Don't mind the single mother u quoted, always in defensive mode even when no harm is intended.
Anything that denigrate men makes her cum.
A failed feminist,
The other of her colleague was seen celebrating getting married at 52.

Anyways ,I have forgiven her.

quote author=DenreleDave post=113750056]

If you had sense, you would know that this is not Abt calling people out...

This is abt what's happening in most marriages..... We are just seeing it here openly but it happens in most.....

And what is rude abt talking abt marital issues [/quote]

Because those women have achieved their goals.
Marry,get pregnant and have kids the end.

[quote author=ahnie post=113755466]
Oga leave me and my marriage and family alone,my husband is not cheating and has never cheated.

I also need you to know that...I fee King owe you no apologies, you're not a stakeholder in my home.

I don't know if any of your sisters are having turbulent marriages,but leave my home the feck alone....

Pls channel your obsession with me to getting a better job and be damn fruitful to the society.

This would be the last time I would ever caution you again.

Cc: Lalasticlala
Chidi2022
Seun
Royalroy

[/quote
Sorry about this thread I like how you dey take cruise

It is well

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Her Choice not to mention or display her husband.. prolly for privacy reason..she rarely show her face too..
That doesn't mean she despise her husband tho..he might be a nairalander and not ok with it..learn to think and stop calling people out in a rude manner..

You don't even have no business with her family..she didn't make a complaint to you...what's the fuss all about huh?this is her account not her husband's..or you expect her to tell ya about her husband and all?

Talking about mentioning her husband..shve done that on some of her post..so chill and stop whining around..

OP stop quoting the writer roughly. If u are a married fellow u would understand better. Have a lovely day

Yall dont even have pvc. Damn

DenreleDave:
I still don't get.. Are men built to work and not enjoy?

My first instance: A very popular nairalander loves to show her kids all time which is not bad but she doesn't even mention her husband.....
What baffles me most is this statement; "my money is for me and my kids"...

Does it Mean a wife cannot even treat her husband well too?

I guess this is the main reason some men ignore their wife and kids to enjoy their lives... They know that most kids grow to love their mother..

I don't blame such men.... But I don't hope to have such a wife that have the mentality of my kids and I ALONE?


2ndly, I feel most women are not happy in their marriage which is why all they live for is their kids.. The only reason why most ladies are still under the same roof is because of the kids and their lack of financial resources to stand alone... Most are just having sex, doing mommy and daddy bcoz of the kids but the true essence of marriage between has long dissappeared...

If not, in my own perception, a happily married woman should be proud of her husband. She should happily treat her husband well. She should say wonderful things about her husband.

Marriage dey fear me walahi....

You can't eat your cake and have it

Miskasham:
My biological mother is a foolish and demented frustrated slowpoke.. She maltreated my simp father to death... i hate her so much..
Escaped aborted foetus

Ahhh pele.... Don't kill your mother oooh...see vein for all your neck.... frustrated animal... Your useless mother should have swallowed you as a BJ...SOB.....
This is what DenreleDave wanted, for ahnie to have opportunity to run thier mouth..Just like you an idiot is doing... Get your smelling balls out of here...

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Now slide off and learn to think with your head not ya fingers..

that Dude is sick. You tackled him well

Because having kids is fuçking hard!!!

If you feel neglected, you need to grow the fuçk up!

Miskasham:
stop vomiting rubbish like a frustrated slowpoke

See you now, I am guessing you're a man. One day one unfortunate woman will marry you and have to eventually become unhappy. Simple objection is hard for you on a faceless forum without venom. You probably will hit your wife just to pass a message across. It is well....do you think violence breeds happiness? If you want peace then be peaceful! May God move evil away from me! Hian!

Some men are deadbeats. Life bleeps them over and they decide to just sit there and let the world keep ramming their ass. So the wife loses respect for them and they lose respect from wife and hence, no sex. I believe women are straightforward humans, what you put in is what you get out of them.

ahnie:

He's obsessed with me.....I don't have attention to give to him,I think he's jobless becox if he isn't,he would not carry my matter like bone straight.

Able bodied men I know invest their energies in making their lives better...like I said before,I owe him no damn explanation and he would never get my attention.


