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SenatePresdo:
What we humans sometimes tend to not understand is that, people thinks differently.

That a lady stopped calling you doesn't mean she's no longer interested.

If she has been calling since you travelled, and you don't seem to call back, a smart girl might believe that another woman has taken her place in your life indefinitely.
Like, what could be your reason for the sudden stop from contacting her, she would ask herself?
A girl that has self-respect would stop calling to know if you would call back, and if you doesn't call back, she might feel bad and decide to stay on her own and respect herself.

Any girl that keeps calling a guy that doesn't call her back doesn't have self worth, and she's a fool.

You don't play games with people's intelligence, just to prove a point.

well said bruv

bushjeph:
Make i hear say woman load airtime call person.

I don't know where you people get your own women from most of the complain you people complain against women, I have no such experience rather is the other way round for me, well is good to be fine boy Sha, and sensible wether you have money or not, nothing like breakfast

SerendipityHIGH:
I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

only happens with those self entitled gorillas called NAIJA women

Just try and have a friend with foreigners and see the huge difference

Angrygoat:
I only get bothered if we never fuc k. If I don fuc k u pass 500 times,if u like call me or not,jump infront of my car,I go clear you troway
Bich

omor,! E dey pain small if Yu never fuc.k and this come happen.

Red pill could have done this for you. But i still like how you go about this your experiment.

That it is their nature does not mean it should be forgiven.

Merelyn:
And I'm here looking for who to call..

This life Sha no balance

You lied and I have been waiting for your call

You guys will be dating 3 or more ladies and call it testing and see nothing wrong about it but you expect a lady to date you and you alone. Anyways, I trust my Nigeria ladies they are wiser.

I think you are Mostly into younger girls mature single ladies will keep the flow going mostly when they see you as someone that is ready to settle down.

Lionnation:
I don't know where you people get your own women from most of the complain you people complain against women, I have no such experience rather is the other way round for me, well is good to be fine boy Sha, and sensible wether you have money or not, nothing like breakfast

good looking guys no dey complain for women matter,. Except the local and f.olish ones wey no get game, if Yu are good looking wey no get game women go always come to fvck and bill you., If you are bad looking, na you go suffer dey toast them before you get them. Bad looking guys have much work to do than the good looking guys.

SerendipityHIGH:
I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

You'll be alright...

Ed12:
the attention you give a woman in relationship is her power over you. minimize it and truly know the woman who is interested in you.
Most of op babes are damaged women who have probably have tons of body count and have been in too many failed relationships. so they dont care about you(men) anymore, they are only loyal to their emotions.....

"very true"

SenatePresdo:
What we humans sometimes tend to not understand is that, people thinks differently.

That a lady stopped calling you doesn't mean she's no longer interested.

If she has been calling since you travelled, and you don't seem to call back, a smart girl might believe that another woman has taken her place in your life indefinitely.
Like, what could be your reason for the sudden stop from contacting her, she would ask herself?
A girl that has self-respect would stop calling to know if you would call back, and if you doesn't call back, she might feel bad and decide to stay on her own and respect herself.

Any girl that keeps calling a guy that doesn't call her back doesn't have self worth, and she's a fool.

You don't play games with people's intelligence, just to prove a point.

You have been on NL since 2015 and I'm just noticing your sagacity today? You are the wisest man I've met on NL this month.

The person that has invested the most in a relationship always bears the burden of keeping the relationship going. And most times it's the guy because we're the ones that 98% of the time invest the most in a relationship.

A woman only tries to bear a little of the burden of keeping a relationship going when she's seriously interested in the guy, has so much to gain or has invested so much that she can't back out easily.
I do tell guys that any lady you think you're with and isn't putting at least 1/3rd of the effort you put in the relationship, isn't that interested in the relationship and as such doesn't care whether it fails or works.

SerendipityHIGH:
I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

I get the message you just preached here man. Thanks bro

Reminds me of when i lost my dad, one particular bich i told didn't bother to ask me how far.
Seriously most Nigerian girls and women are materialistic, gold digging, selfish, creatures from hell.

SerendipityHIGH:
I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

In the first place what are you doing with so many girls ? You lack focus , most girls can tell when a guy is a serious prospect or not , so their not following up on you is because most of them have decoded that you are not really serious and most probably have a string of girls for flings .

thebosstrevor1:
it is a man's job to take the wheel of the relationship and direct where the relationship is going to

the only time when you can opt out of a relationship is if she is not reciprocating

Her not calling to know what's up with you when you don't call her is a sign that she isn't that interested in you and doesn't care whether the relationship works or end. No sensible man should seek to be in a relationship with a woman that isn't showing the level of interest he's showering on her and the relationship. She can be a side piece or a Bleep buddy, but don't ever make her d main because it'll most likely end in regret.
Any woman that really wants to be with you will call you when they don't hear from you. I've experienced both the caring types and the i-don't-care type so I know what I'm saying.

benardtotti:
In the first place what are you doing with so many girls ? You lack focus , most girls can tell when a guy is a serious prospect or not , so their not following up on you is because most of them have decoded that you are not really serious and most probably have a string of girls for flings .

