LadyRosa:



Why you dey fear to born na,Tinubu is coming,him go make dollars equal to naira and baby food go cheap pass sprint chewing gum.

lol. Money isn't the issue self. But if you see wetin I see for labour room. I was actually inside there, not ready for that kind stress

@op I blame your wife 90%. This could have be avoided. She's selfish and ignorant of the fact that economic situation in Nigeria is really affecting everyone. This could have avoided, now the deed is done. I will chase everybidy out of my house, both neice and cousins. Then I will tell her to be ready to share the bill and she must provide for the family. I feel if one knows the what it takes to make money and plan how to spend it, when you calculate it, you should know what to do. Tell her tough road ahead madam as you plan am prepare to carry this burden.... Don't let this disturb you. Do what you can leave the rest for her simple!!!!

@op I blame your wife 90%. This could have be avoided. She's selfish and ignorant of the fact that the economic situation in Nigeria is really affecting everyone. This could have been avoided, now the deed is done. I will chase everybidy out of my house, both neice and cousins. Then I will tell her to be ready to share the bill and she must provide for the family. I feel if one knows the what it takes to make money and plan how to spend it, when you calculate it, you should know what to do. Tell her tough road ahead madam as you plan am prepare to carry this burden.... Don't let this disturb you. Do what you can leave the rest for her simple!!!!

BabalawoPikin:
lol. Money isn't the issue self. But if you see wetin I see for labour room. I was actually inside there, not ready for that kind stress

Bro, I am just tired of going through the baby things again... abeg,

Family planning is not for the woman alone.

As your wife refused the idea, what did you do? Couldn't you have taken precautions yourself?

Bottom line, stop blaming your wife alone for getting pregnant. Both of you are fully responsible for the baby.

Begin to pray to God to expand your means so that you can provide for everyone in your house.

And once the baby arrives, both of you should settle this issue once and for all. So that another regretful pregnancy will not occur again.

hermesprogidy:
Na dem like am pass.

But they pretend alot...
Life dey oo

The OP can always get a vasectomy. Why must be wait for the wife?

Kilotat:
Next Time don't just tell your wife to do family planning, You & her should fix an appointment with your family doctor (or a public dr.), Take her their and the Dr. Will run some teses and will recommend the good planing that suit her health

There's nothing wrong in being fertile. If she no give you children now na anoda story.

This reminds me of a woman who had a baby not up to two months ago, making the 5th children. The stupid husband ran away leaving the wife and 5kids and the yeye woman do not have work o.

Some women just won't learn.

KLand:
Family planning is not for the woman alone.

As your wife refused the idea, what did you do? Couldn't you have taken precautions yourself?

Bottom line, stop blaming your wife alone for getting pregnant. Both of you are fully responsible for the baby.

Begin to pray to God to expand your means so that you can provide for everyone in your house.

And once the baby arrives, both of you should settle this issue once and for all. So that another regretful pregnancy will not occur again.

Best response!

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

100k..nor worry u go soon mad..wwonders shall never end..how una take they do am..me with only 2 kids with an income of 300k I still dey call brother..abeg borrow me 10k first..bros which state it has to be the north it cant be southsouth..una dey try o

Must you cum inside her?
Whenever you are close to cumin just remember the many expenses involved and you will remove the dick ursef. I don't know how to depend on anybody in my life. So I take charge

Mmmmmm who said family planning is only for women, men to can plan their family.. How many children did both of you plan to have? Let her not terminate the pregnancy after this make sure both of you go to the hospital to choose the family planning of your choice recommended by the doctor.

Put your trust in God.

It is better for a woman to give birth at her early age. Postponing giving birth always result to irregular menstruation, uneasiness during pregnancy and difficulty at the time of birth.

By the way, do you think God cannot expand your provision or you have agreed with yourself that you cannot progress? God is unlimited, He is Ar-Razaaq.

When you dey dive raw, what do you expect

If she no gree do family planning then you do vasectomy





Shikena

Ndidi2:
pls let her have it now.
Giving too much Gap is not too good for her.
5 years is rather too long.
E no go easy and complication fit follow
Our body dey some how.

Yeah ....5yrs is too much but I know someone that gets pregnant after four to five months, and she will be claiming fertile....even the husband is tired but what can he do ?. She says protections doesn't work for her

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

When a woman tells she she knows what she's doing it means she doesn't 80% of the time.

Don't belive such statements from women. And guess what she might still put the blame on u.

