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|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by PaulOtl: 11:00pm On Apr 09|
No, you're just a fool and a tool in the hands of the devil.
All these Joro Olomfin fans self....leave us alone mbok
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Offpoint1: 11:02pm On Apr 09|
GALAXY11 got your dm notification, I don't have access to my email...
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Platony(m): 11:03pm On Apr 09|
AntiMen:Hanty, if u continue this way....u will eventually fall in love with him & God forbids, another thing will follow.
Stop going to his Parish!
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Noeasyway042(m): 11:03pm On Apr 09|
Pastor RIGHTOUSENESS, were are thou? You are needed here now, with immediate ALACRITY!
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by id911(m): 11:04pm On Apr 09|
If you like act on this comment or ignore it. You MUST leave that church ASAP! If you don't, so far you continue to set your eyes on that Reverend gentleman, you'd eventually sleep with him. The end result might be the end of your marriage. Be warned!
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Wande22(m): 11:04pm On Apr 09|
Antimen my sister
Your admittance is the 1st step of killing the feelings
I will want to advise that you kinda limit your chats with him..... Instead of replying back immediately, you wait for like 30 mins to an hour before responding
If he calls, bounce it immediately trust me after a while he will understand.
If he remains adamant in his calls, always allow your husband to pick his calls
Or try to always look at him as if you're looking at Muhammadu Bullharry
I've been down that road and it was damn nasty..........
P.S. He's deliberately "Seducing" you.... Take it or leave it. (In Robert Greene words) and if you think he isn't, try downloading "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene and check other materials online
Pacem to you my sister
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by HRSweetness(f): 11:05pm On Apr 09|
You know you actually want this to be the case.
Let me tell you the truth, if you try so hard to "fight" these feelings, you'll only keep falling. I advise you get busy. You have too much idle time. It seems you are kinda starved of attention from your husband so this attention from reverend is getting you weak in the knees.
Lastly, you keep trying to convince yourself that your body is your dignity and all that talk, if this reverend close mark you, we'll be hearing new lines
Babe, please go to church and hear God's word not looking for reverend's eyes to lock gazes with.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Kingabia1998: 11:05pm On Apr 09|
[ Sister you are already cheating on your husband ]
Thanks for telling me the blunt truth, but my husband holds key position in the church, there's no reason I give that would be meaningful to him except I become opened about the issue...Actually I didn't get close to him, but he ( Reverend) seems to be interested in my spiritual life, often times he wants me do certain church activities which I usually dodge, since then each time he sees me in church, he doesn't fail to call my name, if I'm seated amongst my friends, he will call me, greet me and pass, every time , since then I began to have this funny feeling for him...
It's not that serious though but it's becoming intense unlike before.[/quote]
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|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by seunayantokun(m): 11:07pm On Apr 09|
Aren't you a devil?
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Emeka71(m): 11:08pm On Apr 09|
AntiMen:Simply flirt with him.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by silaswills01(m): 11:08pm On Apr 09|
Spirit of adultery in play here better pray for God to deliver you
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by phemmyfour: 11:10pm On Apr 09|
AntiMen:Start by deleting his number from your phone
2. Communicate less with him both physical and otherwise
This isn't love, it's infatuation
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Noblewealth(m): 11:10pm On Apr 09|
Thanks I appreciate
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by brightalo1010: 11:11pm On Apr 09|
Madam you're mad, most of you church goers don't have single respect for the God you're going to serve, if you have any atom of respect for God you won't be spewing such a rant nonsense.
I thought Bible said such acts amounts to fornication, focus on your husband and stop this foolishness.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by izubext007: 11:11pm On Apr 09|
The only u can stop it is just to stop being foolish and lustful.
U just want to ruin the Reverend career wicked woman.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by na2016: 11:15pm On Apr 09|
First your moniker reads Antimen, that makes me doubt if this your story is true. However, if so, follow what this writer did and you will get solution too. https://www.nairaland.com/7065023/experience-married-woman-being-best
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Upsohigh: 11:15pm On Apr 09|
My observation about life is that some feelings are just natural but we outgrown it as a matter of time, let no one deceive you that you have committed a crime or sin against God to do that. But you have a serious work to do to allow the time fizzle out. Identify why you like him, what is it that suppress your spirit when you see him. Be purposeful and conscious of your dealings with him, greet him before he greet you. Suppress his spirit or aura by being deliberate on what you do. Don't tell him or your husband not to be misjudged. It is a test you have to pass. Above all when the feeling come, smile and tell yourself that "am in charge of the script and i dictate how it will end.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by drlateef: 11:17pm On Apr 09|
Both of you are crossing boundaries, that’s why the feelings develop.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:17pm On Apr 09|
VOsimhen144:What a true statement
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:19pm On Apr 09|
immortalcrown:That is to show How stupid that gender is
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by HRSweetness(f): 11:19pm On Apr 09|
I can bet you've done this a thousand times in your head.
