omoadeleye:
E dey some time cause barrenness for women

How many of them do you specifically know of that had barrenness caused by use of contraceptives, etc.
Stop spreading what is foolishness just because you can abeg!

OJODEL10:
For god sake who did it for her
the perso should be arrrested
the mother of the girl should be blame as well.

only the mother....what about the father

Family planning is better than unwanted pregnancy..... But she too small to do that

The best thing for her age is abstainance

laluski:
Isn't it better she does that than to have an unplanned and unwanted pregnancy?

Can you hear yourself?
16yrs child planning was that what you or your siblings did when you were that age?
Is high time we apply close up if we don't have any reasonable contribution to make than trying to sound good instead of right.

Abortion is more riskier than a reversible family planning just like malaria kills more people daily in Africa than covid.

Abakelawal:
Family planning is better than unwanted pregnancy..... But she too small to do that

The best thing for her age is abstainance

The best thing for any age is abstinence but we all know how infeasible that turns out to be.

MufasaLion:


And does that make it right or legal to join in having sexual relationship with minors?

16 years old is not a minor, no dey use English deceive urself

kwasoly:
1. Can you hear yourself?
16yrs child planning was that what you or your siblings did when you were that age?

2. Is high time we apply close up if we don't have any reasonable contribution to make than trying to sound good instead of right.

1. Cut the bull! At 16 years of age, a good number of teenagers are already sexually active.

2. I suggest you start by applying that to yourself first.

temitope27:
16 years old is not a minor, no dey use English deceive urself

A 16-year-old is a minor.. I.e. one who still requires parental supervision/guardianship. Make you dey at least learn from the English where you are obviously lacking.

Igboslayer:
You know what they call Paedophile?

am saying 16 years old girl is not too small to av sex, she can have sex with someone of her age na

I think she wants to go into full time prostitute,so she don't want any stories if if it HV to be without condom she is In

Cmanforall:

Pills is part of family planning

Here the confusion is in the words 'Family planning '

of course it is, but u use only after having sex

Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.

Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.

Please, I need details of this story. OP, let us know where this happened, where and when?
I'll appreciate.

Angelfrost:


So, that makes it normal and alright?!!

Meaning your daughters are free and qualified to have sex anyhow from that age?!!

what do u mean anyhow? If they had boyfriend of course they can av sex, I've been having sex since when am 15, and that doesn't affect my career

temitope27:
of course it is, but u use only after having sex

Birth control pills are used even before sex occurs.

Kobojunkie:
A 16-year-old is a minor.. I.e. one who still requires parental supervision/guardianship. Make you dey at least learn from the English where you are obviously lacking.

like someone that's 22 is also a minor, cos must under 25 in this country can't cater for themselves

temitope27:
of course it is, but u use only after having sex

No, it depends on the type.
There are ones called emergency pills (within 72 hours after sex) and there are ones that are taken daily.

Kobojunkie:
Birth control pills are used even before sex occurs.

bros they use some after sex

temitope27:
like someone that's 22 is also a minor, cos must under 25 in this country can't cater for themselves

Wrong! A 22-year old is not considered a minor.

They can't cater for themselves does not make them minors. In much the same way that a 35-year old man still living at home with his parents isn't considered a minor. Instead minor-ship has to do with guardianship.

Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.

Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.

Moral decadence don near finish. Soon it would be normal for eight year old to have family planning.

temitope27:
bros they use some after sex

Some, not all.

Kobojunkie:
Birth control pills are used even before sex occurs.

u can even use some 72h after sex

Cmanforall:

No, it depends on the type.
There are ones called emergency pills (within 72 hours after sex) and there are ones that are taken daily.

maybe thou

temitope27:
u can even use some 72h after sex

Again, some pills, not all.

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! A 22-year old is not considered a minor.

They can't cater for themselves does not make them minors. In much the same way that a 35-year old man still living at home with his parents isn't considered a minor. Instead minor-ship has to do with guardianship.

what am saying is that is not bad for a 16 years old to have sex, but too much can cause damage

Kobojunkie:
Some, not all.

when did I ever said all b4? Try dey understand pesin na

Wittyglam:
I’m very sure. She is schooling here in Lagos.

You will be surprised that probably she has gotten pregnant before and aborted it, before the idea of family planning came up.

You guys should have seized her and force her to call her parents.

It is terrible and the guy behind this might be a 30yrs old man.

Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.

Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.

that's a good idea but for rich children .....not tranches children

temitope27:
16 years old is not a minor, no dey use English deceive urself

Section 31 (3) (a) of the Child's Rights Act 2003 states that, “Where a person is charged with an offence (of unlawful sexual relations with a child) under this section (31 of the same act), it is immaterial that the offender believed the person to be of or above the age of eighteen years."

Don't share same fate as other convicted paedophiles. Desist from this mentality of yours.

gshsj:

Can u tell us the danger?
Some family planning is reversible so what are u talking abt.
In developed country, most pornn stars do temporary family planning...pls the gal did the right thing to not fall pregnant if its a temporary one she did.... that's smart of her in my opinion

[b]This is public forum Mind the words you ascribe to your self!!! let me give you a hint Dangers of what she did are


1. A potential risk of STDs e.g RVD, HCV , Syphilis and others as there will be consistent sex since the so called danger( Pregnancy)she is worried of, has been blocked, 2. A potential Risk of hormonal imbalance leading to changes in her period,, cramps, dysmenorrhea Endomentriosis not left out..
3. Some other bigger Issues like
Possibility of cancers e.g breast cancer and Cervical cancer, HPV which I can not specifically say they are caused by contraceptives but there is evidence that some of these contraceptives are linked with cancerous cells Although studies are not making absolute conclusions about this,
Other high risks like cardiovascular disease, block clots which can lead to stock and Arteriosclerosis are still in consideration, all of these are not to say once a woman takes contraceptive the following disease will start manifesting, there are Numerous persons on contraceptives who will not experience the above mentioned, The stats will be around one out of 200 persons with contraceptives will suffer something related to the risks above, But what she did is not justifiable she is damaging her future...I belief by now her physical look could be Non fascinating due to weight gain and change in body physic[/b]

Wittyglam:
Parents it’s time you start monitoring your wards, I know it’s not easy but you have to try. Make your kids your best friend, visit them on campus.

Be friends with their friends.
A 16years old girl went to do family planning just to please her boyfriend, so they can have sex the way they want. She doesn’t understand the danger she is putting herself in.

Stop trying to do the wrong things all in the name of love, stop trying to please people.

What danger is worst than teenage pregnancy? Safe sex is the way she is smart enough to seek professional help.

I will commend her if she was my daughter.