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

Family planning is a shared responsibility. If you don't want kids anymore, you know what to do.
But don't leave it to your wife and be steadily knacking her and ejaculating inside her vagina.

OP, I'm a man but I blame you not your wife. Most times we expect our wife to do everything that should be collective responsibility. Two of you didn't have enough conversation regarding family planning, I'm sure if you give her option like you using CD or pulling out, she would have agreed to her going for family planning. Family planing is a collective decision, I'm married for 10years now with an 8year old daughter and 6year old son. Myself and my wife had a conversation about family planing and she opted for one. And must be honest with you, we are both not the sex crazy time but whenever the urge to have frequent sex comes I still ensure I pull out bcs I'm afraid family har tendency to fail.

By God's grace, financially I can take care of more kids but to me raising children isn't all about money. I wanted kids I can give enough attention, I wanted kids I can conveniently go over their homework with them and revise with them while writing exam. I want to know my kids in and out an the more the the task become impossible.

My submission is that men should have thorough discussion with their wives when it comes to famiy planning and it must be a collective responsibility. Some ladies don't care and believe child bearing is competition. More reason husband need to know it's a collaborative effort, if the woman insist, the the man should use condoms

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

Well-done, the two of you should sit down and talk it through though. She might have her reasons for not wanting to do family planning, not every woman the family planning suits there body, some grows fat without shape while some grows thinner and you will be wondering what could have happened to her and some might be falling sick every now and then so you can't really blame her.

You as the husband, have you ever heard anything called vasectomy? You can as well go for this if you don't want any child again and your wife still insist on not doing family planning. Thanks

Kobicove:
Give her a share of the bills in the house to be settling herself so she will understand that the economy is very tough!

You head too correct....This is what u get when women don't contribute anything financially.

opera1:



I can't blame her, she's not satisfied with two kids. Don't feel bad or afraid of tomorrow God will surely take control of everything.
Love her more and take care of her.
Put the option to her after her delivery.
May God grant her safe delivery in Jesus name Amen �.

IF YOU ARE DONE HAVING BABIES AND SHE REFUSE TO FAMILY PLANNING, ALWAYS USE PROTECTIVE.

OR YOU CAN GO FOR VASECTOMY.

u are very stupid for this comment

Nyascobar1414:


Werin redpillers do you aunty

Aunty Nyascobar1414, Red Demon Pillers you mean?

Kobicove:
Give her a share of the bills in the house to be settling herself so she will understand that the economy is very tough!

did she impregnate herself? Why OP sef no use prevention?

Ahmed0336:
I somehow like myself. Back then, I took her to the hospital, sat there till all the procedures were completed.

She later said she won't do family planning after my first two kids, I said no problem.

Kongi wan kill her, I just lock upppp

She said I should use condom, I said I won't.

That we should try withdrawal method I no gree.

She report me tire to those concerned, I refused to shift ground.

Nobody tell her, she had to insert again before we continue

Oooh!!!

Family wahala...

You wanted to finish her with konji ...But why are women stubborn in those areas..Las las she will agree after the initial gra gra..

Every reasonable man married, must Factor in Economy while enjoying his woman..Number of kids no be problem, the main say is giving them quality upbringing and strong foundation.

DriverX:
Maybe you should talk to your penis since a woman can't get pregnant on her own volition.

So d man should start wearing CD

tiffanyfan:




Yeah ....5yrs is too much but I know someone that gets pregnant after four to five months, and she will be claiming fertile....even the husband is tired but what can he do ?. She says protections doesn't work for her

like me l HV 2 boys both are in ss1 and js2. I had them within 2yrs 3 months they are growing to be friends infact they are best friends..
So many advantages giving birth within a reasonable range.
Especially for women.l can't go in details here.

Decide how many u want 2 or 3 is ok.
Then do sharp sharp and forget about child bearing and Hussle hard.

U will never regret it.

If u even wait longer cost of things are going higher everyday.
When l gave birth to my last l bot small Pampers diaper for #350 now is in thousands.

M just worried about my fellow woman health and life ..
Please do give it a good thought.
God will provide for u.

Tradegood:
Aunty Nyascobar1414, Red Demon Pillers you mean?

wertin redpillers do you...
You just dey carry their matter 4 head..

Nyascobar1414:


wertin redpillers do you...

You just dey carry their matter 4 head..

Their d.emons too vile.

Bro.. I can understand your pain but don't do anything stupid. The child is yours, it already happened... Don't abort or abandon! Raise the child.

You and your wife should see the doctor and do the family planning together.

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

O boy I Don laugh tired. God is your strength OP.