Guys wey no get scope for mouth sabi fvck up

...informing her that he's about to get married was the very first huge mistake he made.


You can't ask one girl to abort a pregnancy, simply because you want to get married to another girl somewhere.
Daughters of Jezebel will never agree to run that favour for you; instead they'll very much prefer to run you down.

Make she born na, pikin na blessing..we have experienced such desperate girls in our lives one way or the other

Awa o kin motivate nibi.

freshkpomo:



This na small matter Na, he should go on with his wedding... He is a man and does not need to tell anybody about it. Since the lady decides to keep the baby, then he should be happy because children they say are gifts from God. Now he should send her some money for hospital registration and subsequently for the upkeep of the baby. After like 2years he can start by telling his family he has a child somewhere then when his new wife already have like two children for him, he can tell her aswell. But never he make the mistake of telling anyone she was an ex, cos the day he do na that same day him wife o go on revenge mission and bang that her ex with long preek when sabi do the thing pass your guy, oh I forgot to mention that she might get pregnant for the ex and pin it on your friend..

Lastly make your friend ready money do secret DNA test for this particular pregnancy, him get why.

what if the lady had sex with her ex before the wedding?

Over to mummy GO

Go and do HIV test first.....

alphaNomega:
You're lucky I don't know you, your gf and ex. I will first tell your gf the rubbish you did.

Advise yourself.

If your gf fuçked her ex few months to her wedding, what would you do?

Bastàrd

Na new thing?

Ladies do farewell sex the most! I am a guy, I speak from experience. Na ladies de come collect lashing, then tax me for mula wen dem go take do marriage.

What you don’t know won’t harm you. Na when e cast, na I’m be problem.

Now this particular idiot did not use protection for farewell lashing! That is a no! no!! And that is the problem!!!

Kobicove:


Why are you taking it personal?

The insult is not necessary!

that's the type of post we see on nairaland everyday. In a few hours, a thread on the colour of a celebrity's underwear will grace front page

Here is my 2 cent, continue with your plans, personally I would jave prefer you tell your spouse because nothing is hidden under the sun, one day, one day she will know about the child, the said ex might even want too use it to blackmail you.
As a man accept the responsibility, inform her and pray for finds to cater for your child.

All the best ������

You need to mind ur business my friend, did that ur friend seek anyone advice before nacking his Ex?

Pls leave us alone

Deal with it

I will advise he should go ahead with the marriage but have a one on one with his bride..

Plx ignore the ex gf..

My former colleague fell into same trapped years ago.. today he is regretting marrying the ex due to her pregnancy instead of his bride to be..

So ignore the ex gf .. wen we get to the Bridge of taking care of the ex gf child we shall sort it out..

But for the now marriage must ago ahead..

SmartPolician:
Your so-called friend doesn't need advice because he doesn't have common sense. Since he doesn't have common sense, he needs to be castrated.

So, invite him to your house, cut off that thing in-between his legs, put it in a bottle and throw it into the lagoon.

Marriage is for those who have sense because it takes a lot to manage a home and raise a family.

he ain't gat no sense

Nawa oo...olohun a ba yanju e..ire o

stampo:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders.
This is real matters that needs your advice..

A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.

This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on.
During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.

During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.

My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him..
My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.

The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels
The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.

Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.

Please your advice on this issue is needed.

Just keep money for DNA Tests,
Dats all i hav 2 tell u

Popjoan:
guy,he said he was joking

If he could think of such joke, that makes him a simp.

I taught this rubbish ended in 2021??

If a woman tells you to do whatever you feels, my brother, know that hot water is on course for you soonest. Whichever the case, just have your mind prepared she is up to something, either now or in the future.

So, what I think is, if you indeed love the lady you intend and planning to get married to, and at peace with her doings and character, face your gongo aso and go ahead with the wedding pretending as if nothing happens. Meanwhile, in case you have not let the pregnant lady know of the venue or date of the wedding, do yourself good by not letting her know. And if you have put her in the know of these things, per chance you can change the venue and date she won't have knowledge of, at your own good. Do this and let the future take care of itself brother.

Sometimes we do things we can't explain. Why life brought it to us we don't know. We feel we make mistakes, but life has other meanings for its scripts. I won't advice aborting the pregnancy because, apart from it being condemnable from the biblical point, who knows the future and who knows the destiny the child is bound to fulfill.

Take this issue as your own demon. Each of us has one that must live with us for the rest of our life

studio14:
for you nwanne

Daalu

Odetokun3:
All the best!

You said All the best �����������������. You didn't even give the op advice

don't smell what you can't eat

Hmmmmm, he should tell his wife to be.

andysmith123:
the wedding should continue while the ex-gf should be the bridesmaid

akajos4real:
You cannot eat your CAKE and HAVE it.
You MUST MARRY TWO WIVES since you want multiple sex partners.
What are CONDOMS for?

Condom sex is not real sex biko

robinso01:
Na mumu dey give advise to such case in 2022. I don comot my hands from topic wey relate to topic like this since 2021.

na I nor no say people like you still they exist for this place na God go bless you there as for this guy na Afonjas na e him be

Olorokori somebody. One thing led to the other my foot. Kaada fun o

stampo:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders.
This is real matters that needs your advice..

A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.

This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on.
During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.

During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.

My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him..
My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.

The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels
The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.

Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.

Please your advice on this issue is needed.

He should continue with the ex girlfriend
At least a baby is on the way

And the fire is still hot between them

One must learn to avoid been in certain situations especially when one is aware of what might happen in those kind of situations. The truth is one has to cut of certain people in life as one moves on. Its not pride or hatred. Its just for the betterment of one's self and sometimes even the other person being cutoff. The deed has been done. There is no point crying over a spilled milk. I would advice he allows his so called girlfriend keep the baby That's if she's pregnant for him and he should at the same time man up to his responsibility in terms of the upkeep of both the mother and the baby. The most important thing is, he should tell his fiance about it and explain to her it was a mistake ( the act of sex with her was the mistake and not the Baby). If she understands where he's love and loyalty lies then no problem everything continues as normal. It would be unwise to call of the wedding just by himself. Its not his call to make but that of his fiance.

robinso01:
Na mumu dey give advise to such case in 2022. I don comot my hands from topic wey relate to topic like this since 2021.

Same here. The op who's the one who impregnated another lady few months to his wedding and allowed himself to betray his love for his wife to be should gtfo with his useless case!

stampo:
Good morning fellow Nairalanders.
This is real matters that needs your advice..

A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.

This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on.
During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.

During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.

My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him..
My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.

The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels
The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.

Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.

Please your advice on this issue is needed.

Are you not his freind? Find advise and give him.

Baba it has happened to someone I know o. Baba went ahead and married his wife and still kept the baby. Dual father things[quote author=Popjoan post=109378463][/quote]

OkikiOluwa1:
Same here. The op who's the one who impregnated another lady few months to his wedding and allowed himself to betray his love for his wife to be should gtfo with his useless case!

Abi na, na him own problem be that