur gbola inside toto?? For goodness sake we re just products of these people sexual pleasure Make nobody tell me she giv me breast ooh, na only her go first give pikin breast 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by enambobo(m): 10:32am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Heterodox:Knowledge is by experience. How do you mean reality? Did events in the Bible not happen? You had better follow the Holy book and know peace. God in heaven recognize responsible fathers blessings than mothers. But if your father is a hogwash then even his prayers are meaningless. The scripture say a man that fails to take care of his household is worst than a person without faith and even his prayers are meaningless. |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Karleb(m): 10:35am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Yansham: What is this nitori olorun? This is like saying Buhari has a way of brainwashing Nigerian citizens that he is better than Jonathan. I hear this a lot and maybe one day, I will address it but the reason why a child would choose the mother over the father is because the mother did more. Children are not blind, they see things. Funny thing is, all is well when a child chooses his father over his mother. Their is nothing wrong if a child likes a particular parent more than the other, it's not a crime. The reason why my dad would call me is favorite today is because his favorite child fuccked up, I was never his favorite and I accepted and respected that. Enough with this blackmail joor! |
Re: Why Do You Give Money To Your Mom Instead Of Your Dad? by Heterodox(m): 10:41am On Jan 10, 2022 |
enambobo:I don't discuss with religious people. Their ability to reason objectively is averagely nonexistent. That said, the Bible is themed around Jewish culture which is predominantly patriachist. But this still do not come into the power of words as obtained in blessings and curses. Anyone can curse and bless you, the effect is dependent on the leverage they have on you. Mother or Fathers there are no differences. What you presume to understand from a book is of no relevance. An irresponsible father can for all he likes curse his children from now till eternity it'll make no difference in their life because he has no leverage on them. It's spiritual law of cause and effect. Likewise and irresponsible mother. The power to curse and bless is not just inherited by virtue of gender or affiliation, there are parameters that makes them effective. Again, leave your religion behind and face reality. 1 Like 1 Share |
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