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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by AntiMen: 3:57pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
fikayormi: I don't like the bossy attitude of men, I hate men being dictatorial, I hate their superiority tendencies and things related, asides that I'm human with feeling with sincere love for my fellow humans.. My husband is such a sweet loving man with the Rev having same attributes.....I'm usually have soft spot for men with those features and this doesn't mean that I boss my hubby around, he's in charge of everything that goes on in the family but very diplomatic and understanding... Next... 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by fikayormi(m): 4:01pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
AntiMen: Your husband will be one big simp cos I’m pretty sure you are the one controlling him and ruling the house . Whatever rocks your boat tho who I’m I to query? 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by AntiMen: 4:23pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
fikayormi: He is not any of the names you called him.. But believe anything you choose.... 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by TimFisher2: 11:32am On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen: My dear I never wanted to respond...but my spirit was troubling me Can I tell you something...you see that sex or sexual frolicking that is making you go hunger between you and the so called man of god Once you have it you will regret it till you die...because things will never remain the same again I envy your sweet beautiful home...never you allow Devil to spoil or scatter it Take it or leave it...once you had sex with this man..your husband will definitely know in one way or the other...imagine the shame..your husband might definitely throw you out of the house..and your children will be most affected..they might curse you and caused the day you choose to be their mother Maintain the woman of virtue you are! See once you start having sex with him...a lot of things will change..guilt will run over you..before you know you will start avoiding going to church and it won't take time your husband knows about your abominable act Not only did you bring Shame to yourself...you did as well brought shame to the so called man of god family,your family,your husband family,church members and the church itself Don't be surprised that the so called man of god might be cunning...he might have mastered the art of seduction game to be making you trip for him..and it won't take time..he gets you down..haven't you disrespected your husband who always hold you in high esteem He should have known his boundary and limits that you are a married woman...if someone is calling out his wife like this...how would he feel?those your friends might have start sensing the connections between you and the man..it won't take time..they spills out the beans to your husband and to everyone in the church..they are just waiting for the moment it will happen You are the reason other non Christians mock us..I don't know what you guys learnt in the Church...picture yourself as Christ is looking at you as you re sleeping with this so called man of god..is that not disgusting? That's why i stopped going to church long time ago...because Christians have ridicule,embarrass and brought down the sanctity of the God most High Please don't ever do it...go home..prepare yourself beautifully and make love to your husband...make it a habit so as to reduce the Konjidietics and tensions and start seeing the so called man of god as your elder brother...you will be alright last last. Lastly don't disclose this to your husband..so as not to bring mistrust..you alone brought this..and you alone can fix this! May God empower and strengthen you as you overcome this temptation..also hold on to God,Pray and He will guide you. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by frozen70(f): 11:59am On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen: That's lust Advice yourself better by being discipline Just like him without having feelings for him |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by kimberlys: 12:07pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by LoveUdie: 12:16pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Urgently report this to God to avoid it affecting your marriage, the career of the Revd, and the church itself. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by kelspinall(m): 12:21pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
[ distance yourself from him,if you chat with him on social media is time you stop, blocking him for sometime may be a little perfect.its not crush rather LUST.] 1 Like |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by SenecaTheYonger: 12:25pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Anti men but Toto dey always scratch you for men even the ones that’s not your husband |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by AntiMen: 1:11pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
frozen70: Thank you ma.... |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by AntiMen: 1:15pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
frozen70: At first I liked him.. Until he started giving me unnecessary attention,that's when crushing began. As I talk to you, I'm in church ,I try as much as possible to focus on my purpose for coming but my mind keeps wandering cos he's here.... I think the best bet is to tell him to avoid me, probably that will make me feel better.... Or I pray he gets transferred from here. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by AntiMen: 3:53pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
