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| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Enemyofpeace: 1:14am On Apr 10, 2022 |
You’re a Devil’s incarnate |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by fof1: 1:19am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: You are Crushing Anything...It is Lust that his Killing You Gradually ... Satan wants to Destroy You by using You to Destroy the Family of God, Beware O. Greed or COVETOUSNESS is very Dangerous...Swallow ur Pride and Return to Ur Husband in Loving Ways,Pls. |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by EngrCHM(m): 1:27am On Apr 10, 2022 |
PeachtreeReside: Her husband is not "NIGERIAN MEN". All men are NOT the same. NEVER!!! She knows her husband. |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Gospel2Day: 1:51am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Blunttruth: If she feels same way for her boss or colleague at her workplace would you advise her to "Leave the job. Look for another job"? To many people church is like supermarket. You choose whichever one you like. God plants people in true churches. And you CAN'T just leave for another BRANCH unless by His authorization or permission. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Bruno3000(m): 1:51am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Give ur life to Christ and you will not give in to the desires of the flesh. Its hard to believe u love ur husband Though. AntiMen: |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by koladata(m): 1:57am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by FireUpNow(m): 2:01am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: You need help as you not alright at all |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Apst: 2:03am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Quoting this i want to let u know the devil is manipulating him into u and u into him. From wat u said u didnt want to but pressed kiss emoticon ask urself why didnt u press another sign maybe hate or something? Another thing why is he discussing someone in the church with u not his wife or women leader or ur husband? Sister if u dont show him a disrespective side the devil will use him to destroy ur home even him singling u out for greeting should be suspicious to u and every church member. Both chat and calls and greetings also let ur husband know so he should be defensive of u. It is unholy as a minister to be glancing at a lady while preaching he has intentions. I minister too. quote author=AntiMen post=111373561] Let me begin with your last question...Yes I am .. Then about having intimate conversations with him, actually I don't. Maybe I should tell you how this started, I've stated it before but I will again, He expects me to have attained a level of spirituality which I'm not interested in, so whenever he sees me in church he would remind me to come for activities that would aid my spiritual life but I ain't interested in all that shit, seeing that I didn't bulge, each time I'm in church , whether I'm close or far away from him, he always ensure he calls my name or greets me, I could be having conversations with two of my friends,he will call only my name and pass to show he's greeting me ..Sometimes I feel embarrassed for my friends cos I believe he's supposed to greet all of us and not just me... So because of these actions I began to grow fond of him...I won't lie sometimes I steal glances at him in church and our eyes meet, but I always shrug it off.. I don't really discuss anything confidential with him, and our talks have always been in the front of others...there's nothing more to all of that asides the unusual feeling I'm having... Recently, we had a chat about an issue that concerns someone else in church and I gave my opinion about the matter, after our conversation ,we said the usual good nights and I want to use the normal hands emoticon to indicate goodnight, mistakenly (God's my witness) I pressed the lips emoticon after goodnight, it was so embarrasing. But I left it that way cos it was a mistake and never ever intentional.[/quote]i If its not intentional why didn't u delete it or correct the notion? Like I said from what I sense he is the easiest and closest person the devil can use to get to u. The easiest way is tell your husband and learn ignore him even when he calls ur name to greet. You av seen the hand writing on the wall he himself has that agenda but as a minister its not easy to ask a married woman out so he is trying to create the opportunity by telling u be committed and all those bullshit. I am a minister like I said and its not healthy to single one out for commitment to the things of God when he/she is not the only one in church Most fake pastors in Lagos sleep wit married women as their logic to renew their demonic pledge I know many whom members who left had broken marriages for that. For ur good learn to shrug him off bitterly. The bible says "resist the devil....." Why u must see him as one is the bible says if ur eyes will cause u to sin pluck it off so no matter how important the person or thing is to u JESUS made it expressly clear cut it off!!! So beginning to see this ur Reverend as an agent of darkness will help you!!! Whether u like it or not he has interest in u just as u are developing such so if u don't nip it now u won't be able to. Just as someone said up think more of his wrongs anytime u see him. As a man u have ur limits wit women talk more of a married woman. If he doesn't have an agenda all issues connecting u and him are to be handled by his wife not him. I can imagine a pastor discussing a woman in his church wit another woman not his wife!!! |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by fexyrich(m): 2:04am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:U are a useless woman...period |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by grandstar(m): 2:05am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Gentlerespect76: . |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Babyface33: 2:08am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Claim your righteousness in Christ Jesus and guide your thought . Be Christ conscious and read about Jesus Christ love for you. The person of Grace will help you. |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by grandstar(m): 2:11am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: A lady said that when you start seeing the 20% your spouse lacks in another person, that is when that handshake is going beyond the elbow "The shrewd one has seen the calamity and proceeds to conceal himself but the foolish pass along and suffer the penalty" (Read Proverbs 27:12). Flee from adultery (Read Hebrews 13:4) Best you open up to your husband. Maybe you'll have to change the Church. If your eye is causing you to sin, cut..(Read Matthew 5:29) |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by GreatUniben: 2:17am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Let me be sincere and straight forward, that pastor knows what he is doing. He is trying to seduce you, trust me. He is smart and a psychologist. He knows that ones he get into your head, you will fall for him and ones you fall for him, he knows how to get you. Please, stay away from him. |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by bepositive11: 2:30am On Apr 10, 2022 |
You are very emotionally immature AntiMen: |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by fexyrich(m): 2:31am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:madam this is one of the reasons I hate marrying virgins..U have had enough of ur husband's dick that it's now ur reverends dick ur lusting after...U better find a way to leave that church for ur own good..Tell ur hubby that u are not interested in the church that someone is making advances at u and u are not comfortable worshiping there...Get the hell out of that church before u commit an abomination...Don't ever tell ur rev that u have feelings for him if not if he is not spiritually strong he might fall for it and talk u into having an affair with him..Don't ever discuss that issue with him that will be the most stupid thing to do...Ur reverend is after ur spiritual growth but u are too carnal that instead of focusing on serving God with ur life u are beginning to lust after a pastor...U are a daughter of Jezebel and an agent of Satan in that church..U need serious deliverance |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by alizma: 2:37am On Apr 10, 2022 |
VOsimhen144:Are the men totally free from what the lady is experiencing? You either a child or a child in an adult body. Either ways, your response is childish. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Taigaban: 2:38am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:Just little time you will start crushing on the Pope. Fiction.com |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Nobody: 2:42am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Gentlerespect76: Are you perfect? |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by weaseloo: 2:51am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Poster, These feelings can never end well. It is destructive! It is scandalous. It will destroy your life!! You need to fight it with all your might. Here are my suggestions. * use body language to tell the priest you want him not to call you out. Stop being nice to him. Frown, give him the cold shoulder. * tell the priest that it embarrasses you when he calls you out. He should stop doing it. * Be honest with the priest about your spiritual stance so that he will leave you alone to grow at your own pace. * Find something wrong with him, something that you do not like in men, that he has, nurture this so that your heart can start disliking him. Even if it is the fact that he has a wife and you will never go there, use it. * telling your husband about these feelings can be dangerous and greatly misunderstood, I will discourage that. The only time you will tell your husband is when the priest opens his mouth to tell you that he has feelings for you. That will be reason enough to leave the church. But right now, it looks like it is one sided. The priest has not made his feelings known to you. * pray to God to give you the strength. Pray to God to quench these feelings. * like a lot of people have suggested, leaving the church would be the best option - putting some distance between you and this man. * you should also clear up the kissy emoji. You should have cleared that up immediately and not leave it to linger and give false impressions. * are you sure people have not noticed this your closeness in church? Tongues will start wagging and grow its own shoots that you cannot control. Better do something about it now!! When I was in secondary school, my very very good friend was close to the young priest attached to my school. They were always together, in his car too. People started talking and to be honest, I believed them because I have seen them both together so many times. This is the last thing you want. Keep away from him! Whether he is from your town or not. |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by DrayZee: 2:52am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: Yes it is okay. What exactly makes you think it’s not okay? Is he supposed to be calling out another man’s wife like that? Do what is needed if you’re actually telling the truth here. You keep looking for every reason to avoid telling him off. You think you’re in perfect control, yet here you are, creating a thread about your reverend father. That reverend isn’t oblivious to what he’s doing, and he’s not doing it innocently either. There’s no reason for him to keep singling out a man’s wife like that. Then again, you enabled it. Politely or unpolitely, tell him off. |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by EdwardRandy(m): 2:54am On Apr 10, 2022 |
