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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 4:49pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:With wetin I dey see about women I fear marriage pass another thing my heart too dey fragile I prefer make I dey on my own than to marry and get problem. I nor want make dem pay me in my own coin (karma) , I'm actually expecting a baby the only reason I dey get hope to live 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntNigerian: 4:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
degamonn:Be Calming Down Naa. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kobojunkie: 4:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
degamonn:He probably does it so he can beat his chest that he he head of his family, right as he pops his hbp medication every morning and evening. Some folks are really vain like that. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntNigerian: 4:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:Ok.. So you dey fear Karma?? Well. It doesn't exist. What exists is this phrase: “What Goes Around Would Always Come Around”. As for your “soon-to-arrive baby”, start now to love him/her already. Pledge deep within yourself to take care of the baby with the of what you can afford (physically and non-physically). Be sure to guide him/her right, so that he/she would never have any reason to fear for any type of Karma. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Klass99(f): 4:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntNigerian: 4:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:As he takes his medication, he would be boasting?? Take am easy on the man naa 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 5:01pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:I will surely do that bro Although I hate single Parenthood, but it's surely Bette than getting married due to infidelity of our Nigeria ladies 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntNigerian: 5:02pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
ibechris:Definitely, she's not helping. .. .. Meanwhile, let me not tell lies, but more than 80% of Nigerian Families/Spouses don't discuss their sources of income and how they would be spent, and the amount to be saved for future projects or emergencies. All they know is: “The man brings the money we need, the wife goes to market and prepare them, and also do the house chores”. 9 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by cococandy(f): 5:04pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:this here 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kajaard: 5:04pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Lol , kobo bursting my brain 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntNigerian: 5:05pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:Since you're expecting your baby, and not planning to live with the mother, no wahalla. Be sure to visit them often. Make the mother happy everytime you visit, so that she would be looking forward to it. Treat her well anytime she visits too. With all these, she won't feed your baby with bad stories about you, and your cherished baby would grow to hate you. Meanwhile, if you love the woman very much, bring her into the house and marry her. It's better to continue enduring the problem and expenses of one sure woman, than to be secretly spending and enduring lots of half-baked cooked-up wahalla on many women. 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 5:06pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Klass99:Dunno things are just on the high on my side 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 5:11pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:I don't think she can put up with me now Psychology I'm not ready to be a husband And I'm not ready to Live in bondage now Anyways thanks bro 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kobojunkie: 5:11pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:Why else would he be doing all he is doing then? Wife dey work, him dey suffer and he has high BP yet he still manages to give her transportation money everyday in addition to practically footing every other bill. He must have paid her bride price too. That would also explain why even as his health crumbles, he continues to stoke that "head of house" badge. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Klass99(f): 5:11pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by akinade28(f): 5:15pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:Honestly, you are very correct. As a woman, I hate it when women act unreasonably. This man has been trying his best and he has just started a business for crying out loud. If the business fails, she will be first to blame him. What happens to cutting cost and managing for the main time. Or better still use her own money to sustain the family for a while till her husband's business is stable. This why men should look beyond shape,face, color and IQ when choosing a wife. Men should consider emotional intelligence as well 17 Likes 1 Share
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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntNigerian: 5:18pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:It's well bro. E go better lass lass.. I understand your conditions well well. I once passed such psychological stage (although, mine was a little bit different in the sense that I wasn't expecting any baby at such stages of my life) |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 5:19pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Klass99:It's still samething a pack of food now cost nothing less than 3500 now, Mheen this buhari na disaster You say sardines ? Only God knows when I had those 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 5:21pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:Thanks bro 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntNigerian: 5:21pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Chaaiii.!! 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntCrazeMan: 5:28pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
This is something that true communication would solve. Let them put heads together and solve the family’s financial mathematics. With that, they would know how much each would be contributing,, or the amount the man would be dropping. Simple. 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kobojunkie: 5:29pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:The man is your typical African man thinking there is a reward for what is his foolishness. Hopefully, commonsense reaches him before it is becomes too late for him and or his marriage. I don't expect his wife to make the move - humans are selfish beings after all. However, the man already knows how painful the situation has become and so he can be the one to take the step in the right direction and actually demand they rehash their couples agreement so he no longer bears all of the lead alone....a move towards 50:50 arrangement will benefit this man at this time. 9 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by BluntCrazeMan: 5:31pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:One thing he lacks is the communication. No doubts about that. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by GboyegaD(m): 5:32pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
They should both have a discussion round it and draw a budget that fits. Why isn't he saying anything about the wife's contributions? 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by akinade28(f): 5:33pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:My advice to the man is that he should use his head. If he dies today, this same woman would still find means to take care of her family all by herself, but the "dead is already dead". So it is better for him to stay alive to reap " the fruit of his labours" over his family. 10 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kobojunkie: 5:38pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntCrazeMan:Terrible situation! He probably didn't bother to communicate the situation with his business to his wife either. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Goldbw122(m): 5:39pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Well you need to speak and settle down and discuss with your wife that would help the marriage. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by NoToPile: 5:43pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
This chop money matter has been causing issues in recent times. This should be the 4th or 5th thread on chop money matters. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Nobody: 6:47pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian: How is this even an issue? She is right, the man should go to the market himself. He would know exactly how much things cost. How can your wife be complaining of a particular issue for 2 years and you haven't tried to visit the market for once. Go to the market, if things are cheaper or more expensive, you will know. This has to be a fake story because it makes no sense! 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Nobody: 6:51pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: With food stuff the man already provided in house? How much snacks can the children possibly eat in a week? Abi na pitzer she dey buy everyday? Then it doesn't make sense because she should know her husband's financial capability before living on such high standards. If na buscuits and normal children drinks, highest she can't spend up to 5k a if she buys it in bulk and makes sure they only take one a day to school. Food is there so they can't be snacking all the time. It's easier to lavish money when you're not the one bringing it. If she's the one bringing it, she'll learn how to manage and teach her children to be content with whatever she gives them. 17 Likes |
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