It beats my imagination...on a Monday morning like this ... you're suppose to be at work or think of what to better your life,you just dey carry my matter for head.

You're pained that I didn't join my husband in the fun....your coconut brain no be you reason welda he dey around or not or hates public places.

You go just dey open mouth waaa waaa dey talk anyhow.continue monitoring my every moves .

aunty em no mention names nau...easy with the gbas gbos...na busy body people mention your name wey make you enter here as well.if not you wont even know it was you that the thread was partially directed at...

JONNYSPUTE:
....Note that not everyone has the right understanding of exactly what coming together of two different people to become one means.Hence the wrong attitude of saying her money is for she and her kids.

If we men starts having such mindset then there wouldn't be anything like marriage.

So I agree with you that women do that alot and it isn't fine.

Polygamous men are looking for love.



Is the Lord not Wonderful?

DenreleDave:
I still don't get.. Are men built to work and not enjoy?

My first instance: A very popular nairalander loves to show her kids all time which is not bad but she doesn't even mention her husband.....
What baffles me most is this statement; "my money is for me and my kids"...

Does it Mean a wife cannot even treat her husband well too?

I guess this is the main reason some men ignore their wife and kids to enjoy their lives... They know that most kids grow to love their mother..

I don't blame such men.... But I don't hope to have such a wife that have the mentality of my kids and I ALONE?


2ndly, I feel most women are not happy in their marriage which is why all they live for is their kids.. The only reason why most ladies are still under the same roof is because of the kids and their lack of financial resources to stand alone... Most are just having sex, doing mommy and daddy bcoz of the kids but the true essence of marriage between has long dissappeared...

If not, in my own perception, a happily married woman should be proud of her husband. She should happily treat her husband well. She should say wonderful things about her husband.

Marriage dey fear me walahi....

No let marriage fear you, just apply wisdom in choosing your future partner. Whatever you read in the book can help you to some extent but as you are preparing for marriage,pray for patience and tolerance.
Marriage problems plenty gan and reasons for the above plenty gan. Every marriage has its own problem that's why book written on marriage cannot address all. Patience and tolerance will help you overcome whatever challenges your marriage throw at you.
Get into marriage and face yours.

Beremx:
that Dude is sick. You tackled him well

Fidel the beggar, you are another nuisance talented in using your other monikers to beg, no wonder you are supporting that thing who failed in keeping her man.

DenreleDave:
I still don't get.. Are men built to work and not enjoy?

My first instance: A very popular nairalander loves to show her kids all time which is not bad but she doesn't even mention her husband.....
What baffles me most is this statement; "my money is for me and my kids"...

Does it Mean a wife cannot even treat her husband well too?

I guess this is the main reason some men ignore their wife and kids to enjoy their lives... They know that most kids grow to love their mother..

I don't blame such men.... But I don't hope to have such a wife that have the mentality of my kids and I ALONE?


2ndly, I feel most women are not happy in their marriage which is why all they live for is their kids.. The only reason why most ladies are still under the same roof is because of the kids and their lack of financial resources to stand alone... Most are just having sex, doing mommy and daddy bcoz of the kids but the true essence of marriage between has long dissappeared...

If not, in my own perception, a happily married woman should be proud of her husband. She should happily treat her husband well. She should say wonderful things about her husband.

Marriage dey fear me walahi....

The bond between a mother and a child cannot be broken, even God knew that, and that's why He created every pregnant woman with an umbilical cord.

It doesn't mean that wives love their children more than their husbands, it's just nature.

My 3 month old baby may need my attention, love, and care because he/she can clearly not take care of him/herself but my husband can and will.

Second, motherhood is alot. And Nigerian men are in the habit of over stressing their wives. When a mother has tended to her kids, cleaned the house, shopped at the market, and done the laundry, she has little time left for her man. My sister once told me that she stopped having a full night's sleep the day she became a mother.

Third, you expect me to love a man that cheats or will cheat over my dearly beloved child that I nurtured in my body and brought into this world?

Impossible!!!!

DenreleDave:


Thank u for the bolded.. My point exactly....

...

Because that's all most women want from males...money and kids. When you make it worse by betraying her with side chicks, your own don finish be that.