Abeggi, this na lie joor! A woman only show she doesn't care if she has other dudes showing interest in her and she isn't that into you

Foodie1:
If u dey expect Nigerian girls to call or text you with their airtime u dey waste ur time, there are few good ones though, but dem no reach 3% out of 100% .

I guess I must be one lucky dude then..
I've got a main babe and a side chick..
The both of them act like it's competition (though they don't know each other, neither does any of them know I'm flexing them both). Every morning they both either call or one sends a text while the other calls..
As soon as I get home from work, I still get calls from them both.
My main chick sent me data this evening and I just finished talking with my side chick few minutes back before I stumbled on this thread..
The funny thing is that I sincerely don't give them MONEY!
If they don't hear my voice for a whole day, na problem
Be like na me kuku carry the two sensible Nigerian girls..

BurgundyBlue:
forget that thing...woman wey like you go call you oooo....I dey experience ham nau....she go dey call you dey ask if you don chop or not, dey do you like say u be her son....I dey tell you....the ones wey no like you, no go send you if you no call them again ....

Exactly

Omoluabi16:
these girls get who them dey call and chat with steady. Unlucky if it isn't you.

These bug dawgs don't know nothing. I can't count how many girls wey don use i incessant care and calling make me vex block and delete them. Most girls get who dem dey mumu, the problem be sey no be you.

Merelyn:
And I'm here looking for who to call..

This life Sha no balance

Look no further....lol

I'm here now.

SerendipityHIGH:
I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

gals yanga too much oooo...... Only when they're serious is when you want to send them money or they need a favour.

Okoroawusa:
You are a moving train and you live in Abuja?

Abeg no move go towards Kaduna o!

Mazi Okoro!!!!
The redcap chief himself

Omo, the one I dey with wants to kill me with call.. Before I leave for work, for work she go call tire.. This girl can give me 50 missed calls. She loves me scarra

This life Sha..have got one girl I dated while in school, she's in pH now..this girl literally calls everyday and I don't pick,yet she doesn't get the message,she keeps on calling and flashing...lol,abeg op I no blame those girls, them no like u ..girl wey like u go too worry u,no be person go tell u.

SerendipityHIGH:
I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

Ladies will reciprocate your energy if they REGARD/RESPECT YOU.

He said relationships/situationships. Girls he has obviously had sexual relations with and are either dating or friends with benefits.

pocohantas:
If you two are not in a relationship, I don’t see any reason she should be calling you or even billing you.

If you two are close friends that built a connection maybe from school or work that spanned years, then once in a while, talk go come. In the absence of that, I do not see the need to be calling men about. It is not like she is a customer support officer.

Resuscitate:
Abeggi, this na lie joor! A woman only show she doesn't care if she has other dudes showing interest in her and she isn't that into you

Wrong!
A woman who respects/loves a guy would go any length for the guy. You don’t expect them to respect you if you sleep around like a dog right?
OP here has GIRLS he is sleeping around with and yet he wants commitment? LMAO

BigDawsNet:
I think it's an issue we have with our Nigerian or African ladies...

They natural believe its the man's job to take the wheel of the relationship... and when you stop doing whatever a man does... then the relationship hit the rocks...

I hav noticed everything you said here... tho I dint do mine on purpose... I was so busy with work...and I couldn't do the calling... after a week I realised the lady stop calling too... like automatic end of relationship...

All this things are just mentality... nothing more... they believe its men job to initiate calls and everythung that concerns the relationship at all times... truly not all African ladies are like this... but majority are...

So if you know, you value your relationship... just make sure you carry out your assignment well as a man or be ready to start looking for another babe

true.....I met a particular lady online, though she stays in another town where my parents are. I would say i kept the relationship online all through an during this period she showed me she wanted us to meet that she's lonely etc. I traveled back home, we met and she was head over hills and tripping real good. Next she started acting up and forming busy. I just snubbed her, make she get enough space for wetin de keep her busy. I no get time for stress.

AllDModsAreMaad:
LOL, personally I like it when women don't get me gifts or do things for me because it will be a ground for them to expect something in return.

Recently, they are becoming more caring and lovely, I think I know why but I don't want to assume/conclude hastily.

Rabba is constantly dropping in. Na why!

Dudeforall:
You guys will be dating 3 or more ladies and call it testing and see nothing wrong about it but you expect a lady to date you and you alone. Anyways, I trust my Nigeria ladies they are wiser.

so you call jumping from preeq to preeq wiser?? The same community that would call a guy Superman will call you an Ashawo...