immortalcrown:And she's even married to another man. Imagine the hypocrisy  Op, If it's too difficult for you to work on your mind towards the reverend, or you're too daft to create an excuse as to why you need to change a church, then book a hotel and Bleep the Reverend make everybody rest. |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Sirdiq21: 3:02am On Apr 10, 2022 |
This topic was since March, why is it appearing in front page now, Meanwhile aunty is a small thing Just open up to your husband He will immediately transfer you from d Church |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by ejieddy: 3:06am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Think... Think it through. So when you start your so called relationship with him, where does it lead? You have sex with him, which might actually be very boring and unenjoyable and then you start feeling guilty... You ruin your home, his home, your children, his children, the church, and incur the wrath of God, of people when you get caught... He marries you and you guys find it hard to feed and then fresh problems you never anticipated begin in that marriage and you begin to wonder what made you make the greatest mistake of your life? Stop being a baby. You can think for yourself. You like him because you don't live with him. You don't know him. For a man to be close to a woman who is not his wife, sister when you marry him, just know that he will be close to another woman too. Hope you will tolerate that when the tables are turned. It should show you the kind of man he is. No good man who loves and respect his wife will ever allow that kind of relationship with another woman. You think your husband hasn't had the opportunity to be close to other women? Strong men will resist that. He may be fine, spiritual, rich and a smooth talker, caring, funny and probably sexy until you start living with him. I'm sure you felt this way about your husband some years ago. Don't be selfish, greedy and ungrateful. Don't be foolish too. Resist the devil. Stop calling him or responding to his messages. Talk to your husband about it. Change church if necessary and don't allow this fire engulf you. You have stopped studying your Bible, that's why lust is appealing to you. Don't be a church goer alone, have a real, functional and progressive relationship with Jesus. I hope you read this and things become better. 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by sabreal: 3:12am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: It's good you are not keeping. Change the the rountine and freffequemcy of interaction. It's natural and wroñg. Bible says a way seems right, but the thereof is death. Take heed |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Abujakenneth: 3:14am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Igba  AntiMen: |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Heavensent01(m): 3:19am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: just súck his dick then you would be fine but wetin dey wrong with these generation of ladies if you truly love your man you won't crush on another man, that's height of disloyalty. make una get sense |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Robbex: 3:26am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Take it to the Lord in Prayer |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Fiscus105(m): 3:26am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Noblewealth: Wen they tell u to reduce friendship with female, you would say no, opposite sex who are not blood related can fall for each other at any given time, most especially wen she sees the traits that are absent in her husband that friend posseses, ....strong among the traits are,* given her attention and ur time, *given her money and caring, *handsomeness and * being romantic Hardly you will give women such gestures that she won't fall, irrespective of her married status, and this can easily be given to woman if you are closer as a friend. You said she has be given you unlimited calls, that shows you are given her so much attentions , perhaps much more than what hubby given her. Let me tell you raw fact, so many marriages today lacking attentions from husbands and for fragile woman, she would fall for outside man that gives her without thinking twice. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Abujakenneth: 3:33am On Apr 10, 2022 |
It's because you have never met somebody like me that's why your are bragging about your body. Someone gave you a good advice up there which is to look out for his shortcomings that will repulse you about him and since you are anti bossy men see him as one that can be bossy. For me I don't like women that are artificial and that eliminates a lot of things for me because more than 90% of the women folk are artificial in nature.  AntiMen: |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Niceiroko: 3:36am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: God answers prayers if you actually desire that it stops God will |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by ScotMisile: 3:39am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:I can assure you that if you mistakenly try this, you will endup sleeping with him like 7 times before your eyes will be opened. I have no advice for you. It's obvious you have made up your mind to kn.@kc him already. It's girls way. Tomorrow now, you will say you cheated on your husband because he isn't a Reverend. |
| Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Abujakenneth: 3:40am On Apr 10, 2022 |
I laugh in my language  AntiMen: |
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