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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by blinking001(m): 8:44am On Aug 29, 2022
Because men are growing wiser and are realising that there's nothing in it for them

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by sniperr007(m): 9:01am On Aug 29, 2022
Demigod22:
Economic factor: we have young men who are ready to settle down, but the economic downturn of Nigeria is taking away their dreams. Who do you feed and raise kids with no job? How do you take responsibility with meagre pay cheque? How can a jobless man raise bride price?

Emotional fraud: most people have neglected fidelity in a relationship/marriage. Men having extra marital affairs and women having babies for their ex in her marriage.

Scary event: Most girls are into hookup and do irredeemable stuffs for money, how can a man witnessing all these have the courage to settle down?

For me, I will gladly choose bottle of French Wine over marriage.


Truth but bottle of French wine?

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by sniperr007(m): 9:07am On Aug 29, 2022
Marriage isn't based on love as we were taught. It's more of a financial transaction. The girls are searching for a guy above their financial and society class.
So there is lack of trust between men and women.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Kenpaly(m): 9:31am On Aug 29, 2022
Mariage is very good if you ask me,but it depend one whom you married.i will advice guy pls marry a strong lady that can hustle.at least a lady that can bring 40% finance in family.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Demigod22: 10:22am On Aug 29, 2022
sniperr007:



Truth but bottle of French wine?


Marriage is scary, too risky and stressful for me. My mother wants me to marry but I am not even thinking about that now. I prefer going out to drink French Wine, eat fruits, stare at the sea, sunset, green grass and trees, listen to bird's serenade, music and watch movie and sleep.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Kemblaze: 10:29am On Aug 29, 2022
Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?


Its quite obvious if you ask me my elders have giving you all the reasons i am trying to recover from a terrible relationship glad it didnt end in marriage i don already propose but GOD saved my humble soul so if i recover make every gender dey em dey grin grin untill we feel like to bleep smiley smiley

Bye

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by sniperr007(m): 11:00am On Aug 29, 2022
Demigod22:



Marriage is scary, too risky and stressful for me. My mother wants me to marry but I am not even thinking about that now. I prefer going out to drink French Wine, eat fruits, stare at the sea, sunset, green grass and trees, listen to bird's serenade, music and watch movie and sleep.

Well, everything in life is risky but we still do it. Prayerfully you meet a lady that won't give you stress.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by INTEGRITYA1(m): 12:36pm On Aug 29, 2022
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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by coachchijioke(m): 12:37pm On Aug 29, 2022
Lack of money is the number one reason. SMA gold, pampers etc now cost more.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Enddy50ty(m): 12:37pm On Aug 29, 2022
Hoes everywhere.

A real Wife material is scarce

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Exceed15: 12:37pm On Aug 29, 2022
Because the homely, submissive and respectful girl can turn tiger.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by abobote: 12:37pm On Aug 29, 2022
Men who are not ready to settle are looking for excuse.
I'm married, and happy

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Deicide: 12:38pm On Aug 29, 2022
Men aren't loosing interest. The problem is the bar has been raised very high which gives men less opportunity to wanna settle down. Which female wanna be with a guy that's not earning big?

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by LalastiklaIa(m): 12:38pm On Aug 29, 2022
No benefit whatsoever. The average Nigerian woman is vile and hedonistic and we don't want that

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Sammybusu: 12:39pm On Aug 29, 2022
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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Aug 29, 2022
Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?
because of the availability of plenty oloshos

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by SimplePlan34: 12:39pm On Aug 29, 2022
The more u are aware of yourself the less self tolerant u are for others

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Prisco4luv(m): 12:39pm On Aug 29, 2022
Why won't they loose interest, in a situation when a man have tasted a woman. No urge to marry again.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Burga101: 12:39pm On Aug 29, 2022
The problem pass to turn carry
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by alizma: 12:40pm On Aug 29, 2022
Why should they be interested when a girl at restaurants can respect and serve you better for the food you paid for than the woman you paid her bride price, when women/girls now honor and respect you as boyfriend than when you marry them, why should a man be interested in something that will reduce his value. Girls now claim they are equal to men but they insist the man provide for the needs of the family.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by bigdammyj: 12:40pm On Aug 29, 2022
Reading.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Basiljoe: 12:40pm On Aug 29, 2022
The RedPill.
Hypergamy.
Men are slowly becoming aware of women's dualistic mating strategy.
Paternity Fraud.
Bad Investment with negative ROI.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Burga101: 12:41pm On Aug 29, 2022
The problem pass to turn garri
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by obedience4(m): 12:41pm On Aug 29, 2022
Because of the fake perception that women ain't loyal and that they bring nothing to the table,, that they have fish brains and all after the money..

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Tonytonex(m): 12:42pm On Aug 29, 2022
Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?
Are you seriously asking this question?
It's the bad economy na. There's no money.
Na person wey get money dey go marry woman.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by EmmyDJourno: 12:42pm On Aug 29, 2022
Most Women are not ready to help a struggling man
I was at a Men’s conference yesterday and trust me men are going through a lot they can’t share with their wives coz many women are only in for the good times

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Basiljoe: 12:42pm On Aug 29, 2022
Deicide:
Men aren't loosing interest. The problem is the bar has been raised very high which gives men less opportunity to wanna settle down. Which female wanna be with a guy that's not earning big?
And those earning big are realizing that it's not worth settling with just one woman.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by donleo92(m): 12:42pm On Aug 29, 2022
because most women ain't ready to start with a guy.

their all want already made men, so right now, I want to build myself and pray to God for the right woman

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