Why are you insistent on knowing how he feels about you? What do you intend to achieve with that information?
Please note, once you go ahead and commit this sin, even if God forgives you, you'd be disgusted with yourself cos you can't undo what you did and in your head, your moral record is not as clean as it was. That's if you indeed have high standards for yourself.
Do NOT confront him.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by airliner(m): 11:20pm On Apr 09|
[quote author=AntiMen post=111373561]
Let me begin with your last question...Yes I am ..
Then about having intimate conversations with him, actually I don't.
Maybe I should tell you how this started, I've stated it before but I will again, He expects me to have attained a level of spirituality which I'm not interested in, so whenever he sees me in church he would remind me to come for activities that would aid my spiritual life but I ain't interested in all that shit, seeing that I didn't bulge, each time I'm in church , whether I'm close or far away from him, he always ensure he calls my name or greets me, I could be having conversations with two of my friends,he will call only my name and pass to show he's greeting me ..Sometimes I feel embarrassed for my friends cos I believe he's supposed to greet all of us and not just me...
So because of these actions I began to grow fond of him...I won't lie sometimes I steal glances at him in church and our eyes meet, but I always shrug it off..
I don't really discuss anything confidential with him, and our talks have always been in the front of others...there's nothing more to all of that asides the unusual feeling I'm having...
Recently, we had a chat about an issue that concerns someone else in church and I gave my opinion about the matter, after our conversation ,we said the usual good nights and I want to use the normal hands emoticon to indicate goodnight, mistakenly (God's my witness) I pressed the lips emoticon after goodnight, it was so embarrasing.
But I left it that way cos it was a mistake and
La u sabi.. Yoruba say kilokon mi
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by VicM6: 11:20pm On Apr 09|
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Akorkor(f): 11:21pm On Apr 09|
She's not foolish. Why is everyone bashing her?
You have the right to feel but please don't let it get into way of your marriage. As far as men can love or even do rubbish in their marriage, as a woman too you also have feelings.
Maybe you need to try and open more communication with your husband. Find what the two of you love and flee away from evil. You are human and it bounds to happen.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Visasolution048: 11:24pm On Apr 09|
So you want to say as mature as you are, you don't know when to cut the thread. To be candid, What feelings are you feeling now that you haven't felt before? I thought people agree to go into marriage when they've fully understood the dimension of life...Or is there something you are getting from this reverend that your husband is lacking??
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by hush15: 11:24pm On Apr 09|
Are you a daughter of Jez ni that you sha wan ruin a reverend life
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by HRSweetness(f): 11:24pm On Apr 09|
And this right here, is the crux of the matter.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Alexisjoe72(m): 11:25pm On Apr 09|
Gentlerespect76:Hahahaha is swear you no well oooo.
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by ukpahu(m): 11:26pm On Apr 09|
madam your days in hellfire are numberd
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by iamrealdeji(m): 11:32pm On Apr 09|
What reason will I give my husband for not following him to church.
Blunttruth:Christianity itself is really flawed. A woman would even barely know her Imam in Islam unlike in Christianity where men and women would hold hands in the name of praying and the sexual attraction would start even while praying. No matter how small a mosque is,men's entrance would always be different from women entrance and there is always a wall that separates men and women in mosque,only that the wall would have few perforated blocks only for women to see what's going on during prayers,they follow the voice of the imam and pray and they watch the back of other jamat through the perforated blocks to know the progress of the salat(prayer)women are not allowed to speak in mosque raising opinions or sing or raise their voices due to their naturally sexy voice. They are only allowed to speak among themselves. You can never stare at a woman in mosque cos you would find it difficult to even see her at all,also,women are very much encouraged to pray indoors. God is everywhere. Islam is beautiful and that's why Saudi Arabia and other middle eastern countries have the lowest prevalence of HIV with 0.001 percent and Saudi Arabia is the safest place on earth for women according to studies
|Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by merits(m): 11:33pm On Apr 09|
It's normal it happens sometime like that,but make sure you keep an arms length with him and moreso stop to chat or call him for any reason.the lust will disappear from you automatically.
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