TimFisher2: Thanks for the admonitions sir, I'll sure make use of the advice given,but I just want to ask if it's okay to tell him directly to stop calling me out? This is the source of the infatuation or lustful feeling... I liked him as a brother from the beginning but it metamorphosized into an unusual feeling.... I'm just in an entanglement... Just Today again, there was a program in church, I tried as much as I could to avoid him, but guess what as soon as the program ended, just when I was about leaving, I sighted him, but avoided him only for him to call me as he often does, then I proceeded to just talking generally with him before another senior pastor came to interrupt and that's how the discussion ended... I serious feel I'm in an entanglement .... But one thing is sure, I'll never ever sleep or have any form of intercourse with him..... |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by frozen70(f): 4:23pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen: You don't need to tell him to avoid you It's you that will caution yourself Though it seems your mind is made up on him Follow your heart and bear the consequences if any 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Shedrack777: 5:12pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen:then, since you can't find a reason to change church, go sleep with him. maybe that'll make you hate yourself 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by TimFisher2: 5:51pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen: You can't call him out or ask him to stop calling since you don't have substantial claim that he really want you But if I may ask? Why is he calling you out..what does he normally discuss with you all the time...why always you all the time...I am pretty sure you must be very beautiful 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by AntiMen: 6:56pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
TimFisher2: Well , I don't know why.. It's sincerely becoming embarrassing for me....especially in the front of others and he is very loud about it....He can just pass and hail me by calling me "Mummy ...........'', if I try to look away, he must mention it again until I acknowledge his presence. Our discussions are based on general church's activities, he loves putting me on church's program, like asking me to go for Bible quiz, read scriptures to the congregation etc even when he knows I'm not the spirit Koko type... As regards being beautiful, yes I am , always beautifully dressed, have a strong singing voice , I sing differently from the other members of the group,great poise etc... and these exactly are some of the features his wife possesses asides that she's more spiritual than myself.....finish.... I guess I'll be fine.... I'll have to be more intentional about avoiding him, if I have to clash with him, na sharp greet and pass.... Thanks for your concerns. God bless u. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by TimFisher2: 8:05pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen: Is not easy to avoid greeting men of god or rejecting their greetings Is just like shunning the President of Nigeria Now see what you will do! Always stay with your husband all the time starting from tomorrow Don't go alone...you must be going with your husband either at the start of Church program or at the end of Church program, when going out when coming in..if possible be joining your husband in his car..avoid carrying your own vehicle...always stay together with your wonderful husband Do that constantly...he won't have time or scheme to manipulate you again. He will start avoiding you kpatakpata as you have drawn a barrier between you and him Thanks as you do that! 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by saphiere(f): 10:01pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen:This is a male behind the acct just want to rubbish women. You can't say you are married and your handle is "antimen" |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by famology(m): 10:02pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen: Go sleep...... |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen:go to a cele church notorious for broom beating deliverance. Be admitted there n let them flog out the lust in you. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by peacettw: 10:04pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Story looks forged 1 Like |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Rexymania(m): 10:05pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Imagine married woman talking this... Na WA o. Tell him how you feel. No crime |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by MrCover: 10:05pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Nawa o |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by advanceDNA: 10:05pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen: are you looking for insult on nairaland?? Cos people will drag you this night ooo 2 Likes
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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by amazingspiderma: 10:06pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
You just found a man who knows how to treat you in a way you would have loved to be treated. Please make time to speak to your hubby about how you would like your relationship to improve. Express yourself without reservations to him. Until you are open in a relationship, you will not enjoy your marriage. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by zakkxx: 10:06pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
You will burn in hell!! That is a sin against the Holy Spirit! Run away ooo!! Stop that nonsense! |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by rippa(m): 10:07pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
AntiMen:Wahala nor too much like dis so. Ontop this buhari hardship someone stil dey catch feelings |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by advanceDNA: 10:07pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
saphiere: Abi naa..all these men have started again Trying to insult angelic women... we all know Women don’t commit adultery... Even if they do...it’s the fault of the men... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Just remembering that one day you will close your two eyes to dust , you will see that all the things we have or wished for are all vanities . 1 Like |
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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by skales67(m): 10:08pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
immortalcrown: Don't mind the fóol! Her, Saphiere and other so-called man haters here on NL are in the same group. They will come here and berate men but are the worst cheats and have extreme nymphomaniac disorder for men and even boys they shouldn't have sexual feelings for!! |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Obason22(m): 10:08pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
They need to cast out the spiritual husband that is inside of you |
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