New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

You are very rude and stubborn for referring to her parents like that. Every parent wants the best for their children and every parent wants their children to grow in the way of the lord.
That is why I advise young girls to stay away from sex when you are not married.

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

If you make her terminate a pregnancy at such an early stage of her life, it'll be the beginning of more that you will make her terminate because you will still keep having unprotected sex with her, in which she's likely to keep getting pregnant.

Let's terminate the pregnancy. After all, we've done it before. It's not like it's the first time.

Then, when you're done damaging her psychologically, you will conveniently realize later on in your life that she's not good enough for you to marry.
Not after countless abortions she might've committed for you, forgetting you were the one who deflowered her.

You better not damage that girl if you don't want to be unfortunate in your life!
If you know what is good for you, you better do the right thing!

If she has good character, and you love her and you have the means to take care of the baby and her , keep the baby .,

If the bolded Dey in place , you will never regret it now or later. Good luck

baralatie:

How is it different from those who are married

I don’t understand the relevance of this question to my post.

My dear, I believe you are a Christian.
Abortion is a grievous sin and God will not take it lightly with you.
The deed is done..... Just stay with consequence of your action.

The bible says we should keep the bed undifiled
Also, our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

The bible also discourages a man starting anything with a woman when he is not ready.


If you loved the girl in question, you would have gone to pay her bride price or abstain from sex until you both are ready.

Please do not abort that child because both of you won't be able to live with the aftermath of shedding blood.

Go meet her parents and pay her bride price.
With that both of you will have peace and plan your future.

Marriage no be BEANS

God bless you

We4all:


I highly doubt you’re a married woman. You speak without emotions and see abortion as a normal thing.

No sensible, responsible and selfless married woman would ever feel the need to abort a pregnancy; unless she was medically advised to . But you did this twice and you’re very proud to say it. Shame on you!

You and your hubby are the most selfish beings. You both want to enjoy unprotected sex but are callous enough to discard the consequences of that reckless act. The blood of those two fetus will hunt both of you till the end of time.

To think that you feel that your two living kids have more rights to live than the aborted ones is just unacceptable. Bookmark this page and in future, come and quote me.

I live you to your folly ...

Take care and enjoy the consequences the pregnancy brings......

Adieu....

Zonefree:
Congratulations Baba ibeji!

When you were having marathon unprotected sex with her, what were you expecting? Plasma TV?

hahahah

Welcome to fatherhood.... Daddy Wisdom

Congratulation young man.

But when you are having unprotected sex with her you should know the result will arrive one good day.

Anyway be man and be ready to be a father, no excuse young man. All thee best.

Chatinent, sir.

Your attention is urgently needed.

I read your response to a similar thread

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

I will go straight to the point, but mind you I don’t endorse terminating the pregnancy. You are both adults and will live with any decisions you take for the rest of your lives so think carefully here. Considering her age, family background and all, if you must terminate the pregnancy even though you detected it early please do it the right way. I’m talking about D&C, those abortion pills can be dangerous. Goto a proper clinic and make sure she is well taken care off. Withdrawal method has a 70% success rate no matter how skilled you are if you keep nacking without protection you will eventually get her pregnant.

New222:
.
Thanks, I got your advice anyways.

Oga, go and abort that thing. Dont mind all these stupid advise here

Guy, keep the baby. Even if her father disown her, he will still accept her back.

Ire o

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

You do not have two choices here , you have one option keep the baby, don't you ever try to abort that baby , hustle marry the mother simple, if she was good enough for you to be bleeping her up and down then be ready to man up and shoulder your responsibility

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

Just be a man and hold on to your responsibility so you start early so you going to going the long way now, God be with you, let her have the child and things will get hard but when you see the child you will smile with joy.

keep the baby terminating it is not the best option

Kate06:
Sorry

What other people are praying for. I am even looking for a gal who will get pregnant for me.

Don't regard what anyone will say. The love both of you have for each other will be put to test now and be a man and stand by her. She is your wife as it stands now.

Its less than 9 months,let the baby live. Start saving #20k each month in preparation for the arrival of your kid. I would like to come for the naming if you don't mind.

listen to yourself guy? Stop commenting on public forum to decieve and put your fellow ignorance ones astray

You're even looking for someone to get pregnant for you. What a life!

To you, once you impregnate a girl then she automatically becomes your wife while you become the husband

I dey like people like una to cross my path. You'll not live to see the child. That is if there's a true prophecy not to opt for abortion o. If otherwise, after terminating the pregnancy. Women will automatically become alien to you.

New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

What if she died while trying to remove it? You better face the consequences and be at peace. If you kill that baby you become a murderer and that makes you a murderer

Kate06:
Sorry

What other people are praying for. I am even looking for a gal who will get pregnant for me.

Don't regard what anyone will say. The love both of you have for each other will be put to test now and be a man and stand by her. She is your wife as it stands now.

Its less than 9 months,let the baby live. Start saving #20k each month in preparation for the arrival of your kid. I would like to come for the naming if you don't mind.

listen to yourself guy? Stop commenting on public forum to decieve and put your fellow ignorance ones astray

You're even looking for someone to get pregnant for you. What a life!

