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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by azammi(m): 1:19pm On Jun 17, 2022
You can keep Quiet still.
Ximenez:

There's nothing like "keep quite"
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Ximenez(m): 1:32pm On Jun 17, 2022
azammi:
You can keep Quiet still.
It's quiet in between a sentence, not "Quiet"

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by azammi(m): 1:56pm On Jun 17, 2022
You are acting like a fo*l, KEEP QUIET.
Ximenez:

It's quiet in between a sentence, not "Quiet"
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by incandescentena: 2:03pm On Jun 17, 2022
Prettygirl200:
That's why your mother and sisters are HOES.

Farm tools WTF is wrong with your tits?

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Ximenez(m): 2:04pm On Jun 17, 2022
azammi:
You are acting like a fo*l, KEEP QUIET.
Get yourself educated first, you can't be poor and unlearned at the same time.
You are also everywhere making noise, using loose instead of lose.

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Freelane33(m): 2:06pm On Jun 17, 2022
MIND YOUR BUSINESS MY SIS .
Maythelordhelpus
Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!


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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by grandstar(m): 2:08pm On Jun 17, 2022
Islandlady
Please inform your friend.

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Freelane33(m): 2:10pm On Jun 17, 2022
Persephone1:
Op if your friend is a good man , I mean a responsible and sincere Man call his attention to it.

If he is not, well do the opposite and mind your business. The two fit each other!
This advise is good but pls think well about the recipient , I don’t just want the island lady to be view as a bad person at the end of everything because some human can’t handle a mere secret talkless of handle dia home

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Hongkongfukid(m): 2:11pm On Jun 17, 2022
Confirm his Identity first

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Naijaolosho2: 2:11pm On Jun 17, 2022
duduade:
Please mind your business

Shut up

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by 1onebigman(m): 2:12pm On Jun 17, 2022
If you are sure your friend isn't following another woman where he is then don't tell him.but if you know your friend is loyal to his wife even though he is far away please I take God beg you tell am .but make sure say what you are saying is legit oo

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Naijaolosho2: 2:14pm On Jun 17, 2022
okunwaye:
AFONJA woman mind your business

A very daft comment coming from a tribal goat.
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by meobizy(f): 2:56pm On Jun 17, 2022
Seun Must Chop. The story is too basic. Hire better writers.
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by ShaqFu: 2:57pm On Jun 17, 2022
Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!
Mind your business.
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by ahnie: 2:57pm On Jun 17, 2022
duduade:
Please mind your business
Mind his business Asin how?
Isn't it glaring that the woman is bed hopping?

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Germi9: 2:58pm On Jun 17, 2022
duduade:
Please mind your business
Which one us mind your business ? Huh!! Shey if you were the one you won’t be happy with your friend for keeping you in the BLUE if someone is acting suspicious please don’t keep it to your self , tell .. especially if that person is your pal

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by TheGoodJoe(m): 2:59pm On Jun 17, 2022
cc: Islandlady

Ask yourself the truth. If that was your partner and he was doing something behind your back, would you want to know the truth? I believe your answer is yes. You need to let him know what you notice and let him sort it out. I believe it is wrong for friends to hide such information from each other.
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by kareemkamil(m): 2:59pm On Jun 17, 2022
Choo Choo Choo go carry u enter wahala one day
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by friendl: 2:59pm On Jun 17, 2022
Please l beg you ,mind your own problems
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by DMerciful(m): 2:59pm On Jun 17, 2022
Why? So what if her friend's wife is actually cheating? You want her to pin another man's pregnancy on him? Paternity fraud?
duduade:
Please mind your business

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jun 17, 2022
Nnnaa ehhn, wahala left right and center
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by frozen70(f): 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2022
Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

We have less problems in life only when we can keep our mouth shut

Just ignore that part for the fact she has seen you once, and you have seen her more than once

She is waiting for you to blow the whistle

Her husband will catch her by himself

Just hold yourself

Husband and wife matter dey sensitive

What if she defend herself by telling her husband that you have been asking her for sex, since he is not always around

How will you defend yourself

Woman never do you something before

What if you didn't see them yet it has been going on

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Zelenskyy(m): 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2022
Islandlady.... cheesy

1 - Confirm the identity of that Potential wife snatcher.

Snap a picture of him and stylishly show it to the husband with a Fake Story like "hey look at my new Boss in the office"

And see his reaction both facial and verbal. If he cannot recognize that man or that face, then you can move to phase 2...

2 - the next time you see the wife and the guy again, approach them and ask the wife who the guy is.... You want to hear from the horses mouth.

Ask her.... Heaven will not fall.

If God wan to expose her, she go tell you say "na my husband brother be this ooo"

Move to the next phase..... Phase 3

3 - Get a New Sim card and register it on Watsup.

Send the pictures of the two of them to the husband. Don't let them suspect that you are the sender.

My Point is, do your due diligence before you tell or send the man anything.

If the man later find out that she has been cheating on him, nobody would blame you.

But to my Mind, that your friends wife is Opening her Matrimonial Red Toto for Public Consumption.

She don dey F-CK for outside.

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Pootle: 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2022
killmods:
Some times i just don't know what these women really want. U fúck them good, show love and care, make sacrifices for Them, provide everything they need, do fun things together yet when fùckup o'clock reach not even God can save u. They will just throw away everything and do the fùckup with one opportunistic idiot.. Na wah oo undecided

them no ban ur post me sef go dey use F words now
Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Ximenez(m): 3:01pm On Jun 17, 2022
ahnie:

Mind his business Asin how?
Isn't it glaring that the woman is bed hopping?
Don't you have male friends?
If i see you with a man 3 times in 3 weeks, does that means you are "bed hopping" with him?

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by kenchop: 3:01pm On Jun 17, 2022
If he's your friend you owe it to him to bring his attention to it, but in a way that you are not suspecting the wife. Apply wisdom. Say it like you thought the wife's brother is around cos you saw her twice or so with the man. Use wisdom but tell him.

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jun 17, 2022
friendl:
Please l beg you ,mind your own problems
Why? So u go like make the same thing happen to you?

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by larryeffizy1(m): 3:01pm On Jun 17, 2022
Pls report the matter unanimously ... If he's your brother would you keep mute...?

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Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by bigtt76(f): 3:02pm On Jun 17, 2022
Send him the photographs anonymously



Islandlady:
Nairalanders I need y'all mature advice on this issue, No insults tho

I have been friends with my male friend for over 11years now, so he is more like a brother to me! He got married 3yrs ago, But we live in the same district, I do visit them once in a while! And I usually bump into his wife at market places, malls or on the street due to the fact that we live in the same district.

My friend is hardly around for the past few Weeks due to the fact that he do travel for work. . .But recently I have been seeing his wife with a Man just about the age of my friend, I have seen them together at the mall for 3 times now for a period interval of 3 weeks, I usually dodge and escape myself so they won't see me! The last time I saw them together I took a sneak pictures of them, I don't know this man, I have never seen him when I visit them, he is not a family member! I have been curious so I feel I should call the attention of my friend to this and send him the pictures too!

Should I tell him about it or what? I am confused!

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