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Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

Is spiritual check under that bed

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

Be honest with yourself and answer my question.
Are sure he loves you or your just one of his baby intimacy gadget?
Get serious with your life and move as fast as you can before its too late.

Prostitute Or Not… Stay Woke!

Obaide12345:
Ladies should stop sleeping wait a guy that have not married to you,must you sleep with him,that is why he take you as a prostitute.

They won't hear you ooooo. . Lai Lai. .

I can guarantee you that. . They must taste the guy.

Useless generation.

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

How did you guys meet?

First impressions are often lasting impressions...

coolcharm:
Dump his ass. You deserve better.

Which better ? After one idiot done fuxk her front , right center up and down abi? Abegi make she continue , cos the next guy will only continue the fuxk Marathon from where the previous guy stopped . Shikena

You made a mistake by letting him carry on that behaviour for so long, have a conversation with him and make him clearly define the relationship and your place in his life.

You made another mistake by bringing this problem to nairaland of all places, this website has been a cesspool for years, this is the 1st time in almost a year if not more that I've come back here and it's still more of the same nonsense.

You would be better served by sending your story to twerps like postsubman on twitter for more matured advice.

PM let me trace him for you

First of all my sister,why did u engaged in premarital sex?
The way u present itself to a man,that's how he will see. He sees u like a prostitute, I am very sorry.
I will advice that,u talk over it,give urselves time, because time will heal ur pains. Before u reconcile with him,make sure u are ready to marry,and he is also ready to marry,and u are his dream wife.
Reconcile and settle down,ok.

I am Evangelist Uzo Herbert Ekene, from Imo State, based in Jos, Plateau State Whatsapp me on 09067314685,let's talk better

herbert2017:
First of all my sister,why did u engaged in premarital sex?
The way u present itself to a man,that's how he will see. He sees u like a prostitute, I am very sorry.
I will advice that,u talk over it,give urselves time, because time will heal ur pains. Before u reconcile with him,make sure u are ready to marry,and he is also ready to marry,and u are his dream wife.
Reconcile and settle down,ok.

I am Evangelist Uzo Herbert Ekene, from Imo State, based in Jos, Plateau State Whatsapp me on 09067314685,let's talk better

In my opinion pre-marital sex is fine as long as both of them are sincere about their intentions and hv a verbal commitment to themselves or they did an informal wedding in their dining room

That's this one thing about some guys, the don't want to be fucking any kind of girl that's not their Wife in there house especially on their bed because it is only made for the woman the will marry. Maybe he's not ready to marry you.

ab1x:
He has a girlfriend. You are just his side chick

Or a wife!

Rachel98:
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.

Trained you well? How? You be original olosho.

Train you well , yet you de do olosho 4 hotel..... Any fvck outside marriage na olosho tinz.

Pikin wey dem train well go wait till marriage. You are just one of the children born in the evening of life.


Guard your boob well b4 it becomes slippers for Mr. Right wey never know say Mrs right don enter market since 1900.

SmellySperm:
C'mon shut up!

Let me ignore you because if I drag you here, even the mods can't save you

He is right, because you are already in the business nah

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

He is likely not seeing you as prostitute but one thing is certain, he is surely not seeing you as a wife to be yet. This I can confirm 100%

Weda dem knack you for house ooo,or hotel ooo or for bush ooo, na the same thing, you be ashawo

Rachel98:
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.

If the bolded is true, you'll not be having sex with someone you aren't married to.

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally.
Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

For your information your boyfriend don tire already he only wants you to Quit the relationship yourself, so if you quit he has nothing to lose after all he don chop wetin e want ...set awon my parents train me well... After enough doggy style wey you don give am...this gender will never cease to amaze me

All this one's are the zisters in church that will be forming Virgin non sense, the guy knows a hoe and Happy to knack you well we'll

Oshodipikin:
Trained you well? How? You be original olosho.

Train you well , yet you de do olosho 4 hotel..... Any fvck outside marriage na olosho tinz.

Pikin wey dem train well go wait till marriage. You are just one of the children born in the evening of life.


Guard your boob well b4 it becomes slippers for Mr. Right wey never know say Mrs right don enter market since 1900.

.

What of the boyfriend of the girl, why isn't he keeping his d*ck for his future wife??

[quote author=Whazar post=108747185]U no even sabi lie

So if he wan gbola u for midnight too u go go hotel mtchew

Abeg shift asahwwo



your mother too is ashawo

[quote author=Whazar post=108747185]U no even sabi lie

So if he wan gbola u for midnight too u go go hotel mtchew

Abeg shift asahwwo

your mother is a big time ashawo

Rachel98:
.... I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship.... [/b]

So if the bolded are true, why are you still saying you aren't a prostitute?

You are unfaithful to your Maker and you are a disappointment to your parents.
The 'judge not' are arriving soon but they said the same thing to armed robbers who are now serving life sentence before they were caught.

Shior!

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

Steve Harvey once answered a question like this on his show. You must set a target for your self. Post me your handle And i will search and send the video to you. I believe it will answer your question.

Truely, nairaland had been turned to a den of kids who just want to say trash... They are detached from reality of life because of the kind of,possibly lives they never had or the poor parenting they had or bad pear influence or some other factors I can't just touch....

Wahala for whoever bring his or her matter here. There was sanity when I joined this forum back in 2006 or thereabout.

Kriss216:
But, are you a prostitute?

no joy...

legba1:
Truely, nairaland had been turned to a den of kids who just want to say trash... They are detached from reality of life because of the kind of,possibly lives they never had or the poor parenting they had or bad pear influence or some other factors I can't just touch....

Wahala for whoever bring his or her matter here. There was sanity when I joined this forum back in 2006 or thereabout.

Serious wahala bro. . Lol.

daddytime:
Those 5-6-year-old kids in the neighbourhood definitely know something you don't know about brother-hotel. Dem go just dey look you like "aunty wey mumu" with corner eye.

By the way, what does this boyfriend do for a living? Im just asking oh.

I'd advise you to buy some lollipops plus some "knockouts" for them this season and sit them down for a gist. Believe me, they'll fill your ears up with original gists about your guy in their innocence.

Follow my suggestion and come back here to update this thread.

Check my siggy...

Sense no go kill you...See format.

In My Own Opinion, He Pretends To Be In Love With You But In The Real Sense, He Doesn't.

He Saw You As A Sex Slave.

But You Women Should Seek For Gods Wisdom To Differentiate Wheat From Chaff Cause That's The Major Problem You Women Have. You People Do Reject Good and Real Guys For Fake Guys.

Regardless Of Your Weaknesses, Just Challenge God With 3 Days Prayer On This; Then Wait For God To Prove Himself To You.