Saintmary:



Polygamous men are looking for love.



Is the Lord not Wonderful?

.... And who is a polygamous here?

If you can have a child without marrying, please do! Marriage is a scam!

1. Taking care of children requires time and focus. So many women have to balance time for their husbands and children, not everyone has househelp or grandparent to help.
2. The motherly love is very strong for her children, men should put this in account before getting married-a woman will go extra for her childrens, she will respect you more if she see you are invested in your children
3. If your wife love you, then there is nothing to worry about- . Just do your manly duty as a provider, love your wife by treating her right and taking care of your kids
4. Friendship is very important before you start dating. I heard couples who started as very good friends who later became husband and wives. When a woman loves you, you too u goo feel am. Plus the same will carry on into marriage.

Nationally women are exploiters. Once they believe they cope without you they will change. Those Red pillers may be over doing what they preach, but their ideology about woman's behaviours are 85% correct �.

That is why as man make sure you secure your future and old age.

JONNYSPUTE:
.... And who is a polygamous here?

Jamb Question

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Her Choice not to mention or display her husband.. prolly for privacy reason..she rarely show her face too..
That doesn't mean she despise her husband tho..he might be a nairalander and not ok with it..learn to think and stop calling people out in a rude manner..

You don't even have no business with her family..she didn't make a complaint to you...what's the fuss all about huh?this is her account not her husband's..or you expect her to tell ya about her husband and all?

Talking about mentioning her husband..shve done that on some of her post..so chill and stop whining around..

Even this hermaphro.. too dey talk

ahnie:

Young man.i m too busy to banter words with you.you raised this issue because I posted my outing with our kids.

Harunawest drew my attention to it....abeg I use whatever you hold sacred to beg you...stay the feck outta my home.i owe you no explanation.

That being said....Do well to have a nice day.
Peace!!!

Which home? My friend go and sit down.
Last year, you were insulting me, I was just looking at you. You don't know that Karma will mess you up so soon.
Your family has become an object of public entertainment and you have become a public nuisance.
When you uploaded those pictures yesterday, I knew you were irredeemably stupid. What came over you?

You lack sense and shame.

DenreleDave:



I understand you but I don't understand the concept of my Money is for me and my kids.....

It's called a family...... Where all things are for all..

Hanging out or not is not an issue.... But the truth still remains that most wives give less priority to their husband after birthing kids

Show me a woman with a faithful husband that has this my money is for I and my kids alone... none!

It's the infidelity of our men that make woman like this!

If a man has money for side chic he better not expect to enjoy his wife's money!

Saintmary:






Jamb Question

.....You mentioned me saying rubbish. Pls don't try it next time. I don't do kids.

DenreleDave:
I still don't get.. Are men built to work and not enjoy?

My first instance: A very popular nairalander loves to show her kids all time which is not bad but she doesn't even mention her husband.....
What baffles me most is this statement; "my money is for me and my kids"...

Does it Mean a wife cannot even treat her husband well too?

I guess this is the main reason some men ignore their wife and kids to enjoy their lives... They know that most kids grow to love their mother..

I don't blame such men.... But I don't hope to have such a wife that have the mentality of my kids and I ALONE?


2ndly, I feel most women are not happy in their marriage which is why all they live for is their kids.. The only reason why most ladies are still under the same roof is because of the kids and their lack of financial resources to stand alone... Most are just having sex, doing mommy and daddy bcoz of the kids but the true essence of marriage between has long dissappeared...

If not, in my own perception, a happily married woman should be proud of her husband. She should happily treat her husband well. She should say wonderful things about her husband.

Marriage dey fear me walahi....

Your last sentence said it all bro
Marriage dey fear me

pozehnani:


From her posts, it looks like the man is not doing anything cos of the way she goes about her hustle like someone who's got no support from her spouse. So how do you now expect her to share the proceedings with him by treating him to a nice outing?

A woman will always naturally reciprocate if her hubby is the supporting type.

I would treat my man to special dates if I enjoy same luxury from him too.
It goes both ways.

Generally, you are right about this. You can never go wrong with a man who provides and supports. If your woman has to break her back to survive while you are alive and well, resentment would set in. A man who knows his onions should never allow that.