To you, once you impregnate a girl then she automatically becomes your wife while you become the husband

I dey like people like una to cross my path. You'll not live to see the child. That is if there's a true prophecy not to opt for abortion o. If otherwise, after terminating the pregnancy. Women will automatically become alien to you.

If you expect me to tell you to go and abort that child you are mistaken. My advice, find job now and be ready for family life. But no matter what you do, except your parents really help you. If you have to take care of the girl and the pregnant within few months you will understand why Nigeria National Pledge ends with SO HELP ME GOD.

60% of the people here have aborted a pregnancy, you're not first...if the pregnancy is not up to two months abortion is safe...

Don't use pills, go to a good doctor...it's safer that way...everything will cost like 20k

You'll also be a murderer niyen sha... Wah state do u reside??

Some people here who are advising you to keep the baby know deep down in their hearts, if they were in your shoe, they wouldn’t keep it.
I just have some few things to say & a question to ask u based on what you have written up there…

1. What becomes of that girl if in the end, she keeps the baby and u on the other hand goes for someone else later in life and abandon the one that had a child for u? Probably at that time, she must have long dropped out of school and disown by her parents …..

Do u think if she knows both of u might not end up together, she would ever consider keeping the child ?

I’m asking this because from the look of things, u really don’t have any idea of the long term effects of any of the options before u…
The girl on the other hand doesn’t have up to 2% of what is before her. If she knows, she probably would have aborted it long before telling u she was pregnant so so so time … The truth about life is beyond what they tell u on social media platforms.

Let me tell u a short story…
My first girlfriend was one of the daughters of a top redeem pastors in Lagos …she was brilliant and got admitted into the University early . She was 19 while I was 26….don’t try to think I got her pregnant �… she was t pregnant. Her immediate elder sister who came for pre-degree in those days got pregnant for a 300L law student who said he doesn’t want any child …not even in the next 8yrs from that time… but this girl was so obsessed with the guy and decided she won’t abort it even if he forsakes her … the guy actually stopped conversing with her and she didn’t care. She decided to not tell her parents about the pregnancy so that by the time they would get to know, it would not be possible for them to consider abortion again….. Of course it was easy for her because she didn’t go home for a long time. To cut the long story short, she later decided to go home after about 4 months…. Immediately the father saw her that she was pregnant, he didn’t even wait for the mum to return. He immediate took her in the car to a hospital in lagos, that was owned by one of his friends, and removed the 4 months old baby….Baba didn’t even bother asking her who, how, when and why it happened… The pastor removed the child straight away…. I was shocked. Till today, I will never forget that incidence…

For your situation, consider several things before u decide on what to do…. I wish u the best in whatever u do.

When you were naking her raw , did you seek for our advice ?

This one we dont even know where the country is heading

Insane people want a 80 year old man to rule Nigeria with all this mess we are already into...

May we not jam agbako....If you have funds to keep it,then keep it but that means robbing that girl of proper education and family wahala....

I hope its not a decision you both later regret....know without money and with money...Nigeria is not easy.

Keep the child, Never Stain your hand with some one blood through abortion which may result in the death of the lady and your baby, if that happen, it will be a long time blow on your personality.
Now, do this...

1. open up to your family, tell your mum, find a way to let your dad know.
2.let them know of your decision to keep the child
3. they will take it up from there.
4. Brace up and be ready for castigation and all manner of insult but it will not last.
5. REPENT OF YOUR SINS AND BE BORN AGAIN, this is actually my sole counsel,
as you can see, there no gain in being promiscuous, NO profit in any form of juvenile delinquencies it will destroy you at the end
regardless of it present benefits.
6. see to it that you do not fail in life through this distraction BE A RESPONSIBLE MAN, BE A CHILD OF GOD
farewell.

alexvic12:
Chatinent, sir.

Your attention is urgently needed.

I read your response to a similar thread

Yeah, chief. I responded here already: https://www.nairaland.com/7169355/just-got-someone-pregnant-advise/3#113630838

U didn't seek advice when nacking her so do the needful we have alot to worry about in this sinking country

Bro wen u Dey chop her like carrot u no seek for advice ooo but as wetin u plant germinate u begin Dey find advice...(was just pulling ur legs) my advice is dis,what has happened has happened take it as a man!!! There are people our dere looking for dis bundle of blessings will millions of naira,bro I would never advise you to abort,NEVER!

DriverX:
LOL

It's safer to keep the baby than abort it..

actually abortion is safer than child birth.

Discuss with your parents, if they are ready to take care of the responsibilities if her parents send her away then keep the pregnancy.

If not terminate it.

baralatie:

There is Johnson and Johnson
There is cussons baby care set

And there are some modern baby products but Vaseline is not bad sha
I think they have Vaseline baby care products I am not sure

..ok no problem.. but they also have baby care Vaseline..I have seen it in some shops when I want to buy somethings

Congratulations! Penisteroy